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By *iving guy95 OP   Man
over a year ago

lusk

I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Over 50?? But your profile says 47??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder is jimmy telling porkies about his age

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Why would you bring up a coffee meet in the first message????

You have drawn attention to your profile which says your 47 not over 50.

Socials are really the best way to meet people. I've had meets from socials that I didn't like their profiles or the way they messaged. Get yourself out there to your next local M&G I'm sure you will be pleasantly surprised

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"I wonder is jimmy telling porkies about his age "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is jimmy telling porkies about his age "

He wouldn't be the first to lie about his age on fab loads do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the same for guys under 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer "

Fab is for appearing on , not just looking at.

Participate , on all the platforms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder is jimmy telling porkies about his age

He wouldn't be the first to lie about his age on fab loads do! "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's the same for us guys under 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much effort put into your profile. And now you've come out to say you are over 50 but profile says 47. Not helping your situation at all.

Having been on fab a while you should know by now how it works. No ??

Good luck...

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn

Some guys over 50 on here have more meets than younger guys.

It must be you.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Over 50's on FAB??

It will NEVER happen!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not so easy for the 25+ either mate

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"It's the same for us guys under 30 "

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Have you been up to the Well too??

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's the same for us guys under 30

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Have you been up to the Well too?? "

They don't call me Benjamin for nothing!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It's the same for us guys under 30 "

No body loves us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging life for single guys ends at 45......everyone knows that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol ... Is that North or South ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be either really honest or a plonker for not lying but i tell my real age, dont send fake pics and dont lie about my status.

Maybe im toooo honest, but for me the end game is to actully have some actual fun and if i rock up after sending a different pic or 10 years younger well we may have a problem lol

I do get tho its harder for single men but put the work in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would you bring up a coffee meet in the first message????

You have drawn attention to your profile which says your 47 not over 50.

Socials are really the best way to meet people. I've had meets from socials that I didn't like their profiles or the way they messaged. Get yourself out there to your next local M&G I'm sure you will be pleasantly surprised"

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer

Fab is for appearing on , not just looking at.

Participate , on all the platforms. "

What he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I been a while now and I find it hard to get an answer back from messages. I am always polite and never rude all ways ask if they might like to chat about a coffee met if they do answer and say no I always say thank you and have fun on here but don't often get an answer

Fab is for appearing on , not just looking at.

Participate , on all the platforms.

What he said "

Yeah to get on with fab the best way I found is to be honest. Have a laugh on the forums in chat. Get along to m&gs. I've been to a few the last time I was here always a laugh.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Swinging life for single guys ends at 45......everyone knows that lol "

Speak for yer selves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging life for single guys ends at 45......everyone knows that lol

Speak for yer selves "
lol ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough for 35 yr old too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol ... Is that North or South ???"

That was North

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging life for single guys ends at 45......everyone knows that lol

Speak for yer selves lol ha ha ha"

He was

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By *exmark12Man
over a year ago

Rathcoole/Roscommon/Mayo

Have done ok here for the past year or two.Have had made good friends and lots of fun.It's what you pun in the dictAtes what you get out.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Swinging life for single guys ends at 45......everyone knows that lol

Speak for yer selves lol ha ha ha

He was "

There's a few more swings in the old dog yet

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Have done ok here for the past year or two.Have had made good friends and lots of fun.It's what you pun in the dictAtes what you get out."

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I don't mind putting it in so long as I can get it out!!

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By *r Connie LingusMan
over a year ago

Limerick

My disciples

The more you put into your online profile the better off you will be

Be that meet n greets (possibly the best way to get yourself noticed

Enjoying and contributing to the forums- Always good way for people to know your not an escaped mental patient or psychopath

Being respectful (this can be a tricky one ...especially on the forums but you can do it)

Making yourself stand out

Believe it or not the women here don't drop their knickers at the drop of a hat for anybody. They are people too and need to be enticed . Make yourself stand out

Don't send dick pics unless asked

Especially in the first message

This is the gospel according to Connie

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

You just gotta put some time into your profile and work off your strengths. I mean:

You've life experience

You come across as articulate

You seem like a gent

You're also verified so all you have to do now is enhance the numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

47/50

5'6"

Cannot accommodate

1 picture

Looking for ff couples

Can't see what the problem is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"47/50

5'6"

Cannot accommodate

1 picture

Looking for ff couples

Can't see what the problem is "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"47/50

5'6"

Cannot accommodate

1 picture

Looking for ff couples

Can't see what the problem is "

I don't really see why you have to bash him for his height or that he doesn't accommodate.

Also beside ff couples he's looking for female. We all have our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"47/50

5'6"

Cannot accommodate

1 picture

Looking for ff couples

Can't see what the problem is "

Those without sin should cast the 1st stone, back of the queue for you so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You too persha36

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36"

Oh oh what did i do wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong "

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss"

I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss

I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her.."

I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss

I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..

I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time. "

Arrogance might be the better word than piss taking. Other than that I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss

I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..

I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time. "

I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am having just as much bad luck and am just 49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss

I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..

I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time.

I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited "

It wasn't taking the piss. ..

Merely pointing out the facts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss

I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither

was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..

I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time.

I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited "

Ok you may not have meant it like that, I apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You too persha36

Oh oh what did i do wrong

Agreeing with that dusky sounds, op just looking to see what he doing wrong or looking some pointers and some smart ass takes the piss

I didn't think she was taken the piss, neither was i, op asked for what he thought was going against him...she answered in her opinion honestly and i agreed with her..

I think her final sentence pretty much nailed her colours to the taking the piss mast, I've been wrong before though. Still don't think I'm wrong this time.

I cant speak for her but i wasn't taking the piss and i didn't think she was either, a more a " really you cant tell " type thing rather than mean spirited "

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By *iving guy95 OP   Man
over a year ago

lusk

I put up a question to see if there's something I might be doing wrong and as on the forum it takes a life of its own thank you for some of the good advice I will put more pic on my profile and info but to the people who took the piss I looking for help now to be slagged off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 50's on FAB??

It will NEVER happen!! "

Ahemmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 52 and going no where yet fab is stuck with me for a while longer

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Over 50's on FAB??

It will NEVER happen!!

Ahemmmmm "

.

Oh there's always one!!!!

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