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"I like it when I'm rejected politely, something along the lines of - I don't think we're a good match or I'm looking for something a bit different from you. I've never felt compelled to have to know more than that. Or to berate the person who has turned me down. Why do some people do this? What is the goal? I've been called a slut for not meeting men I didn't want to meet, this irony isn't lost on me. Or I'm frequently told something along the lines of- you're on this site to fuck so why won't you fuck me? How do you all deal with this?" I've encountered similar experiences to yourself and I'm left scratching my head at people sometimes but things came to a head for me the other night on kik where I accepted a conversation and was verbally abused and was threatened with violence and they got so nasty I deleted my kik... I can only assume it was from a disgruntled fabber whom I turned down previously ... Anyway it's a lesson learned for me and I'm more careful now who I chat to. Happy fabbing x | |||
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"It way of them handling their rejection by calling names like that.not very mature but they all brave on keyboards.ignore or block and move on.they wont go far here or anywhere." This. Some men can only take rejection through reconciling in their brain that you are the one with the problem and not them. | |||
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"That is awful, I'm so sorry that happened to you. " Thanks but it hasn't deterred me just made me more cautious.. And the block button on here will now be my new friend | |||
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"My block list is longer than my friends list and hotlist combined!! ()" Love this lol | |||
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"My block list is longer than my friends list and hotlist combined!! ()" | |||
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"We men all have egos to some degree or other. Tends to be those that "perceive" themselves to be alpha males that seem take it worst. Worth noting that some women can be just as bad..." I refuse to believe woman can be like this | |||
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"It's just so unusual for men and women to do this. You won't fuck me so I'm going to call you a stuck up slut and then what? You'll definitely agree to meet me now? It's constant though. This barrage of insults. It is definitely making me reconsider quite a few things." Hmm about 6 years later and that block list grow's on an hourly basis!! Don't let them get to you. Use the block button. That's what it's there for! | |||
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"I like it when I'm rejected politely, something along the lines of - I don't think we're a good match or I'm looking for something a bit different from you. I've never felt compelled to have to know more than that. Or to berate the person who has turned me down. Why do some people do this? What is the goal? I've been called a slut for not meeting men I didn't want to meet, this irony isn't lost on me. Or I'm frequently told something along the lines of- you're on this site to fuck so why won't you fuck me? How do you all deal with this?" Its the male ego. They see themselves as weak for not being able to score on what they see is a casual fuck or sex site. Many don't realise the difference between swinging and casual sex. Thankfully most guys get this or their ego isn't as fragile as the person that mailed you. King | |||
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"We men all have egos to some degree or other. Tends to be those that "perceive" themselves to be alpha males that seem take it worst. Worth noting that some women can be just as bad... I refuse to believe woman can be like this " Oh they can be or a lot worse then what the OP experienced. Small few thankfully. King | |||
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"I've always found the bigger the mouth, the smaller the cock... " Can I add height to this as well? for a full on Napoleon complex. | |||
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"I like it when I'm rejected politely, something along the lines of - I don't think we're a good match or I'm looking for something a bit different from you. I've never felt compelled to have to know more than that. Or to berate the person who has turned me down. Why do some people do this? What is the goal? I've been called a slut for not meeting men I didn't want to meet, this irony isn't lost on me. Or I'm frequently told something along the lines of- you're on this site to fuck so why won't you fuck me? How do you all deal with this?" Stupid carry on that | |||
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"We men all have egos to some degree or other. Tends to be those that "perceive" themselves to be alpha males that seem take it worst. Worth noting that some women can be just as bad... I refuse to believe woman can be like this " Thankfully the good ones well outnumber the bad | |||
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"We men all have egos to some degree or other. Tends to be those that "perceive" themselves to be alpha males that seem take it worst. Worth noting that some women can be just as bad... I refuse to believe woman can be like this Oh they can be or a lot worse then what the OP experienced. Small few thankfully. King" Thank christ its only the small few that behave like this, keyboard warriors for sure | |||
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"All the men I've met from fab have had something on their profile that I've found interesting and intriguing. I find the one liner profile men seem to get so frustrated and aggressive when I say that I like to see men write about themselves. One of my favourite lines was "well I'm not going to write you a fucking novel to get at your cunt". And I would have settled for 6 or 7 sentences. " Someone actually typed that....Jesus wept | |||
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"All the men I've met from fab have had something on their profile that I've found interesting and intriguing. I find the one liner profile men seem to get so frustrated and aggressive when I say that I like to see men write about themselves. One of my favourite lines was "well I'm not going to write you a fucking novel to get at your cunt". And I would have settled for 6 or 7 sentences. " The last line made me laugh but some men have no respect on here... | |||
