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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry

This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some couples is important to be a "genuine couple" (married or in a serious relationship), which I don't understand, but from our experience the mayority don't mind much our real situation or legal status.

Good luck OP

God for it plenty people will be happy to meet you and your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For some couples is important to be a "genuine couple" (married or in a serious relationship), which I don't understand, but from our experience the mayority don't mind much our real situation or legal status.

Good luck OP

God for it plenty people will be happy to meet you and your partner

"

Go *

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I was on a fbuddy "relationship " a few years ago and a lot of couples just wanted married couples.

Don't know why..

but best of luck with it.

I'd love to find a partner in crime to go to parties and meet couples with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...itd be fine with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll inevitably get some Yes & some No, for us no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips "

I would .... if I had a partner

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"You'll inevitably get some Yes & some No, for us no."

Candy, can you explain why?

I'm just interested in the logic behind it..

(No offence intended btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some couples, having gone to the trouble of negotiating their rules for swinging, regard "fake couples" as sexual opportunists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some couples, having gone to the trouble of negotiating their rules for swinging, regard "fake couples" as sexual opportunists. "

Ironic, in some way I think we all here are sexual opportunists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll inevitably get some Yes & some No, for us no.

Candy, can you explain why?

I'm just interested in the logic behind it..

(No offence intended btw) "

None taken G.

Hmmmmmm....You're going to hate this answer.

I typed a whole paragraph, read it back & said "you post that, you'll never hear the end of it! It's not something physical, it's just something that doesn't sit right with me, & I get that it's me because either of the FB's solo wouldn't be an issue. Maybe over a drink sometime we could explain it better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some couples, having gone to the trouble of negotiating their rules for swinging, regard "fake couples" as sexual opportunists.

Ironic, in some way I think we all here are sexual opportunists.

"

Ultimately, aren't we're all out for ourselves - on fab or off?

We don't meet couples regardless of their relationship, but that's the vibe I get from some, I can get their viewpoint, they prefer to interact with others they see as being in the same position.

Some may also feel that two singles pose a greater risk of one becoming a nuisance or other threat to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and my partner prefer to meet couples in a relationship over fuck buddies because we find that there is a better communication with them and they have their rules set out regarding meets. There is also the aspect of when meeting a couple the chemistry between them is more intense and they enjoy seeing each other with someone else more than fuck buddies do. That is just our opinion

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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry

Thank you all for the quick feedback!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are predominantly a party/club meet couple, and we have no problem meeting or playing with FBs in that scenario, but one of our main gripes on fab is messages from single guys saying

"I have a girl that can join me"

That's a "No" for soooo many reasons.

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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry


"We are predominantly a party/club meet couple, and we have no problem meeting or playing with FBs in that scenario, but one of our main gripes on fab is messages from single guys saying

"I have a girl that can join me"

That's a "No" for soooo many reasons."

This one I can totally understand!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

There's only one person I've ever met as a couple with, and while some might consider us a 'fuck-buddy couple' who don't have the same communication or understanding, I don't see it that way - we're best friends, have known each other a very long time (we were in fact each other's first meet), and always look out for each other. Just because we're not in a relationship doesn't mean we don't care, or that we are being opportunists and using each other - we also do perfectly fine solo... Its just something that we're happy with

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips "

It's not that we wouldn't but they never seem to work out,

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"There's only one person I've ever met as a couple with, and while some might consider us a 'fuck-buddy couple' who don't have the same communication or understanding, I don't see it that way - we're best friends, have known each other a very long time (we were in fact each other's first meet), and always look out for each other. Just because we're not in a relationship doesn't mean we don't care, or that we are being opportunists and using each other - we also do perfectly fine solo... Its just something that we're happy with "

I agree I am the same with my fb. We discuss everything in our lives we are great friends. If anything I've been closer with him than some guys I've dated! I do understand that there is a different connection in a relationship and the intensity is a whole other level! Something that fb's wouldn't have together and some couples love to feel and enjoy the chemistry between the other couple

