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By *ingerrrr OP   Woman
over a year ago

Meath

So I decided that I'd mail a sexy lady on here this morning.. guess what..

"Outside her age range"

Ohhh I'll try a wink.. nope can't do that either...

whaaaa

My admiration shall go unspoken..

Now I know how you guys feel when you encounter a filter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I decided that I'd mail a sexy lady on here this morning.. guess what..

"Outside her age range"

Ohhh I'll try a wink.. nope can't do that either...

whaaaa

My admiration shall go unspoken..

Now I know how you guys feel when you encounter a filter.. "

I w*nked at you this morning gingerr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha Ginger you're feeling our pain

Thanks for the empathy

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"So I decided that I'd mail a sexy lady on here this morning.. guess what..

"Outside her age range"

Ohhh I'll try a wink.. nope can't do that either...

whaaaa

My admiration shall go unspoken..

Now I know how you guys feel when you encounter a filter.. "

Happens to us cds too. A certain hot Kerry gurl is just outta my reach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup - it's a killer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I decided that I'd mail a sexy lady on here this morning.. guess what..

"Outside her age range"

Ohhh I'll try a wink.. nope can't do that either...

whaaaa

My admiration shall go unspoken..

Now I know how you guys feel when you encounter a filter.. "

Let me know who she is and I'll pass on the message to her...assuming I'm within her age range

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By *ingerrrr OP   Woman
over a year ago

Meath

I'd say, mr twister you'd be lumped in to the same bracket at me, us being of similar age profile.

Yosser.. I fab'd your picture for the wink

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goddamn it. Someone needs to start a new thread about ageism on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say, mr twister you'd be lumped in to the same bracket at me, us being of similar age profile.

Yosser.. I fab'd your picture for the wink

;-) "

PM me ginger and I'll let her know of ur crush! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filter lol

Try writing 50 polite messages to different women, after taking time to read a profile and trying to pick out something to say, only to have every message ignored.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

It part of the Fab World.

I sent the O P a message, Fabbed the lovely pictures and got Blocked. That's Life, move on.

Have a Great Friday and Weekend Fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say the op messaged me back with a decline but was polite and respectful about it and i messaged her back thanking her and told her how much i appreciate it! Thankyou again op!xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age range thing is a killer alright especially when in your head you are only half your age.

But i guess us old guys just have to accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age range thing is a killer alright especially when in your head you are only half your age.

But i guess us old guys just have to accept it."

I think over 40 is considered old here

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"The age range thing is a killer alright especially when in your head you are only half your age.

But i guess us old guys just have to accept it.

I think over 40 is considered old here"

Very old... i woke up this morning with chest pains till i realised i was standing on my nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao Miss dirty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works both ways, you can be too young for someone's preferences, just have to respect it and deal with the frustration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It life and it take all types in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab there photo they may just text you or send you a wink

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"The age range thing is a killer alright especially when in your head you are only half your age.

But i guess us old guys just have to accept it.

I think over 40 is considered old here

Very old... i woke up this morning with chest pains till i realised i was standing on my nipples "

Do u wear heels u can stand on mine anytime

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"The age range thing is a killer alright especially when in your head you are only half your age.

But i guess us old guys just have to accept it.

I think over 40 is considered old here

Very old... i woke up this morning with chest pains till i realised i was standing on my nipples

Do u wear heels u can stand on mine anytime "

My 6 inchers are lung puncturers...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"The age range thing is a killer alright especially when in your head you are only half your age.

But i guess us old guys just have to accept it.

I think over 40 is considered old here

Very old... i woke up this morning with chest pains till i realised i was standing on my nipples

Do u wear heels u can stand on mine anytime

My 6 inchers are lung puncturers... "

6"nipples

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By *ennylaputeTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin 18

I do love an auld filter especially the user has blocked everyone of your sex imagine an entire sex, as a tranny that's confusing

I suppose fab could do with a little sales lesson to improve the lot of us filtered types so instead of old say seasoned, instead of bisexual put versatile, instead of single male put premiership footballer!

Watch the offers flood in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the op feels like that why has she filters up ,,I know woman get too many messages but I'm outside most people's age range even woman of my own age lol ?yet if I do getting Charing to them we get on fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!! "

Hello

That's just clever filtering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

Hello

That's just clever filtering "

But it filters everyone?

I don't get it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

Hello

That's just clever filtering

But it filters everyone?

I don't get it?"

Exactly

Means they do the hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

Hello

That's just clever filtering

But it filters everyone?

I don't get it?

Exactly

Means they do the hunting "

This

Also if you block men from mailing, they don't show up on the who's looked at your profile section (no idea why, it's the only category it happens with)

So, I get to see who's looking at my profile, if I like the look of them I will message. But it stops all the ridiculous mails

Works a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!! "

Lol. I'm guilty of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why haven't I received a message?

Lol

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

its a nice surprise when i actually find one i can mail.

