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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So as a party virgin

Has anyone got any tips or advice for me?

Attending my first soon and really looking forward to it

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the party

House parties are very different to meet and greets, which are more social events

If in doubt, always ask the hosts

Most importantly - enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the party

House parties are very different to meet and greets, which are more social events

If in doubt, always ask the hosts

Most importantly - enjoy!"

This one is a meet and greet..

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the party

House parties are very different to meet and greets, which are more social events

If in doubt, always ask the hosts

Most importantly - enjoy!

This one is a meet and greet..

Thanks "

Meet & greets are usually in public venues - bar or hotel - think of it as a social night out...amongst people who have a similar interest mingle and get chatting - that's their purpose

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By *irebladexMan
over a year ago

Naas


"So as a party virgin

Has anyone got any tips or advice for me?

Attending my first soon and really looking forward to it

Thanks in advance "

Yeah. All newbies have to buy drink all night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So as a party virgin

Has anyone got any tips or advice for me?

Attending my first soon and really looking forward to it

Thanks in advance

Yeah. All newbies have to buy drink all night. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be urself relax and enjoy the night as best u can

..ull never be the only newbie.. That's why pre drinks are always so handy..speaking as a host of a few parties..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be urself relax and enjoy the night as best u can

..ull never be the only newbie.. That's why pre drinks are always so handy..speaking as a host of a few parties.."

Thank you x

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By *tanonieMan
over a year ago

killorglin


"Be urself relax and enjoy the night as best u can

..ull never be the only newbie.. That's why pre drinks are always so handy..speaking as a host of a few parties.."

Some sound advice now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close your eyes and hope for the best lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as a party virgin

Has anyone got any tips or advice for me?

Attending my first soon and really looking forward to it

Thanks in advance "

Relax. Have a little something something to settle the nerves. Be yourself. You will be okay. Enjoy your self. All wise words given to me on my way to my first party by a wise man..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So as a party virgin

Has anyone got any tips or advice for me?

Attending my first soon and really looking forward to it

Thanks in advance

Relax. Have a little something something to settle the nerves. Be yourself. You will be okay. Enjoy your self. All wise words given to me on my way to my first party by a wise man.. "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Close your eyes and hope for the best lol"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So as a party virgin

Has anyone got any tips or advice for me?

Attending my first soon and really looking forward to it

Thanks in advance

Relax. Have a little something something to settle the nerves. Be yourself. You will be okay. Enjoy your self. All wise words given to me on my way to my first party by a wise man..

Thank you xx "

I meant a shot of spirits btw ...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have some gentleman escort u and show u the ropes is best

Ull be fine most hosts have experience breaking newbies in ull be well looked after I am sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be a little nervous as the nerves make it more special.

Enjoy every moment and be yourself all will be great then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have some gentleman escort u and show u the ropes is best

Ull be fine most hosts have experience breaking newbies in ull be well looked after I am sure "

Yes a gentleman would be good lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best to be a little nervous as the nerves make it more special.

Enjoy every moment and be yourself all will be great then "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have some gentleman escort u and show u the ropes is best

Ull be fine most hosts have experience breaking newbies in ull be well looked after I am sure

Yes a gentleman would be good lol "

Best of luck finding one of those here. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have some gentleman escort u and show u the ropes is best

Ull be fine most hosts have experience breaking newbies in ull be well looked after I am sure

Yes a gentleman would be good lol

Best of luck finding one of those here. Lol. "

Ooh I have been very lucky

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"Be urself relax and enjoy the night as best u can

..ull never be the only newbie.. That's why pre drinks are always so handy..speaking as a host of a few parties.."

My first m&g was one organised by madam s. I walked in on my own only knowing one other person there. Had a blast of a night. Just go don't think too much about it. And most of all enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be urself relax and enjoy the night as best u can

..ull never be the only newbie.. That's why pre drinks are always so handy..speaking as a host of a few parties..

My first m&g was one organised by madam s. I walked in on my own only knowing one other person there. Had a blast of a night. Just go don't think too much about it. And most of all enjoy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's never any pressure to play at parties

But a good host will help - guide you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's never any pressure to play at parties

But a good host will help - guide you "

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary


"There's never any pressure to play at parties

But a good host will help - guide you

"

Hello fellow Country Lady.

My first m & g was nervous as hell. Knew no one. Just to chat to few lady's in here. Met them at the bar, they were great. All in all good night.go to pre drinks if you can. Great ice breaker. Enjoy be yourself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sara

You must be sort now with all the expertise lol

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, would this all go for single males too? Is there a stigma attached to single males attending such events? I mean, single women are probably there coz they're actually interested in the lifestyle, but there might be a notion that single guys might only be there for the easy lay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the party

House parties are very different to meet and greets, which are more social events

If in doubt, always ask the hosts

Most importantly - enjoy!

This one is a meet and greet..

Thanks

Meet & greets are usually in public venues - bar or hotel - think of it as a social night out...amongst people who have a similar interest mingle and get chatting - that's their purpose "

Ahhhh more like yoda you sound oh wise one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be urself relax and enjoy the night as best u can

..ull never be the only newbie.. That's why pre drinks are always so handy..speaking as a host of a few parties..

