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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh no, not another thread about a single male who's unverified

Bear with me

Any suggestions on how to get a social meet over coffee? Just keep sending out messages until someone agrees? Not a drinker but that's the go to for socials sometimes it seems.

I'm on this website a while now, people might start thinking I'm just a pic hunter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on webcam in on of the chat rooms

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Oh no, not another thread about a single male who's unverified

Bear with me

Any suggestions on how to get a social meet over coffee? Just keep sending out messages until someone agrees? Not a drinker but that's the go to for socials sometimes it seems.

I'm on this website a while now, people might start thinking I'm just a pic hunter "

U don't have to be a drinker to go to socials u can always order a coffee or an orange what ever u like

I go to socials and often don't drink due to driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever veri was by webcam and that helped get my foot in the door. Between that and some personality I got my first meet. Personality shines through so don't worry too much about verifications

King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But when you cam with people you just ask afterward : hey can you verify me ? Or asking can be seen as rude or idk ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking people to meet because you want to get verified is just using the other person. Nobody likes getting used.

You need to think outside the box!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social fab event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A) Update your profile. You've been here 10 months so the reasons of having nothing there because you haven't doesn't give a great impression.

B) I wouldn't be sending copy/pasta mssages to women asking for a coffee meet. Maybe make some effort and talking and getting to know them first. You might already be doing this but you just gave the impression in your first post that wasn't the case.

C) Post more in the forums. It's an easy way to get known without having to send lots of messages to individual people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A) Update your profile. You've been here 10 months so the reasons of having nothing there because you haven't doesn't give a great impression.

B) I wouldn't be sending copy/pasta mssages to women asking for a coffee meet. Maybe make some effort and talking and getting to know them first. You might already be doing this but you just gave the impression in your first post that wasn't the case.

C) Post more in the forums. It's an easy way to get known without having to send lots of messages to individual people. "

Good advice here. Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A) Update your profile. You've been here 10 months so the reasons of having nothing there because you haven't doesn't give a great impression.

B) I wouldn't be sending copy/pasta mssages to women asking for a coffee meet. Maybe make some effort and talking and getting to know them first. You might already be doing this but you just gave the impression in your first post that wasn't the case.

C) Post more in the forums. It's an easy way to get known without having to send lots of messages to individual people.

Good advice here. Cheers mate "

X2

Thanks everyone for the advice. Suppose I'll do step 1 and update the profile, no harm with a bit of a refresh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look at your profile, hope you don't mind my input?

For me the cross-dressing is very off putting, but then I'm into very Dom type guys. You also haven't ticked all that much in the interest section. That, combined with saying very little about yourself, means that your profile just doesn't stand out.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a look at your profile, hope you don't mind my input?

For me the cross-dressing is very off putting, but then I'm into very Dom type guys. You also haven't ticked all that much in the interest section. That, combined with saying very little about yourself, means that your profile just doesn't stand out.

Hope that helps "

I don't mind at all, I appreciate the feedback I gave the profile a bit of a facelift anyway

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Just had a look at your profile, hope you don't mind my input?

For me the cross-dressing is very off putting, but then I'm into very Dom type guys. You also haven't ticked all that much in the interest section. That, combined with saying very little about yourself, means that your profile just doesn't stand out.

Hope that helps

I don't mind at all, I appreciate the feedback I gave the profile a bit of a facelift anyway "

The problem I have with that is that you're now in danger of trying to be something you're not. I may be off the wall but I think honesty is far more important than just saying what you think people want to hear. I'm not sure verifications are worth the sacrifice. If you enjoy cross dressing and it's important to you then say so and to hell with the begrudgers. You'll never please everyone anyway.

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I get the bulk of my socials from the Chatroom.

Once you use that a bit the regular girls get to know you much better and getting coffee meets is much easier.

Yes you may have to travel a little to meet some of them but it would get you started.

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