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By *educer999 OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

Hi , I have been on Fab for a while and find it very hard to even get a reply to msgs. Is it me, my profile, my pics ? I'm not a pushy type of man, I have no baggage, I'm single, can Accommodate etc.

I need some friendly advice. Every little helps.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody wants to see dock pics.

Maybe get rid of the part on your profile where it says "too many people up their own ass" you're being judgemental before a person even messages you. Have a more welcoming positive profile description

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Statuses like your recent one aren't going to help you either...Not many are going to drop everything and run to you xx

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By *educer999 OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

Doing it now. Thanks for that.

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By *educer999 OP   Man
over a year ago

Naas

Removed status and got rid of that comment on my profile.

Thanks guys.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Your profile isn't appealing by any means it's negative and boring and photos aren't appealing either..... sorry but you did ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it as if you were a single woman or a couple and ventured across your own profile. Do you think you would send a message or reply to one from it?

Given the amount of messages women and couples get, your profile is your way to stand out. Some, if not most, will look at a profile before even reading a message let alone replying to it! So any perceived moaning or negativity won't attract anyone, nor will numerous 'explicit' pics to put it politely

It's not just a means to let you browse the site, it's your window to present yourself! so make the most of it.

A joke, a funny paragraph or two, pictures. There's loads to be done with it!

To quote Ghandi, "Be the Fabber you'd like to see in your to bed"

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Think of it as if you were a single woman or a couple and ventured across your own profile. Do you think you would send a message or reply to one from it?

Given the amount of messages women and couples get, your profile is your way to stand out. Some, if not most, will look at a profile before even reading a message let alone replying to it! So any perceived moaning or negativity won't attract anyone, nor will numerous 'explicit' pics to put it politely

It's not just a means to let you browse the site, it's your window to present yourself! so make the most of it.

A joke, a funny paragraph or two, pictures. There's loads to be done with it!

To quote Ghandi, "Be the Fabber you'd like to see in your to bed"

"

Excellent advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of it as if you were a single woman or a couple and ventured across your own profile. Do you think you would send a message or reply to one from it?

Given the amount of messages women and couples get, your profile is your way to stand out. Some, if not most, will look at a profile before even reading a message let alone replying to it! So any perceived moaning or negativity won't attract anyone, nor will numerous 'explicit' pics to put it politely

It's not just a means to let you browse the site, it's your window to present yourself! so make the most of it.

A joke, a funny paragraph or two, pictures. There's loads to be done with it!

To quote Ghandi, "Be the Fabber you'd like to see in your to bed"

"

Ghandhi was a fabber?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just you

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Think of it as if you were a single woman or a couple and ventured across your own profile. Do you think you would send a message or reply to one from it?

Given the amount of messages women and couples get, your profile is your way to stand out. Some, if not most, will look at a profile before even reading a message let alone replying to it! So any perceived moaning or negativity won't attract anyone, nor will numerous 'explicit' pics to put it politely

It's not just a means to let you browse the site, it's your window to present yourself! so make the most of it.

A joke, a funny paragraph or two, pictures. There's loads to be done with it!

To quote Ghandi, "Be the Fabber you'd like to see in your to bed"

"

Couldn't agree more !!!

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By *awkeye33Man
over a year ago

maynooth

It seems to me there are far far more men than women on here, all the women you see have " inundated with messages" or " far to many messages to reply to all" written on their profiles so I wouldnt take it personally. Sooner or later someone whos looking for the same as you will see your profile and get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody wants to see dock pics.

Maybe get rid of the part on your profile where it says "too many people up their own ass" you're being judgemental before a person even messages you. Have a more welcoming positive profile description "

I quite enjoy docks to be honest. Grand canal and Albert docks are 2 of my favourites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile isn't appealing by any means it's negative and boring and photos aren't appealing either..... sorry but you did ask. "

Do me, do me

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Your profile isn't appealing by any means it's negative and boring and photos aren't appealing either..... sorry but you did ask.

Do me, do me"

You're married so won't do you... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think my profile stands out, after the day I've had of nasty people here. It will remain as such for the moment until enough people start to understand that courtesy and manners cost nothing.

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I think my profile stands out, after the day I've had of nasty people here. It will remain as such for the moment until enough people start to understand that courtesy and manners cost nothing.

Happy Fabbing "

I couldn't agree more with the start of your profile.

Dead right and they are all women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you, it's me

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