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By *eehee161 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mullingar

Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore block move on. Seriously there are tons of people here who will cut you down for the slightest reason given the opportunity. It's a reflection of them really and I'd advise you not to let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

That was quite rude of him since you hadn't asked , I would simply just block and move on, don't give it too much energy by thinking about it and letting it upset you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not nice and as above poster said it is a reflection on the other person. Move on...least you weren't into them and secondly there's loads more guys to choose from. It happens alot to us guys too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you

would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

Forget it. Sounds like you've not missed anybody worth having. X

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Well as the saying goes.

Some guys don't like big girls because they don't have the equipment for the job.

Aparrently I am well equipped lol.

Sexiness is not a size, but an attitude, a bit of mischief etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame him....he deserves it. Absolutely no need to be ashamed of your body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

Was the offer of Gym tips part of a longer communication..did you mention that you had a desire to change and maybe start using a gym ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't name and shame you get a time out or posting rights taken away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

Tut tut he should be ashamed.

U sound hot hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on there is plenty of fools on this site that can't take rejection and resort to bullying when you refuse them. Don't let a small minded guy like that get you down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that happens to couples and Single males too, not an uncommon thing on here unfortunately we always go by personality not looks

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By *he JiggliesCouple
over a year ago

Athlone


"Block and move on there is plenty of fools on this site that can't take rejection and resort to bullying when you refuse them. Don't let a small minded guy like that get you down. "

Lol ur quoting me now. Ye loads can't take the rejection and resort to vile comments so their egos can recover. Not rite but that block and report button is the best way to deal with that

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By *eehee161 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mullingar

No . I never expressed a desire to change my lifemail. In facthe said to him had no time or motivation to go to a gym. Reason I like this site is thar there is a such a diversity of people here. Plenty of different types to choose. I don't really care about him anymore. I am the one who has to organise my inbox because of all the messages I get

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By *eehee161 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mullingar

And obviously a sense of humour. You ll go far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let any fecker on here put you down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *allDarknHandsomeMan
over a year ago

Waterford

There's lots of men and women that'll do that here, I think it has something to do with everyone being so upfront but it is a little thoughtless. I'm not sure if I prefer silence or an insult off of a girl I'm messaging I'd choose silence I think but then that's also frustrating. People aren't always great. Stupid sexy people.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I get it all the time. Usually asking what's wrong with my belly or when I had my sex change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of the beautiful actress Melissa McCarthy...I never felt the need to change, if you want something different...find somebody else.

Not a nice message op but we all get them. Head up, boobies out as you move on and block. You don't need to be with someone telling you how you should live your life, either they accept you in all your glory or move on, not try to change you. Happy fabbing as you are

Madame B

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I get it all the time. Usually asking what's wrong with my belly or when I had my sex change "

U had the change fook they are getting good at it love ur pics

Never mind the fookers there is plenty her not shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their problem op, not yours.

Block and move on

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

I wouldn't feel humiliated at all. You dodged a bullet. That sounds like one serious gaslighter.

Don't look back. Move on. There's better out there.

Best

Cx

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By *irebladexMan
over a year ago

Naas

Sure he'll be back on complaining he can't get a meet and invites to socials.

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

Sounds like an arsehole, just block and move on, it's his loss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a profile belonging to Milo Yiannopoulos

That's a drastic attempt at a joke (awkward, yet delivered with impeccable finesse)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a profile belonging to Milo Yiannopoulos

That's a drastic attempt at a joke (awkward, yet delivered with impeccable finesse)"

Whoah Whoah whoah

I won't you have you said bad things about him!

I havent a fucking clue why he is snuggling up to trump and right wings nut bags but he's dead right on most feminist matters

Yes I did it again... The f word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a profile belonging to Milo Yiannopoulos

That's a drastic attempt at a joke (awkward, yet delivered with impeccable finesse)

Whoah Whoah whoah

I won't you have you said bad things about him!

