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By *ecentguy321 OP   Man
over a year ago

nearby

What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The artistic nature of their photo's... Can't resist a well angled cock PIC

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"The artistic nature of their photo's... Can't resist a well angled cock PIC "

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and clean socks??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The artistic nature of their photo's... Can't resist a well angled cock PIC

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and clean socks?? "

With Sandal's

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"The artistic nature of their photo's... Can't resist a well angled cock PIC

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and clean socks??

With Sandal's "
and toilet seat in the background phhhhoooor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol"

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental! "

I follow this way.....but like you said not a lot of people want to do it this way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental!

I follow this way.....but like you said not a lot of people want to do it this way..."
it's the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol"

If they sound intriguing along with their photos (as we are meeting for sex) would probably get me interested.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental!

I follow this way.....but like you said not a lot of people want to do it this way..."

Oh I'd say there's quiet a few just to find them

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

An initial good mail gets my attention. Time taken in writing his profile.

An ability to have a conversation without it resorting to smut.

Obviously a sense of humour and willing to endure a coffee meet before anything else..

Then the fun begins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good first mail wit no smut goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An initial good mail gets my attention. Time taken in writing his profile.

An ability to have a conversation without it resorting to smut.

Obviously a sense of humour and willing to endure a coffee meet before anything else..

Then the fun begins. "

....know anyone who is like this? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental!

I follow this way.....but like you said not a lot of people want to do it this way...

Oh I'd say there's quiet a few just to find them "

Im a trooper il keep searching lol

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

I find it all comes down to the coffee meet.you can be as artistic in your mails all you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it all comes down to the coffee meet.you can be as artistic in your mails all you like"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile 1st because probably 80% of what I need to know is already there either STAMPED in your face or subliminally.

Then chat for a while here and if all goes well a coffee or 2 to make sure we are still on the same wavelength.

Then ideally we arrange to meet for shenanigans

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After which ...

they block you for being a 3 minute wonder

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Lol yosser..

I heard it was 2.5 mins

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Attraction to the person mentally and physically, figured out from a bit and getting know one another and building a bit of trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol yosser..

I heard it was 2.5 mins "

Jasus give a guy a break ginger

That was 1 time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol yosser..

I heard it was 2.5 mins

Jasus give a guy a break ginger

That was 1 time "

If McC was on he'd say that you were only boasting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol yosser..

I heard it was 2.5 mins

Jasus give a guy a break ginger

That was 1 time

If McC was on he'd say that you were only boasting...."

Ah but Mikey still hasn't bought into the secret

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2 mins of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good first mail wit no smut goes a long way "

This

And NOT including cock pics with mails and not having endless pics of it on yer profile or feckin toilet pics YUK!!!

Taking pics of yer dangly bits while sitting on the toilet is a HUGE turn OFF!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Good first mail wit no smut goes a long way

This

And NOT including cock pics with mails and not having endless pics of it on yer profile or feckin toilet pics YUK!!!

Taking pics of yer dangly bits while sitting on the toilet is a HUGE turn OFF!"

Look at Miss Picky here, have you got standards or something?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

A good mail I like not a mail that's copy and pasted with another username on it.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Has to be some attraction so a cheeky pic as well as a flirty well written profile goes a long way. Also, when a woman makes the effort with sexy, flirty or kinky replies, this can escalate things nicely for both people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour is the most important factor for me. Have a laugh then see what happens from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst pics help, the ability to hold a good two way conversation and spark each other's imagination first is an essential

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

That the conversation flows albeit by message on her. Able to have a laugh and chat. Pics do help of course. And the social meet is the clincher...chat and laughs have gotta flow there also!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst pics help, the ability to hold a good two way conversation and spark each other's imagination first is an essential"

That's all is needed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental! "

The best way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty face, hot body, dirty mind

Not too much messing around or bad attitude in the circuitous route to meeting flesh on flesh

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Someone that can get into my mind.......once there I'm theirs.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Realistically a lot comes down to pics, yea I'm shallow...shoot me

Also patience is a virtue

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By *ellboy101Man
over a year ago

cavan


"Realistically a lot comes down to pics, yea I'm shallow...shoot me

Also patience is a virtue"

Ha least your honest

Luckily I'm very patient too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental!

The best way to do it "

Can we stick this at the top of the forums as a "how to....." It's not rocket science but oh so many fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent a clue how i get meets lol

A couple or female have always said i dont shine through my messages nor my pictures but in person im an animation of gsoh and sexy we have fun .....for me i like banter have a laugh

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By *armel and FrancisCouple
over a year ago

North wex

For us natural respect first even before attraction.

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple
over a year ago

mayo

Attraction....... and a good dose of horniness!!

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental! "

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By *om o connorMan
over a year ago

newcastlewest


"What is it that makes you decide to meet someone for the first time? Pure attraction/lust? Getting to know them a bit first? You have an itch?? Lol

Fo me its getting to know them a bit first which leads mental stimulation, physical attraction follows and hopefully ends in an interesting coffee meet and then arrange a lustful hotel meet to satisfy the itch! Lol

Unfortunately very few follow this format as most chats are mental!

I follow this way.....but like you said not a lot of people want to do it this way..."

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By *om o connorMan
over a year ago

newcastlewest

Some do if given a chance

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