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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

We have just cancelled another mmf as the guy didn't want close contact with my partner, C isn't gay/bi,but of course there would be inadvertent touching and or licking. You're going to be in close contact with another guy so if you're not comfortable with that what exactly are you signing up for or is it that it's easier to have sex with a female and you'll settle for a couple as long as the male of the couple hides in the corner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

Hey.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well just as well you can't be shy at all in an mmf scenario . I'm straight and been in a good few . Very enjoyable .

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico, Gran Canaria

Surprised at a guy who wouldnt want a mmf. Its one of the best ways having fun with friends.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

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"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

There's the benefit of communication ye found out before any major commitments were made

As for mfm once u discuss the limits and boundaries and all agree I think u should expect to live up to those commitments

For guys swords crossing it happens how else do u think DP happens or her self blowing the both guys together

On the other hand there cpls that wouldn't want swords to cross and as long as the boundaries are set they should be respected

As for accidental crossing of sowrdsit happens in the heat of the moment get over it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

Himself hiding in the corner and popping up saying surprise is a totally different fantasy altogether

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

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Any I've done, both guys have been at the girl at the same time, albeit usually at different ends! You might have both guys on a different breast at the same time. It's been understood that we won't "cross swords" so to speak and hands or mouths will also keep away from each other's bits.

But it's been more than one guy watching while the other fucks, yes. That's just cuckolding or voyeurism, not MMF, IMHO.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I gave my lady friend 2 3 sums both times the other guy was a bit of a let down . But I would never say anything bad about them . At least they had the manners to show up . They did their best . Guys if your joining a couple for fun you can't be shy at all getting naked with another guy there .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

There's the benefit of communication ye found out before any major commitments were made

As for mfm once u discuss the limits and boundaries and all agree I think u should expect to live up to those commitments

For guys swords crossing it happens how else do u think DP happens or her self blowing the both guys together

On the other hand there cpls that wouldn't want swords to cross and as long as the boundaries are set they should be respected

As for accidental crossing of sowrdsit happens in the heat of the moment get over it "

Sword crossing

I love it. I totally agree with the discussion regarding boundaries, I wouldn't meet unless we had had that discussion but when someone agrees to what one wants/expects in a meet I don't think it's fair to change your mind on the day of

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We had a couple message us before, got chatting and the guy was like,,,, I'm not bi, if your bloke comes anywhere near me I'll knock him out

so why message a couple the lol I don't think I'll ever understand this place LOL

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

You're lucky ye found out in advance. No space for being uptight and worried about inadvertent touching etc in a mfm scenario. The focus is on the lady after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

I will meet up with yous.

Im comfy with couples and MMF,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly think some men like the idea but when its actually on the table they start thinking about what if I touch the other guy blah blah blah and they panic. When I was doing them as a single male it never crossed my mind and majority of my mfm were with a couple with a bi male who played straight for them. Some guys have that knack for want of a better word some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's best to establish boundaries at start.

Having said that, for me MFM meet will result is some contact with a body part of another man. This being while both cocks are sucked on by the lady, in a DP or DVP, etc. Some ladies even enjoy their clit being licked by her partner while she's being penetrated etc. As long as all involved are aware and OK with it, I see no issue.

Communication before actually scheduling the meet is paramount to prevent disappointment.

Even when you establish and agree on boundaries, there will be accidental contact, you cannot prevent this (i.e. guys grabbing lady's ass at same time and actually touching each other hand, etc.). Someone who joins a couple for that type of fun, must be aware of this and just be chilled about it. Otherwise, there's more stress than fun...

And it always should be fun!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

What kinda message is that if your guy comes near me I will knock him out . Mmf is great fun particular where the lady tease the guys and every one has great fun together . I got to kiss my lady friend after she sucked him dry and tasted his Cum in her mouth OMG it was like taking viagra I got super hard . Lol

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

Whenever I meet a couple I'm up for all contact it is supposed to be fun if a guy is shy then why bother I'm streight but comfortable being naked with everyone if somebody touches me it is not a problem just don't like anything up my ass lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Now if he was to wave his sowrdsit at me and say "on guard" I'd have consider my position

There lots on here and in life that say they are not homophobic until they are in a suitation where it may happen God for bit that a cock touches them

Nakid bodies writhing in mutual pleasure weather it's mfm or mmmmf even group play u have to be comfortable in ur skin to know it means nothing

Holding out to the last min to reveal ur fears isn't on i agree but I admire the guy for being forthright and saying it out before u committed he did so knowing it could be a barrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think."

