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"What is it with guys on fab that are really keen to meet you but let you down?? We leave the nice ones veris so should fab have a list we name & shame the ones that let us down?? Anyone feeling frustrated??" I've suggested a system like verifying for repeat offenders to get a red tick like the green verification but shouted out by the vocal few that would be in fear of having it applied to them, I even made it clear that the reporting would need to include screenshots confirming the meet and so forth, only for that to be ignored cause people would abuse it. | |||
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" Screenshots can be altered. " And cross checked to the server side message back up also. And if you alter the levels on an image you can see if it's it's been photoshopped. And do you know how to alter a screenshot? photoshopping a message would involve font matching and pixel height correction a lot of work beyond the majority of the site users. The photoshop is magic defence is crap. | |||
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"What is it with guys on fab that are really keen to meet you but let you down?? We leave the nice ones veris so should fab have a list we name & shame the ones that let us down?? Anyone feeling frustrated??" i was let down last week with couple all aggred the nite before for 6:30 in the hotel and no show really pissed off | |||
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" Screenshots can be altered. And cross checked to the server side message back up also. And if you alter the levels on an image you can see if it's it's been photoshopped. And do you know how to alter a screenshot? photoshopping a message would involve font matching and pixel height correction a lot of work beyond the majority of the site users. The photoshop is magic defence is crap." I haven't got a fuckin clue how to alter a screen shot. I can't even takea screen shot on a phone!. But plenty of more technically minded people about than I am. (The other stuff you wrote went over my head I'm afraid). Do you think admin would have time to check all these screenshots out? Actually you wouldn't even have to alter a screenshot. ... I change my very good friends name on my phone to someone I don't like. I then get her to send me a message confirming our meet. I then report to admin with screenshot (that I got my very good friend to take) that this person didn't show up. 3 TIMES no less. (Yes, more fool me). - hey presto that person is now on the naughty list. | |||
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" Screenshots can be altered. And cross checked to the server side message back up also. And if you alter the levels on an image you can see if it's it's been photoshopped. And do you know how to alter a screenshot? photoshopping a message would involve font matching and pixel height correction a lot of work beyond the majority of the site users. The photoshop is magic defence is crap. I haven't got a fuckin clue how to alter a screen shot. I can't even takea screen shot on a phone!. But plenty of more technically minded people about than I am. (The other stuff you wrote went over my head I'm afraid). Do you think admin would have time to check all these screenshots out? Actually you wouldn't even have to alter a screenshot. ... I change my very good friends name on my phone to someone I don't like. I then get her to send me a message confirming our meet. I then report to admin with screenshot (that I got my very good friend to take) that this person didn't show up. 3 TIMES no less. (Yes, more fool me). - hey presto that person is now on the naughty list. " I'm talking about on site messages, why would admin entertain non site issues? Confirm the meet on the site and then be able to reference the message so admin can confirm, and bang on the naughty list after strike three. The lack of accountability/consequence is one of the problems with the site. | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob" The flaw there is they hide said veri and show a summary.. hey presto a verified wanker | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob" Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... | |||
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"But...it's not the sites problem, it's people." Then why have it as an option for reporting? Placebo effect? You sign up, you agree to the T's and C's you abide by the rules and if you're spineless enough to stand people up repeatedly you should be held accountable and sent packing. | |||
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"But...it's not the sites problem, it's people." Yes. Who to believe is the biggest question. I've seen numerous threads about no shows fall apart when it turns out that not all is as it seems. The person accused of the no show has usually been castrated in their absence before a different version of the story appears. | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive..." It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up." I don't show mine | |||
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"But...it's not the sites problem, it's people. Then why have it as an option for reporting? Placebo effect? You sign up, you agree to the T's and C's you abide by the rules and if you're spineless enough to stand people up repeatedly you should be held accountable and sent packing." And how do you know they're not? The site has a system in place, they seem happy with it. These people just start a new profile & do the same again, what you need is a system to deal with them, then you don't have a problem. | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. I don't show mine " Well i can verify that you are very real and very sexy Im only talking about guys there | |||
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" Screenshots can be altered. And cross checked to the server side message back up also. And if you alter the levels on an image you can see if it's it's been photoshopped. And do you know how to alter a screenshot? photoshopping a message would involve font matching and pixel height correction a lot of work beyond the majority of the site users. The photoshop is magic defence is crap. I haven't got a fuckin clue how to alter a screen shot. I can't even takea screen shot on a phone!. But plenty of more technically minded people about than I am. (The other stuff you wrote went over my head I'm afraid). Do you think admin would have time to check all these screenshots out? Actually you wouldn't even have to alter a screenshot. ... I change my very good friends name on my phone to someone I don't like. I then get her to send me a message confirming our meet. I then report to admin with screenshot (that I got my very good friend to take) that this person didn't show up. 3 TIMES no less. (Yes, more fool me). - hey presto that person is now on the naughty list. I'm talking about on site messages, why would admin entertain non site issues? Confirm the meet on the site and then be able to reference the message so admin can confirm, and bang on the naughty list after strike three. The lack of accountability/consequence is one of the problems with the site." Gonna need a big rise in the number of admin to take care of all the no shows | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up." Really? If someone has their business private, I'd try & respect that. | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. I don't show mine Well i can verify that you are very real and very sexy Im only talking about guys there " Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. I don't show mine Well i can verify that you are very real and very sexy Im only talking about guys there Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? " You're what? | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. Really? If someone has their business private, I'd try & respect that. " Quite a lot of the wasters are already verified and the veris are hidden The reason? We have a mesh of verification's on here one person multiple accounts and they cross veri. Admin should deal with this but it would be extremely hard to pin it down for certain. | |||
