FabSwingers.com forum: Does fab change the way we view relationships?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right so here's a question I was asked recently which stumpted me. The only answer I was able to give was a simple "it depends"

As a single male/female on fab would you be inclined to give up the lifestyle once in a relationship or would you try to bring them around to your way of thinking? Would this be a potential dealbreaker or generally what are peoples thoughts?

Is there a difference between male and females.. for couples was this something ye had an interest in from the beginning or did the idea manifest itself over time?

Very interested in hearing what people think

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

I came out of my last relationship feeling like I didn't want to get into another one for a very long time. 4 years on and I still don't feel emotionally ready for one. A lifestyle relationship would seem like a good compromise but still not sure it's what I want.

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

For us it was over time...we didn't just wake up one morning and decide to start...but once we joined a site it didn't take long to start exploring...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Personally I think once my relationship was established and both was happy to enjoy the scene I would be happy....trust and plenty of talking about boundaries and what both are comfortable with....I wouldn't put my relationship in jeopardy unless we both happy about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It manifested itself over time. Oh & constant, endless, nagging & cajoling.

I think he thought it was gonna be me & another svelte blonde (cough) rolling around in his lap, imagine his surprise when I introduced him to Jack.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think once my relationship was established and both was happy to enjoy the scene I would be happy....trust and plenty of talking about boundaries and what both are comfortable with....I wouldn't put my relationship in jeopardy unless we both happy about it. "

100% agree with what your saying trust and talking are hugely important. To follow up with the next question asked do you think if you got into a relationship that you would be happy to never partake in this lifestyle again? Again my own answer was it depends on the relationship ext. so just interested to see how peoples opinions differ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner was into swinging before we met and he introduced me this lifestyle. It too me some time before we had our first play date but I was intrigued at the thoughts straight away, it was fears that made me take my time and I don regret that. I personally think if ones husband/wife has fantasies that can be fulfilled, (and i don't condone cheating at all) but if you dont at least try something for the one you love then it's a possibility they may fulfil these sexual desires without you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It manifested itself over time. Oh & constant, endless, nagging & cajoling.

I think he thought it was gonna be me & another svelte blonde (cough) rolling around in his lap, imagine his surprise when I introduced him to Jack.

Love this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It manifested itself over time. Oh & constant, endless, nagging & cajoling.

I think he thought it was gonna be me & another svelte blonde (cough) rolling around in his lap, imagine his surprise when I introduced him to Jack.

Love this

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"It manifested itself over time. Oh & constant, endless, nagging & cajoling.

I think he thought it was gonna be me & another svelte blonde (cough) rolling around in his lap, imagine his surprise when I introduced him to Jack.

My husband was absolutely delighted when he discovered jack was involved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It manifested itself over time. Oh & constant, endless, nagging & cajoling.

I think he thought it was gonna be me & another svelte blonde (cough) rolling around in his lap, imagine his surprise when I introduced him to Jack.

My husband was absolutely delighted when he discovered jack was involved..."

Funny you should say that...Jack is very persuasive.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"It manifested itself over time. Oh & constant, endless, nagging & cajoling.

I think he thought it was gonna be me & another svelte blonde (cough) rolling around in his lap, imagine his surprise when I introduced him to Jack.

My husband was absolutely delighted when he discovered jack was involved...

Funny you should say that...Jack is very persuasive. "

Hi my name is jack

.only messing

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