I havent a fucking clue why he is snuggling up to trump and right wings nut bags but he's dead right on most feminist matters

Yes I did it again... The f word "

My MAN,

Milo is of course a legend, he is brilliant. Nothing better than seeing him trigger social justice warriors and feminists then destroying them with intellect and facts.

(Triggered, what a ridiculous word)

Gavin McInnes is of course ranked up there also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a profile belonging to Milo Yiannopoulos

That's a drastic attempt at a joke (awkward, yet delivered with impeccable finesse)

Whoah Whoah whoah

I won't you have you said bad things about him!

I havent a fucking clue why he is snuggling up to trump and right wings nut bags but he's dead right on most feminist matters

Yes I did it again... The f word

My MAN,

Milo is of course a legend, he is brilliant. Nothing better than seeing him trigger social justice warriors and feminists then destroying them with intellect and facts.

(Triggered, what a ridiculous word)

Gavin McInnes is of course ranked up there also.

"

Go away woman hater

And take your god darn logic with you, we don't like y'all round these parts

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Definitely a profile belonging to Milo Yiannopoulos

That's a drastic attempt at a joke (awkward, yet delivered with impeccable finesse)

Whoah Whoah whoah

I won't you have you said bad things about him!

I havent a fucking clue why he is snuggling up to trump and right wings nut bags but he's dead right on most feminist matters

Yes I did it again... The f word

My MAN,

Milo is of course a legend, he is brilliant. Nothing better than seeing him trigger social justice warriors and feminists then destroying them with intellect and facts.

(Triggered, what a ridiculous word)

Gavin McInnes is of course ranked up there also.

Go away woman hater

And take your god darn logic with you, we don't like y'all round these parts "

Flash, Get your coat, you've pulled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a profile belonging to Milo Yiannopoulos

That's a drastic attempt at a joke (awkward, yet delivered with impeccable finesse)

Whoah Whoah whoah

I won't you have you said bad things about him!

I havent a fucking clue why he is snuggling up to trump and right wings nut bags but he's dead right on most feminist matters

Yes I did it again... The f word

My MAN,

Milo is of course a legend, he is brilliant. Nothing better than seeing him trigger social justice warriors and feminists then destroying them with intellect and facts.

(Triggered, what a ridiculous word)

Gavin McInnes is of course ranked up there also.

Go away woman hater

And take your god darn logic with you, we don't like y'all round these parts "

Take your evidence and facts of the pay divide elsewhere, it does not agree with our agenda.

I used "man" sorry, I'm gender binary, non-binary, T-2000 self identifying as a emperor penguin Apache attack helicopter, until Sundays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry I'm donating 23% of my ill gotten gains to a fund for oppressed hens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm donating 23% of my ill gotten gains to a fund for oppressed hens"

We are so privileged, "white privilege"

I am buying my feminist group some thongs and nipple tassels for their feminist march and protests, their logic is unquestionable, love those ladies.

Sorry I meant non-recognising innate beings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm donating 23% of my ill gotten gains to a fund for oppressed hens

We are so privileged, "white privilege"

I am buying my feminist group some thongs and nipple tassels for their feminist march and protests, their logic is unquestionable, love those ladies.

Sorry I meant non-recognising innate beings "

That's like so totally intersectional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry I'm donating 23% of my ill gotten gains to a fund for oppressed hens

We are so privileged, "white privilege"

I am buying my feminist group some thongs and nipple tassels for their feminist march and protests, their logic is unquestionable, love those ladies.

Sorry I meant non-recognising innate beings

That's like so totally intersectional"

You seem cool, you want to come to my BA(hons) graduation? I got a 1st in Womens Studies?

Also if you have the time I am holding a feminist meeting in Manchester where we are using advanced internet encryption methodologies to secretly and securely communicate with our sister group in Pakistan to tell them how bad our rights are and the severe lack of inequality we face each day. (p.s she can show here face for security reasons)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You seem cool, you want to come to my BA(hons) graduation? I got a 1st in Womens Studies?

