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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you take the time to mail an non verified user or is this just an excersize that can be extremely time wasting!!?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Sure we all started unverified at some stage...

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I reply to some not all. Not gonna reply to the ones who message wanna fuck or who treat me like piece of meat !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply to some not all. Not gonna reply to the ones who message wanna fuck or who treat me like piece of meat !!! "

I suppose a fuck is out of the question so?

I think I need to go back to those 'smooth talking' classes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you take the time to mail an non verified user or is this just an excersize that can be extremely time wasting!!? "

Personally I wouldn't, but as DH said we all started off unverified

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"I reply to some not all. Not gonna reply to the ones who message wanna fuck or who treat me like piece of meat !!!

I suppose a fuck is out of the question so?

I think I need to go back to those 'smooth talking' classes "

You did ask nicely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, I hear ya but when a non verified user is here for a year!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non verified here one week old waiting patiently on any couples ladies to verify me

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By *onylimk2009Man
over a year ago

County Limerick

Is the lack of verification the reason why no one replies to my mails?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the lack of verification the reason why no one replies to my mails? "

Depends what you write in your mails!

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By *onylimk2009Man
over a year ago

County Limerick


"Is the lack of verification the reason why no one replies to my mails?

Depends what you write in your mails!"

Nothing explicit. Bit of an introduction and what I'm looking for. Invitation for a coffee sometimes.

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By *oftgentle123Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

My experience of most the non verified users (expecially the ones that are here a long time) is that they are fake so i dont bother.

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By *onylimk2009Man
over a year ago

County Limerick


"My experience of most the non verified users (expecially the ones that are here a long time) is that they are fake so i dont bother. "

Is meeting someone the only way to get verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on here a good while now a woman with no veris would be suspicious tbh big difference between that and a single male with none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you have to trust your gut.

But all us verified members started of unverified until someone took a chance on us

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"My experience of most the non verified users (expecially the ones that are here a long time) is that they are fake so i dont bother.

Is meeting someone the only way to get verification. "

No but it's the only one trusted by most you could get

Pic verified - only proves ur the sex u state on ur profile

Cam verified- go in to the chat rooms switch on ur cam and chat away to members there u may get a veri or u could ask for one

Or u could met me in pat Collins for a pint and I could verify u

Bet that last one frightens the shit out of u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes you have to trust your gut.

But all us verified members started of unverified until someone took a chance on us"

Absolutely

Take a chance

Be that hidden gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. But a well written profile(or decent chat first) and some good pictures. Although most verified people would need that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the lack of verification the reason why no one replies to my mails?

Depends what you write in your mails!

Nothing explicit. Bit of an introduction and what I'm looking for. Invitation for a coffee sometimes. "

Seems you have only been here about a week. That may put off some. Being on the forums will help prove you are real and get you known and may even help you get meets and verified.

And some here have offered already so take the plunge meet for a drink or coffee and ask if they will verify you.

We all start here unknown and unverified many even hide their verifications for personal privacy. it takes time and a little luck to get verified... so just keep doing what your doing and maybe take up one of the offers you have received already.

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By *e CountMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Is the lack of verification the reason why no one replies to my mails?

Depends what you write in your mails!

Nothing explicit. Bit of an introduction and what I'm looking for. Invitation for a coffee sometimes.

Seems you have only been here about a week. That may put off some. Being on the forums will help prove you are real and get you known and may even help you get meets and verified.

And some here have offered already so take the plunge meet for a drink or coffee and ask if they will verify you.

We all start here unknown and unverified many even hide their verifications for personal privacy. it takes time and a little luck to get verified... so just keep doing what your doing and maybe take up one of the offers you have received already."

That is spot on

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By *onylimk2009Man
over a year ago

County Limerick


"Is the lack of verification the reason why no one replies to my mails?

Depends what you write in your mails!

Nothing explicit. Bit of an introduction and what I'm looking for. Invitation for a coffee sometimes.

Seems you have only been here about a week. That may put off some. Being on the forums will help prove you are real and get you known and may even help you get meets and verified.

And some here have offered already so take the plunge meet for a drink or coffee and ask if they will verify you.

