FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it tough for a couple to get a woman to join us

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been looking for a woman to join us for awhile now but only keep being let down by fakes is there any genuine women out there that meet couples xx

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yes there are.

But, you need to put in a little ground work before a woman will risk, in my opinion, a meet with two unknowns.

Have your lady think about how she'd like to be approached, have her think about safety concerns, attraction, interest etc and use that to mail ladies you guys like.

Best of luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks we usually spend alot of time chatting to other woman have even had talked over the phone with some unless they aren't there real pics and are afraid of being caught out, we are well verified and have our own separate accounts that are verified too just keep hitting the same wall xxx

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

Hard enough to get a girl in the first place and especially one you click with.

Getting one when 3 people involved will always be harder as she may be into one of the couple and not the other. A lot of girls i know dont play with couples for this reason.

Even numbers always work out better than odd in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have patience, reassure the lady, have suggest a social first or even two socials, maybe start a kik group with all 3 of you in it instead of her wondering is it him or her replying, go for dinner while on the social have wine and more importantly put her at ease and have patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks we have done kik groups and the girls have even chatted on phone for awhile then nothing. Think we just have alot of bad luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even numbers always work out better than odd in my experience."

Possibly true for a mff

However I'm particularly fond of mfm and personally I think this odd number is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks we have done kik groups and the girls have even chatted on phone for awhile then nothing. Think we just have alot of bad luck lol "

Dinner and drinks social every woman loves to be wined and dined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single lady. The time I was looking for a couple (I'm not now), I went through a nightmare. There were situations whereas I didn't fancy the wife or other times, the husband.

Then there's the safety aspect. Bad enough meeting one stranger alone but if things go wrong or I feel uncomfortable, I'll have two strangers to fend off.

I also had a few wives tell me I'd be there for their pleasure. I wasn't allowed to touch the husband nor him touch me. Er no, I'm not any ladies real life sex toy!

Lastly, a lot of those "couples" I messaged, were the fake ones. The "husband" always had some lame excuse as to why I couldn't talk to his wife. Or why she wouldn't be turning up to the arranged social. One couldn't even show me any pics of his wife. He claimed he had none! Not even a wedding photo!

So you see us single ladies aren't necessarily fake as you think. Some maybe. We're just careful concerning safety, have to trust our instincts and we have our own needs too!

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Personally, from what i have seen so far, your best option, is to hook with a female of a couple if you are both comfortable with that.

Probably best to get to as many socials as possible and get chatting to lots of couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea thanks guys for ur help we always show the girls face pic, chat on the phone and have no problem sharing plus we are verified too, social also offered to girls and no show it's just annoying when we get a babysitter arranged but will keep looking finding a man to join us is that easy it could happen a few times every day lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a single lady. The time I was looking for a couple (I'm not now), I went through a nightmare. There were situations whereas I didn't fancy the wife or other times, the husband.

Then there's the safety aspect. Bad enough meeting one stranger alone but if things go wrong or I feel uncomfortable, I'll have two strangers to fend off.

I also had a few wives tell me I'd be there for their pleasure. I wasn't allowed to touch the husband nor him touch me. Er no, I'm not any ladies real life sex toy!

So you see us single ladies aren't necessarily fake as you think. Some maybe. We're just careful concerning safety, have to trust our instincts and we have our own needs too!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im a single lady. The time I was looking for a couple (I'm not now), I went through a nightmare. There were situations whereas I didn't fancy the wife or other times, the husband.

Then there's the safety aspect. Bad enough meeting one stranger alone but if things go wrong or I feel uncomfortable, I'll have two strangers to fend off.

I also had a few wives tell me I'd be there for their pleasure. I wasn't allowed to touch the husband nor him touch me. Er no, I'm not any ladies real life sex toy!

So you see us single ladies aren't necessarily fake as you think. Some maybe. We're just careful concerning safety, have to trust our instincts and we have our own needs too!

Very well put

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By *annygirlCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"We have been looking for a woman to join us for awhile now but only keep being let down by fakes is there any genuine women out there that meet couples xx"

Know exactly how you feel. Having the same issues myself

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I often seen on women's profiles where they state that when meeting a couple they have a guy who joins them . But there is a few ladies out there.

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"We have been looking for a woman to join us for awhile now but only keep being let down by fakes is there any genuine women out there that meet couples xx"

We love to play with single girls ...but we have never arranged a specific play date ...Maybe we will in the future..not ruling it out.. however at parties once there is clear mutual flirtatious interest. Perhaps the party scene might be for you too

Apples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been looking for a woman to join us for awhile now but only keep being let down by fakes is there any genuine women out there that meet couples xx

Apples "

What apples said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe women just don't meet couples? Why would they? Let's be honest, most of them have no desire to be put in an awkward position with 2 strangers. They can have their pick of men any time they want so if they want to meet a woman, then they're far more likely to meet one solo without the slack jawed gawking male hanging around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case Ive found Im rarely attracted to both male or female. So Ill have to just play with one of them. In more cases it gets awkward and things just fizzle out. Or Ill be physically attracted but not mentally(cant hold a conversation)..

Often Id been left feeling left out as id be there to help him or her ready for the other ..A few times Id be there to just please them and not get anything in return.

And also a safety issues too can put most people off

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever

"In my case Ive found Im rarely attracted to both male or female. So Ill have to just play with one of them. In more cases it gets awkward and things just fizzle out. Or Ill be physically attracted but not mentally(cant hold a conversation)..

Often Id been left feeling left out as id be there to help him or her ready for the other ..A few times Id be there to just please them and not get anything in return.

And also a safety issues too can put most people off"

So what is it spanky? Is it the suggestion of clingfilm and gaffer tape play or Olivers lack of good looks witt and charm putting you off playing with us ???? Lol

Apples

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"We have been looking for a woman to join us for awhile now but only keep being let down by fakes is there any genuine women out there that meet couples xx

Apples "

Must mail ye the next time we in Dublin

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try meeting a couple instead most of the couples on this the female is bisexual or bicurious that might be a option the best of both worlds you will get to have fun with the other female and your wife can also have fun with the other man loads of options in the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often Id been left feeling left out as id be there to help him or her ready for the other ..A few times Id be there to just please them and not get anything in return.

And also a safety issues too can put most people off

So what is it spanky? Is it the suggestion of clingfilm and gaffer tape play or Olivers lack of good looks witt and charm putting you off playing with us ???? Lol

Apples "

You my darling are one of the exeptions ... been trying forever to get my hands on you both

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