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"Its just a fantasy" I know its to do with the drink because on nights out we have ended up in strip clubs plus she has kissed girls in night clubs yet if you asked her she would deny it ever happened | |||
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"Its just a fantasy" I agree. People may have a fantasy but do not really want/have to act upon it. Just wondering though why do you have it on your profile that it is what your wife wants but yet you said here that she doesnt want to add someone else? | |||
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"She's in denial. " She is swimming in denial! | |||
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"Its just a fantasy I agree. People may have a fantasy but do not really want/have to act upon it. Just wondering though why do you have it on your profile that it is what your wife wants but yet you said here that she doesnt want to add someone else? " Sure this is my problem we watch porn together it turns her on she will say that she wants to add people to our sex life she has even gone as far as kissing another girl yet if i bring it up outside of the bedroom or the following day after a night out where she has brought the subject up she gets embarrassed aboit it | |||
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"Moses was in denial as well. " | |||
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"I'd suggest you drop the idea, unless it's more important to you than your marriage." we were out last night we both had a few drinks she turns to me and say see the couple at the bar are they not both fit id like for you to watch me with them we get home have great sex talking about what we would both do then thats it until the next time out of the blue she will bring it up | |||
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"She has bi- tendencies but isnt willing to confront or accept them yet. Pushing her about it wont get you answers either. If she doesnt understand whats going on in her mind when shes d*unk, shes hardly going to be able to explain it to you when shes sober. Shes talking the talk at the moment and not necessarily ready to walk the walk. Accept it as talk and move on. Causing conflict in your marriage isnt worth it Op. " | |||
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"She has bi- tendencies but isnt willing to confront or accept them yet. Pushing her about it wont get you answers either. If she doesnt understand whats going on in her mind when shes d*unk, shes hardly going to be able to explain it to you when shes sober. Shes talking the talk at the moment and not necessarily ready to walk the walk. Accept it as talk and move on. Causing conflict in your marriage isnt worth it Op. " | |||
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"Its just a fantasy I agree. People may have a fantasy but do not really want/have to act upon it. Just wondering though why do you have it on your profile that it is what your wife wants but yet you said here that she doesnt want to add someone else? Sure this is my problem we watch porn together it turns her on she will say that she wants to add people to our sex life she has even gone as far as kissing another girl yet if i bring it up outside of the bedroom or the following day after a night out where she has brought the subject up she gets embarrassed aboit it " The reality is its a fantasy for her and she doesnt want to act on it. Obviously she loves you and maybe she is just afraid that it could change things for the worse between you. I wouldnt organise things with another person/couple without her knowing about it! | |||
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"Never mention it again as she may say it when she is d*unk do you want to know what her biggest fantasy of all is? Being solely with the man she loves and only him and that is you so that's why she gets upset so I hope she knows you are on here and if not I'd advise you get off here and be with her as she clearly loves you, don't be blind our fella. " | |||
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"Its just a fantasy I agree. People may have a fantasy but do not really want/have to act upon it. Just wondering though why do you have it on your profile that it is what your wife wants but yet you said here that she doesnt want to add someone else? Sure this is my problem we watch porn together it turns her on she will say that she wants to add people to our sex life she has even gone as far as kissing another girl yet if i bring it up outside of the bedroom or the following day after a night out where she has brought the subject up she gets embarrassed aboit it The reality is its a fantasy for her and she doesnt want to act on it. Obviously she loves you and maybe she is just afraid that it could change things for the worse between you. I wouldnt organise things with another person/couple without her knowing about it! " | |||
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"send her out to me lol hehe " by dhl or regular post  | |||
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"send her out to me lol hehe by dhl or regular post "mmmmm I get to unwrap her lol | |||
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"send her out to me lol hehe by dhl or regular post mmmmm I get to unwrap her lol "it may take you awhile as she means the world to me id have her wrapped in bubblewrap lots of it and a sexy pair of knickers | |||
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"Its a major turn on for her to turn you on with this ..its her foreplay .... thats prob as far as it'll go " thats what im begining to think but in the right setting how far is she willing to go | |||
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"Never mention it again as she may say it when she is d*unk do you want to know what her biggest fantasy of all is? Being solely with the man she loves and only him and that is you so that's why she gets upset so I hope she knows you are on here and if not I'd advise you get off here and be with her as she clearly loves you, don't be blind our fella. " | |||
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"Its just a fantasy I agree. People may have a fantasy but do not really want/have to act upon it. Just wondering though why do you have it on your profile that it is what your wife wants but yet you said here that she doesnt want to add someone else? Sure this is my problem we watch porn together it turns her on she will say that she wants to add people to our sex life she has even gone as far as kissing another girl yet if i bring it up outside of the bedroom or the following day after a night out where she has brought the subject up she gets embarrassed aboit it The reality is its a fantasy for her and she doesnt want to act on it. Obviously she loves you and maybe she is just afraid that it could change things for the worse between you. I wouldnt organise things with another person/couple without her knowing about it! " | |||
