FabSwingers.com forum: face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people really expect face pics in the very first message????

Do guys do it?

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By *owncouple5Couple
over a year ago

near Belfast

Maybe not the first, but yes the second or third...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never expect one unless we are planning to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd never expect one unless we are planning to meet

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer people don't as some have the body of bay watch and face of crime watch. A face fit for radio is better kept until closer to the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd offer one after a few messages but I'd expect one back. Never on the first message and if you are asked they may be a pic collector.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

No.

Who cares about what the face looks like anyway?

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By *atthewsundriMan
over a year ago

dundrum

"No.

Who cares about what the face looks like anyway?

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really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people really expect face pics in the very first message????

Do guys do it?"

No. Yes.

Pictures can only get you a coffee meet with me, we'll both reconsider afterwards, I may not be your cuppa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me is like this no selfie no meet or chat to many fakes in this site so this cuts all the bulshiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of men send facepics with their opening message, we would never request one unless planning to have a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a better one last wk gave him my kik so i said ok send it . He still wouldnt send it so i blocked hom . In the name of god why would he be here does he think its blind date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they know u so what there not going spread it around the town i dont think

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

We don't swap face pics until we have chatted a while are are hoping to organise a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they know u so what there not going spread it around the town i dont think

That's my opinion but I've been blocked by about 4 people on here that said they knew me....im hardly gonna run around saying I'm on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ask for face pics simply to make sure there's an attraction, we've spent too long too many times chatting only to recieve a face pic and realise we're not attracted to them!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

i dont expect one but i'd like one after a few messages and definitely before a social so i can make sure i meet the right person, not like that time i did a blind one and met some dude that was meeting a girl (that no showed him) from POF

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust"

Everyone can make as many (ridiculous) demands on their profile as they want BUT it's your choice to go along with it or not. I wouldn't. I think it's inadequate to expect a face pic in a first message but it gives you an idea what kinda person you're dealing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont expect one but i'd like one after a few messages and definitely before a social so i can make sure i meet the right person, not like that time i did a blind one and met some dude that was meeting a girl (that no showed him) from POF "

Brilliant

Not awkward at all LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

I don't think it's ridiculous asking for a face pic. Why wouldn't I want to make sure I'm attracted to someone before planning on getting intimate with them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic no chatt no meet .very important to know who u chat whit .evrybody likes a pretty face .mutual attraction very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And coffe meets are important too as there u got to know what type of persons u got to deal whit as via msj they can pretend that they are Quinn's and princess . Face to face beast think. Not all the peoples are good writers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

I don't think it's ridiculous asking for a face pic. Why wouldn't I want to make sure I'm attracted to someone before planning on getting intimate with them!"

So you are saying you'd expect a face pic with the first message? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

I don't think it's ridiculous asking for a face pic. Why wouldn't I want to make sure I'm attracted to someone before planning on getting intimate with them!

So you are saying you'd expect a face pic with the first message? Really? "

Yeah really! Why waste each others time of its not gonna go anywhere because one of us is not attracted to the other!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

I don't think it's ridiculous asking for a face pic. Why wouldn't I want to make sure I'm attracted to someone before planning on getting intimate with them!

So you are saying you'd expect a face pic with the first message? Really?

Yeah really! Why waste each others time of its not gonna go anywhere because one of us is not attracted to the other!? "

Ok. I always pass over anyone who expects a face pic with first message. Simple. I want to chat a little first see if there's a bit of a connection. There's a fair bit of pic hunters and black mailers out there not to mention reporters on here too. One question would you then send them a face pic in return even if you didn't fancy them or would you just say sorry not interested....because that's what happens 90% of the time. Hense why most wouldn't send a face pic initially.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

I don't think it's ridiculous asking for a face pic. Why wouldn't I want to make sure I'm attracted to someone before planning on getting intimate with them!"

It's not ridiculous to swap face pics, but to expect one in the first message is in my opinion. This is a free sex site with all sorts of creatures on it, it's not wise to hand out face pics like flyers and everyone including single males deserve to protect their own persona and privacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

I don't think it's ridiculous asking for a face pic. Why wouldn't I want to make sure I'm attracted to someone before planning on getting intimate with them!

