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"How real are non verified profiles joined over a year ago? should you, have you given them a chance or r they just pic collectors / time wasters" maybe just really really ugly lol | |||
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"How real are non verified profiles joined over a year ago? should you, have you given them a chance or r they just pic collectors / time wasters" I know profiles here for years that are verified and collect pictures.  | |||
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"Unverified and here over a year I tend to not trust them " plenty meets & greets and social and coffee meets in the space of a year , surely they attend at least one of them if they are serious about swinging  
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"Unverified and here over a year I tend to not trust them " Would you think a couple viewing your profile would think the same ? | |||
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"Unverified and here over a year I tend to not trust them Would you think a couple viewing your profile would think the same ? " my profile ? care to elaborate ? | |||
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"Unverified and here over a year I tend to not trust them plenty meets & greets and social and coffee meets in the space of a year , surely they attend at least one of them if they are serious about swinging
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"Unverified and here over a year I tend to not trust them Would you think a couple viewing your profile would think the same ? my profile ? care to elaborate ?" Sorry misread your post !  | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over "Feel better now? | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Feel better now? "No, I feel empty 
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
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No, I feel empty
I didn't get the feeling I accomplished anything "That sounds like the average week for me | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Feel better now?
No, I feel empty
I didn't get the feeling I accomplished anything
That sounds like the average week for me "Looking for pity? Here, on the forums? lol | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Feel better now?
No, I feel empty
I didn't get the feeling I accomplished anything
That sounds like the average week for me
Looking for pity? Here, on the forums? lol "I know I'm in the wrong place for that unless i was a unicorn of course  | |||
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"How do unverified get to m+g's when the majority of them are for verified only? And most people won't even accept mails from unverified people, so there goes arranging a coffee meet? Unless the rare event of one of the mass coffee meets happen, and the person is available at that time, or someone is willing to meet them and give them a chance, I can see how it's likely for some to remain unverified for so long " From the m&g's I have went to and the socials, I have met numerous newbies, guys, girls & couples, that's what they are for... How many have you asked to go to? Remember all the hosts read the forums so I'm sure they will put me straight if I'm wrong.. How many guys have you asked for a coffee to get a veri? | |||
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"Speaking from experince difficult to break that initial barrier and get verified ! Need a verified member to take a chance " Have you asked a verified male to verify you over coffee? Plenty of lads around naas that would happily meet you for a quick pint over some weekend.. | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Feel better now?
No, I feel empty
I didn't get the feeling I accomplished anything
That sounds like the average week for me
Looking for pity? Here, on the forums? lol
I know I'm in the wrong place for that unless i was a unicorn of course "A wha???
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Feel better now?
No, I feel empty
I didn't get the feeling I accomplished anything
That sounds like the average week for me
Looking for pity? Here, on the forums? lol
I know I'm in the wrong place for that unless i was a unicorn of course
A wha???
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Feel better now?
No, I feel empty
I didn't get the feeling I accomplished anything
That sounds like the average week for me
Looking for pity? Here, on the forums? lol
I know I'm in the wrong place for that unless i was a unicorn of course
A wha???
Sorry, must have dreamt it "Must have been a dream ok... | |||
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"How do unverified get to m+g's when the majority of them are for verified only? And most people won't even accept mails from unverified people, so there goes arranging a coffee meet? Unless the rare event of one of the mass coffee meets happen, and the person is available at that time, or someone is willing to meet them and give them a chance, I can see how it's likely for some to remain unverified for so long From the m&g's I have went to and the socials, I have met numerous newbies, guys, girls & couples, that's what they are for... How many have you asked to go to? Remember all the hosts read the forums so I'm sure they will put me straight if I'm wrong.. How many guys have you asked for a coffee to get a veri?" I've not asked to go to any m+g's nor have I asked anyone for a coffee meet. I'm not sure how's that's relevant though? | |||
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"How real are non verified profiles joined over a year ago? should you, have you given them a chance or r they just pic collectors / time wasters" For us anyone on here 3 months and hasn't met , we wouldn't entertain at all | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over "Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first. | |||
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"How real are non verified profiles joined over a year ago? should you, have you given them a chance or r they just pic collectors / time wasters" There not lol | |||
