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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to know this ourselves tbh.

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys like that see the male of the couple as simply an obstacle they need to evade to get access to the female.

It's a useful filter.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Unless they have said who is talking, it's hard to guess.

So better off assuming it's both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profiles can be run by either and guys like that simply don't respect that.

Experienced guys accept swinging is a big thing for a guy also in the sense the guy is watching his partner be with someone else.

The bottom line is, respect from all is of upmost importance.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy


"Couples profiles can be run by either and guys like that simply don't respect that.

Experienced guys accept swinging is a big thing for a guy also in the sense the guy is watching his partner be with someone else.

The bottom line is, respect from all is of upmost importance. "

Yep, some of us do realise that and if you show respect, you also get it back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's probably the best filter of them all

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

I find it a pain getting a msg from couples who don't let me know who I'm chatting with at the start. Why? Because usually it's the guy who eventually confesses his wife has no idea. (or there never was a wife lol)

Always better if the lady makes contact first imo.

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I always ask who is chatting Him or Her after the introduction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys we will try to say who is texting from the start so everyone knows. Mike here by the way ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always assume it's both. Even if one or other are actually replying on our profile we both read and discuss all messages.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

You can have such fun with this...

Ollie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find the total opposite, they always address Mr, even though it says in the profile that I do all the talking (no surprise there )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get both ends of it. Some guys will come in and completely bypass Chris like he doesn't exist or others will only refer to him in messages speaking about me and what they want to do with me...

And a pet hate of mine is when a guy we have chatted with kiks me and I don't respond for whatever reason (I will eventually) they will then kik Chris and tell him : messaged Rebecca didn't hear back".. (God forbid IIa doing something else) it is such a turn off

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Really does my head in, I am really easy going and dont get jealous but its just rude, especially when its someone you have met socially before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a standard reply to hi wow you look hot fancy meeting we type thanks but sorry I'm straight and Sammy only meets black guys happy hunting.they automatically think it is the female on the profile sometimes it is sammy logged on sometimes me but mostly the 2 of us

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By *erryduoCouple
over a year ago

Killarney


"You can have such fun with this...

Ollie... "

Totally agree..... Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the woman is the real boss's she's the one that says yeah or no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have such fun with this...

Ollie... "
we always have fun with them haha even people we have met think its the female online straight away. Though saying that have too hand the credit too the guys who do say hi too both of us and ask whos chatting with them so thumbs up too those guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex. "

we get that all the time lots of males who have no respect for the male half of a couple alot of males have a cuckold or bull fantasy in their head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's probably the best filter of them all "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys we will try to say who is texting from the start so everyone knows. Mike here by the way ??"

It is a dying art, but we all learned letter and card writing skills in primary school. And there is a certain format and etiquette, which must be adhered to. So when we sign off in a message, you will know, even though we have signed off using both our pseudonyms.

If you can't, I don't think we will be compatible, idiocy is not a trait we find attractive.

HB & WB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A male goes on a fab profile and sees that the couple is looking for men and women and couples. Then they look at the photos. The lady has 8 photos and the male has 1.

Now in the single males head all he can think about is her massive tits and the status saying " wow mr you were good last night". Then the single male thinks omg she must be super hot in bed il txt her hence the single male with his cock controlling he's brain and his txting finger begin to write a txt to the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say that couples are as guilty of this too. Not so much but you still get it now and again

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex. "

He listens for a few messages then just throws the bucket of ice-water on them and says "you do know this is Mr, right?"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kudos to the guys that don't even blink, they just start chatting with him about something else like they weren't just asking him if he'd like cum all over his titties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

He listens for a few messages then just throws the bucket of ice-water on them and says "you do know this is Mr, right?"..."

Love it ha ha ha made me laugh with my mouth full ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

He listens for a few messages then just throws the bucket of ice-water on them and says "you do know this is Mr, right?"...

Love it ha ha ha made me laugh with my mouth full ha ha "

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

I love when they message "wanna fuck" I usually reply with "cool, brilliant that you like a cock in your ass"

Or "sexy pics" I'd say "mmmm you like my cock then?"

Usually ends the conversation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

He listens for a few messages then just throws the bucket of ice-water on them and says "you do know this is Mr, right?"..."

Hubby does this all the time Candy ,must say I do encourage him a little lol

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"I love when they message "wanna fuck" I usually reply with "cool, brilliant that you like a cock in your ass"

Or "sexy pics" I'd say "mmmm you like my cock then?"

Usually ends the conversation lol "

He would be bi. So wins each way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

He listens for a few messages then just throws the bucket of ice-water on them and says "you do know this is Mr, right?"...

Hubby does this all the time Candy ,must say I do encourage him a little lol"

Do you Mrs? I'd never do such a thing...

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex. "

why do you assume that all men assume they are talking to the female? shall we chalk this down as just another single guys suck thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love trolling them tbh

Biker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

why do you assume that all men assume they are talking to the female? shall we chalk this down as just another single guys suck thread?"

In fairness they have a point, never been a single guy basher but id say at least 50% of the txts we gets from guys address herself and not "us"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we witnessing the emergence of the White Knight for single men?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Really? I don't get why guys would assume it's the female they are chatting to. I address my messages to both and if it's not obvious in the response I ask who I'm chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotham's newest hero...

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

why do you assume that all men assume they are talking to the female? shall we chalk this down as just another single guys suck thread?

In fairness they have a point, never been a single guy basher but id say at least 50% of the txts we gets from guys address herself and not "us""

so therefore the OP should have said "some" men and not tar all with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex.

why do you assume that all men assume they are talking to the female? shall we chalk this down as just another single guys suck thread?

In fairness they have a point, never been a single guy basher but id say at least 50% of the txts we gets from guys address herself and not "us"

so therefore the OP should have said "some" men and not tar all with the same brush"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Small man syndrome getting his little nickers in a twist. Was only asking a simple question and not really bashing anyone

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Small man syndrome getting his little nickers in a twist. Was only asking a simple question and not really bashing anyone "
Exactly. Let's calm down everyone!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Small man syndrome getting his little nickers in a twist. Was only asking a simple question and not really bashing anyone "

Knickers.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

another one for the wall

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom


"Y do men always assume there chatting to the female half of the couple. They don't even ask just burst on in assuming a female put up the post and are desperate for sex. "

I try not to assume when chatting to couples as you only end up looking like a ballsack! After a few msgs though if you've anything going on upstairs youd kinda know who your chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we have two heads but only one at a time works.

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