Absolutely and so if that's how people feel they don't have to message us. The reason we update and change our profile requirements is personal to us all. If people don't like/have what we want , move on its that's simple. We unfortunately have been caught out too many times not asking for face pics so now it's something we both feel is needed almost immediately and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me is like this no selfie no meet or chat to many fakes in this site so this cuts all the bulshiet

This

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I've read a few profiles (yes I read the profiles) and you see a lot of "anyone who messages without a face pic will be blocked"

I just think its a bit cheeky...everyone has that worry "what if they know me" so you have to build up a trust

I don't think it's ridiculous asking for a face pic. Why wouldn't I want to make sure I'm attracted to someone before planning on getting intimate with them!

Sure as I mentioned above everyone can post on their profile what they want. Also the ridiculous in brackets mean it's optional.

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I give no problem but hate when you get no face back or no reply.

Getting no reply is very bad manners even sorry not my type is better.

In the real world a face you see first and if you are lucky you get to see the body in fab it is the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few face pics been passed around fab so some have had an early start in being advertised.....For some it's good for others it isn't. That's one of the problems fabbers face, hense why I want to chat first....always. I'll never send a face pic unless I feel I can trust them with it first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No face pic no chatt no meet .very important to know who u chat whit .evrybody likes a pretty face .mutual attraction very important "

On the VERY FIRST text?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no chatt no meet .very important to know who u chat whit .evrybody likes a pretty face .mutual attraction very important

On the VERY FIRST text?"

And we wonder why there's alot of fake pics.

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

If they require a face pic to get a reply I don't bother messaging, face pics are for before meeting as the last hurdle in both deciding if they'd like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no chatt no meet .very important to know who u chat whit .evrybody likes a pretty face .mutual attraction very important

On the VERY FIRST text?

And we wonder why there's alot of fake pics."

There's alot of fake pics on fake profiles, hense why I wanna know who I'm talking to.

It's my profile my preference, so funny all the bitch comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No face pic no chatt no meet .very important to know who u chat whit .evrybody likes a pretty face .mutual attraction very important

On the VERY FIRST text?

And we wonder why there's alot of fake pics.

There's alot of fake pics on fake profiles, hense why I wanna know who I'm talking to.

It's my profile my preference, so funny all the bitch comments

I'm not saying you're a butch...i never seen your profile before...i just think people should have a "hello how are you" before you take the ultimate step of showing who you are...but if it works for you then carry on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no chatt no meet .very important to know who u chat whit .evrybody likes a pretty face .mutual attraction very important

On the VERY FIRST text?

And we wonder why there's alot of fake pics.

There's alot of fake pics on fake profiles, hense why I wanna know who I'm talking to.

It's my profile my preference, so funny all the bitch comments

I actually meant bitchy comments my apologies,no one has called me a bitch (yet

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I just think everyone is entitled to ask for what they want on their profile,if it's not your thing then move on, but the bitchy "no wonder there's fake pics going around" comments are a bit much. Fake pics are on fake profiles. It's a risk you take on this site when chatting to someone that they may not be real, so our thing is to ask for face pics (particularly from single men)

Nit asking for bank details it's not that big a deal really. It'd be like getting offended if someone insists on wearing condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic no chatt no meet .very important to know who u chat whit .evrybody likes a pretty face .mutual attraction very important

On the VERY FIRST text?

And we wonder why there's alot of fake pics.

There's alot of fake pics on fake profiles, hense why I wanna know who I'm talking to.