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"How do unverified get to m+g's when the majority of them are for verified only? And most people won't even accept mails from unverified people, so there goes arranging a coffee meet? Unless the rare event of one of the mass coffee meets happen, and the person is available at that time, or someone is willing to meet them and give them a chance, I can see how it's likely for some to remain unverified for so long From the m&g's I have went to and the socials, I have met numerous newbies, guys, girls & couples, that's what they are for... How many have you asked to go to? Remember all the hosts read the forums so I'm sure they will put me straight if I'm wrong.. How many guys have you asked for a coffee to get a veri? I've not asked to go to any m+g's nor have I asked anyone for a coffee meet. I'm not sure how's that's relevant though? " It's relevant since you asked in your opening sentence how do you get invited to an m&g... It goes back to my premise, that you are not prepared to try.. So you haven't asked for a coffee meet nor am m&g meet. How do you intend to get verified or a proper meet? | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first. "Absolutely agree 100% So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas. Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee? | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?"Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing | |||
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"How do unverified get to m+g's when the majority of them are for verified only? And most people won't even accept mails from unverified people, so there goes arranging a coffee meet? Unless the rare event of one of the mass coffee meets happen, and the person is available at that time, or someone is willing to meet them and give them a chance, I can see how it's likely for some to remain unverified for so long From the m&g's I have went to and the socials, I have met numerous newbies, guys, girls & couples, that's what they are for... How many have you asked to go to? Remember all the hosts read the forums so I'm sure they will put me straight if I'm wrong.. How many guys have you asked for a coffee to get a veri? I've not asked to go to any m+g's nor have I asked anyone for a coffee meet. I'm not sure how's that's relevant though? It's relevant since you asked in your opening sentence how do you get invited to an m&g... It goes back to my premise, that you are not prepared to try.. So you haven't asked for a coffee meet nor am m&g meet. How do you intend to get verified or a proper meet?" No. I asked how do unverified people get invites. I am verified therefore do not need to ask to be verified | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Thanks Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Feel better now?
No, I feel empty
I didn't get the feeling I accomplished anything
That sounds like the average week for me
Looking for pity? Here, on the forums? lol
I know I'm in the wrong place for that unless i was a unicorn of course
A wha???
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"Unverified and here over a year I tend to not trust them Would you think a couple viewing your profile would think the same ? my profile ? care to elaborate ?" If I am correct you attended the same party as us recently and you are very real and genuine  Sam | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?
Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing "U never know who be around at what hr and as u say u have more important things at this time which have to take preference but In ur case just reading ur posts and contributions I'd say if u looked to get verified ud have no problem It is what it is if u want to put the effort in u will reap the reward but so many think it's easy ride .com they concentrate on getting the small head in instead of getting inside the big head Just a foot note not all M&G's are verified there is one posted at the moment open to non verified | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?
Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing
U never know who be around at what hr and as u say u have more important things at this time which have to take preference but In ur case just reading ur posts and contributions I'd say if u looked to get verified ud have no problem
It is what it is if u want to put the effort in u will reap the reward but so many think it's easy ride .com they concentrate on getting the small head in instead of getting inside the big head
Just a foot note not all M&G's are verified there is one posted at the moment open to non verified "You can also get verified on cam, there's definitely ways but you have to be willing to make an effort, otherwise why be on a swing site | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over "Love this and your rant. | |||
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"How real are non verified profiles joined over a year ago? should you, have you given them a chance or r they just pic collectors / time wasters" Judge everyone as I find them tbh rather than draw conclusions because they have no veris. Likewise because someone is well verified, doesn't mean they are not a timewaster, what's your experience OP? | |||
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) ohh they were lovely and friendly just like your mates down the pub,then at the party met another clatter of people, was it akward for the first few minutes??? Hell yes but it passed, you gotta put the work in, plus who doesn't have a half hour???? | |||
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. " Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? | |||
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? " Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. | |||
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? " Seems many verifications are either remarkably graphic or just a formula we met it was good. The graphic... well do you really want to know what someone has done with someone else... cancel that...of course we do
The formulaic don't seem to tell anyone much..apart from maybe great bj etc.
Perhaps some people simply don't feel the need to collect "badges" or share their experiences publicly for many valid reasons.
So why make assumptions about anyone based on a third person's opinion of them.
Are we not sufficiently grown up to make our own judgement based on that radical concept of communicating directly with them instead of relying on the affirmation or otherwise of others to make our decisions for us.
As for research... Google or tineye only work in a negative sense. If pics are out here and nowhere else then both platforms are pointless...
And surely the best research is always ignore what others say and find out for yourself.. | |||
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Seems many verifications are either remarkably graphic or just a formula we met it was good. The graphic... well do you really want to know what someone has done with someone else... cancel that...of course we do
The formulaic don't seem to tell anyone much..apart from maybe great bj etc.
