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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know im new here but just wondering whats peoples problems as i get an adverage of about 10 views a day on my profile but yet not a single person apart from one actually took time to get to know me, is this the normal done thing on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they have a look... And don't like what they see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all "
hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if they talk it isn't a guarantee they're swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho"

But why get into a conversation if you don't pique their interest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even if they talk it isn't a guarantee they're swingers "
thats exactly my point. Nobody knows what i am as they dont even ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho

But why get into a conversation if you don't pique their interest?"
if i dont then fair enough but im pretty sure i got the same few viewers a few times and tempted to pay the extra just to see if im right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho

But why get into a conversation if you don't pique their interest? if i dont then fair enough but im pretty sure i got the same few viewers a few times and tempted to pay the extra just to see if im right"

Ah that's how they lure you in, you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The norm is for people to look without you knowing at all hahaha sure seems that way alright. Doesnt cost anything to say hi tho

But why get into a conversation if you don't pique their interest? if i dont then fair enough but im pretty sure i got the same few viewers a few times and tempted to pay the extra just to see if im right

Ah that's how they lure you in, you know "
yeah your probaly right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if they talk it isn't a guarantee they're swingers "
...its also not a guarantee they're women

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Stop waffling then. If you're getting repeat views, at the very least, Wink them, so they know that you like the look of them too.

Or message them with a "Saw you looking" type introduction and let them know that you are flattered.

It's not rocket science!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is your opportunity to present yourself and stand out from the crowd of single guys. Ask yourself, would you message a person with your profile?

I don't mean for it to sound harsh but the onus is on you as a single guy to give people a reason to message/chat as opposed to relying on them drawing it out of you.

So give 'em a reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Stop waffling then. If you're getting repeat views, at the very least, Wink them, so they know that you like the look of them too.

Or message them with a "Saw you looking" type introduction and let them know that you are flattered.

It's not rocket science!"
i would if i knew who they were duh.... like i said im tempted to pay to see if my theory is right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is your opportunity to present yourself and stand out from the crowd of single guys. Ask yourself, would you message a person with your profile?

I don't mean for it to sound harsh but the onus is on you as a single guy to give people a reason to message/chat as opposed to relying on them drawing it out of you.

So give 'em a reason "
totally right there and thats not harsh at all, i like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know im new here but just wondering whats peoples problems as i get an adverage of about 10 views a day on my profile but yet not a single person apart from one actually took time to get to know me, is this the normal done thing on here"

You do realise it's probably other men don't you?

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By *atr247Man
over a year ago

around

On an average day the ratio of women couples : men viewing would be 1:5 so chances are it's lads that are looking. You won't know unless you sign up. It's not a case of "I joined therefore the easy ladies shall flock to me" at the end of the day it takes time and resilience and manners to get on on here.

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