It's my profile my preference, so funny all the bitch comments

Just had to read through there again and I'm struggling to find any bitchy comments. ..some using emojos which can hide the bitching but I fail to see bitching...difference in or surprise in insistence of a face pic with first message...but no bitching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure it's as easy to put up a fake face pic as it is a fake profile ??? I would much rather get chatting abit first to build some kind of trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure it's as easy to put up a fake face pic as it is a fake profile ??? I would much rather get chatting abit first to build some kind of trust "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

In a first message I wouldn't not expect anyone to send me face pics and vice versa.... I appreciate people wanting to build a bit of trust before it's sent...i do get pictures in first message and than they ask to see me. I reply sorry not sending...some get offended saying it's rude I sent you one. I never asked for one so respect my decision not sending you one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect pic in 1st message as I wouldn't send one myself that quick but I wouldn't meet without seeing face pic either

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

I'd love to see some peoples faces when they read my posts on the forums....lmao

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By *sbotangoMan
over a year ago

Close by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to see some peoples faces when they read my posts on the forums....lmao

Now what language whould that be...

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By *sbotangoMan
over a year ago

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"In a first message I wouldn't not expect anyone to send me face pics and vice versa.... I appreciate people wanting to build a bit of trust before it's sent...i do get pictures in first message and than they ask to see me. I reply sorry not sending...some get offended saying it's rude I sent you one. I never asked for one so respect my decision not sending you one "
you can have my face pic anytime! Let me be x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sure it's as easy to put up a fake face pic as it is a fake profile ??? I would much rather get chatting abit first to build some kind of trust "

Exactly why send a fake pic when you want to meet...

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"I'd love to see some peoples faces when they read my posts on the forums....lmao

Now what language whould that be...

I couldn't even imagine it

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Don't send or ask for face pics.

Have met Fabbers, been to Parties, Socials, Coffee Meets etc and have my Veris.

If they aren't good enough then so be it!

Like others, I prefer to meet for a Drink or a Coffee, then after that Chat, Arrange to Meet for fun or not (as the case may be!)

Was at recent Leitrim party and can't be bothered even asking for Veris from that!!

How many Veris does a guy need???????

If I meet a lady from here I don't even ask for a Veri as it is no one else's business who I've met!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no

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By *elticfire555Man
over a year ago

Westmeath

I would expect any couple or female to ask for a face pic and have no problem sending it.But by the same token I would expect at least a pic back after doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We ask for face pics simply to make sure there's an attraction, we've spent too long too many times chatting only to recieve a face pic and realise we're not attracted to them! "

Im the same on this as ye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me i like to build a rapport but i usually kind of know after a few messages if il stay chatting or not, then the face pics get swapped, i did have 1 guy ( well said he was a guy) say he wasn't "pretty " enough ( his words) so i just said im sure you are but im not going to chat to someone i cant put a face too..he was probaly a bloody girl or randy teen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the ones that have their own face blanked out in all their pics and demand a face pic with first msg.... Those are the best ones so they are.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Demands for face pics, phone numbers, kik contacts, or even my exact location within the first few mails exchanged usually sends up red flags for me....

If someone's that pushy via mail they've no chance of getting me alone in a room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me i like to build a rapport but i usually kind of know after a few messages if il stay chatting or not, then the face pics get swapped, i did have 1 guy ( well said he was a guy) say he wasn't "pretty " enough ( his words) so i just said im sure you are but im not going to chat to someone i cant put a face too..he was probaly a bloody girl or randy teen

Something similar happened to us, we were chatting to a girl , I had swapped pics with her on kik we had planned to meet, Mr fuddy messaged as it was leading up to the meet and asked for a face pic also and "she" sent a completely different face pic. Turned out "she" was a guy. We have quite a few stories , lucky us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't expect pic in 1st message as I wouldn't send one myself that quick but I wouldn't meet without seeing face pic either"

Is that to check out their teeth!!

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

I'd send a facepic a few messages in if asked, but my pictures show plenty on here, so if someone is chatting to me they are pretty much getting 80% of the overall package anyway. If we are meeting I will either coffee meet or swap, there has to be some element of trust!

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

"Sure it's as easy to put up a fake face pic as it is a fake profile ??? I would much rather get chatting abit first to build some kind of trust "

..my way of thinking as well

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

"Demands for face pics, phone numbers, kik contacts, or even my exact location within the first few mails exchanged usually sends up red flags for me....

If someone's that pushy via mail they've no chance of getting me alone in a room

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