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio"

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little sword fencing is a nice added extra

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now if he was to wave his sowrdsit at me and say "on guard" I'd have consider my position

There lots on here and in life that say they are not homophobic until they are in a suitation where it may happen God for bit that a cock touches them

Nakid bodies writhing in mutual pleasure weather it's mfm or mmmmf even group play u have to be comfortable in ur skin to know it means nothing

Holding out to the last min to reveal ur fears isn't on i agree but I admire the guy for being forthright and saying it out before u committed he did so knowing it could be a barrier "

your comments have made me laugh.

I totally respect everyone's boundaries, and I'm not annoyed at how this guy feels, I'm just disappointed that we have been talking for quote sometime now and it's only mentioned today,just because it's happened with out last few planned meets. I don't think you can catch "gay" can you LOL sees to be a big fear in these scenarios

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think."

Thank you for letting me know , I had no idea there was a difference ,does FAB come with a dictionary by any chance?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me. "

No but it seems to be understood that there is a difference and can be confused by some

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Now if he was to wave his sowrdsit at me and say "on guard" I'd have consider my position

There lots on here and in life that say they are not homophobic until they are in a suitation where it may happen God for bit that a cock touches them

Nakid bodies writhing in mutual pleasure weather it's mfm or mmmmf even group play u have to be comfortable in ur skin to know it means nothing

Holding out to the last min to reveal ur fears isn't on i agree but I admire the guy for being forthright and saying it out before u committed he did so knowing it could be a barrier

your comments have made me laugh.

Always nice to put a smile on a young wan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its 3sum with both men straight then theres gonna be a bit of close cock action.

Lets say the woman wants to suck both men at once or she wants some DP or Double Vaginal.

Lads if yous cant handle that then you shouldnt have a 3sum with a couple. Or the couple shouldnt have a 3sum with the bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I don't think you can catch "gay" can you LOL sees to be a big fear in these scenarios

hahaha... made me laugh...

Maybe some guys aren't comfortable with their sexuality and are afraid they may enjoy it more than they want...

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By *hipchippersonMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Now if he was to wave his sowrdsit at me and say "on guard" I'd have consider my position

There lots on here and in life that say they are not homophobic until they are in a suitation where it may happen God for bit that a cock touches them

Nakid bodies writhing in mutual pleasure weather it's mfm or mmmmf even group play u have to be comfortable in ur skin to know it means nothing

Holding out to the last min to reveal ur fears isn't on i agree but I admire the guy for being forthright and saying it out before u committed he did so knowing it could be a barrier

your comments have made me laugh.

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can you catch gay?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If its 3sum with both men straight then theres gonna be a bit of close cock action.

Lets say the woman wants to suck both men at once or she wants some DP or Double Vaginal.

Lads if yous cant handle that then you shouldnt have a 3sum with a couple. Or the couple shouldnt have a 3sum with the bloke."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Now if he was to wave his sowrdsit at me and say "on guard" I'd have consider my position

There lots on here and in life that say they are not homophobic until they are in a suitation where it may happen God for bit that a cock touches them

Nakid bodies writhing in mutual pleasure weather it's mfm or mmmmf even group play u have to be comfortable in ur skin to know it means nothing

Holding out to the last min to reveal ur fears isn't on i agree but I admire the guy for being forthright and saying it out before u committed he did so knowing it could be a barrier

your comments have made me laugh.

can you catch gay? "

I caught it twice, thankfully it only lasted for the duration of an fmf both times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I don't think you can catch "gay" can you LOL sees to be a big fear in these scenarios

hahaha... made me laugh...

Maybe some guys aren't comfortable with their sexuality and are afraid they may enjoy it more than they want...

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By *ewryswingerMan
over a year ago

newry

I would be very comfortable in that position, would even give him a hand to reposition if it were necessary lol.But my main focus would be on the female of the group. I have played with men in the past but prefer women.

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By *rlonleyMan
over a year ago

correctly in boston

100%

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me.

No but it seems to be understood that there is a difference and can be confused by some "

What's a FMM then?

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"If its 3sum with both men straight then theres gonna be a bit of close cock action.

Lets say the woman wants to suck both men at once or she wants some DP or Double Vaginal.

Lads if yous cant handle that then you shouldnt have a 3sum with a couple. Or the couple shouldnt have a 3sum with the bloke.

Exactly

So true

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me.

No but it seems to be understood that there is a difference and can be confused by some

What's a FMM then?

2 bi men and a girl with a strap on.....

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me.

No but it seems to be understood that there is a difference and can be confused by some

What's a FMM then?

That's where the F cums first

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By *ountrygent90Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Sword fights can be discussed before hand, but there's always going to be a bit of friendly fire in an mmf. Unless both guys stay on opposite sides of the court, but where's the fun in that.

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me.

No but it seems to be understood that there is a difference and can be confused by some

What's a FMM then?

That's where the F cums first

I thought that was always the way

Mrs Newbs x

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn

OP, the issue is certainly with the guy who cancelled, and not with yourselves.