We all start here unknown and unverified many even hide their verifications for personal privacy. it takes time and a little luck to get verified... so just keep doing what your doing and maybe take up one of the offers you have received already."

Cheers thanks for advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advice always welcome especially when your a newbie cheers

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By *urvysue123Woman
over a year ago

Portlaoise

I'm a newbie here about a week and I'm meeting for coffee on Wednesday with another fabber. It's nerve wrecking as hell but that's what we're here for, if we are genuine. You just have to take the plunge, even if it's just someone who ends up being a friend on here.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I'm a newbie here about a week and I'm meeting for coffee on Wednesday with another fabber. It's nerve wrecking as hell but that's what we're here for, if we are genuine. You just have to take the plunge, even if it's just someone who ends up being a friend on here. "

Being female rather increases r chance of getting that first veri a thousand fold

But enjoy ur coffee the nerves and butterflies are all part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a newbie here about a week and I'm meeting for coffee on Wednesday with another fabber. It's nerve wrecking as hell but that's what we're here for, if we are genuine. You just have to take the plunge, even if it's just someone who ends up being a friend on here. "

The first meet, regardless of what type, is always a nerve wrecking moment.

I still remember mine!

Ok dinosaurs have died out since then (before CJ gets there)....

Nerves are part and parcel of it, but it's all part of the excitement, and butterflies will always happen on all your future meets (there'd be something wrong if you didn't get butterflies)

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By *urvysue123Woman
over a year ago

Portlaoise

Thanks gents appreciate it

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By *onylimk2009Man
over a year ago

County Limerick

If their are any Limerick, Clare, Kerry, jaysus even a Tipp fecker ( only joking), who would be interested in a coffee over the next few days.drop me a pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been on and off here for years,i do find that the type of people on here now,mostly,you wouldnt of bothered with a few years ago,what is it with all the social meets???? really,are people that desperate???it is supposed to be a sex site,it isnt fb.and as for all the backslapping lol,you really have to laff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on and off here for years,i do find that the type of people on here now,mostly,you wouldnt of bothered with a few years ago,what is it with all the social meets???? really,are people that desperate???it is supposed to be a sex site,it isnt fb.and as for all the backslapping lol,you really have to laff "

How is having a social meet before anything else desperate? . It's checking that someone is real and sane, sex site or not, a woman's safety should be most important, it is for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on and off here for years,i do find that the type of people on here now,mostly,you wouldnt of bothered with a few years ago,what is it with all the social meets???? really,are people that desperate???it is supposed to be a sex site,it isnt fb.and as for all the backslapping lol,you really have to laff "

Easy knowing it's a bloke saying this. Social meets are definitely needed for single women especially as they need to be able to vet a guy or couple for their own safety. Always found the ones that bitched about doing it were dodgy as fuck

Queen

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"been on and off here for years,i do find that the type of people on here now,mostly,you wouldnt of bothered with a few years ago,what is it with all the social meets???? really,are people that desperate???it is supposed to be a sex site,it isnt fb.and as for all the backslapping lol,you really have to laff

Easy knowing it's a bloke saying this. Social meets are definitely needed for single women especially as they need to be able to vet a guy or couple for their own safety. Always found the ones that bitched about doing it were dodgy as fuck

Queen "

Any person male or female is taking a risk just meeting in a hotel room...I would be inclined to say crazy but I have no wish to offend anyone.. Personal safety has to be a big issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fully believe a social meet should happen there needs to be some sort of chemistry before anything else happens . And besides who doesn't enjoy a nice coffee

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By *4us2Couple
over a year ago

scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all started somewhere but there are socials to attend and online chat rooms also. We have given non verifieds a chance but our of all the ones we did we've only had 1 turn up, so for us we don't waste our time anymore.

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By *onylimk2009Man
over a year ago

County Limerick


"We all started somewhere but there are socials to attend and online chat rooms also. We have given non verifieds a chance but our of all the ones we did we've only had 1 turn up, so for us we don't waste our time anymore. "

Is a social meet the only way of verification. I can't understand the motivation of arranging a meet and not turning up.