"

Wow lucky you, I tried my hardest to erode all my common sense but could only muster a 2:1

And I kept mixing up cis and gender fluid... In fact I still can't figure it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open your mind bigblackdog and your heart will follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You seem cool, you want to come to my BA(hons) graduation? I got a 1st in Womens Studies?

Wow lucky you, I tried my hardest to erode all my common sense but could only muster a 2:1

And I kept mixing up cis and gender fluid... In fact I still can't figure it out

"

Awk that's no problems, we can still print and publicise our lies, so you are fine.

It can be difficult tho, Lucky enough we had a guest speaker for our science module - Barbra Streisand

"Gender inequality even extends to mice in the labs. They’re all male! …So even female mice are discriminated against! When I asked why, the answer I got was that female mice have hormones so they’re more complex. Well, so are women!"

Logic Approved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get your PhD you can peer review my groundbreaking theory of toxic masculinity... Then it will become a verified facts.. Hard (social) science says so

I just see the headlines "boffins have found that all men are cunts"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the words of the beautiful actress Melissa McCarthy...I never felt the need to change, if you want something different...find somebody else.

Not a nice message op but we all get them. Head up, boobies out as you move on and block. You don't need to be with someone telling you how you should live your life, either they accept you in all your glory or move on, not try to change you. Happy fabbing as you are

Madame B "

I wouldn't consider her beautiful by any stretch of the imagination. Each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you get your PhD you can peer review my groundbreaking theory of toxic masculinity... Then it will become a verified facts.. Hard (social) science says so

I just see the headlines "boffins have found that all men are cunts""

Of course I will, sounds fantastic, and that is so true.

I know "men" created

- The Television

- The laser

- The internet

- The plane

- The steam engine

- The hair curler

- The hair straightener

- Fake eyelashes

- The hair dryer

- The pill

- The modern day tampon

- The camera

- The radio

but they are useless, xenophobic, racist pigs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

You feel humiliated yet you decided to share it on a public forum. Any particular reason why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you.

You feel humiliated yet you decided to share it on a public forum. Any particular reason why?"

You OK hun?xxx

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By *lavemale66Man
over a year ago

Carlow


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

Ignorant, rude f**kwit he was. Block and move on. I'm sure you're a wonderful lady so deserve better than that fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked myself and I'm moving on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you.

You feel humiliated yet you decided to share it on a public forum. Any particular reason why?

You OK hun?xxx"

oh to be 98 years old again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

What a wanker I love curvy girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

Now's your chance to personality shame!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's subtle. Better than the usual fat cow or you're fat, you shouldn't be picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To many rude people here...it costs nothing to have manners..smile and move on there not worth ur time nor the rite person to be lucky enough to get a chance to explore and enjoy ur desires. X

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By *rBakersMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare/wicklow


"Dont let any fecker on here put you down!"

As the marvelous miz says don't let them get to you. Their loss, not yours!

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By *eehee161 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mullingar


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you.

You feel humiliated yet you decided to share it on a public forum. Any particular reason why?"

The reason I decided to share was this is going on all the time on this site. It's a site for people to meet and have some adult fun. We are all different types. I told him twice I didn't want to talk to him that but he said we ll see. Fair enough. He knew I didn't do the gym. He told me that I was a little on the big side for him. Big deal but to come back and offer gym tips was a bit too much. It made me feel that fab is only for the beautiful people , but you know what we are all beautiful.I try and be nice to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you.

You feel humiliated yet you decided to share it on a public forum. Any particular reason why?

The reason I decided to share was this is going on all the time on this site. It's a site for people to meet and have some adult fun. We are all different types. I told him twice I didn't want to talk to him that but he said we ll see. Fair enough. He knew I didn't do the gym. He told me that I was a little on the big side for him. Big deal but to come back and offer gym tips was a bit too much. It made me feel that fab is only for the beautiful people , but you know what we are all beautiful.I try and be nice to people.

