FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, messaging a couple tonight to come meet at theirs. Swap face pics and all . Grand. Ask me to to drive to theirs, and then give them a number to confirm house number. As soon as I send number I'm blocked.

Turns out, I missed one digit of the phone number. Am I at fault or am I just getting in touch with shifty people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are prob playing games which is immature and stupid on their part. Name and shame!

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By *unlinguyMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Dont name and shame, these things happen. Learn from it. But naming and shaming will result in issues from the admins for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be that you were the latest in a line of people who they feel have let them down. And when they seen that you gave them a wrong number they flipped out and blocked you. Or they could be time wasters. Perhaps the truth is somewhere in the middle. Maybe they got cold feet. Everyone is allowed to change their mind at any point. They could have changed their minds and blocked you to avoid drama. It's a shitty thing to do but it does happen

You deal with this like an adult though. You just move on. Naming and shaming will get you a ban and it also kicks off a cycle of drama.

It's unfortunate that you didn't get your good night out but it could have been worse. There are stories of people being given dodgy addresses and driving 2 hours to find out that they were just being jerked about.

Hopefully you can get lucky next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster

Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made

And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??

If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont name and shame, these things happen. Learn from it. But naming and shaming will result in issues from the admins for yourself."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly if I was arranging a meet with someone and they gave me a wrong number , I would think they were messers and block them as well

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

You had 2 meets, both bailed according to your status....

"Two meets tonight, and both bailed. Fab is getting pretty shit"

So you gave one a number that didn't work... your fault not theirs.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

Maybe they rang the number and got though to the local parish priest and thought they were blocking him

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?"

Hit and Run??

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?"

One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure."

Is? They both fell through...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure.

Is? They both fell through..."

....beside that it isn't relevant.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure.

Is? They both fell through..."

Has high expectations, you got to give him that. Frigid with the digits by the sound of it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster

Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made

And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??

If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week "

He said shifty, not shitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster

Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made

And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??

If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week

He said shifty, not shitty

Well Shifty then just to keep people happy

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?"

I have had multiple meets in one day and I would guess so have many others on the site so it's not beyond the bounds of possibility that the OP could have got more than one meet in on any given night.

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure."

As the saying goes don't hate the player hate the game

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind

Sometimes a second or third meet is needed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they rang the number and got though to the local parish priest and thought they were blocking him

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aww this woman has watched the thorn birds

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind

Sometimes a second or third meet is needed...

Yep, one after the other all on the same day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe when they tried to call you on the number you sent and found out it did not work they blocked you as they may have thought you where a time waster

Mistakes happen but you can't really say their Shitty people because of a mistake you made

And to the poster who said name and shame for what reason do you think he should name and Shane,?? For someone blocking him??

If thats a reason to name and Shane id be named a few times a week

He said shifty, not shitty

Well Shifty then just to keep people happy

Nah, just for accuracy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's Shane that I really feel sorry for. He did nothing wrong

#justiceforshane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's Shane that I really feel sorry for. He did nothing wrong

#justiceforshane"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure.

Is? They both fell through...

Has high expectations, you got to give him that. Frigid with the digits by the sound of it though."

Brrrrr! Cold fingers, no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?

If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .

Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?

If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .

Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well . "

If it was someone I was interested to meet I'd some benefit of doubt first, question things rather than assuming and I'd probably notice a digit is missing.

Instablock is an over the top reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?

If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .

Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .

If it was someone I was interested to meet I'd some benefit of doubt first, question things rather than assuming and I'd probably notice a digit is missing.

Instablock is an over the top reaction "

Then I guess I'm just a lot more cynical then you

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?

If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .

Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well . "

To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.

I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?

If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .

Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .

To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.

I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter? "

Mmh I don't know maybe I've just been around to long . Any sign of someone being a messer which I would class this as , and I'm done might be harsh to some but I can understand why the couple blocked him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Michael go way out of that with your common sense

Block him then kill his family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Michael go way out of that with your common sense

Block him then kill his family "

Well killing his family might be a bit of an over reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Michael go way out of that with your common sense

Block him then kill his family

Well killing his family might be a bit of an over reaction

Mafia code.. Family, friends and dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Michael go way out of that with your common sense

Block him then kill his family

Well killing his family might be a bit of an over reaction

Mafia code.. Family, friends and dogs

Don't forget the horses head

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?

If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .

Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .

To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.

I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter?

I just think I'm capable of making the odd mistake myself so I'm happy to give others the benefit of the doubt to start with. Fair enough if people are perfect and don't tolerate the slightest mistake from anyone else but Jeez... It's harsh unless there's already some suspicion in the air.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fuck didn't expect so many replies. Thanks for your feedback everyone.

Kind of left me in a shifty mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

One at a time? Wham bam thank you mam? Set an alarm? Man is a godamn player for sure."

Haha I wish lol, no, one was set up a couple of days ago and they pulled out last minute, then the other was impromptu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Typo in the number... Block the bastard quick.

Or maybe just learn to relax a bit

Would you really take someone seriously who you were arranging to meet after you text or call the number they gave and it isn't them ?

If I'm texting someone or calling them I usually say hi and tell them that I'm meanduforfun from fab , so I'd then have outed myself to god knows who .

Then there's the scenario where the number doesn't even exist , instant block as well .

To be fair though, if there's a digit missing from the number then you haven't outed yourself to anyone.

I think blocking instantly for a presumably silly mistake is rather harsh. Surely a quick pm would clarify the matter?

I never said I was perfect, OP asked for opinions , I gave mine just because it isn't the same as yours does not mean it is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, messaging a couple tonight to come meet at theirs. Swap face pics and all . Grand. Ask me to to drive to theirs, and then give them a number to confirm house number. As soon as I send number I'm blocked.

Turns out, I missed one digit of the phone number. Am I at fault or am I just getting in touch with shifty people?

Name and shame. All that will happen is you'll get a forum ban...big shit. At least we'll all know who the timewasters are and you'll feel a lot better too. Go for it

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?

Oooo multiple meets eh? Impressive but sloppy seconds comes to mind

seeing as I would be the one giving rather than receiving sloppy seconds don't really come into play but I know some females that have had meet after meet over a weekend and it probably ran into sloppy twentyseconds

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"It's Shane that I really feel sorry for. He did nothing wrong

#justiceforshane"

was waiting for someone to pick up on that

thought someone would mistake it for a name and shame

But not to worry sure Rick did away with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's Shane that I really feel sorry for. He did nothing wrong

#justiceforshane"

So glad my little typo brought a little laughter into your day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How were you going to fit 2 meets into one night anyhow OP?"

Fab Panda meet

Eat, shoots and leaves

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