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By *urveysiren OP   Couple
over a year ago

city.

How do people feel about meeting people that live relatively close to where they live themselves.

Would people prefer to travel to meet so as to minimise the chance of meeting someone you know?

Any thoughts on either?

Siren, xx.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"How do people feel about meeting people that live relatively close to where they live themselves.

Would people prefer to travel to meet so as to minimise the chance of meeting someone you know?

Any thoughts on either?

Siren, xx. "

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Depends on the people involved... have met some quite near.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not too so I dont have to bump into them in everyday life or that we dont have any mutual friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer not too so I dont have to bump into them in everyday life or that we dont have any mutual friends"

This

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Close is a relative thing. I've met people within a mile of me but a mile in Dublin is very different to a mile in Leitrim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since rural Ireland invariably means only two degrees of separation, best not to meet anyone living too close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a phrase that cums to mind

Never s**t on ur own doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a phrase that cums to mind

Never s**t on ur own doorstep "

Yeah, who wants to be tripping over them every week in Aldi? Or worse, they pitch up as the newbie at your workplace

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

Definitely prefer to travel. Lot easier & minimises the risk of bumping into someone you might know.

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over a year ago

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't want anyone to knock on my front or back door....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want anyone to knock on my front or back door...."

Lol .... There would be a que down the street DH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh uh.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't want anyone to knock on my front or back door....

Lol .... There would be a que down the street DH "

Hmm I doubt that.... anyhow one is already one too many.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me "

Oh god no !!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me "

Jeeeaysus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus! "

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If both parties understand each other's boundaries outside of the meet then it's a perfect scenario.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back..."

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission "

When you say fired,you mean lost his job,or burnt at the stake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If both parties understand each other's boundaries outside of the meet then it's a perfect scenario. "

Yes, trouble is, there are far too many people here who have no idea what a boundary might be, or discretion either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If both parties understand each other's boundaries outside of the meet then it's a perfect scenario.

Yes, trouble is, there are far too many people here who have no idea what a boundary might be, or discretion either."

I see what you mean and get it. I'm very forward when explaining what is what and what a meet is myself but totally see your point. I have heard from some ladies of guys getting a bit clingy and vice versa don't get it myself

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission

When you say fired,you mean lost his job,or burnt at the stake? "

It was only the first. He deserved the second though, while impaled on the stake as well. Bastard!

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By *ebel ogsCouple
over a year ago

west cork

Funny enough we've met a couple who live less than a mile from us and it was great and met a single lady who we went to school with that lives very close......both situations were fine as we chatted enough priar to meeting to know we all got on and respected each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neverrrrrr ,be too awkward !

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

Few years had a ONS with someone on a monday night. Met again on thurs at self service checkout in Tesco. Didn't bother me in the least, however she was mortified, abandoned her shopping.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Never.....i tend to travel and if i get a message from someone in my home town i politely tell them that they are too close to me and will not meet

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

Not through here but before we had a neighbour join us for my ex girls pleasure one night. A few months later I joined him and his new girlfriend, again all for her pleasure. They still live 2 doors down and it hasnt been an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission "

That's some weird gardening euphemism,right?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission

That's some weird gardening euphemism,right?"

No, bastard ate my sandwich as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission

That's some weird gardening euphemism,right?

No, bastard ate my sandwich as well! "

That sounds like a date gone wrong to me

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission

That's some weird gardening euphemism,right?"

Did you hear about the kinky gardener though...

He Rhododendron!

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

That very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Close is a relative thing. I've met people within a mile of me but a mile in Dublin is very different to a mile in Leitrim. "

This. It's different in the city.

Sure MM has shown up on my nearby list a few times.

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The awkward moment when they see in Tesco and start following your around and are shocked when you wont have a chat.... baring in mind I had my kids with me

Jeeeaysus!

You're lucky I didn't pull over to see if you'd any coffee left in your flask a while back...

A man got fired once for drinking my coffee without permission

That's some weird gardening euphemism,right?

Did you hear about the kinky gardener though...

He Rhododendron!

"

Pmsl .stolen

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Close is a relative thing. I've met people within a mile of me but a mile in Dublin is very different to a mile in Leitrim.

This. It's different in the city.

Sure MM has shown up on my nearby list a few times. "

Moi?

Woohoo!

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