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By *unnitoes OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I love to be barefoot but recently had cause to visit the home of a family I will be working with. The man met me at the door, led me to the living room but before we entered he said 'your shoes go here', indicating to me to remove my boots...should I have taken them off or politely declined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their home, their rules. I have a friend with this rule because of his expensive floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend with those kinda rules...

Shoes off after the hall door..

Trousers in the kitchen...

Top on the landing...

Knickers off in the bedroom...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother has this rule

I don't go home anymore, but that's not the reason

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By *unnitoes OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I have a friend with those kinda rules...

Shoes off after the hall door..

Trousers in the kitchen...

Top on the landing...

Knickers off in the bedroom...

"

Hahaha!! Sounds like a good friend

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

On what grounds would you refuse to remove the shoes? Their house their rules like Candy said, everything else would be respect-less and to me a rule that perfectly makes sense.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"I have a friend with those kinda rules...

Shoes off after the hall door..

Trousers in the kitchen...

Top on the landing...

Knickers off in the bedroom...

"

I'd say you know her very well.

;-)

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I have a friend with those kinda rules...

Shoes off after the hall door..

Trousers in the kitchen...

Top on the landing...

Knickers off in the bedroom...

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to be barefoot but recently had cause to visit the home of a family I will be working with. The man met me at the door, led me to the living room but before we entered he said 'your shoes go here', indicating to me to remove my boots...should I have taken them off or politely declined?"

There wouldn't have been a way to politely decline. What did you do?

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By *unnitoes OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I love to be barefoot but recently had cause to visit the home of a family I will be working with. The man met me at the door, led me to the living room but before we entered he said 'your shoes go here', indicating to me to remove my boots...should I have taken them off or politely declined?

There wouldn't have been a way to politely decline. What did you do?"

Yes I could have said I wasn't comfortable removing my boots and could we talk in the hallway x

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I love to be barefoot but recently had cause to visit the home of a family I will be working with. The man met me at the door, led me to the living room but before we entered he said 'your shoes go here', indicating to me to remove my boots...should I have taken them off or politely declined?

There wouldn't have been a way to politely decline. What did you do?

Yes I could have said I wasn't comfortable removing my boots and could we talk in the hallway x"

Didn't ur mammy tell u always change ur socks and have matching undies u never know who u meet

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Of the op I'd have taken mine off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to be barefoot but recently had cause to visit the home of a family I will be working with. The man met me at the door, led me to the living room but before we entered he said 'your shoes go here', indicating to me to remove my boots...should I have taken them off or politely declined?

There wouldn't have been a way to politely decline. What did you do?

Yes I could have said I wasn't comfortable removing my boots and could we talk in the hallway x"

Did the boots go over the knees???

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

[Removed by poster at 12/05/17 22:40:34]

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I love to be barefoot but recently had cause to visit the home of a family I will be working with. The man met me at the door, led me to the living room but before we entered he said 'your shoes go here', indicating to me to remove my boots...should I have taken them off or politely declined?

There wouldn't have been a way to politely decline. What did you do?

Yes I could have said I wasn't comfortable removing my boots and could we talk in the hallway x

Did the boots go over the knees??? "

I'd put the op over my knee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Shoes Removed by poster at 12/05/17 22:40:34]"

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By *unnitoes OP   Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Hahaha!! Cj? Really?? Over your knee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends of your relation, if you have a friendly relation thats ok to let the shoes in the entry, but the rules say that if you are a visit and you are not previously informed they shouldn't ask you that... But how someone already said their home their rules! If you accept your are welcome otherwise see you tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their house their rules ...shoes off in utility or stay outside

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By *hrisboobymanMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Yes I think you could have politely declined, you are a guest in their house after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Shoes Removed by poster at 12/05/17 22:40:34]"

Ha! Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to be barefoot but recently had cause to visit the home of a family I will be working with. The man met me at the door, led me to the living room but before we entered he said 'your shoes go here', indicating to me to remove my boots...should I have taken them off or politely declined?

There wouldn't have been a way to politely decline. What did you do?

Yes I could have said I wasn't comfortable removing my boots and could we talk in the hallway x"

Oh, good thinking, I hadn't thought of that

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