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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It sounds you weren't ready for this....so I assume you felt slightly uncomfortable with it and the result was you got no stiffy. Not the end of the world. It isn't for everyone. Call it an experience and relax next time, you won't become gay because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?"

I give prostate massage and use lube and go gently.. shouldn't be awkward. Do it when already erect and combine with mouth or hand. Gentle rubs on the prostate are like jolts of electricity I'm told.. Never had complaints!! I suspect your lady did not quite find the spot...

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?

I give prostate massage and use lube and go gently.. shouldn't be awkward. Do it when already erect and combine with mouth or hand. Gentle rubs on the prostate are like jolts of electricity I'm told.. Never had complaints!! I suspect your lady did not quite find the spot..."

I'm listening

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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"It sounds you weren't ready for this....so I assume you felt slightly uncomfortable with it and the result was you got no stiffy. Not the end of the world. It isn't for everyone. Call it an experience and relax next time, you won't become gay because of it. "

Maybe I will try it again....hard to find places that do it other then escorts. From what I read its ment to be more intence hence why I want to give it another go

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?"

Go buy yourself a few toys - plugs and Dildo, lube up and explore. You'll never look back. Beware though, you might want more...

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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?

Go buy yourself a few toys - plugs and Dildo, lube up and explore. You'll never look back. Beware though, you might want more... "

Don't think I could do it myself...the fact I'm at the mercy of a woman is another advantage. No pain so maybe it wasn't in...

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?

I give prostate massage and use lube and go gently.. shouldn't be awkward. Do it when already erect and combine with mouth or hand. Gentle rubs on the prostate are like jolts of electricity I'm told.. Never had complaints!! I suspect your lady did not quite find the spot..."

I think I might be in love! We'll, lust at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A finger in the ass can lead one down quite a rabbit hole.

A sissygasm is often achieved with a limp clitty ... the prostate whilst very pleasurable is not guaranteed tp make you erect. Likewise you do not "need" to be erect to enjoy it

I think as a straight male you have some opposition to something in your bum despite the intrigue that it also brings.

The more you do it plus as your ass gets used to something inside the more you will be able to relax physically with the sensation and mentally with the probing of your perceived straight masculinity.

Your mind might be straight but your ass will love the attention given the right care and attention.

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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"A finger in the ass can lead one down quite a rabbit hole.

A sissygasm is often achieved with a limp clitty ... the prostate whilst very pleasurable is not guaranteed tp make you erect. Likewise you do not "need" to be erect to enjoy it

Yyeah next time I want to make ssure she hits the spot....so I know for sure

I think as a straight male you have some opposition to something in your bum despite the intrigue that it also brings.

The more you do it plus as your ass gets used to something inside the more you will be able to relax physically with the sensation and mentally with the probing of your perceived straight masculinity.

Your mind might be straight but your ass will love the attention given the right care and attention."

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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Very hard to find women who do it as I say other then a dodgy massage parlour

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Sissygasm with limp clitty??

Do explain as this is new

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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"Sissygasm with limp clitty??

Do explain as this is new"

Same here....???

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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow


"Sissygasm with limp clitty??

Do explain as this is new

Same here....???"

So its possible to cum with only a massage to the prostate? Am I right? No hand or blowjob...I hear you can get multiple orgasms...true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its possible yes as is cumming while getting fucked with a real cock or a dildo. The prostate gland is an organ whose main function is to secrete prostate fluid, one of the components of semen.

The muscles of the prostate gland also help propel this seminal fluid into the urethra during ejaculation .

As you can imagine if properly stimulated BINGO !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?"

No, prostate message doesn't get you hard, its very pleasurable and gets the juices flowing, so to speak but any type of anal play that involves insertion will cause the erection to deflate slightly, possibly due to an increased blood flow to the prostate .

When the finger or toy is removed your penis should return to full erectness immediately and feel much more sensitive to touch and stimulation.

It's a crude example but.. many men enjoy passing large stools as that stimulates the prostate but it will not cause erection. Similar principal.

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?

I give prostate massage and use lube and go gently.. shouldn't be awkward. Do it when already erect and combine with mouth or hand. Gentle rubs on the prostate are like jolts of electricity I'm told.. Never had complaints!! I suspect your lady did not quite find the spot..."

Ummm, sounds interesting, Ummm

My kinda Lady.

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We've found the best way to do it is for the male to be on all fours, start slow plenty of lube, once in not so much thrusting more a stroking motion. If she's not experienced you're going to need to communicate with her (this is another reason to do it on your own first, so you know what it 'should' feel like and are then able to to direct her better)

A poster above described it as "little bolts of electricity" shooting through you... Not saying she's wrong, everybody's different, but my experience of it is that it's more a build up of intensity over time, after which you get to a stage where you feel as though you're on the brink of orgasm for a prolonged period (which feels weird when you're barely semi- erect!) When I say prolonged this can be over 30 minutes easy (luckily my mrs finds all this very arousing and so doesn't mind putting the time in! ). Its incredibly exciting, maddeningly frustrating, and exhausting. You will make feral sounds you didn't think you were capable of! I've never climaxed from massage alone but it gets to a point where I'm too exhausted to continue. At which point I lie in my back while the mrs continues to massage my prostate while giving me a blow job during which I'll come. These are hands down the most explosive orgasms I've ever had. Afterwards I sleep the sleep of the blessed too!