I meet a lady from a chat line a few years ago, I wasn't remotely attracted to her when we meet. We had a chat for a while and went out separate ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all started somewhere but there are socials to attend and online chat rooms also. We have given non verifieds a chance but our of all the ones we did we've only had 1 turn up, so for us we don't waste our time anymore.

Is a social meet the only way of verification. I can't understand the motivation of arranging a meet and not turning up.

I meet a lady from a chat line a few years ago, I wasn't remotely attracted to her when we meet. We had a chat for a while and went out separate ways. "

No like I said there's the online chat rooms but the while point of a social meet is to make sure everyone is who they say they are and also to make sure there is a connection.

If you don't click with someone that's ok but nothing to stop you verifying them and confirming that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of us are genuine and just looking for one verfied person to give us a chance. If no veriford perspn does there is no chance of becoming verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all started somewhere but there are socials to attend and online chat rooms also. We have given non verifieds a chance but our of all the ones we did we've only had 1 turn up, so for us we don't waste our time anymore.

Is a social meet the only way of verification. I can't understand the motivation of arranging a meet and not turning up.

I meet a lady from a chat line a few years ago, I wasn't remotely attracted to her when we meet. We had a chat for a while and went out separate ways.

No like I said there's the online chat rooms but the while point of a social meet is to make sure everyone is who they say they are and also to make sure there is a connection.

If you don't click with someone that's ok but nothing to stop you verifying them and confirming that "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"We all started somewhere but there are socials to attend and online chat rooms also. We have given non verifieds a chance but our of all the ones we did we've only had 1 turn up, so for us we don't waste our time anymore.

Is a social meet the only way of verification. I can't understand the motivation of arranging a meet and not turning up.

I meet a lady from a chat line a few years ago, I wasn't remotely attracted to her when we meet. We had a chat for a while and went out separate ways. "

U don't have to be attracted to someone to be verified I have five or six veris from men that I met at socials as it says on my profile I am straight so I'd have no attraction to guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on and off here for years,i do find that the type of people on here now,mostly,you wouldnt of bothered with a few years ago,what is it with all the social meets???? really,are people that desperate???it is supposed to be a sex site,it isnt fb.and as for all the backslapping lol,you really have to laff "

I'm sure there is some people who do see and use fab as a "sex site" and some/a lot who believe that once they get that magic and elusive veri, the free sex flood gates will open and they literally won't be able to cope with all the offers from the sex mad people on here absolutely gagging for a piece of them.

Or there is some people, like ourselves, who definitely don't see Fab as a sex site. To us this is a swinging site, maybe there isn't a difference to you but trust me, there is a massive difference to us. And to us swinging is as much about socialising with other like minded people as it is about the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many of us are genuine and just looking for one verfied person to give us a chance. If no veriford perspn does there is no chance of becoming verified."

I think we may have met on a previous site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not verified after a while being on this website could that you're a fake or that you just don't bother yourself trying to meet people, going to social, etc, so i guess it would mean : you're a lazy person that don't really care and expect someone else to do an efforts instead of you doing some.

For example it's been 7/8weeks i'm here and instead of waiting for someone to contact me so i can be verified i made my own social, invited a lot of people (few but great people showed up) and there you go, we had a great time and people in need of vérification got what they needed (: !

In french there's a saying : on est jamais mieux servi que part sois même.

Translation : you'll never be served better than by yourself.

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse


"If you're not verified after a while being on this website could that you're a fake or that you just don't bother yourself trying to meet people, going to social, etc, so i guess it would mean : you're a lazy person that don't really care and expect someone else to do an efforts instead of you doing some.

For example it's been 7/8weeks i'm here and instead of waiting for someone to contact me so i can be verified i made my own social, invited a lot of people (few but great people showed up) and there you go, we had a great time and people in need of vérification got what they needed (: !

In french there's a saying : on est jamais mieux servi que part sois même.

Translation : you'll never be served better than by yourself."
And back in the box....Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well because of this thread I got to verify a really lovely guy. I'm smiling now and very happy at the flashback of a great meet

This is a good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You find lots of f profiles non verified??. They should be removed after a year. But that admins job

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Well because of this thread I got to verify a really lovely guy. I'm smiling now and very happy at the flashback of a great meet

This is a good day "

Jayus ur a fast mover

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