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Second chance after a no show?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Master and I tried to organise a few guys to come play the other night, it was the usual carry on... Yes I be there etc etc, it was a 100 percent no show (worst percentage yet) but one guy took the biscuit entirely, messaged quite late on same evening he said he would come play, to say he had found a "young one" looking for a shag and would have to take a rain check for next time.... Seriously do guys like that get second chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shows are a pain in the arse...unless you actually know the person outside of fab, Id just block them and move on. Theres loads of genuine people who would be glad to show up...me included

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh he is blocked and obviously won't be taken up on the rain check but it just astounds me that people can even think like that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shows would get no more chances from me.

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland


"No shows would get no more chances from me. "

I'm with Lon on this. One chance only.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Unfortunately it happens not just with guys but cpls and fems are also guilty of this. It's a learning curve to try and sus out the time wasters from the genuine guys that we all have to learn

If there is a genuine reason reasonable notified to the other party Yes a second chance is given real life does upset the best made plans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens not just with guys but cpls and fems are also guilty of this. It's a learning curve to try and sus out the time wasters from the genuine guys that we all have to learn

If there is a genuine reason reasonable notified to the other party Yes a second chance is given real life does upset the best made plans "

Genuine reason and notification is fine. I've no problem with a second chance there - providing I believed them

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Unfortunately it happens not just with guys but cpls and fems are also guilty of this. It's a learning curve to try and sus out the time wasters from the genuine guys that we all have to learn

If there is a genuine reason reasonable notified to the other party Yes a second chance is given real life does upset the best made plans

Genuine reason and notification is fine. I've no problem with a second chance there - providing I believed them "

Yes nothing worse than getting a seemingly genuine reason then u see a meet go up or a new veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens not just with guys but cpls and fems are also guilty of this. It's a learning curve to try and sus out the time wasters from the genuine guys that we all have to learn

If there is a genuine reason reasonable notified to the other party Yes a second chance is given real life does upset the best made plans

Genuine reason and notification is fine. I've no problem with a second chance there - providing I believed them

Yes nothing worse than getting a seemingly genuine reason then u see a meet go up or a new veri "

That happened to me once. Made his excuse not to meet, I didn't particularly believe it but wasn't bothered. Then a new veri went up. If he'd had only told me the real reason - I'd have said Go for it. I'll meet you another time. Not now tho

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By *o hassleMan
over a year ago

moira


"Unfortunately it happens not just with guys but cpls and fems are also guilty of this. It's a learning curve to try and sus out the time wasters from the genuine guys that we all have to learn

If there is a genuine reason reasonable notified to the other party Yes a second chance is given real life does upset the best made plans

Genuine reason and notification is fine. I've no problem with a second chance there - providing I believed them

Probably got lost going to yours and managed to get a girl along that long road !!!!

Yes nothing worse than getting a seemingly genuine reason then u see a meet go up or a new veri

That happened to me once. Made his excuse not to meet, I didn't particularly believe it but wasn't bothered. Then a new veri went up. If he'd had only told me the real reason - I'd have said Go for it. I'll meet you another time. Not now tho "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No second chances here , plenty of people here Op who would only delighted for a chance to meet with ye . Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sam went to meet a well verified guy after lots of chats only for him not to show up. Came online later in the evening apologising with a pathetic excuse. No second chance, he is blocked and we have moved on.

It's unfortunate that a lot of single guys ruin it for the genuine ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was outside hotel told them i deleted there number could they send it again . Was told no so how can they say no one showed up when they didn't give out a number to contact them on

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Was outside hotel told them i deleted there number could they send it again . Was told no so how can they say no one showed up when they didn't give out a number to contact them on "

Was this the op Ken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes it was the op.... Number was sent in good faith and was deleted, some people need nurse maids me thinks.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No show is the only show for me. One chance is all they've got. I used to give a second chance but all too often it was characteristic and they repeated a no show. Have made a few exceptions when I know it was a genuine reason and a new meet was arranged but that's been rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately it happens not just with guys but cpls and fems are also guilty of this. It's a learning curve to try and sus out the time wasters from the genuine guys that we all have to learn

If there is a genuine reason reasonable notified to the other party Yes a second chance is given real life does upset the best made plans

Genuine reason and notification is fine. I've no problem with a second chance there - providing I believed them

Yes nothing worse than getting a seemingly genuine reason then u see a meet go up or a new veri "

Frustrating at least. Worse when it's a well known lady often on the top fab pics who is doing it repeatedly too. Gets away with it because of her pics....but these a growing group who know what she's at.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yes it was the op.... Number was sent in good faith and was deleted, some people need nurse maids me thinks....."

Yes no shows are very annoying, but you have a poster here saying you wouldn't send your number again because he accidentally deleted it . So how can you say no one turned up when he said he was at the hotel ?

Seem like some messing on your part as well op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it was the op.... Number was sent in good faith and was deleted, some people need nurse maids me thinks.....

Yes no shows are very annoying, but you have a poster here saying you wouldn't send your number again because he accidentally deleted it . So how can you say no one turned up when he said he was at the hotel ?

Seem like some messing on your part as well op "

"There are two sides to every story and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it was the op.... Number was sent in good faith and was deleted, some people need nurse maids me thinks.....

Yes no shows are very annoying, but you have a poster here saying you wouldn't send your number again because he accidentally deleted it . So how can you say no one turned up when he said he was at the hotel ?

Seem like some messing on your part as well op

"There are two sides to every story and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle ""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it was the op.... Number was sent in good faith and was deleted, some people need nurse maids me thinks.....

Yes no shows are very annoying, but you have a poster here saying you wouldn't send your number again because he accidentally deleted it . So how can you say no one turned up when he said he was at the hotel ?

Seem like some messing on your part as well op

"There are two sides to every story and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle ""

Your side... their side... and the truth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it was the op.... Number was sent in good faith and was deleted, some people need nurse maids me thinks.....

Yes no shows are very annoying, but you have a poster here saying you wouldn't send your number again because he accidentally deleted it . So how can you say no one turned up when he said he was at the hotel ?

Seem like some messing on your part as well op

"There are two sides to every story and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle "

Your side... their side... and the truth lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it was the op.... Number was sent in good faith and was deleted, some people need nurse maids me thinks.....

Yes no shows are very annoying, but you have a poster here saying you wouldn't send your number again because he accidentally deleted it . So how can you say no one turned up when he said he was at the hotel ?

Seem like some messing on your part as well op

"There are two sides to every story and the truth usually lies somewhere in the middle "

Your side... their side... and the truth lol "

Or maybe..." There is no truth. There is only perception.”

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If the excuse is believable and acceptable and I want to meet the guy I'd certainly give someone a second chance. We all have a life outside fab and unforeseen things can happen. While I always try to stick to my meets, I had to cancel meets too, it's just the way it is. However no shows with no notification wouldn't get a second chance, simples but so far I was lucky it never happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well if he is stupid enough to delete the number after it was given to him then why should we give it to him a second time? doesn't matter now anyway it's over and done with and my comment was more about the guy getting an offer of shagging a "young" one and wanting to take a rain check after saying he would be there.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry think it might be you both booking a hotel room and having know intention of meeting anyone who's the stupid ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then they block you very mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very annoying when someone doesn't turn up. We have had to cancel meets due to real life events but would never just not turn up. We were let down once by a couple who said they were just getting something to eat, 2 hours later we messaged them and no reply. The following day they said they fell asleep...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then they block you very mature"

Well it really does seem two sides to every story

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