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" Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? " Yes And im a guy as well | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. I don't show mine Well i can verify that you are very real and very sexy Im only talking about guys there Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? You're what? " I hardly need to be asked to do that | |||
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" Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? Yes And im a guy as well " Yes you are a guy .... Who has no veries showing ! | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. Really? If someone has their business private, I'd try & respect that. " Well there is an unfortunate truth is what he says. Mine are hidden because of jealousy by a couple turned down who sent nasty PMS to them. Now I don't give nor recieve veris. Only need a couple to verify i am who i say i am and that's all that's needed. | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. I don't show mine Well i can verify that you are very real and very sexy Im only talking about guys there Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? You're what? " *Your | |||
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" Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? Yes And im a guy as well Yes you are a guy .... Who has no veries showing !" Ok so Lets work this out Firstly read the profile Realise that i am part of a couple and check the other profile Veris show there yes? Also think why i have a cam veri when i never cam? The reason? When this account got set up i needed to be verified so i could chat in the chatroom so a very helpful mod helped me out Now there you go | |||
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"Gonna need a big rise in the number of admin to take care of all the no shows" With the DAU numbers of the site, advertising, a sex toy site partnership and the revenue from subscriptions that should be simple and would show a desire to actually improve the site experience. | |||
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"Gonna need a big rise in the number of admin to take care of all the no shows With the DAU numbers of the site, advertising, a sex toy site partnership and the revenue from subscriptions that should be simple and would show a desire to actually improve the site experience." Do admin get paid then? | |||
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"If admin got rid of the fakes and timewaster there would be very few people left on here " | |||
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"Gonna need a big rise in the number of admin to take care of all the no shows With the DAU numbers of the site, advertising, a sex toy site partnership and the revenue from subscriptions that should be simple and would show a desire to actually improve the site experience. Do admin get paid then?" Maybe message admin and ask? | |||
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"Gonna need a big rise in the number of admin to take care of all the no shows With the DAU numbers of the site, advertising, a sex toy site partnership and the revenue from subscriptions that should be simple and would show a desire to actually improve the site experience. Do admin get paid then? Maybe message admin and ask?" I was assuming you knew when you went on about revenue. I thought you meant the site would have the money to pay them. Good luck with sending your suggestion to site feedback | |||
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" Ah here So I should show mine because I'm a guy??? Yes And im a guy as well Yes you are a guy .... Who has no veries showing ! Ok so Lets work this out Firstly read the profile Realise that i am part of a couple and check the other profile Veris show there yes? Also think why i have a cam veri when i never cam? The reason? When this account got set up i needed to be verified so i could chat in the chatroom so a very helpful mod helped me out Now there you go " Again ... ah here ! juicynhard & hardnjuicy? Ffs And both couples but one is a male single? And you want single males to show veris yet you are posing as a couple on one of your accounts? Cmon .... | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account " Are you juicy or hard? | |||
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"Gonna need a big rise in the number of admin to take care of all the no shows With the DAU numbers of the site, advertising, a sex toy site partnership and the revenue from subscriptions that should be simple and would show a desire to actually improve the site experience. Do admin get paid then? Maybe message admin and ask? I was assuming you knew when you went on about revenue. I thought you meant the site would have the money to pay them. Good luck with sending your suggestion to site feedback " . Admin might get "Benefit in kind"!! | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account Are you juicy or hard?" I would be the female half, kinda obvious as it says so on the profile... | |||
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" Again ... ah here ! juicynhard & hardnjuicy? Ffs And both couples but one is a male single? And you want single males to show veris yet you are posing as a couple on one of your accounts? Cmon .... " Are you for real? First line on the profile Chat account for juicynhard which is operated by hard. Both are set up as couples profiles because A We are a couple B We are a couple C We are a couple D .......... are you getting the message yet? We both use the chatroom and by site rules it is permitted to have a second account for chat. As long as it is stated on the profile which it is. | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account Are you juicy or hard? I would be the female half, kinda obvious as it says so on the profile... " . One would have to read it first!! | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account Are you juicy or hard? I would be the female half, kinda obvious as it says so on the profile... " My bad it does mention it | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account Are you juicy or hard? I would be the female half, kinda obvious as it says so on the profile... My bad it does mention it " I always thought the huge pair of boobs gave it away | |||
