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By *edRoxyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Mayo

At what age do I become one? I know I'm not old and age has never really bothered me but gong myself going for younger guys lately

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

I don't think there is a clear age definition . At your current age I would deem you rather a Milf. Cougar IMHO would be a lady up from mid 40 who is pullling lads 10 to 15 years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how young the guys are I'd say. A ten year gap for you would be more 'cougerish' than a ten year gap for a 41 year old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think there is a clear age definition . At your current age I would deem you rather a Milf. Cougar IMHO would be a lady up from mid 40 who is pullling lads 10 to 15 years younger "

Guilty

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By *ex1981Man
over a year ago

right up your street , the wild Atlantic way , corby UK

What's the male equivalent to this conundrum.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. "
not sure sugar daddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. "

Sleezey pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think there is a clear age definition . At your current age I would deem you rather a Milf. Cougar IMHO would be a lady up from mid 40 who is pullling lads 10 to 15 years younger

Guilty "

boom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy "

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google."

Not necessarily true.

I don't seek out younger guys - they find me.

I'm more prey than huntress

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple
over a year ago

mayo


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google.

Not necessarily true.

I don't seek out younger guys - they find me.

I'm more prey than huntress "

Little miss innocent !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just consider myself opportunistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google.

Not necessarily true.

I don't seek out younger guys - they find me.

I'm more prey than huntress

Little miss innocent !!! "

See that halo shine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google.

Not necessarily true.

I don't seek out younger guys - they find me.

I'm more prey than huntress "

There was nothing personal in my comment.... My comment did suggest what you just stated...younger guys seeking older women.

So the question remains is a cougar actually defined as one who preys on weaker or can a cougar be preyed on herself? The word cougar suggests the first and it's origins seem to imply that it's the older woman being proactive in searching younger prey.

So in the true sense by your own admission you're not a cougar yet you predominantly meet much younger guys.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google."

I prefer older guys which makes me feel younger....that's about as much nonsense as the above....

Nothing more common than an older guy going for the young woman, says it as a sugar daddy ( the girls do often claim it's not sexual however we're not that naive), a younger girl friend, an affair, escort etc etcetera.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google.

Not necessarily true.

I don't seek out younger guys - they find me.

I'm more prey than huntress

There was nothing personal in my comment.... My comment did suggest what you just stated...younger guys seeking older women.

So the question remains is a cougar actually defined as one who preys on weaker or can a cougar be preyed on herself? The word cougar suggests the first and it's origins seem to imply that it's the older woman being proactive in searching younger prey.

So in the true sense by your own admission you're not a cougar yet you predominantly meet much younger guys."

Not predominantly. I meet based on attraction to personality. The age is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just consider myself opportunistic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just consider myself opportunistic "

Great answer.. when opportunity knocks you gotta let it in

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Duurty duurty wimmin!

Phwooarr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty over and over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty over and over again "

And proud of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guilty over and over again

And proud of it "
exactly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google.

Not necessarily true.

I don't seek out younger guys - they find me.

I'm more prey than huntress

There was nothing personal in my comment.... My comment did suggest what you just stated...younger guys seeking older women.

So the question remains is a cougar actually defined as one who preys on weaker or can a cougar be preyed on herself? The word cougar suggests the first and it's origins seem to imply that it's the older woman being proactive in searching younger prey.

So in the true sense by your own admission you're not a cougar yet you predominantly meet much younger guys.

Not predominantly. I meet based on attraction to personality. The age is irrelevant "

Same here, I'm young at heart, active and adventurous and tend to attract younger. I don't look at age at all....for me it's a mental attraction primarily.

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By *edRoxyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Mayo


"I don't think there is a clear age definition . At your current age I would deem you rather a Milf. Cougar IMHO would be a lady up from mid 40 who is pullling lads 10 to 15 years younger "

No kids so surely can't be a milf!