"

Also maybe the guy was trying to help you and that humiliation is your own internal thing. Because perhaps maybe you're not happy with your weight and you wanna make a change for you. Depends on the angle. I'd change the angle to a positive one. Beautiful doesn't mean skinny fit person. Plenty of overweight people are beautiful people. They just have bad diets and not enough Excercise. For you, I hope you take the tips and start a new chapter in your health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you.

You feel humiliated yet you decided to share it on a public forum. Any particular reason why?

The reason I decided to share was this is going on all the time on this site. It's a site for people to meet and have some adult fun. We are all different types. I told him twice I didn't want to talk to him that but he said we ll see. Fair enough. He knew I didn't do the gym. He told me that I was a little on the big side for him. Big deal but to come back and offer gym tips was a bit too much. It made me feel that fab is only for the beautiful people , but you know what we are all beautiful.I try and be nice to people.

"

Fab is a rich mix of likes and dislikes , there literally is someone for everyone. Anyone who has been here for awhile has experienced some sort of negativity, it comes with the territory and will never change. It's not a place for the thin skinned or easily offended. The best weapon you have against the negative comments is your block button. If everyone that received a negative comment decided to start a thread about it, can you imagine what the boards would read like ! . If I'm honest, threads of this nature serve no penalty on the perpetrator,it only serves to show that he succeed in causing you distress.

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By *eehee161 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mullingar


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

Cheeky fecker....whatever next.....Lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning. "

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment "

And stop banging on about equality and women's right like a naive teenager.

Learn timing and respect first

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By *eehee161 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mullingar


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning. "

Don't like kebabs. So I can't blame being fat on them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

And stop banging on about equality and women's right like a naive teenager.

Learn timing and respect first "

You need to build a bridge fella. Take a breath and remember I don't care. Hope you got that

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning. "

While being overweight/obesity is a struggle for many especially older people and so an increasing problem in many first world nation, in Ireland in particular as we're leading in Europe, this isn't the site to tell, teach and patronise overweight people. We're all here for fun and not to be lectured and body shamed.

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

What kind of not asks your dress size??


"Just got body shamed for want of a better word. Messaged by a guy which I was nt really into messaging back. Seemed to busy for me but he was persistent. Any way asked me my dress size then said I was a little to big for him. I am 16 to 18. Fair enough. But then in another message he offered to give me gym tips. Please state on your profiles what kind of person you would like to meet. I feel a little humiliated but that's life for you. "

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By *ony8054Man
over a year ago

Cork

What kind of nut I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore him !!

It states in your profile " curvy"

He should of read your profile and not contacted you if a woman's size is an issue for him ...

That's his problem not yours !!

Everyone has different things they find attractive in a person and him being shallow is not attractive ....

And remember there are lots of lovely people on fab who will find you hot as feck, so don't let him make you feel humiliated

HIS LOSS !!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

And stop banging on about equality and women's right like a naive teenager.

Learn timing and respect first "

You tell 'em, Flash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore him !!

It states in your profile " curvy"

He should of read your profile and not contacted you if a woman's size is an issue for him ...

That's his problem not yours !!

Everyone has different things they find attractive in a person and him being shallow is not attractive ....

And remember there are lots of lovely people on fab who will find you hot as feck, so don't let him make you feel humiliated

HIS LOSS !!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

And stop banging on about equality and women's right like a naive teenager.

Learn timing and respect first "

Are you mad cause you're the same height as the average woman. Awe... is it small man syndrome, don't worry honey some girls like the micro man

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

are you sure your here for fun DH .but I agree with you it shouldn't be discussed here.we're all on here for fun irrespective of body size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that thread escalated quickly...

Can we acknowledge that people have different preferences when it comes to body type and character?

We all live our lives differently; therefore some are bigger, some are skinner. Nobody is perfect, so who are we to judge?