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"We men all have egos to some degree or other. Tends to be those that "perceive" themselves to be alpha males that seem take it worst. Worth noting that some women can be just as bad... I refuse to believe woman can be like this Thankfully the good ones well outnumber the bad " Thankfully we do | |||
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"I should have kept a little book of my favourite insults, I did laugh with the novel line. Do you have a funny insult you've received?" Got a sorry your are too good looking for me | |||
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"I didnt reply to a guys message and he went " so what do you mean by curvy? Another word for your fat" Cheeky bastard lol " Hahaha I've had that too a couple of times and cracks me up each time | |||
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"I get that a lot too. "You're just another fat slag" I like being curvy! I don't think I'm fat and I know I'm not slim. I'm the half way point but with a little belly that I've grown to love." I like my curves too. I could maybe do with less of them but im me | |||
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"I didnt reply to a guys message and he went " so what do you mean by curvy? Another word for your fat" Cheeky bastard lol Hahaha I've had that too a couple of times and cracks me up each time " Wonder is the same group of idiots who haven't got a brain to come up with something other than " are you fat" lol | |||
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"A woman without curves is like jeans without pockets.....you never know where to put your hands " Very smooth | |||
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"Haha if they only new just how delightfully hot you are in person! " Thank you | |||
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"Yes, men, couples and women can react very badly to being turned down here. Some men react with rude messaging ,ladies by bad-mouthing men and couples in all sorts of ways... I had a couple that was sending me multiple messages demanding I justify why I wouldn't fuck the female part of the couple. Utterly rude to demand such explanation. Had to hit the block button where they found themselves on a blocked list among similar folks. It will happen here from time to time, as some men expect women to shag all the time since they are on sex site. Some couples treat men like walking dildos they can choose from and are shocked when a man is not here only for their pleasure. The joys of fab, right? " A walking dildo...interesting....where could I get one? | |||
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"I've always found the bigger the mouth, the smaller the cock... " I am saying nothing | |||
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"Doesn't matter how you say no to a fragile ego and there's plenty of those about. Be polite always L" Well said. | |||
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" A walking dildo...interesting....where could I get one? " If you look well, apparently they can be found on fab haha Same as walking flash lights | |||
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"I've said something similar to that too. Some men are intimidatingly good looking." The thing about those u think are out of ur league is they possible think the same of u I know my experience here has being like that afraid to mail a profile because they are intimidatingly good looking till I have met them and find they really are nice human beings with similar interests and craving as my self | |||
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"Calling all other heartless slags: I love getting messages that are something like this; LOL, the likes of you make me sick, you call yourself warm? LOl, you haven't any ounce of loyalty and youre selfish too! The cockiness go have the moral compas of a frog !!! Im lovely ??? And you got that from your crystal ball aswell yeah? Get away and bitch with the other whores on this again will you. Youre a fucking sad bunch of empty heartless slags,end of !! bye" And were you kind to him? | |||
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"Calling all other heartless slags: I love getting messages that are something like this; LOL, the likes of you make me sick, you call yourself warm? LOl, you haven't any ounce of loyalty and youre selfish too! The cockiness go have the moral compas of a frog !!! Im lovely ??? And you got that from your crystal ball aswell yeah? Get away and bitch with the other whores on this again will you. Youre a fucking sad bunch of empty heartless slags,end of !! bye" I couldn't imagine him saying that if you met him face to face but it's easy if he's a troll on a keyboard xx | |||
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" How do you all deal with this?" Just write back and say "you need to work on your self-esteem you sad cunt." | |||
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"I like it when I'm rejected politely, something along the lines of - I don't think we're a good match or I'm looking for something a bit different from you. I've never felt compelled to have to know more than that. Or to berate the person who has turned me down. Why do some people do this? What is the goal? I've been called a slut for not meeting men I didn't want to meet, this irony isn't lost on me. Or I'm frequently told something along the lines of- you're on this site to fuck so why won't you fuck me? How do you all deal with this?" . Block and move on it's there loss, some just don't handle rejection too well | |||
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"I ignore bad attitude. Can't control how others behave and therefore doesn't bother me tbh. Plenty of civil folk on here to make up for the losers " Doesnt bother me either. Just makes me think i made the right choice | |||
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"I ignore bad attitude. Can't control how others behave and therefore doesn't bother me tbh. Plenty of civil folk on here to make up for the losers " well said Wee red | |||