Perhaps some people simply don't feel the need to collect "badges" or share their experiences publicly for many valid reasons.
So why make assumptions about anyone based on a third person's opinion of them.
Are we not sufficiently grown up to make our own judgement based on that radical concept of communicating directly with them instead of relying on the affirmation or otherwise of others to make our decisions for us.
As for research... Google or tineye only work in a negative sense. If pics are out here and nowhere else then both platforms are pointless...
And surely the best research is always ignore what others say and find out for yourself.."Yep, totally agree. Hide mine tbh. I like to get them but for my eyes only | |||
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Seems many verifications are either remarkably graphic or just a formula we met it was good. The graphic... well do you really want to know what someone has done with someone else... cancel that...of course we do
The formulaic don't seem to tell anyone much..apart from maybe great bj etc.
Perhaps some people simply don't feel the need to collect "badges" or share their experiences publicly for many valid reasons.
So why make assumptions about anyone based on a third person's opinion of them.
Are we not sufficiently grown up to make our own judgement based on that radical concept of communicating directly with them instead of relying on the affirmation or otherwise of others to make our decisions for us.
As for research... Google or tineye only work in a negative sense. If pics are out here and nowhere else then both platforms are pointless...
And surely the best research is always ignore what others say and find out for yourself.."We don't all want to know about the graphic ones. They make me cringe
I'd be far more interested in ones that just basically say they show up and look like their pics.
One womans idea of the best kisser/shagger EVER - may not be mine so isn't necessary.
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Seems many verifications are either remarkably graphic or just a formula we met it was good. The graphic... well do you really want to know what someone has done with someone else... cancel that...of course we do
The formulaic don't seem to tell anyone much..apart from maybe great bj etc.
Perhaps some people simply don't feel the need to collect "badges" or share their experiences publicly for many valid reasons.
So why make assumptions about anyone based on a third person's opinion of them.
Are we not sufficiently grown up to make our own judgement based on that radical concept of communicating directly with them instead of relying on the affirmation or otherwise of others to make our decisions for us.
As for research... Google or tineye only work in a negative sense. If pics are out here and nowhere else then both platforms are pointless...
And surely the best research is always ignore what others say and find out for yourself..
We don't all want to know about the graphic ones. They make me cringe
I'd be far more interested in ones that just basically say they show up and look like their pics.
One womans idea of the best kisser/shagger EVER - may not be mine so isn't necessary.
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Verifications are very important... It at least proves the profile is genuine...
With the amount of verified fake profiles on here, I'd tend to disagree with that sentiment I'm afraid "Well that's why verifications are important.. I look see who's verified them, then see who's verified them! As the fabber said earlier do research, I usually know at least one of their verifications or know one of their veris verifications, that's why I think it's important to have and display! | |||
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Seems many verifications are either remarkably graphic or just a formula we met it was good. The graphic... well do you really want to know what someone has done with someone else... cancel that...of course we do
The formulaic don't seem to tell anyone much..apart from maybe great bj etc.
Perhaps some people simply don't feel the need to collect "badges" or share their experiences publicly for many valid reasons.
So why make assumptions about anyone based on a third person's opinion of them.
Are we not sufficiently grown up to make our own judgement based on that radical concept of communicating directly with them instead of relying on the affirmation or otherwise of others to make our decisions for us.
As for research... Google or tineye only work in a negative sense. If pics are out here and nowhere else then both platforms are pointless...
And surely the best research is always ignore what others say and find out for yourself..
We don't all want to know about the graphic ones. They make me cringe
I'd be far more interested in ones that just basically say they show up and look like their pics.
One womans idea of the best kisser/shagger EVER - may not be mine so isn't necessary.
Agree here, i dont need to know about his cock hitting the back of her throat "Nor me! ! | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?
Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing
U never know who be around at what hr and as u say u have more important things at this time which have to take preference but In ur case just reading ur posts and contributions I'd say if u looked to get verified ud have no problem
It is what it is if u want to put the effort in u will reap the reward but so many think it's easy ride .com they concentrate on getting the small head in instead of getting inside the big head
Just a foot note not all M&G's are verified there is one posted at the moment open to non verified "Ah thanks Man. If only the ladies on here thought the same!! have been verified, but as a single male now I guess its opened my eyes to some of the difficulites of getting verified. Also think some verified people on here are worse than non verified. Takes all kinds I guess. | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?
Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing
U never know who be around at what hr and as u say u have more important things at this time which have to take preference but In ur case just reading ur posts and contributions I'd say if u looked to get verified ud have no problem
It is what it is if u want to put the effort in u will reap the reward but so many think it's easy ride .com they concentrate on getting the small head in instead of getting inside the big head
Just a foot note not all M&G's are verified there is one posted at the moment open to non verified
Ah thanks Man. If only the ladies on here thought the same!! have been verified, but as a single male now I guess its opened my eyes to some of the difficulites of getting verified. Also think some verified people on here are worse than non verified. Takes all kinds I guess. "Couldn't you contact the people you met as a couple and ask them to veri you? | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?
Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing
U never know who be around at what hr and as u say u have more important things at this time which have to take preference but In ur case just reading ur posts and contributions I'd say if u looked to get verified ud have no problem
It is what it is if u want to put the effort in u will reap the reward but so many think it's easy ride .com they concentrate on getting the small head in instead of getting inside the big head
Just a foot note not all M&G's are verified there is one posted at the moment open to non verified
You can also get verified on cam, there's definitely ways but you have to be willing to make an effort, otherwise why be on a swing site "Have been verified and probably made more effort than most to do so!! | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?
Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing
U never know who be around at what hr and as u say u have more important things at this time which have to take preference but In ur case just reading ur posts and contributions I'd say if u looked to get verified ud have no problem
It is what it is if u want to put the effort in u will reap the reward but so many think it's easy ride .com they concentrate on getting the small head in instead of getting inside the big head
Just a foot note not all M&G's are verified there is one posted at the moment open to non verified
Ah thanks Man. If only the ladies on here thought the same!! have been verified, but as a single male now I guess its opened my eyes to some of the difficulites of getting verified. Also think some verified people on here are worse than non verified. Takes all kinds I guess.
Couldn't you contact the people you met as a couple and ask them to veri you?"not when they have single males filtered out etc. Also just to clarify I am verified again. | |||
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Verifications are very important... It at least proves the profile is genuine...
With the amount of verified fake profiles on here, I'd tend to disagree with that sentiment I'm afraid
Well that's why verifications are important..
I look see who's verified them, then see who's verified them! As the fabber said earlier do research, I usually know at least one of their verifications or know one of their veris verifications, that's why I think it's important to have and display!
"Have you ever seen anyone put up a negative verification? And why is second third or even fourth hand news any guide to how you may interact with someone... And with the amount of gossip bitching infighting etc that goes on here how do you ever know such gossip or even the veries are not clouded by another's perception of the research subject. Everyone uses this site as suits them...verifications if genuine tell us little of value about the person behind the profile.. They certainly don't guarantee "genuine" or compatibility...or sometimes even basic humanity.. | |||
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
Completely disagree with you on this. Take for example my own situation, was part of a couple on here before with plenty veris, relationship breaks down, account is closed, open up an account myself again,straight away as a single male 3/4s of the site have me filtered out.No issue with that as I also filter who I dont want. Re coffee meets, I work long days in rural Cork so coffee aint an option. My weekends are now spent travelling 3 hours cross the country to see my daughter, choice is meet and greets or spend time with my daughter. Daughter wins all day everyday. I guess what I took the long winded way to say is that people also have lives outside here. Life can make this lifestyle difficult and for most people their daily lives would always come first.
Absolutely agree 100%
So (no offence) you are not really pushed either way because you have way more important ideas.
Just an idea, on that 3 hour drive, could you not take 30 minutes out for a quick hi over a coffee?
Ah I wouldnt say im not pushed either way. I enjoy this lifestyle and what it offers but right now life is a barrier to it. Re the coffee stop, I always stop for coffee in junction 8 Cashel, though I dont think theres many would want to meet there at 7 or 8 in the morning when im passing
U never know who be around at what hr and as u say u have more important things at this time which have to take preference but In ur case just reading ur posts and contributions I'd say if u looked to get verified ud have no problem
It is what it is if u want to put the effort in u will reap the reward but so many think it's easy ride .com they concentrate on getting the small head in instead of getting inside the big head
Just a foot note not all M&G's are verified there is one posted at the moment open to non verified
Ah thanks Man. If only the ladies on here thought the same!! have been verified, but as a single male now I guess its opened my eyes to some of the difficulites of getting verified. Also think some verified people on here are worse than non verified. Takes all kinds I guess.
