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"Why did you feel the need to explain your personal life ?" | |||
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"Why did you feel the need to explain your personal life ?" Attention seeking | |||
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"Well have to say well done for the honesty what you wrote showed a lot of courage if anyone here had a problem with your situation well they have the problem not you but try find a way to inform your wife about this she might even know and is waiting for you to say it true love will get over any issue we have only become closer by chatting and being completely honest with each other if you are bi well you can't change that it's how you feel 95 percent the the female part of couples h are bi as well so hold your head high and out of respect to your wife try find away to tell her" Well said ...and to OP while we don't condone your actions we do admire your candidness. It's never easy to deal with the scourge of depression just make sure you are getting help for it. Like the above couple we have become closer on so many levels and have fallen in love all over again with each other. I would ask however why you felt the need to post here, publicly, now. Has something happened recently that caused you annoyance or discomfort? If that's within your control you can work out a way to deal with it.... If not well hopefully u have the strength to deal with things you can't change. Fran... | |||
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"Well have to say well done for the honesty what you wrote showed a lot of courage if anyone here had a problem with your situation well they have the problem not you but try find a way to inform your wife about this she might even know and is waiting for you to say it true love will get over any issue we have only become closer by chatting and being completely honest with each other if you are bi well you can't change that it's how you feel 95 percent the the female part of couples h are bi as well so hold your head high and out of respect to your wife try find away to tell her" | |||
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"Funny the 2 couples that have negative remarks about your situation the both females are bisexual or are told they people in glass House shouldn't throw stones" Who was negative ? If you are referring to us we asked a question we didn't give a negative opinion maybe you misconstrued what we asked | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values." Says the long suffering wife! | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values." Is that u dear | |||
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"So this is where I put my heart on my sleive...I am married wife doesn't know I'm here. I'm bi some people can't accept that. If wife found out it would destroy my life and hers . I'm not looking for sympathy nor do I care what the haters will say.... being on this site has saved my life ..I suffer from depression and being here I have met great guys and great women . Thank you fabswingers and the people I have met ." Lie in the arms of someone you love ... | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values. Is that u dear " Thats what I was wondering | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values. Is that u dear Thats what I was wondering " No we don't have a lamp like that | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values. Is that u dear Thats what I was wondering No we don't have a lamp like that " Have you double checked? | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values. Is that u dear Thats what I was wondering No we don't have a lamp like that Have you double checked?" Just running round now checking all the rooms Nope nothing like it in the sitting room Or the hall Nothing in the parlour Or the kitchen I shall try the pool house in a bit | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values. Is that u dear Thats what I was wondering No we don't have a lamp like that Have you double checked? Just running round now checking all the rooms Nope nothing like it in the sitting room Or the hall Nothing in the parlour Or the kitchen I shall try the pool house in a bit " Forget about the lamp CJ, is the wife walking around in that mask? | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values. Is that u dear Thats what I was wondering No we don't have a lamp like that Have you double checked? Just running round now checking all the rooms Nope nothing like it in the sitting room Or the hall Nothing in the parlour Or the kitchen I shall try the pool house in a bit Forget about the lamp CJ, is the wife walking around in that mask? " Ffs D if she was I'd be chasing her | |||
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"So this is where I put my heart on my sleive...I am married wife doesn't know I'm here. I'm bi some people can't accept that. If wife found out it would destroy my life and hers . I'm not looking for sympathy nor do I care what the haters will say.... being on this site has saved my life ..I suffer from depression and being here I have met great guys and great women . Thank you fabswingers and the people I have met . Lie in the arms of someone you love ..." Ohhh deep. | |||
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"I can confirm that shes not the only wife in the dark. I see people commending the OP for his honesty .In my books being honest with a whole pile of strangers on here while remaining totally dishonest, deceiving ,lying and breaking the trust of the people that really matter in your life shows some pretty mixed up thinking .Then I suppose we all have different values. Is that u dear " Too funny | |||
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"So this is where I put my heart on my sleive...I am married wife doesn't know I'm here. I'm bi some people can't accept that. If wife found out it would destroy my life and hers . I'm not looking for sympathy nor do I care what the haters will say.... being on this site has saved my life ..I suffer from depression and being here I have met great guys and great women . Thank you fabswingers and the people I have met ." So, you suffer from depression and it's a terrible illness for you and for those close to you , especially your wife. Bet she has supported you , comforted you when you were at your lowest. And you would trade her happiness for meaningless sex with strangers. You obviously have never had your heart truly broken ... yet | |||
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"Mental health is a serious problem in Ireland the sweep it under the carpet attitude needs to be banished god forbid talk about a serious issues here how Leinster is going to do in the actually what ever the fuck there contesting in the man brought up serious issues here but there is more pressing things going on in the w like does Amy watch btsin take it up the jackse Leinster Leinster Leinster" What? | |||
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"Mental health is a serious problem in Ireland the sweep it under the carpet attitude needs to be banished god forbid talk about a serious issues here how Leinster is going to do in the actually what ever the fuck there contesting in the man brought up serious issues here but there is more pressing things going on in the w like does Amy watch btsin take it up the jackse Leinster Leinster Leinster What? " | |||
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"So this is where I put my heart on my sleive...I am married wife doesn't know I'm here. I'm bi some people can't accept that. If wife found out it would destroy my life and hers . I'm not looking for sympathy nor do I care what the haters will say.... being on this site has saved my life ..I suffer from depression and being here I have met great guys and great women . Thank you fabswingers and the people I have met ." You'll get judged by this. Personally I have no time for married folks being here without their partners knowledge but that's because of personal reasons that I won't go into here. Also married people who are playing behind their other halves backs wouldn't be getting invites to our parties if we know they are doing this. A extremely negative post I admit on my part but I will commend you on being open and admitting what you have. It's something a lot of people would not do. King | |||
