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Now, this isn't a whinge about not getting any replies. I'm a patient man and I know that women get a huge number of messages every day, that's just the way it is here. But I'm genuinely curious to see what the average number is.
I like to think that I'm a respectful man and I will always try and send a friendly, detailed message with a face pic. And if I don't get a reply I don't start sending abusive messages or stalk the person.
But it's when I see that the message hasn't even been read that I start to wonder. So would a woman be able to see my message or pics without even opening it? I'm just wondering when women end up bulk deleting are they just fed up of the shitty one liners with cock pics, or would you genuinely look through them all and delete as you go?
I'm well aware that I'm in the category that will get the least number of replies but I'm always curious to see it from a woman's point of view! | |||
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"I can read the first line!" There's your answer. "Howya, I'm in your area, free tonight, show me your.., stupid fucking bit..." are all likely to be recycled without being opened.  | |||
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"I can read the first line! There's your answer. "Howya, I'm in your area, free tonight, show me your.., stupid fucking bit..." are all likely to be recycled without being opened. "The copy and paste ones are best. Shows effort on a mass scale. | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? " If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? " I don't delete any , I've all single guys blocked if I'm looking for a guy I will message the guys I like . Or put up a meet request and take off the filters while I'm looking . Much more manageable that way otherwise I'd need a PA to keep up | |||
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"I can read the first line! There's your answer. "Howya, I'm in your area, free tonight, show me your.., stupid fucking bit..." are all likely to be recycled without being opened.
The copy and paste ones are best. Shows effort on a mass scale. "Written by sheep lol! | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read." But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. | |||
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"I delete about 700 a day.. Kidding lol But again copy and paste and no thought put in goes straight away Depends how busy I am But nice to chat "700 wouldn't be far off from what I read on some women's profiles lol. It must be hard to keep up with all of them... Btw if you're ever up in Dublin give me a shout if you fancy a coffee with some stimulating conversation thrown in for free  | |||
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"I try and answer as many as I can.... Even when it's just hi..... If after a couple of messages the content remains poor then I loose interest!.... I realise it's difficult to know where to begin, I tend not to answer the ones that begin with I am horny....."  | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. " We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore " Thank you. It is. | |||
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"I delete about 700 a day.. Kidding lol But again copy and paste and no thought put in goes straight away Depends how busy I am But nice to chat
700 wouldn't be far off from what I read on some women's profiles lol. It must be hard to keep up with all of them...
Btw if you're ever up in Dublin give me a shout if you fancy a coffee with some stimulating conversation thrown in for free "Sounds good | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore " But my point is that it's just a polite way of introducing yourself...just because it starts with those three or four words doesn't mean that's going to be the whole message! How would you start off a message to someone? Or how do you like to see a fella start off his message to you? | |||
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"filters exist but some would rather not use them as that would invalidate their complaints. Being inundated with messages is as good as any kinky scenario you can imagine for some. It serves its purpose, makes the individual or couple feel at the centre of something.I don't particularly send that many messages. I enjoy the lifestyle not interested in torturing anybody or even worse stroking their ego. But then I do wish some single guys had more self control as there would be less to cry about " | |||
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"Always enjoy the copy and paste ones who get upset and deny copying and pasting when it's bloody obvious. " Don't you always wish you'd archived the other, earlier one to show them proof?! | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore But my point is that it's just a polite way of introducing yourself...just because it starts with those three or four words doesn't mean that's going to be the whole message! How would you start off a message to someone? Or how do you like to see a fella start off his message to you?" I tend to read their profile and make each message unique according to their profile, what they're looking for, we may open with a witty first line message again according to ones profile. Absolutely detest copy and paste or repetitive messages with no effort, I personally think if someone is that lazy and lacks imagination in something as simple as a message they may not be all that exciting in the bedroom... | |||
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"Always enjoy the copy and paste ones who get upset and deny copying and pasting when it's bloody obvious. " Especially when the "copy and paster" has sent the exact same copy and paste message 3 or 4 times  | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore But my point is that it's just a polite way of introducing yourself...just because it starts with those three or four words doesn't mean that's going to be the whole message! How would you start off a message to someone? Or how do you like to see a fella start off his message to you? I tend to read their profile and make each message unique according to their profile, what they're looking for, we may open with a witty first line message again according to ones profile. Absolutely detest copy and paste or repetitive messages with no effort, I personally think if someone is that lazy and lacks imagination in something as simple as a message they may not be https://m.fabswingers.com/action/gallery.aspx?t=1&cf=&shows=1&when=challthat exciting in the bedroom..." is this not donedeal | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore But my point is that it's just a polite way of introducing yourself...just because it starts with those three or four words doesn't mean that's going to be the whole message! How would you start off a message to someone? Or how do you like to see a fella start off his message to you? I tend to read their profile and make each message unique according to their profile, what they're looking for, we may open with a witty first line message again according to ones profile. Absolutely detest copy and paste or repetitive messages with no effort, I personally think if someone is that lazy and lacks imagination in something as simple as a message they may not be https://m.fabswingers.com/action/gallery.aspx?t=1&cf=&shows=1&when=challthat exciting in the bedroom... is this not donedeal "Don't know, can't click on link | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore But my point is that it's just a polite way of introducing yourself...just because it starts with those three or four words doesn't mean that's going to be the whole message! How would you start off a message to someone? Or how do you like to see a fella start off his message to you? I tend to read their profile and make each message unique according to their profile, what they're looking for, we may open with a witty first line message again according to ones profile. Absolutely detest copy and paste or repetitive messages with no effort, I personally think if someone is that lazy and lacks imagination in something as simple as a message they may not be https://m.fabswingers.com/action/gallery.aspx?t=1&cf=&shows=1&when=challthat exciting in the bedroom... is this not donedeal
Don't know, can't click on link "Here... https://m.fabswingers.com/action/gallery.aspx?t=1&cf=&shows=1&when=challthat Mind your fillings. | |||
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"I get what you're saying and I wouldn't even think of starting off an introductory message by saying 'hiya, I'm free now, fancy a fuck?' or anything like that. But if I start off with 'hello how's it going' and someone deletes it cos they saw that then...I dunno, what else am I supposed to say, it's just being polite. So the first few words have to be different and interesting is what you're saying? If you start with that, what can my answer be? "grand thanks or not very well thanks". You don't really want to know how I am do you? So yes, unique messages or interesting ones are much more likely to be answered, not just read. But I'm not necessarily looking for an answer to that question, it's just a very loose and casual way of starting off a message. How can it be that off putting to someone? All you have to do is read just the next few words to realise that's it's not an unimaginative 'can I fuck you' type of message. We get bored of the messages that single guys send, "how are you? Up to much?" If you don't want to know don't ask, but when the majority of people on fab are single guys imagine the amount of "how are you messages" couples and single girls recieve. It's a snooze fest , we just don't reply anymore But my point is that it's just a polite way of introducing yourself...just because it starts with those three or four words doesn't mean that's going to be the whole message! How would you start off a message to someone? Or how do you like to see a fella start off his message to you? I tend to read their profile and make each message unique according to their profile, what they're looking for, we may open with a witty first line message again according to ones profile. Absolutely detest copy and paste or repetitive messages with no effort, I personally think if someone is that lazy and lacks imagination in something as simple as a message they may not be https://m.fabswingers.com/action/gallery.aspx?t=1&cf=&shows=1&when=challthat exciting in the bedroom... is this not donedeal
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"I've had eleven messages today. I rarely delete any. If people had proper filters in place they'd rarely be inundated, but it's up to each individual to run his or her own account as they choose. " This definitely | |||
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"Delete none. The joys of filters about 40?"Don't delete mines Crazy  | |||
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"Delete none. The joys of filters about 40?
Don't delete mines Crazy "babe never mere to me I want u xxx | |||
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"Delete none. The joys of filters about 40?
Don't delete mines Crazy babe never mere to me I want u xxx"Oh don't you worry. Road trip your way as soon as I can, sexy x | |||
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"Delete none. The joys of filters about 40?
Don't delete mines Crazy babe never mere to me I want u xxx
Oh don't you worry. Road trip your way as soon as I can, sexy x"get a room you's two | |||
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"Delete none. The joys of filters about 40?
Don't delete mines Crazy babe never mere to me I want u xxx
Oh don't you worry. Road trip your way as soon as I can, sexy xget a room you's two "That's the plan | |||
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"Don't start with "Do you give head for cash" anyway! I taught it was only me you sent that too "Should be other way round, no? | |||
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"filters exist but some would rather not use them as that would invalidate their complaints. Being inundated with messages is as good as any kinky scenario you can imagine for some. It serves its purpose, makes the individual or couple feel at the centre of something.I don't particularly send that many messages. I enjoy the lifestyle not interested in torturing anybody or even worse stroking their ego. But then I do wish some single guys had more self control as there would be less to cry about " Supply and demand.... if only the other guys would cultivate some taste | |||
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Should be other way round, no? "Remember that €100 you gave me?? | |||
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"I can read the first line! There's your answer. "Howya, I'm in your area, free tonight, show me your.., stupid fucking bit..." are all likely to be recycled without being opened. "Never say any of this and it still happens | |||
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"Delete none. The joys of filters about 40?
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"Still delete alot but I'm a fussy wee witch but FILTERS are the job!!! "u luv it lol | |||
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