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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it comes to meets we can find it hard to find what we're looking for. Do you ever find yourself settling and playing with someone you are not atttacted to or who doesnt want what you want just to please your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the fun is derived from pleasing your partner. Or maybe that's just me. Dunno.

I think that's why I like mfm so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes.I agree totally.

I think for couples wanting to meet couples where 1 of us is not attracted to 1 of the other couples partners, should we settle or wait and keep looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion is to keep looking never settle to play with someone your not attracted to you would never enjoy it best of luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is to keep looking never settle to play with someone your not attracted to you would never enjoy it best of luck xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My opinion is to keep looking never settle to play with someone your not attracted to you would never enjoy it best of luck xx"

Yes I agree, I have settled a couple of time and not really enjoyed the experience, I think men are wired differently tho. They find it easier to "settle".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always say to each other,

"Im not Bruno Mars"

Meaning I' ain't taking a grenade for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is to keep looking never settle to play with someone your not attracted to you would never enjoy it best of luck xx"

^^

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We always say to each other,

"Im not Bruno Mars"

Meaning I' ain't taking a grenade for you "

I love that

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By *ost-KittensCouple
over a year ago

dublin

You should do what works for you as a couple.

Sometimes people confuse this with simple pairing-off - ie 'I like X but does my partner like Y' when it's more complicated. Swinging couples have to find a path that works for them as a couple - not moving too fast for one nor too slow for another, not imposing impossible qualifiers that stop any play while not pushing someone where they don't want to go. It's one of the reasons why swinging, a couples activity, is very different to hookups.

It's also very location dependent - if you're in London you've so many more couples to seek a match from, if you're in Donegal...not so much. One of the reasons why we try and gather likeminded attractive couples to our Dublin events.

Finding out what works for you as a couple is the key to the swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was here with a previous ex I felt pushed to settle for some of the meets as he was so fixated on playing to the extent it was an obsession. Luckily King is happy to let me pick who I like for when we do meet again as both our taste is quite similar

Queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.I agree totally.

I think for couples wanting to meet couples where 1 of us is not attracted to 1 of the other couples partners, should we settle or wait and keep looking? "

Never settle or take one for the team.. It doesn't work.. I would rather all parties were happy and attracted to each other.. Which I know is rare.. But it makes it more fun and nobody feels pressured

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By *rlonleyMan
over a year ago

correctly in boston

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never take one for the team..I do the leg work but Willow has the say and so far its finding the male part of the couple that the problem usually arises.had met some lovely couples since we started but taking it to the next stage is where it falls short.but patience is needed and we're lucky both of us agree with this.

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"We always say to each other,

"Im not Bruno Mars"

Meaning I' ain't taking a grenade for you "

Hahahahahaha

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira

I was here part of a couple meeting for ffm for quite a while and we had a lot of coffee meets and "maria" decided there was no attraction and we didn't play on 90% of the times . As frustrating as feck for me but as maria said why shag someone here you wouldn't even kiss in a bar ?( we did have some very good ffm also )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not right for everyone then it's not right for anyone.

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

Agree with the posters above, no taking one for the team is a hard rule of ours. This is why we haven't met any new couples on their own in a cpl of years, the dynamics of all 4 clicking doesn't always happen. We find parties work much better for both of us to find people we want to play with, if it's a couple, then great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with the posters above, no taking one for the team is a hard rule of ours. This is why we haven't met any new couples on their own in a cpl of years, the dynamics of all 4 clicking doesn't always happen. We find parties work much better for both of us to find people we want to play with, if it's a couple, then great!"

Exactly this... we don't meet couples either any more only at parties for this exact reason and in any event we love parties!

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