Good luck OP and keep searching. if you're lucky enough to find the right woman to do it for you it will blow your mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found the best way to do it is for the male to be on all fours, start slow plenty of lube, once in not so much thrusting more a stroking motion. If she's not experienced you're going to need to communicate with her (this is another reason to do it on your own first, so you know what it 'should' feel like and are then able to to direct her better)

A poster above described it as "little bolts of electricity" shooting through you... Not saying she's wrong, everybody's different, but my experience of it is that it's more a build up of intensity over time, after which you get to a stage where you feel as though you're on the brink of orgasm for a prolonged period (which feels weird when you're barely semi- erect!) When I say prolonged this can be over 30 minutes easy (luckily my mrs finds all this very arousing and so doesn't mind putting the time in! ). Its incredibly exciting, maddeningly frustrating, and exhausting. You will make feral sounds you didn't think you were capable of! I've never climaxed from massage alone but it gets to a point where I'm too exhausted to continue. At which point I lie in my back while the mrs continues to massage my prostate while giving me a blow job during which I'll come. These are hands down the most explosive orgasms I've ever had. Afterwards I sleep the sleep of the blessed too!

Good luck OP and keep searching. if you're lucky enough to find the right woman to do it for you it will blow your mind!"

This^^^^

Excellent description

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By *appyPandaMan
over a year ago

Kilkenny, but Dublin is more fun


"Had a meet this evening and after so fooling around ....she decides to dominate me..well here where things go funny

So let's just say I enjoy an auld massage now and again but this meet decides to give me ....a finger up the bum. Now I'm straight so this was a totally new experience....think she had it in anyway slightly uncomfortable. But was this a prostate massage because I didn't get hard...think I am ment to .

Any advice ?

I give prostate massage and use lube and go gently.. shouldn't be awkward. Do it when already erect and combine with mouth or hand. Gentle rubs on the prostate are like jolts of electricity I'm told.. Never had complaints!! I suspect your lady did not quite find the spot..."

Think I'm in love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give prostate massages quite often to a fb.

Gentle and slow initially, more lube than you think is sufficient and then even more... Your finger/s should slide in with no resistance, not necessarily because the male is relaxed but simply because of the large amounts of lube used.

Using the thumb of the same hand apply firm pressure to his perineum, rubbing from just above his anus to his balls. And then back down. Repeat until he becomes erect, then have your own fun.

I have yet to receive complaints

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I give prostate massages quite often to a fb.

Gentle and slow initially, more lube than you think is sufficient and then even more... Your finger/s should slide in with no resistance, not necessarily because the male is relaxed but simply because of the large amounts of lube used.

Using the thumb of the same hand apply firm pressure to his perineum, rubbing from just above his anus to his balls. And then back down. Repeat until he becomes erect, then have your own fun.

I have yet to receive complaints

"

Sounds a good technique.

Lucky FB!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give prostate massages quite often to a fb.

Gentle and slow initially, more lube than you think is sufficient and then even more... Your finger/s should slide in with no resistance, not necessarily because the male is relaxed but simply because of the large amounts of lube used.

Using the thumb of the same hand apply firm pressure to his perineum, rubbing from just above his anus to his balls. And then back down. Repeat until he becomes erect, then have your own fun.

I have yet to receive complaints

"

Please come down to the south west

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By *amien88 OP   Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Thank you all for your advice

Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*taking notes*

Watch out ladies and gents!! Lol

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

I'd love one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have to try this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found the best way to do it is for the male to be on all fours, start slow plenty of lube, once in not so much thrusting more a stroking motion. If she's not experienced you're going to need to communicate with her (this is another reason to do it on your own first, so you know what it 'should' feel like and are then able to to direct her better)

A poster above described it as "little bolts of electricity" shooting through you... Not saying she's wrong, everybody's different, but my experience of it is that it's more a build up of intensity over time, after which you get to a stage where you feel as though you're on the brink of orgasm for a prolonged period (which feels weird when you're barely semi- erect!) When I say prolonged this can be over 30 minutes easy (luckily my mrs finds all this very arousing and so doesn't mind putting the time in! ). Its incredibly exciting, maddeningly frustrating, and exhausting. You will make feral sounds you didn't think you were capable of! I've never climaxed from massage alone but it gets to a point where I'm too exhausted to continue. At which point I lie in my back while the mrs continues to massage my prostate while giving me a blow job during which I'll come. These are hands down the most explosive orgasms I've ever had. Afterwards I sleep the sleep of the blessed too!

Good luck OP and keep searching. if you're lucky enough to find the right woman to do it for you it will blow your mind!"

Had a female fabber do this to me and boy was it amazing. The best orgasim

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By *orkchippyMan
over a year ago

Crosshaven

Sounds amazing ??

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman
over a year ago

East


" Very hard to find women who do it as I say other then a dodgy massage parlour "

Ive never had a problem with giving prostrate massage as long as the guy wants and likes it.

Some straight men love it while others get no pleasure from it.

I have a gay friend who hates having his ass played with!

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