But i perve in stealth as i figure it dont matter as i cant mail most of them anyway ...

Even more pleasant if i have had a wink from one of the females, but that dont happen too often.

But i am well used to it at this stage..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just sent a wink

Sorry I'm not a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the hardest place in the world to try get sex, I'm not joking, when your too nice it's wrong, when you try be confident your cocky, politeness is weakness, the filters are a right laugh??, nobody wants to know until your verified but no one wants to help a newbie get verified. Did the ladies here ever think they could be passing up something seriously good(not me)! They say it's a mans world! Bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...... Did the ladies here ever think they could be passing up something seriously good(not me)! "

Lol hey they are passing up me and I'm amazing. Lol

If Carlsberg made men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to message a couple,well more her but was hit with the dreaded filters also ah well il have to look at that ass pic from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to message a couple,well more her but was hit with the dreaded filters also ah well il have to look at that ass pic from afar

"

Who in there right mind could put a filter up too stop you messaging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to message a couple,well more her but was hit with the dreaded filters also ah well il have to look at that ass pic from afar

Who in there right mind could put a filter up too stop you messaging them "

Ahh why thank you

They want pics on the profile and i dont have them, must start on that soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to message a couple,well more her but was hit with the dreaded filters also ah well il have to look at that ass pic from afar

Who in there right mind could put a filter up too stop you messaging them

Ahh why thank you

They want pics on the profile and i dont have them, must start on that soon "

Oh please do I await with anticipation and desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to message a couple,well more her but was hit with the dreaded filters also ah well il have to look at that ass pic from afar

Who in there right mind could put a filter up too stop you messaging them

Ahh why thank you

They want pics on the profile and i dont have them, must start on that soon "

I don't understand that you have no pics. I can see you can't I? I must be missing something here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

Lol. I'm guilty of this. "

Yes I know! I considered changing my age on here to message you but it wouldn't have allowed me change back! I didn't wanna be stuck as a 99 year old!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to message a couple,well more her but was hit with the dreaded filters also ah well il have to look at that ass pic from afar

Who in there right mind could put a filter up too stop you messaging them

Ahh why thank you

They want pics on the profile and i dont have them, must start on that soon

I don't understand that you have no pics. I can see you can't I? I must be missing something here lol"

The only thing i can think of is i dont have a collection of pics on my profile

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

Every time!

You see the profile of an attractive older woman, you read it before messaging (Cause we always read first right guys?), she seems fun and interesting, everything on her page indicates you might get on and then BOOM!

Aged from 30 to 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time!

You see the profile of an attractive older woman, you read it before messaging (Cause we always read first right guys?), she seems fun and interesting, everything on her page indicates you might get on and then BOOM!

Aged from 30 to 50

"

Pmsl here, brillant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember when the age filters came in and cursing I was a year too young for a couple. Patience was rewarded on that birthday

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was too young. Lol

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Pmsl here, brillant "

Well why suffer quietly why you can do it out loud and in public, for the entertainment of strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl here, brillant

Well why suffer quietly why you can do it out loud and in public, for the entertainment of strangers."

Well it gave me a good giggle, i like a smart mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl here, brillant

Well why suffer quietly why you can do it out loud and in public, for the entertainment of strangers.

Well it gave me a good giggle, i like a smart mouth "

30 - 50 you say?

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Well it gave me a good giggle, i like a smart mouth "

I've always had a smart mouth, real pity my brain never followed suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl here, brillant

Well why suffer quietly why you can do it out loud and in public, for the entertainment of strangers.

Well it gave me a good giggle, i like a smart mouth

30 - 50 you say? "

I just checked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it gave me a good giggle, i like a smart mouth

I've always had a smart mouth, real pity my brain never followed suit"

Ahh who needs a clever guy huh??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pmsl here, brillant

Well why suffer quietly why you can do it out loud and in public, for the entertainment of strangers.

Well it gave me a good giggle, i like a smart mouth

30 - 50 you say?

I just checked "

So did I!!!

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"30 - 50 you say?

I just checked

So did I!!!"

The penny drops haha

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Ahh who needs a clever guy huh?? "

Smart, good personality, sense of humor. Who needs em? Women? Nah thats a myth, they don't wan that.

Just say "Hey, wanna fuck" and they're yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 - 50 you say?

I just checked

So did I!!!

The penny drops haha"

I'm slower than I look!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh who needs a clever guy huh??

Smart, good personality, sense of humor. Who needs em? Women? Nah thats a myth, they don't wan that.

Just say "Hey, wanna fuck" and they're yours."

Well if you sent me the latter bit of that message you would not be " getting fucked"

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I think the age filter should have a 2-5yr margin either side allowed message/wink but I suppose that's taking away from the personal choice. However, if you saw something you fancied and it was just a little over/under your age limits, would ya or not. Bear that in mind in any response.

Another gripe is the Not looking for single guys and the next searching for is Men and the profile clearly says looking for cock, regardless of its status. Eh Hellooooooo!