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"I'd suggest you drop the idea, unless it's more important to you than your marriage. we were out last night we both had a few drinks she turns to me and say see the couple at the bar are they not both fit id like for you to watch me with them we get home have great sex talking about what we would both do then thats it until the next time out of the blue she will bring it up " I disagree with dropping it. I think it's something that deserves a conversation if its inportant to you. It's ok for her to discuss when d*unk but not you when sober? It doesn't have to become a reality but there's nothing wrong with discussing a fantasy with the person you married to  | |||
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"I'd suggest you drop the idea, unless it's more important to you than your marriage. we were out last night we both had a few drinks she turns to me and say see the couple at the bar are they not both fit id like for you to watch me with them we get home have great sex talking about what we would both do then thats it until the next time out of the blue she will bring it up I disagree with dropping it. I think it's something that deserves a conversation if its inportant to you. It's ok for her to discuss when d*unk but not you when sober? It doesn't have to become a reality but there's nothing wrong with discussing a fantasy with the person you married to "The only thing that pisses me off about the whole thing is marie will bring up the convo whenever she feels like and without me even pushing her on it yet if i bring it up its like im pushing it when im not its like its her thing | |||
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"I'd suggest you drop the idea, unless it's more important to you than your marriage. we were out last night we both had a few drinks she turns to me and say see the couple at the bar are they not both fit id like for you to watch me with them we get home have great sex talking about what we would both do then thats it until the next time out of the blue she will bring it up I disagree with dropping it. I think it's something that deserves a conversation if its inportant to you. It's ok for her to discuss when d*unk but not you when sober? It doesn't have to become a reality but there's nothing wrong with discussing a fantasy with the person you married to
The only thing that pisses me off about the whole thing is marie will bring up the convo whenever she feels like and without me even pushing her on it yet if i bring it up its like im pushing it when im not its like its her thing "Why are you telling us this, instead of your wife? | |||
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"I'm sure your eagerness to have a 3some is more important than hers so much so that instead of it happening you are willing to deceptively try arrange an orchestrated meet. Think out the scenario. Say you find a girl. You arrange to randomly meet her in a bar. Let's say it all goes well and Ye are in bed Ye have the best 3some known to man. What if the girl slips up and mentions fab and how Ye got to where Ye are. Remember there is liquor involved. What if she falls in love with you. What if she falls for your ur wife and try's to break up yer marriage. Let's face it for the type of girl to want to take part in your scheme she's not going to be,,, Let's say the most savoury person. You willing to loose it all for a fantasy. If that's the case go hire two escorts bang the shit out of them. It'll be a whole lot cheaper than a divorce id also say your head isn't fried from your wife not playing along and more so that your not getting your 3way. " fair point to be taken on bord | |||
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"The fantasy and the reality is totally diferent "it sounds like you have tried  | |||
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"Just keep her boozed up!! "Lololol | |||
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"Dude im not sure if it matters to you but you are not being very discreet. Using I assume your name as a profile name is one thing but you have also named your wife here as well! Is she ok with that? If not I suggest you ask admin to take this thread down
"Given that he managed to misspell his own first name, I'd have my suspicions that it might not be his real one. | |||
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"Dude im not sure if it matters to you but you are not being very discreet. Using I assume your name as a profile name is one thing but you have also named your wife here as well! Is she ok with that? If not I suggest you ask admin to take this thread down
"His name is Nail? | |||
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"Dude im not sure if it matters to you but you are not being very discreet. Using I assume your name as a profile name is one thing but you have also named your wife here as well! Is she ok with that? If not I suggest you ask admin to take this thread down
His name is Nail?"Ah cmon long 
I'm gna hazard a guess his name might be Nial | |||
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"Send her down to me and il 'interview' her to see is she up to the test "I asked first lol | |||
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"Dude im not sure if it matters to you but you are not being very discreet. Using I assume your name as a profile name is one thing but you have also named your wife here as well! Is she ok with that? If not I suggest you ask admin to take this thread down
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I'm gna hazard a guess his name might be Nial "Well I might have just found them, OP catch yourself on. | |||
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"Seems like this is more your fantasy than hers..... " May not be far wrong there....reading how this goes. | |||
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"Send her down to me and il 'interview' her to see is she up to the test I asked first lol "If she passes your test Crazy she'll be doing good xx | |||
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"Just keep her boozed up!! "Exactly!! | |||
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"OP, I think you are banging you're head against a brick wall. Maybe it's time to sit her down & tell her it's either start working on exploring the fantasy, or drop the subject and never bring it up again. There are a few who have the impression this is all about you, but let's look at it another way. Supposing partner A's fantasy was to take a 2 month long cruise. Partner B says "yes I'd love that too" but yet, if partner B brings up the subject or tries to do something about organising it partner A shoots it down. A few months later partner A brings up the subject again so partner B tries to keep the momentum going but gets shot down again. Repeat this scenario over several years. Is it not a form of mental/emotional torture to keep dangling something that a person wants in front of them, and then keep taking it away? Now I do realise there is a big difference between a cruise and having other people in your bed but the general 'here it is but you can't have attiude' is the same. " thanks for that its cleared alot of things up for me in my head i never looked at it that way yet it sums up what im feeling | |||
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