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" Again ... ah here ! juicynhard & hardnjuicy? Ffs And both couples but one is a male single? And you want single males to show veris yet you are posing as a couple on one of your accounts? Cmon .... Are you for real? First line on the profile Chat account for juicynhard which is operated by hard. Both are set up as couples profiles because A We are a couple B We are a couple C We are a couple D .......... are you getting the message yet? We both use the chatroom and by site rules it is permitted to have a second account for chat. As long as it is stated on the profile which it is. " But it's a profile for a guy isn't it? Not a couple? The other one is for the "couple" is it not? | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account Are you juicy or hard? I would be the female half, kinda obvious as it says so on the profile... My bad it does mention it I always thought the huge pair of boobs gave it away " Some men are tits as well though | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account Are you juicy or hard? I would be the female half, kinda obvious as it says so on the profile... My bad it does mention it I always thought the huge pair of boobs gave it away " Not Really most couple profile use a female profile pic | |||
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" Again ... ah here ! juicynhard & hardnjuicy? Ffs And both couples but one is a male single? And you want single males to show veris yet you are posing as a couple on one of your accounts? Cmon .... Are you for real? First line on the profile Chat account for juicynhard which is operated by hard. Both are set up as couples profiles because A We are a couple B We are a couple C We are a couple D .......... are you getting the message yet? We both use the chatroom and by site rules it is permitted to have a second account for chat. As long as it is stated on the profile which it is. But it's a profile for a guy isn't it? Not a couple? The other one is for the "couple" is it not?" Well, we can access both accounts, and by that reasoning then the account I mainly use should then be classed as a single female. That doesn't make sense to me | |||
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"In fairness the veris are shown my half of our couple account Are you juicy or hard? I would be the female half, kinda obvious as it says so on the profile... My bad it does mention it I always thought the huge pair of boobs gave it away Not Really most couple profile use a female profile pic " The word most, but not all... | |||
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" But it's a profile for a guy isn't it? Not a couple? The other one is for the "couple" is it not?" Both profiles are couples profiles as we are a couple that meet some couples or some singles to spice up our life as a couple that got married as a couple and are now a couple that is called a married couple. Very happily married couple actually. | |||
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" Again ... ah here ! juicynhard & hardnjuicy? Ffs And both couples but one is a male single? And you want single males to show veris yet you are posing as a couple on one of your accounts? Cmon .... Are you for real? First line on the profile Chat account for juicynhard which is operated by hard. Both are set up as couples profiles because A We are a couple B We are a couple C We are a couple D .......... are you getting the message yet? We both use the chatroom and by site rules it is permitted to have a second account for chat. As long as it is stated on the profile which it is. But it's a profile for a guy isn't it? Not a couple? The other one is for the "couple" is it not? Well, we can access both accounts, and by that reasoning then the account I mainly use should then be classed as a single female. That doesn't make sense to me " True Which leads to confusion in itself. For instance in theory I could be talking to either of you on either account yet in both (in read them) It's mentioned who will be operating each one. | |||
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" True Which leads to confusion in itself. For instance in theory I could be talking to either of you on either account yet in both (in read them) It's mentioned who will be operating each one. " In theory you could be talking to an Uzbekistani traffic warden but in reality the chances of that are quite slim. I dont reply to messages on the juicynhard profile and vice versa | |||
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" But it's a profile for a guy isn't it? Not a couple? The other one is for the "couple" is it not? Both profiles are couples profiles as we are a couple that meet some couples or some singles to spice up our life as a couple that got married as a couple and are now a couple that is called a married couple. Very happily married couple actually." I think by simply reviewing our conversation here it shows that all profiles can be deceiving by accident or by intention. Yes you guys are real but I could be answering your commentsearch on multiple profiles and there in lies a greater problem | |||
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"amazing how these posts always go off topic " That's half the fun of the forum | |||
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"amazing how these posts always go off topic " True My apologies | |||
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" But it's a profile for a guy isn't it? Not a couple? The other one is for the "couple" is it not? Both profiles are couples profiles as we are a couple that meet some couples or some singles to spice up our life as a couple that got married as a couple and are now a couple that is called a married couple. Very happily married couple actually. I think by simply reviewing our conversation here it shows that all profiles can be deceiving by accident or by intention. Yes you guys are real but I could be answering your commentsearch on multiple profiles and there in lies a greater problem " *comments | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up." What about the guys who've been verified by people who have left the site? When a person leaves the site so does the veri's they left, all that remains of the veri is in the veri summary | |||
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"And ive just seen a problem with my cunning plan If someone is verified genuinely and the verifier leaves the site it stays on the counter but the veri disappears. Ah well it was good while it lasted " To DoubleHunbun i already said that earlier | |||
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"Just verify him like this Lovely guy such a gentle touch its like he wasn't even there.Massive invisible cock that i would have loved more time with. Such a great conversationalist he just listened to me for hours before i enjoyed the most amazing imaginary love making ever. ...me either If people verified the no shows like that even if they are not shown they still show the guy up as a knob Would you show that verification? If it's hidden it changes to a profile positive... It does and this is where if someone does not show their veris then assume something is up. I don't show mine " | |||
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