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"It is an internet phenomenon (do do dododo). Some people seem to develop nasty personalities because they are not actually chatting to you on the phone or face to face. They are completely cut off (and anonymous) so they feel they can act anyway they want or say anything they want. If you were chatting to them face to face it would be a different story. Cowards they are basically." I couldn't agree more Seen vicious carry on by some on here and elsewhere. If you met them in real life they wouldn't be half as brave as they are online. Actually wrote a writing on it elsewhere which came to the conclusion that majority of people doing it as in essence trolls. King | |||
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"dreadful behaviour from a small amount of muppets on here . This is the exact reason a lot of people just block everyone from messaging them and then they choose who they interact with themselves . I know thats not perfect and bound to cause disappointment to many , but hey ho thats the easiest way to avoid such problems here ." It also creates a bad impression of the site. Alienates people Encourages negative feelings towards alternative life styles | |||
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"dreadful behaviour from a small amount of muppets on here . This is the exact reason a lot of people just block everyone from messaging them and then they choose who they interact with themselves . I know thats not perfect and bound to cause disappointment to many , but hey ho thats the easiest way to avoid such problems here ." Women ignoring and blocking these confused souls causes this frustration. Picture a perhaps extreme example of the lonely soul who comes here in desperation and after rejection kills himself. Perhaps a little of less arrogance and a little more empathy would help solve the frustration expressed on these forums. A polite "I'm sorry you're not for me", and fair enough if a negative response then block. Ask yourselves where this expressed frustration comes from? | |||
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"I've always found the bigger the mouth, the smaller the cock... Can I add height to this as well? for a full on Napoleon complex." Not tonight Josephine ...( spoken in Napoleon's french accent) | |||
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"dreadful behaviour from a small amount of muppets on here . This is the exact reason a lot of people just block everyone from messaging them and then they choose who they interact with themselves . I know thats not perfect and bound to cause disappointment to many , but hey ho thats the easiest way to avoid such problems here . Women ignoring and blocking these confused souls causes this frustration. Picture a perhaps extreme example of the lonely soul who comes here in desperation and after rejection kills himself. Perhaps a little of less arrogance and a little more empathy would help solve the frustration expressed on these forums. A polite "I'm sorry you're not for me", and fair enough if a negative response then block. Ask yourselves where this expressed frustration comes from? " last recipient of a "no thanks " followed on with a " your too fat ugly and a slapper slut anyway ". I can easily see why guys end up blocked or even unable to mail in the first place due to messages like the one i just described there. | |||
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"dreadful behaviour from a small amount of muppets on here . This is the exact reason a lot of people just block everyone from messaging them and then they choose who they interact with themselves . I know thats not perfect and bound to cause disappointment to many , but hey ho thats the easiest way to avoid such problems here . Women ignoring and blocking these confused souls causes this frustration. Picture a perhaps extreme example of the lonely soul who comes here in desperation and after rejection kills himself. Perhaps a little of less arrogance and a little more empathy would help solve the frustration expressed on these forums. A polite "I'm sorry you're not for me", and fair enough if a negative response then block. Ask yourselves where this expressed frustration comes from? last recipient of a "no thanks " followed on with a " your too fat ugly and a slapper slut anyway ". I can easily see why guys end up blocked or even unable to mail in the first place due to messages like the one i just described there. " So why blame all the other for one idiots rant? The problem here is members of fab don't show their faces because they are ashamed? of their life choices. Rather than making an effort to promote even in a small way this choice, instead there is a negative response resulting in a negative reaction Small steps start with a friendly outlook | |||
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"dreadful behaviour from a small amount of muppets on here . This is the exact reason a lot of people just block everyone from messaging them and then they choose who they interact with themselves . I know thats not perfect and bound to cause disappointment to many , but hey ho thats the easiest way to avoid such problems here . Women ignoring and blocking these confused souls causes this frustration. Picture a perhaps extreme example of the lonely soul who comes here in desperation and after rejection kills himself. Perhaps a little of less arrogance and a little more empathy would help solve the frustration expressed on these forums. A polite "I'm sorry you're not for me", and fair enough if a negative response then block. Ask yourselves where this expressed frustration comes from? last recipient of a "no thanks " followed on with a " your too fat ugly and a slapper slut anyway ". I can easily see why guys end up blocked or even unable to mail in the first place due to messages like the one i just described there. So why blame all the other for one idiots rant? The problem here is members of fab don't show their faces because they are ashamed? of their life choices. Rather than making an effort to promote even in a small way this choice, instead there is a negative response resulting in a negative reaction Small steps start with a friendly outlook" Thats the thing. We dont blame all men for one message. What i will say is, it paints men in a poor light when they cannot accept no thanks. A lot of women prefer to hunt rather than be sought, purely for this reason as it saves on the abuse and hateful messages | |||
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