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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just new to the scene, and Im nice genuine guy looking to explore new things and broaden my horizons. I just find it extremely hard to get responses because I'm New and don't have any verifications. I respect everyone and what they are into and if they have no interest that is perfectly fine to me,but a response is nice and doesn't take 2 long.

Sorry about the post just finding it a bit hard

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Keep an eye out for socials in the area or coffee meets. Or just post around the forum, people will get to know you and get an idea of what youre like after a while and you might find someone that clicks with you. You can always try organising a coffee meet of your own for people to come get verified.

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By *p1999Man
over a year ago

tipp

Just takes a bit of time..chat first..see how you go..no pressure...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep an eye out for socials in the area or coffee meets. Or just post around the forum, people will get to know you and get an idea of what youre like after a while and you might find someone that clicks with you. You can always try organising a coffee meet of your own for people to come get verified."

Cheers for the tips bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just takes a bit of time..chat first..see how you go..no pressure..."

Thanks man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to get to an invite to a social or M&G, keep an eye on the forums. People go well out of their way to put on these events, so if you say you will go and are lucky enough to get an invite, Just make sure you turn up. You are very unlikely to get a second chance.

We all have lives outside of fab and we all understand which one has priority, but like previously mentioned, we've all gone to great expense of time, effort and money to take part in this is life style, it doesn't just fall into your lap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who has been here ages. Don't hold your breath waiting for an invite to a social, there I said it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try to get to an invite to a social or M&G, keep an eye on the forums. People go well out of their way to put on these events, so if you say you will go and are lucky enough to get an invite, Just make sure you turn up. You are very unlikely to get a second chance.

We all have lives outside of fab and we all understand which one has priority, but like previously mentioned, we've all gone to great expense of time, effort and money to take part in this is life style, it doesn't just fall into your lap. "

Thanks for taking the time to write. Some great words of advice. I will keep eye on them and see can I get an invite.

I know we all have life's outside of here and completely understand that, I don't expect it just to fall in my lap but didn't expect it to be this hard is all I meant by my post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try to get to an invite to a social or M&G, keep an eye on the forums. People go well out of their way to put on these events, so if you say you will go and are lucky enough to get an invite, Just make sure you turn up. You are very unlikely to get a second chance.

We all have lives outside of fab and we all understand which one has priority, but like previously mentioned, we've all gone to great expense of time, effort and money to take part in this is life style, it doesn't just fall into your lap.

Thanks for taking the time to write. Some great words of advice. I will keep eye on them and see can I get an invite.

I know we all have life's outside of here and completely understand that, I don't expect it just to fall in my lap but didn't expect it to be this hard is all I meant by my post "

We weren't having a pop at you, we didn't mean It to come across as if we were, just trying to highlight some of the pitfalls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try to get to an invite to a social or M&G, keep an eye on the forums. People go well out of their way to put on these events, so if you say you will go and are lucky enough to get an invite, Just make sure you turn up. You are very unlikely to get a second chance.

We all have lives outside of fab and we all understand which one has priority, but like previously mentioned, we've all gone to great expense of time, effort and money to take part in this is life style, it doesn't just fall into your lap.

Thanks for taking the time to write. Some great words of advice. I will keep eye on them and see can I get an invite.

I know we all have life's outside of here and completely understand that, I don't expect it just to fall in my lap but didn't expect it to be this hard is all I meant by my post

We weren't having a pop at you, we didn't mean It to come across as if we were, just trying to highlight some of the pitfalls "

The same as me, I didn't mean to come Accross as rude, I know you weren't taking a pop at me.

And thanks for words of advice all help is greatly appreciated

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I'm just new to the scene, and Im nice genuine guy looking to explore new things and broaden my horizons. I just find it extremely hard to get responses because I'm New and don't have any verifications. I respect everyone and what they are into and if they have no interest that is perfectly fine to me,but a response is nice and doesn't take 2 long.

Sorry about the post just finding it a bit hard "

Stay on the forums get to know a few people on them and avoid confrontation on here (I never take my own advice ) it might take a little time dude but if you want it then persevere,there are a lot of peeps on here that will not give you the time of the day due to you having singlemaleitis but not everyone is narrow minded so hopefully you'll get somewhere soon.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

the site is what you make of it. yes it's highly difficult to succeed as a male and I personally believe a lot of males who sign up here are not true swingers but more so just looking for some no strings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For one change your public pictures.drop the cock picture.to many doing those .chat on the forum and try to get a meet verification through a coffee/social meet.and if lucky to get invited to a party/event as previously said make sure you turn up.

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