Couldn't you contact the people you met as a couple and ask them to veri you?
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Verifications are very important... It at least proves the profile is genuine...
With the amount of verified fake profiles on here, I'd tend to disagree with that sentiment I'm afraid
Well that's why verifications are important..
I look see who's verified them, then see who's verified them! As the fabber said earlier do research, I usually know at least one of their verifications or know one of their veris verifications, that's why I think it's important to have and display!
Have you ever seen anyone put up a negative verification?
And why is second third or even fourth hand news any guide to how you may interact with someone...
And with the amount of gossip bitching infighting etc that goes on here how do you ever know such gossip or even the veries are not clouded by another's perception of the research subject.
Everyone uses this site as suits them...verifications if genuine tell us little of value about the person behind the profile..
They certainly don't guarantee "genuine" or compatibility...or sometimes even basic humanity..
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"How do unverified get to m+g's when the majority of them are for verified only? And most people won't even accept mails from unverified people, so there goes arranging a coffee meet? Unless the rare event of one of the mass coffee meets happen, and the person is available at that time, or someone is willing to meet them and give them a chance, I can see how it's likely for some to remain unverified for so long From the m&g's I have went to and the socials, I have met numerous newbies, guys, girls & couples, that's what they are for... How many have you asked to go to? Remember all the hosts read the forums so I'm sure they will put me straight if I'm wrong.. How many guys have you asked for a coffee to get a veri? I've not asked to go to any m+g's nor have I asked anyone for a coffee meet. I'm not sure how's that's relevant though? It's relevant since you asked in your opening sentence how do you get invited to an m&g... It goes back to my premise, that you are not prepared to try.. So you haven't asked for a coffee meet nor am m&g meet. How do you intend to get verified or a proper meet? No. I asked how do unverified people get invites. I am verified therefore do not need to ask to be verified "lol I obviously thought I was replying to the op I think..
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" No excuse for anyone here on a year, and not to be verified. Plenty of socials m&g's on throughout the year. I've said this to a few guys, near same answer being-I'm discrete I don't want to meet in public like that. Why? Are us couples and other singles not discrete, or have the same concerns? Plenty people on here regular verify newbies over coffee etc... Personally I (Mr) think, they are too lazy to put the effort in, or are in relationships and are afraid of being found out. I don't buy the excuse of the socials and m&g's are too far away etc... It can be expensive swinging, with hotels and travel, when we were tight for funds we saved-no excuse!! Phew-rant over
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"How do unverified get to m+g's when the majority of them are for verified only? And most people won't even accept mails from unverified people, so there goes arranging a coffee meet? Unless the rare event of one of the mass coffee meets happen, and the person is available at that time, or someone is willing to meet them and give them a chance, I can see how it's likely for some to remain unverified for so long From the m&g's I have went to and the socials, I have met numerous newbies, guys, girls & couples, that's what they are for... How many have you asked to go to? Remember all the hosts read the forums so I'm sure they will put me straight if I'm wrong.. How many guys have you asked for a coffee to get a veri? I've not asked to go to any m+g's nor have I asked anyone for a coffee meet. I'm not sure how's that's relevant though? It's relevant since you asked in your opening sentence how do you get invited to an m&g... It goes back to my premise, that you are not prepared to try.. So you haven't asked for a coffee meet nor am m&g meet. How do you intend to get verified or a proper meet? No. I asked how do unverified people get invites. I am verified therefore do not need to ask to be verified
lol I obviously thought I was replying to the op I think..
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"One thing I've learnt on fab about other fabbers. Verifications are important. If not satisfied do more research. Verifications really aren't important at all. And more research? How exactly should you do more research? Verifications are very important... It at least proves the profile is genuine...
With the amount of verified fake profiles on here, I'd tend to disagree with that sentiment I'm afraid
Well that's why verifications are important..
I look see who's verified them, then see who's verified them! As the fabber said earlier do research, I usually know at least one of their verifications or know one of their veris verifications, that's why I think it's important to have and display!
Have you ever seen anyone put up a negative verification?
And why is second third or even fourth hand news any guide to how you may interact with someone...
And with the amount of gossip bitching infighting etc that goes on here how do you ever know such gossip or even the veries are not clouded by another's perception of the research subject.
Everyone uses this site as suits them...verifications if genuine tell us little of value about the person behind the profile..
They certainly don't guarantee "genuine" or compatibility...or sometimes even basic humanity..
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