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"I'm slower than I look!!! "

Nonsense, those are the nipples of a man with intelligence

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Well if you sent me the latter bit of that message you would not be " getting fucked" "

Woah woah woah, so you're telling me that doesn't work? Someone should really tell the guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well if you sent me the latter bit of that message you would not be " getting fucked"

Woah woah woah, so you're telling me that doesn't work? Someone should really tell the guys?"

Only for i love my phone ive often thought about fucking it out the window when i get that shite in a message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the age filter should have a 2-5yr margin either side allowed message/wink but I suppose that's taking away from the personal choice. However, if you saw something you fancied and it was just a little over/under your age limits, would ya or not. Bear that in mind in any response.

Another gripe is the Not looking for single guys and the next searching for is Men and the profile clearly says looking for cock, regardless of its status. Eh Hellooooooo! "

"Not looking for single guys" can appear on profiles that have men blocked from mailing.

So they might be looking for men, they just don't want men mailing them

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I think the age filter should have a 2-5yr margin either side allowed message/wink but I suppose that's taking away from the personal choice. However, if you saw something you fancied and it was just a little over/under your age limits, would ya or not. Bear that in mind in any response.

Another gripe is the Not looking for single guys and the next searching for is Men and the profile clearly says looking for cock, regardless of its status. Eh Hellooooooo!

"Not looking for single guys" can appear on profiles that have men blocked from mailing.

So they might be looking for men, they just don't want men mailing them "

Yes and blocks them winking too. If men were doing the stealth sneaky looks most ladies do here, maybe they'd get a complex about nobody fancying them!

Oh the injustice!

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"Only for i love my phone ive often thought about fucking it out the window when i get that shite in a message lol "

I think its hilarious, but probably because it not that big of an issue for me, but really like, what about that seems like a good idea?

Has that ever worked on/for anybody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm slower than I look!!!

Nonsense, those are the nipples of a man with intelligence "

I'm proud of those nipples. Shapely intelligent nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I decided that I'd mail a sexy lady on here this morning.. guess what..

"Outside her age range"

Ohhh I'll try a wink.. nope can't do that either...

whaaaa

My admiration shall go unspoken..

Now I know how you guys feel when you encounter a filter.. "

Yep its near impossible to communicate with ladies on here

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow


"I'm proud of those nipples. Shapely intelligent nipples"

As you should be, if I had nipples like those I could take on the world, there'd be no stopping me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm proud of those nipples. Shapely intelligent nipples

As you should be, if I had nipples like those I could take on the world, there'd be no stopping me."

Cheers Jay! Appreciate it kidd

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By *acd03Man
over a year ago

Naughtyville

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By *acd03Man
over a year ago

Naughtyville


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!! "

She likes the company of an older gentleman, quite evidently

Filters can be annoying, yes........ even moreso though if they get into the hands of a pic-collecting, time-wasting clique member or other arsehole....., of which unfortunately there are all too many on these fora.

Thankfully there are many more of the genuine folks than those gobshites!

Rant over, but yeah filters can be a strange one........especially when you see all their verifications are from profiles that are supposedly explicitly blocked from contacting them, be it age range, sexuality, status, location etc etc.

Now, where did I put my packet of bah-Humbugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

Lol. I'm guilty of this.

Yes I know! I considered changing my age on here to message you but it wouldn't have allowed me change back! I didn't wanna be stuck as a 99 year old!! "

What can I say, I like 'em wrinkly

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

Lol. I'm guilty of this.

Yes I know! I considered changing my age on here to message you but it wouldn't have allowed me change back! I didn't wanna be stuck as a 99 year old!!

What can I say, I like 'em wrinkly "

I'd say u haven't seen a wrinkly one in a long time

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

She likes the company of an older gentleman, quite evidently

Filters can be annoying, yes........ even moreso though if they get into the hands of a pic-collecting, time-wasting clique member or other arsehole....., of which unfortunately there are all too many on these fora.

Thankfully there are many more of the genuine folks than those gobshites!

Rant over, but yeah filters can be a strange one........especially when you see all their verifications are from profiles that are supposedly explicitly blocked from contacting them, be it age range, sexuality, status, location etc etc.

Now, where did I put my packet of bah-Humbugs "

I can understand what your saying and I fall under that umbrella totally... my filters change as to my needs and wants at that time.. but my verifications say different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like that 1 profile where you have to be 99 to message her!!!

Lol. I'm guilty of this.

Yes I know! I considered changing my age on here to message you but it wouldn't have allowed me change back! I didn't wanna be stuck as a 99 year old!!

What can I say, I like 'em wrinkly "

Not too many 6"+ 99 year olds around I'd say!!! How's the search going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll pass the message on if I can watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly how you feel, sure I can't even fab my own pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know exactly how you feel, sure I can't even fab my own pics! "
Lol

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know exactly how you feel, sure I can't even fab my own pics! "

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