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"Funny the 2 couples that have negative remarks about your situation the both females are bisexual or are told they people in glass House shouldn't throw stones" I dont see your point here ? I have no issues with someone's sexuality , its the cheating behind his wife's back i dont agree with . Mr Dirty | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage" Yes we all have the right to express feelings here . Just not sure about the courage quote from behind a keyboard, the real courage would be to talk to his wife . Either way i wish him the best hope he is as honest as he says and talks to his wife | |||
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"Have you ever thought that living a lie might be compounding your mental health issues?? It surely can't help that's for sure" We're no experts but what he said | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage" Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space " harsh calling him a waste of space, ok he's on here without his wife's permission or knowledge but has admitted he has depression....that to me takes alot to admit.... | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space " Would you be saying the same (or anything) if the OP was a married woman? | |||
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"Are we all still bashing the OP? How lovely. " | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space " Id love to know what planet youre on thinking its ok to call anybody a waste of space . You might disapprove of his behaviour but being tactful in this instance might be a better option. Calling anybody a waste of space, could be enough to tip someone over the edge,especially when suffering with depression. You might be more mindful of that next time you post a comment. | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space Id love to know what planet youre on thinking its ok to call anybody a waste of space . You might disapprove of his behaviour but being tactful in this instance might be a better option. Calling anybody a waste of space, could be enough to tip someone over the edge,especially when suffering with depression. You might be more mindful of that next time you post a comment. " | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space Id love to know what planet youre on thinking its ok to call anybody a waste of space . You might disapprove of his behaviour but being tactful in this instance might be a better option. Calling anybody a waste of space, could be enough to tip someone over the edge,especially when suffering with depression. You might be more mindful of that next time you post a comment. " | |||
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"Why did you feel the need to explain your personal life ?" It was a drink rant....and mostly in a way I'm being honest with people here | |||
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"Why did you feel the need to explain your personal life ? It was a drink rant....and mostly in a way I'm being honest with people here" I understand d*unk rants. You may be better off putting the being married info on your profile tho - not everyone on fab uses the forums | |||
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"I didn't realise having depression gave you free reign to behave like a cunt and not get called on it. " : | |||
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"I didn't realise having depression gave you free reign to behave like a cunt and not get called on it. " Another lovely post! What lovely gentlemen you are! | |||
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"I didn't realise having depression gave you free reign to behave like a cunt and not get called on it. " Is this a d*unken rant too? | |||
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"I didn't realise having depression gave you free reign to behave like a cunt and not get called on it. Is this a d*unken rant too?" Nope, just an honest assessment of the situation. | |||
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"I didn't realise having depression gave you free reign to behave like a cunt and not get called on it. Is this a d*unken rant too? Nope, just an honest assessment of the situation. " Shame | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space Id love to know what planet youre on thinking its ok to call anybody a waste of space . You might disapprove of his behaviour but being tactful in this instance might be a better option. Calling anybody a waste of space, could be enough to tip someone over the edge,especially when suffering with depression. You might be more mindful of that next time you post a comment. " | |||
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"Why did you feel the need to explain your personal life ? It was a drink rant....and mostly in a way I'm being honest with people here" Thought maybe you were d*unk ..oh you were certainly honest but as u see it brings out the judges in people ...as I say none ones business but your own but maybe take time away from site sit down and chat with your wife and get help for your depression sometimes your own grass is very green but you just can not see it ...best of luck | |||
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"Point is the man has a right to express hes feelings here it took alot courage Courageous! What planet are you on ? His wife is the courageous one. Having to deal with a self centred, cheating waste of space Id love to know what planet youre on thinking its ok to call anybody a waste of space . You might disapprove of his behaviour but being tactful in this instance might be a better option. Calling anybody a waste of space, could be enough to tip someone over the edge,especially when suffering with depression. You might be more mindful of that next time you post a comment. " | |||
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"To the people judging the man it must be great to be perfect it must be great to be so perfect that you can judge the man for been honest wonder why did yous bother even joining a sex site you're are so perfect surely a sex site is of no use probably the only married man here that has admitted that he is doing his wife wrong" | |||
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"Are we all still bashing the OP? How lovely. " | |||
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"My believe in humanity remains Lest u walk a mile in another's shoes don't judge them for what they do " Exactly this | |||
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"Anyone who has experience of a family member with chronic depression will be aware of the impact it has on the entire family unit ,especially the spouse. To make a thread claiming that Fab has saved his life is pathetic. My comment about being " a waste of space" may tip him over the edge .. oh please catch a grip The guy is managing a double level life with relative ease. Now to all the Alpha males that are giving me their wisdom in emails. A true Alpha male is tucked in firmly behind his lioness and cubs " Wind your neck in there dear..i said comments like yours could tip somebody over the edge..it wasnt aimed at the Op in particular. Seems threads like these strike a nerve with you cos ive seen you before commenting about heartbreak and being hurt. Maybe you need to clean your own shop before judging anyone elses. | |||
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"Anyone who has experience of a family member with chronic depression will be aware of the impact it has on the entire family unit ,especially the spouse. To make a thread claiming that Fab has saved his life is pathetic. My comment about being " a waste of space" may tip him over the edge .. oh please catch a grip The guy is managing a double level life with relative ease. Now to all the Alpha males that are giving me their wisdom in emails. A true Alpha male is tucked in firmly behind his lioness and cubs " Our questions to you would be have you a family member with chronic depression which would give you some insight to have such opinion on this matter?? And secondly you should google alpha males before you give a substandard description of what an alpha male is?? Just curious on our behalf we shall await with bated breath for your answer | |||
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