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By *edRoxyx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Mayo


"Depends on how young the guys are I'd say. A ten year gap for you would be more 'cougerish' than a ten year gap for a 41 year old lol "

I've managed to stay over 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real Cougar eats her prey when she is done playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A real Cougar eats her prey when she is done playing "

I'm willing to be eaten

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just enjoy yourself you don't need to be called a cougar to enjoy yourself . Anyway you can call yourself a cougar if you want no one is stopping you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. not sure sugar daddy

That's when the woman is prising more out of an older guy than sex...and for some it's not even sex they ate getting. It more a financial and gifting relationship.

Cougar is much more common than male equivalent. ...its more to do with the psych of both involved than anything else. As women get older they want to feel they still have it... few like feeling old so pulling younger helps. Younger guys likewise feel the same but in reverse...a macho thing for young guy to pull older ladies.

It's an interesting topic of human sexual behaviour to Google.

Not necessarily true.

I don't seek out younger guys - they find me.

I'm more prey than huntress "

loling a lot reading this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum. "

Slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geordie the prey? Lieeeeeees

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"What's the male equivalent to this conundrum.

Slut "

Optimist is the word we're looking for.

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

Just wondering at what age do we stop chasing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering at what age do we stop chasing them "

Pet peeve of mine to hear an older guy looking for a cougar when there is only a few years in age but obviously a bigger gap on maturity level's.

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo


"Just wondering at what age do we stop chasing them

Pet peeve of mine to hear an older guy looking for a cougar when there is only a few years in age but obviously a bigger gap on maturity level's. "

I'll simplify my comment,when is a cougar no longer a cougar ? If a woman in her say mid sixties is chasing guys in their forties is she still a cougar ?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just wondering at what age do we stop chasing them

Pet peeve of mine to hear an older guy looking for a cougar when there is only a few years in age but obviously a bigger gap on maturity level's.

I'll simplify my comment,when is a cougar no longer a cougar ? If a woman in her say mid sixties is chasing guys in their forties is she still a cougar ?"

Fucking amazeballs is what id call her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Geordie the prey? Lieeeeeees "

Shurrup you were my first victim

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Geordie the prey? Lieeeeeees

Shurrup you were my first victim "

Is there a victim support group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Geordie the prey? Lieeeeeees

Shurrup you were my first victim

Is there a victim support group "

An you can shurrup too cos you'll need to join it after i've taken big purp to ya

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Geordie the prey? Lieeeeeees

Shurrup you were my first victim

Is there a victim support group

An you can shurrup too cos you'll need to join it after i've taken big purp to ya "

Ya ya ya all talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering at what age do we stop chasing them

Pet peeve of mine to hear an older guy looking for a cougar when there is only a few years in age but obviously a bigger gap on maturity level's.

I'll simplify my comment,when is a cougar no longer a cougar ? If a woman in her say mid sixties is chasing guys in their forties is she still a cougar ?"

My point was in relation to a 39 yr old guy messaging a 43 yr old woman telling her he is looking for a cougar.

As for 60 yr old woman bagging guys 20 yrs her junior...guys do it all the time, I would like to think its called the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering at what age do we stop chasing them

Pet peeve of mine to hear an older guy looking for a cougar when there is only a few years in age but obviously a bigger gap on maturity level's.

I'll simplify my comment,when is a cougar no longer a cougar ? If a woman in her say mid sixties is chasing guys in their forties is she still a cougar ?

Fucking amazeballs is what id call her! "
she was too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Geordie the prey? Lieeeeeees

Shurrup you were my first victim "
just like a cat... Snuck up and clawed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering at what age do we stop chasing them

Pet peeve of mine to hear an older guy looking for a cougar when there is only a few years in age but obviously a bigger gap on maturity level's.

I'll simplify my comment,when is a cougar no longer a cougar ? If a woman in her say mid sixties is chasing guys in their forties is she still a cougar ?

Fucking amazeballs is what id call her! she was too "

You did one in their sixties

I'm so coming back knocking on your door in 15 years babyface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any cougars in mayo :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna be a Panther...

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Can i be a victim pwetty pwease

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