FabSwingers.com forum: First time swinging..how was it?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a newbie I am curious to find out what was your first swinging experience like? Did you know it was for you immediately or were you apprehensive? How was the nerves etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a newbie aswell! Interested in hearing the expierences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nervous before. Then it was just heaven

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very nervous before. Then it was just heaven"

I can imagine its nerve reckon..hope you wore put to ease quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really nervous beforehand and I didn't enjoy it, but I'm glad I didn't give up. The second one more made up for it!

Have fun, OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was really nervous beforehand and I didn't enjoy it, but I'm glad I didn't give up. The second one more made up for it!

Have fun, OP

Really was it down to the company that you didnt enjoy it or did nerves take over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise for a long time that I was a swinger

I thought it was the norm to snog your female bestie or drag two men home for an mmf

Newcastle - the school of life

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I didn't realise for a long time that I was a swinger

I thought it was the norm to snog your female bestie or drag two men home for an mmf

Newcastle - the school of life

Good woman, I lived a nun like life for years and then my pussy took over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I didn't realise for a long time that I was a swinger

I thought it was the norm to snog your female bestie or drag two men home for an mmf

Newcastle - the school of life

Think I need to take a trip to Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't realise for a long time that I was a swinger

I thought it was the norm to snog your female bestie or drag two men home for an mmf

Newcastle - the school of life

Brat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't realise for a long time that I was a swinger

I thought it was the norm to snog your female bestie or drag two men home for an mmf

Newcastle - the school of life

Good woman, I lived a nun like life for years and then my pussy took over.

Ah DH I'm a shadow of my former self. If you'd seen me in my twenties you'd have had me locked up

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I didn't realise for a long time that I was a swinger

I thought it was the norm to snog your female bestie or drag two men home for an mmf

Newcastle - the school of life

Good woman, I lived a nun like life for years and then my pussy took over.

Ah DH I'm a shadow of my former self. If you'd seen me in my twenties you'd have had me locked up

Oh I wasn't a saint my whole life either as you can imagine but had a dry period in between.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Agreeing to meet someone for coffee, then having sex straight afterwards is indeed an eye opener

for me anyway...

Really enjoyed and whet my appetite a little more

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I was literally sick with nerves for the week leading up to our first meet. I couldn't even eat and that's something for me!!!

We had a social meet the week before so knew that we were meeting a very lovely couple. The night was fantastic, relaxed and great fun.

When I look back now I can laugh at how nervous I was......... there's been a lot of water under that bridge since and we've done things I'd never have dreamed of before our Fab journey. And hopefully will make a few more memories here before the journey ends

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Being meet in the hallway by a nake women in heels who said hello and started to kiss was a whole new world but what got me was she did not even lock the frontdoor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't realise for a long time that I was a swinger

I thought it was the norm to snog your female bestie or drag two men home for an mmf

Newcastle - the school of life

Brat

Oh yeah - but a loveable one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being meet in the hallway by a nake women in heels who said hello and started to kiss was a whole new world but what got me was she did not even lock the frontdoor.

Sounds like the perfect first meet to me

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Being meet in the hallway by a nake women in heels who said hello and started to kiss was a whole new world but what got me was she did not even lock the frontdoor.

Waiting for the mi_kman too then? Sounds like a keeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine happened by accident, yes you read that right!! Im here as i like the alternative lifestyle but met a wonderful couple at a party one night and the rest is history...i do think i was so so lucky getting them, so now my needs have flipped again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary but Amazing... loved it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine happened by accident, yes you read that right!! Im here as i like the alternative lifestyle but met a wonderful couple at a party one night and the rest is history...i do think i was so so lucky getting them, so now my needs have flipped again

Happened by accident that has to be the greatest accident in history lol

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

From another site. And I was a bag of nerves. We met for a cuppa and then onto the hotel. Nerves disappeared very quickly. He was a great laugh, made it so much easier. Also I was very aware I could leave at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was so nervous for lots of reasons but main thing was if this goes wrong it's our marriage at stake..... but it was amazeballs and 4 years later we have done stuff we would have never dreamed of

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reading all these makes me really want to get that first meet out of the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I done 3somes with the hubby and his mistresses as he called them I never even thought of it as swinging til we split up and I realised I was also bi as I enjoyed been with girls too lol bit of a life discovery .. talk about simple in the head I just thought I was been a good wife

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I didnt think i was a swinger. Joined because i missed tbe sex side of a relationship but didnt want anything else. Got into tbe socials and loved them. Met someone that has pushed my boundaries and now love the swinging side of it

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Reading all these makes me really want to get that first meet out of the way"

Don't rush through it now mate...

Just think of it as an initiation into swinging manhood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time i was so nervous but put at ease early on...

I only wish losing my virginity had been so good

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I was so starved out, nerves were not really an issue but also I knew I'm going to meet an incredibly sexy and nice guy straight in the hotel room, there was no time for thinking twice. My beginnings weren't with fab though.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I was never really nervous before meeting a lady . Why should you be . Just relax and enjoy each other .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very nervous before. Then it was just heaven

I can imagine its nerve reckon..hope you wore put to ease quickly"

We were nervous before she arrived. Once she was there it was like we had known her for years. She let us dictate the pace and always put our pleasure before her own. It was a wonderful experience that neither of us will ever forget.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very nervous before. Then it was just heaven

I can imagine its nerve reckon..hope you wore put to ease quickly

That's good to hear

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

This could be like "BLIND FAB DATE"...

You'll have to come back and tell the Forum how you got on

Am sure there's also three lovelies that would like to pop this young man's cherry now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to confess was totally bricking it at the start then once things got started it was the most exhilarating exiting moment of my life ..... has kept me coming back for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was very nervous with my first couple but was great and had some amazing experiences since

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Sick with nerves I felt there was a lot at stake..good marriage, happy home life,e.t.c. but it was a fantastic experience mostly due to the very experienced hosts who know it was our first time they put us at ease right away....has been a great addition to our marriage and life in general....would love to recapture the feeling of that first night

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Sick with nerves I felt there was a lot at stake..good marriage, happy home life,e.t.c. but it was a fantastic experience mostly due to the very experienced hosts who know it was our first time they put us at ease right away....has been a great addition to our marriage and life in general....would love to recapture the feeling of that first night"

Something about that gave me an erection.

I think it was Mrs Davie T

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This could be like "BLIND FAB DATE"...

You'll have to come back and tell the Forum how you got on

Am sure there's also three lovelies that would like to pop this young man's cherry now?

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a complete greenhorn I stupidly arranged to meet a lady for an overnight rendezvous in a hotel without having a social meet first. As it happened we hit it off really well and were compatible sexually to put it mildly but it was foolish on my part-blinded by the horn lol. Definite nerves but a great first experience

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