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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Why do male newbies get such a hard time of it? The girl newbies get hounded and the male are seen as pests !! I try to not be rude to any newbie am I the only one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do male newbies get such a hard time of it? The girl newbies get hounded and the male are seen as pests !! I try to not be rude to any newbie am I the only one?"

The men on here are seen as pests in general from my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This ..All most men wamt.is some fun...but its so hard tp get started here

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I try to give newbies a go everyone had to start somewhere!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish some more were like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding playmates on here is like pulling hens teeth

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Finding playmates on here is like pulling hens teeth"
agree lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ye have just got to pull the right teeth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol truth, u have to like its in d inner circle of d main policing of fab krukluxclan if u like to get noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting ... id rather be unique .. but thats just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unique widely used word, we can all be that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can indeed ..I hope most people can.be honest and just be themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of d most important ingredients of life, we teach it to our kids, i agree honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to teach my kids the same thing ..never follow the crowd never do anything you dont wanna do and w

Always treat people the way you want to be treated

Be that good or bad lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wise teaching good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep well

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"Why do male newbies get such a hard time of it? The girl newbies get hounded and the male are seen as pests !! I try to not be rude to any newbie am I the only one?

The men on here are seen as pests in general from my experience."

Not all are pests to be fair but there's just so fooking many of ye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the men are pests but so are some of the couples and women. Vast majority are ok but like everywhere you'll get a pest or ten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't agree that men get treated like pests... There are so many single guys on FAB. So receiving a "how are you" or "up to much" message again and again from unimaginative men can get quite boring and frankly is annoying. So they get ignored.

Some guys can get quite annoyed after being told " I'm afraid you're not what we're looking for " which does tend to make couples and single ladies weary of the single guy profile.

But to answer OP, we don't usually meet unverified people, that includes couples and single females but we are never rude to them , will always give advice.. unless it's someone extremely delicious we have made exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay so when your talking to a lady what do you girls like to hear? I'm here 4 months now and can't get vertified. I'll tryed been nice to the ladies on this but it gets you no where. This site is so fucking hard and frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so when your talking to a lady what do you girls like to hear? I'm here 4 months now and can't get vertified. I'll tryed been nice to the ladies on this but it gets you no where. This site is so fucking hard and frustrating "

Well personally I wouldn't reply because your profile I'd no negative and aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* is so

Damn autocorrect

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Okay so when your talking to a lady what do you girls like to hear? I'm here 4 months now and can't get vertified. I'll tryed been nice to the ladies on this but it gets you no where. This site is so fucking hard and frustrating

Well personally I wouldn't reply because your profile I'd no negative and aggressive. "

From the rules:

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do male newbies get such a hard time of it? The girl newbies get hounded and the male are seen as pests !! I try to not be rude to any newbie am I the only one?"
it's simple logic supply and demand. Guys in general get a hard time. Case in point which has happened me. Whatsapping a cpl whom suggest a phone call. I agree. I notify them "my signal is poor at my home so I'll call you from my land line, I

Will withhold my number if you don't mind".... the response was some what tasty! I was called everything! lol supposedly because i could not call on my mobile I was a messer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so when your talking to a lady what do you girls like to hear? I'm here 4 months now and can't get vertified. I'll tryed been nice to the ladies on this but it gets you no where. This site is so fucking hard and frustrating

Well personally I wouldn't reply because your profile I'd no negative and aggressive.

From the rules:

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere."

Who's nit picking? He asked for advice, said he can't get verified , I simply gave my opinion as to why that may be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not aggressive . My problem is I'm too nice for the website. Too many picky women on here. Ya have to be brad Pitt or have a 6 pack before women would even look at ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not aggressive . My problem is I'm too nice for the website. Too many picky women on here. Ya have to be brad Pitt or have a 6 pack before women would even look at ya"

Well ya know what to do if you feel that way.... Delete

Cya

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm not aggressive . My problem is I'm too nice for the website. Too many picky women on here. Ya have to be brad Pitt or have a 6 pack before women would even look at ya"

Not necessarily but with a username like pussy muncher you're not very appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not aggressive . My problem is I'm too nice for the website. Too many picky women on here. Ya have to be brad Pitt or have a 6 pack before women would even look at ya

Not necessarily but with a username like pussy muncher you're not very appealing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay point taken but the pictures on your profile arent squeaky clean either

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Okay point taken but the pictures on your profile arent squeaky clean either"

Who mentioned pictures? I didn't say anything about your pictures just pointed out your vulgar username ....anyway I'm verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay point taken but the pictures on your profile arent squeaky clean either"

Keep your toys in the pram..... don't throw cheap shots at people it's not nice

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Okay point taken but the pictures on your profile arent squeaky clean either

Keep your toys in the pram..... don't throw cheap shots at people it's not nice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That last text wasn't aimed at you. It was for the previous wonan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That last text wasn't aimed at you. It was for the previous wonan

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Toys ... pram .... cheap shots

All applies regardless of who it was aimed at

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