Of course there's going to be inadvertent 'crossing of swords', but that's all... And believe me your mind will be elsewhere if it happens.

MrNewbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crossing of swords is an occupational hazard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

Always about personal boundaries I suppose. Any of the couples i've played with we have all respected each others boundaries. This is the 1st time i've ever heard of a guy backing out for that reason, it's completely normal for guys to bump off each other or what ever especially if things are really steamy

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me.

No but it seems to be understood that there is a difference and can be confused by some "

There is a difference, type mmf into any porn site and you will get bisex.

Where as if you type mfm, you are sure to get straight 3somes.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio

I think MMF or MFM simply means 2 guys and 1 girl and it's further communication where people establish the real meaning. It's not a definition we learn at school and must follow in life for me.

No but it seems to be understood that there is a difference and can be confused by some

What's a FMM then?

2 bi men and a girl with a strap on..... "

That would have been, what came to my mind at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

You use the layout MMF...This Usually signifies that there may be play with the guys. MFM is usually what 2 straight guys would look for I think.

Mmf = guys are bi

Mfm = guys are straight

It's a slight variation but can have very differentl interpretatio"

I did not know there was a difference

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

No problem joying a couple for some fun and have been lucky enough to do so, a few times.

Boundaries can be slighthly pushed at times, but definitely never broken...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

Inadvertent Licking????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

Inadvertent Licking????"

Yeah licking your partner while another guy is fucking her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

Inadvertent Licking????

Yeah licking your partner while another guy is fucking her..."

Nice image...

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By *oseph soapMan
over a year ago

Slane

I've taken part in MMF, MFM & FMM, whatever you want to call it! In some cases there had been crossing of swords as the phrase goes, in some cases more, in others less. Once all have fun and go with the flow of action what's the problem? As someone said earlier, you can't catch gay.

Whatever way you sequence the letters, I've done it before, looking forward to doing it again.

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By *oseph soapMan
over a year ago

Slane

Inadvertent Licking????

Yeah licking your partner while another guy is fucking her...

Nice image...

Very!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Guys, particularly straight guys , if you sign up for mmf what are you signing up for exactly?

Himself hiding in the corner and popping up saying surprise is a totally different fantasy altogether

That's just TOO funny. I actually laughed out loud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had mmf experience yet, but lately been thinking more about it ,of course there will be contact , Id like to meet willing laid back couple to take me in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the mmfs i have been involved with, on only one occasion has the the other male refused to perform because of the chance of swords crossing. Now i dont hide my bi side but at the same time if the other guy is straight I will do the same. But in the case of DP you either have to accept theres going to be contact and go for it or stick to an ordinary relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant beat abit of mfm

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By *rlonleyMan
over a year ago

correctly in boston

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant beat abit of mfm

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By *owncouple5Couple
over a year ago

near Belfast

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By *owncouple5Couple
over a year ago

near Belfast

"Cant beat abit of mfm

We love MFM too!????

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

in close proximity of mmf

there's going be some close contact

I can't see it being a problem.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Two guys at the bar chatting while she heads up to hotel room and dresses up. One of life's little pleasures

If all three bods are cozy around each other, swords won't cross... Sounds more like guy just got performance anxiety is all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two guys at the bar chatting while she heads up to hotel room and dresses up. One of life's little pleasures

If all three bods are cozy around each other, swords won't cross... Sounds more like guy just got performance anxiety is all

I disagree, 2 guys 1 vag, of course they'll cross.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i often wonder why it is that in a 3some situation some guys just presume one will be at each end of the woman , if you were to actually ask a woman what she wanted from a 2 men and her situation the answers i suspect are not what the fellas envisioned .

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Two guys at the bar chatting while she heads up to hotel room and dresses up. One of life's little pleasures

If all three bods are cozy around each other, swords won't cross... Sounds more like guy just got performance anxiety is all

I disagree, 2 guys 1 vag, of course they'll cross."

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Well, we must've been doing something wrong so

Anyway, no one got hurt and smiles all round afterwards

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By *iving guy95Man
over a year ago

lusk

I have had a 3 sum and the other guy and myself where all a bout the lady as it should be so what if we touch it's about the lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two guys at the bar chatting while she heads up to hotel room and dresses up. One of life's little pleasures

If all three bods are cozy around each other, swords won't cross... Sounds more like guy just got performance anxiety is all

I disagree, 2 guys 1 vag, of course they'll cross."

DVP is so hot!

One cock touching (more rubbing against...) another in a vag, so guys must be very chilled about it.

I guess, if a gent is super stressed about his cock touching another, MMF threesomes are not necessary for him (which is totally fine). Best MFMs are when all people are relaxed and go with the flow and respect each other and don't add more meaning to whatever happens to what it really is.

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