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Just to mix it up a little what constitutes a cpl is it some one with a cert saying they are married or someone that's living together or two people that have being meeting a long time and team up for parties and such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this is all very interesting. In our experience couples who have a strong energetic dynamic can be married, first dating, or fuck buddies and the electricity between them totally depends on the individuals and whether they've entered into the Lifestyle, or whatever kinky situation, for the right reasons - or if one person is just trying to keep the other happy. Good relationships come in all kinds of forms and shapes and sizes. We are polyamorous, so have total freedom to date and fall in love and play around without each other. But we're crazy about each other and end up sticking together because it's just the best No putting a frame on that kind of affection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its married couples or a couple in a long term relationship we prefer to see.why? Because we feel we might have more in common with.they would hopefully be more respectful to us and to our privacy and would expect the same back.As regards to a Fb couple,maybe,and thats a big maybe, in a party scene where we can get to see,talk and get a proper vibe of them and the way they bounce off each other.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips "

A difficult one to answer! We meet couples whom we consider to be in a strong loving relationship like ourselves - yet we play with mostly foreign couples every year on holiday in cap D'agde and in Gran Canaria - we don't know them at all and they could be married or fuck buddies for all we know.

No sense to it - I know lol

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"Just to mix it up a little what constitutes a cpl is it some one with a cert saying they are married or someone that's living together or two people that have being meeting a long time and team up for parties and such "

Great question CJ. I feel Apples and I are more of a couple then many with the cert.

In fact, I feel more of a team now than when I was married, obviously to someone else....

I personally don't like couple to couple meets...prefering a good party or club..

If there's no chemistry there's always some other couple or a couple of fun singles...

It's all about the giggles for us!

Plus it's difficult to find a nice couple where you both feel happy . ...definitely no taking one for the team...

It's all about our fun if we're truthful ...hope that doesn't sound conceited or mean...

Ollie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to mix it up a little what constitutes a cpl is it some one with a cert saying they are married or someone that's living together or two people that have being meeting a long time and team up for parties and such

Great question CJ. I feel Apples and I are more of a couple then many with the cert.

In fact, I feel more of a team now than when I was married, obviously to someone else....

I personally don't like couple to couple meets...prefering a good party or club..

If there's no chemistry there's always some other couple or a couple of fun singles...

It's all about the giggles for us!

Plus it's difficult to find a nice couple where you both feel happy . ...definitely no taking one for the team...

It's all about our fun if we're truthful ...hope that doesn't sound conceited or mean...

Ollie"

This is absolutely how we feel too.. The amount of times we have been asked are we a "real" couple.. What does constitute as a "real couple" we are great friends.. Trust each other completely.. Have a great laugh together and 100% have each others backs and look out for each other.. How many "real" couples can say that.. Each to their own and their opinions.. Nothing wrong with that either.. Btw we are great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a fbuddy "relationship " a few years ago and a lot of couples just wanted married couples.

Don't know why..

but best of luck with it.

I'd love to find a partner in crime to go to parties and meet couples with. "
Err hello can i send you my c.v. ???

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'm just going to say, well done to all the above Fabbers. One of the best threads in ages! Nobody has devolved into smut/slagging/bitchiness.

Just shows how a real thread should go, unless it starts out humourously of course.

I've enjoyed reading this and it's been a long time since I can say that about a whole thread.

Query. Two Fabbers who are married, not to each other but who go to meets together and have a dynamic together. How does that play into your situation?

Again, thanks for the real conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to say, well done to all the above Fabbers. One of the best threads in ages! Nobody has devolved into smut/slagging/bitchiness.

Just shows how a real thread should go, unless it starts out humourously of course.

I've enjoyed reading this and it's been a long time since I can say that about a whole thread.

Query. Two Fabbers who are married, not to each other but who go to meets together and have a dynamic together. How does that play into your situation?

Again, thanks for the real conversation "

They're FB's. And honestly, the answer is dunno. I hate the thought of a roller-coaster but go on rollercoasters, a social meet usually helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to say, well done to all the above Fabbers. One of the best threads in ages! Nobody has devolved into smut/slagging/bitchiness.

Just shows how a real thread should go, unless it starts out humourously of course.

I've enjoyed reading this and it's been a long time since I can say that about a whole thread.

Query. Two Fabbers who are married, not to each other but who go to meets together and have a dynamic together. How does that play into your situation?

Again, thanks for the real conversation "

We would never knowingly meet with people who are playing without their wives/husbands/partners knowledge or permission. We don't find that personality characteristic the least bit appalling or attractive.