If someone isn't your type, move on.

C

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Sum people on this site can be so rude and no wonder most ladies either leave the site or block single males . I have met this beautiful lady and she is down to earth. Really good company and has great personality and very genuine no messing about and deserves respect like all ladies should get . All the best mick x

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment "

I'm afraid I agree with the comment about reviewing the profile bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

I'm afraid I agree with the comment about reviewing the profile bio. "

Such as what. Is obesity something and being unhealthy something we should normalize. Despite your feelings I'm only talking on the subject honestly if that triggered ya soz

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

I'm afraid I agree with the comment about reviewing the profile bio.

Such as what. Is obesity something and being unhealthy something we should normalize. Despite your feelings I'm only talking on the subject honestly if that triggered ya soz "

Such as what?

I'll just assume that you're asking advice on your profile and so I'll answer your question.

The last three lines of your profile for starters. You stated that you were open minded and had respect for boundaries. If you're being honest as you say, fair enough. I'll accept your statement. But it doesn't necessarily mean I agree with it.

I think it's a case of agreeing to disagree here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

And stop banging on about equality and women's right like a naive teenager.

Learn timing and respect first

Are you mad cause you're the same height as the average woman. Awe... is it small man syndrome, don't worry honey some girls like the micro man "

I'm not mad at all, just embarrassed for you

Were you trying to body shame me for real? Lol

Nice try but I'm not lacking self confidence and I definitely don't feel the need to make personal insults towards internet strangers to help get over my own anger issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can disagree that is fine, but how am I displaying no respect for boundaries or that I don't have an open mind. Open mind means going with evidence, by the way. What's the problem with my statement. It's not aimed or intent to hurt, others take that perhaps. But it's just factual really, if I'm wrong I'm open to correction based on reason

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

This is going well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

And stop banging on about equality and women's right like a naive teenager.

Learn timing and respect first

Are you mad cause you're the same height as the average woman. Awe... is it small man syndrome, don't worry honey some girls like the micro man

I'm not mad at all, just embarrassed for you

Were you trying to body shame me for real? Lol

Nice try but I'm not lacking self confidence and I definitely don't feel the need to make personal insults towards internet strangers to help get over my own anger issues"

Ok wee man. Good talk, off ya pop there Frodo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kudos on finding a girl to fuck you.

Some of us just go quietly about our business (meeting gorgeous girls) without the need to broadcast future conquests to the fab winds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kudos on finding a girl to fuck you.

Some of us just go quietly about our business (meeting gorgeous girls) without the need to broadcast future conquests to the fab winds "

Thanks brah, some are worth the shout out. You do you yeah xo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is really born fat or overweight. It's done by poor diet and not enough excercise. There's a tiny percentage of overweight people who fall into a medical reason bracket, 2%. Everyone else Is the first. We should let people have pride in that? well done. Same as junkie, not my business don't shame them lol. Let's support obesity all together now let's all pay for monility scooters when your too old to move cause of your kebab cushioning.

You might want to read over your profile bio and consider changing a few points after this comment

And stop banging on about equality and women's right like a naive teenager.

Learn timing and respect first

Are you mad cause you're the same height as the average woman. Awe... is it small man syndrome, don't worry honey some girls like the micro man

I'm not mad at all, just embarrassed for you

Were you trying to body shame me for real? Lol

Nice try but I'm not lacking self confidence and I definitely don't feel the need to make personal insults towards internet strangers to help get over my own anger issues

Ok wee man. Good talk, off ya pop there Frodo "

Frodo,now that made me chuckle

when I meet lovely ladies and I do, I don't shout about it ( I just shout about it in a forum post) without seeing the irony of my pathetic post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only ironic if someone is specifically named

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's only ironic if someone is specifically named "

Someone call Alanis for the wee man

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland

The guy that said that is ignorant and has no manners. Be proud of you and your size, you sound lovely in your profile. Its his loss not yours.

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