We are not here to judge your life choices but that's how we feel so don't judge us either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a fbuddy "relationship " a few years ago and a lot of couples just wanted married couples.

Don't know why..

but best of luck with it.

I'd love to find a partner in crime to go to parties and meet couples with. "

Exactly what I think

Saves me writing it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to mix it up a little what constitutes a cpl is it some one with a cert saying they are married or someone that's living together or two people that have being meeting a long time and team up for parties and such

Great question CJ. I feel Apples and I are more of a couple then many with the cert.

In fact, I feel more of a team now than when I was married, obviously to someone else....

I personally don't like couple to couple meets...prefering a good party or club..

If there's no chemistry there's always some other couple or a couple of fun singles...

It's all about the giggles for us!

Plus it's difficult to find a nice couple where you both feel happy . ...definitely no taking one for the team...

It's all about our fun if we're truthful ...hope that doesn't sound conceited or mean...

Ollie

This is absolutely how we feel too.. The amount of times we have been asked are we a "real" couple.. What does constitute as a "real couple" we are great friends.. Trust each other completely.. Have a great laugh together and 100% have each others backs and look out for each other.. How many "real" couples can say that.. Each to their own and their opinions.. Nothing wrong with that either.. Btw we are great fun "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to say, well done to all the above Fabbers. One of the best threads in ages! Nobody has devolved into smut/slagging/bitchiness.

Just shows how a real thread should go, unless it starts out humourously of course.

I've enjoyed reading this and it's been a long time since I can say that about a whole thread.

Query. Two Fabbers who are married, not to each other but who go to meets together and have a dynamic together. How does that play into your situation?

Again, thanks for the real conversation

We would never knowingly meet with people who are playing without their wives/husbands/partners knowledge or permission. We don't find that personality characteristic the least bit appalling or attractive.

We are not here to judge your life choices but that's how we feel so don't judge us either"

Think this was picked up wrong.. We were married before and separated now, so nobody is going behind anyone's back.. Think the other cpl meant the same..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fbs wouldn't be for us but everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just going to say, well done to all the above Fabbers. One of the best threads in ages! Nobody has devolved into smut/slagging/bitchiness.

Just shows how a real thread should go, unless it starts out humourously of course.

I've enjoyed reading this and it's been a long time since I can say that about a whole thread.

Query. Two Fabbers who are married, not to each other but who go to meets together and have a dynamic together. How does that play into your situation?

Again, thanks for the real conversation "

Im Married with a fab member but we play separately and I only play as a couple with my partner in crime here which is more than just a fb. Every situation here is different so there is something for everyone... What a wonderful place is fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a fbuddy "relationship " a few years ago and a lot of couples just wanted married couples.

Don't know why..

but best of luck with it.

I'd love to find a partner in crime to go to parties and meet couples with. "

This confuses me too. A nsa couple the female said no to meeting me with my fuck buddy and her excuse was, dont want my f.b to be more into you. Bit odd when were both supposes to be nsa couples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hate labelling anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hate labelling anyone "

And you don't

And that's why I love you

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By *llie and ApplesCouple
over a year ago

where ever


"I'm just going to say, well done to all the above Fabbers. One of the best threads in ages! Nobody has devolved into smut/slagging/bitchiness.

Just shows how a real thread should go, unless it starts out humourously of course.

I've enjoyed reading this and it's been a long time since I can say that about a whole thread.

Query. Two Fabbers who are married, not to each other but who go to meets together and have a dynamic together. How does that play into your situation?

Again, thanks for the real conversation

We would never knowingly meet with people who are playing without their wives/husbands/partners knowledge or permission. We don't find that personality characteristic the least bit appalling or attractive.

We are not here to judge your life choices but that's how we feel so don't judge us either

Think this was picked up wrong.. We were married before and separated now, so nobody is going behind anyone's back.. Think the other cpl meant the same.. "

That's exactly what we meant...

We're not married to each other yet....

But I wouldn't rule it out..

Ollie

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Its not for us anyway, having been there and had less than fab experience . So for us fb are a no . Couple's dont have to be married just be a proper couple.

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

As long as everyone is happy that's what matters .

Rather meet two fbs who want to and are comfortable at a meet then a "real" couple where one or more are uncomfortable or don't want to be there whether that's a social meet or a play meet.

Best advice set up a couples profile so people know both parties are involved and to stand apart from the single guys who say "I have a girl that might be into it" and to put out what exactly ye want to do as a couple

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

One of our favourite "couples" is a pair of fb's wish their was more like them

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"One of our favourite "couples" is a pair of fb's wish their was more like them"

There not their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as everyone is happy that's what matters .

Rather meet two fbs who want to and are comfortable at a meet then a "real" couple where one or more are uncomfortable or don't want to be there whether that's a social meet or a play meet.

Best advice set up a couples profile so people know both parties are involved and to stand apart from the single guys who say "I have a girl that might be into it" and to put out what exactly ye want to do as a couple

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County


"As long as everyone is happy that's what matters .

Rather meet two fbs who want to and are comfortable at a meet then a "real" couple where one or more are uncomfortable or don't want to be there whether that's a social meet or a play meet.

Best advice set up a couples profile so people know both parties are involved and to stand apart from the single guys who say "I have a girl that might be into it" and to put out what exactly ye want to do as a couple

"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as everyone is happy that's what matters .

Rather meet two fbs who want to and are comfortable at a meet then a "real" couple where one or more are uncomfortable or don't want to be there whether that's a social meet or a play meet.

Best advice set up a couples profile so people know both parties are involved and to stand apart from the single guys who say "I have a girl that might be into it" and to put out what exactly ye want to do as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fb who I also have a couples profile with. On a recent meet. We was asked are we a genuine couple as we do seem one. We answered honestly. Later we were asked if we ever argue. I told them no. As we have nothing to argue over as we are not in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips "

Just pretend your a couple! It will get you more action!

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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips

Just pretend your a couple! It will get you more action! "

My god it’s a long time since I started this thread!!!

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips

Just pretend your a couple! It will get you more action!

My god it’s a long time since I started this thread!!!"

37 weeks! Old and still getting attention.

I'm jealous, hahaha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips

Just pretend your a couple! It will get you more action!

My god it’s a long time since I started this thread!!!"

I didn't realise that sorry!! Hope the couples profile workout anyhow

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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips

Just pretend your a couple! It will get you more action!

My god it’s a long time since I started this thread!!!

I didn't realise that sorry!! Hope the couples profile workout anyhow "

Don’t be sorry, just don’t do it again haha!! Didn’t do the couples profile but have met 1 couple together we find it way to hard to get days that match

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By *otmyrealname!! OP   Man
over a year ago

Kerry


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips

Just pretend your a couple! It will get you more action!

My god it’s a long time since I started this thread!!!

37 weeks! Old and still getting attention.

I'm jealous, hahaha!!"

Ha it’s not the attention I’m looking fir

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By *enstoryluvsongCouple
over a year ago

ithe city

don't think it would be a major issue for us tbh,, as long as everyone was onboard then why not? but hey each to their own C&A

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"This is one for the couples out there!

I have met a single lady on this site a few times now and as it is a NSA thing we are hoping to expand our swinging by teaming up to meet other couples! Is this soemthing other couples would be interested in or do ye prefer to meet genuine full relationship couples?

Thanks in advance for any advice or even tips

Just pretend your a couple! It will get you more action!

My god it’s a long time since I started this thread!!!"

Made me so happy to see someone search the forums and using an existing thread before posting. Ok, it's old but speaks to the same point and means people don't have to say what they've already said,, or, the dreaded Copy n Paste! It's little things

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By *uncouple3030Couple
over a year ago

Belfast:Dublin

I think like most things there’s couple that will be ok with it and couples that won’t be. Everyone has different likes and dislikes.

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By *carlettsBruceCouple
over a year ago

Cullybackey

We haven’t an issue with it, but understand why some might.

We have experienced a few funny looks when people found out we didn’t live together (we do now).

Each to their own we say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are predominantly a party/club meet couple, and we have no problem meeting or playing with FBs in that scenario, but one of our main gripes on fab is messages from single guys saying

"I have a girl that can join me"

That's a "No" for soooo many reasons."

Yep big pet hate of ours too !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything on FAB it's all about personal choice.

Our choice is to only meet full time couples be they married or dating both on and off the site.

The reason: To many fake profiles pretending.

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