My first m&g was one organised by madam s. I walked in on my own only knowing one other person there. Had a blast of a night. Just go don't think too much about it. And most of all enjoy"
thanks Mrs xx

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

You don't need something to settle d nerves . Just go and relax and be yourself . Chat with everyone. Go all around chatting to different people . Even body is there for d same reason as you . To meet other people to make good friends . You don't need to get d*unk a few social drinks but enjoy yourself .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You don't need something to settle d nerves . Just go and relax and be yourself . Chat with everyone. Go all around chatting to different people . Even body is there for d same reason as you . To meet other people to make good friends . You don't need to get d*unk a few social drinks but enjoy yourself . "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sara

You must be sort now with all the expertise lol

Enjoy "

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"So, would this all go for single males too? Is there a stigma attached to single males attending such events? I mean, single women are probably there coz they're actually interested in the lifestyle, but there might be a notion that single guys might only be there for the easy lay. "
most meet and greets have single male places, not many for unverified though so get yourself in early when looking for an invite. It's a night out with people that are members of a website not an orgy most people are friendly, well apart from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter how many we have been to I still get very nervous but I have to say some of the m&g and socials were the best nights out I've had . It's great to be able to chat and mix with people who are on your wavelength . It is just like a night out in the pub with friends you just haven't met yet , predrinks are great way to start the night and if you had someone there to hold your hand even better . Enjoy

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It doesn't matter how many we have been to I still get very nervous but I have to say some of the m&g and socials were the best nights out I've had . It's great to be able to chat and mix with people who are on your wavelength . It is just like a night out in the pub with friends you just haven't met yet , predrinks are great way to start the night and if you had someone there to hold your hand even better . Enjoy "

Just hold ur hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We host social parties and have some guidelines for everyone

1. YOU MUST have the correct a ticket to attend.

If you do not have the correct ticket you may be refused admission without refund.

Couples must arrive together

2. The location must never be given out.

3. “NO THANKS , MEANS NO”. NO disorderly, rude or obnoxious conduct will be allowed and you may be asked to leave and will not be invited back.

4. Please watch your alcohol intake. Unruly or DRUNKEN BEHAVIOR WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. You will NOT be invited back if this happens; besides, this kills the mood for YOUR enjoyment.

5. Every thing we do is legal SO NO DRUGS or prostitution of any kind are permitted on the premises!! Anyone found using or having drugs will be BANNED PERMANENTLY from the parties.

6. ANY DISAGREEMENT AND YOU SHOULD LEAVE, FOR EVERYONE’S SAKE.

Arguing takes away from the mood of the party and may cause you to be BANNED. So it is important to have your rules set with your partner before the party.

7. Couples must arrive between 9:00pm and 11 pm on Saturday night.

8. Closing time is 1:00am. There is no re-admission.

9. The dress code is smart casual. If you MUST, blue jeans are ok if they are not holey, dirty, ripped or ragged.

Please, no baseball hat worn during the party.

10. Couples MUST arrive and LEAVE as a couple.

11. Alcohol is sold on the premises and therefore no one entering will be allowed to bring their own onto the premises

12. NO audio tapes, video or cameras, allowed. They will be confiscated and you will be liable for damages and content from the evening will de deleted.

If you must have cell phone use only to exchange numbers. No Facebook check-ins.

13. NO alcohol is allowed outside of premises. Please pre-book a taxis and have them collect you at the door

14. NO one is obligated to participate in any activities!!!

15. Smoking is allowed in designated areas only.

16. Cleanliness is a must. The bathrooms are stocked with your hygienic needs.

17. NO type of business venture or selling is allowed. That means, NO prostitution allowed.

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By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon


"We host social parties and have some guidelines for everyone

1. YOU MUST have the correct a ticket to attend.

If you do not have the correct ticket you may be refused admission without refund.

Couples must arrive together

2. The location must never be given out.

3. “NO THANKS , MEANS NO”. NO disorderly, rude or obnoxious conduct will be allowed and you may be asked to leave and will not be invited back.

4. Please watch your alcohol intake. Unruly or DRUNKEN BEHAVIOR WILL NOT BE TOLERATED. You will NOT be invited back if this happens; besides, this kills the mood for YOUR enjoyment.

5. Every thing we do is legal SO NO DRUGS or prostitution of any kind are permitted on the premises!! Anyone found using or having drugs will be BANNED PERMANENTLY from the parties.

6. ANY DISAGREEMENT AND YOU SHOULD LEAVE, FOR EVERYONE’S SAKE.

Arguing takes away from the mood of the party and may cause you to be BANNED. So it is important to have your rules set with your partner before the party.

7. Couples must arrive between 9:00pm and 11 pm on Saturday night.

8. Closing time is 1:00am. There is no re-admission.

9. The dress code is smart casual. If you MUST, blue jeans are ok if they are not holey, dirty, ripped or ragged.

Please, no baseball hat worn during the party.

10. Couples MUST arrive and LEAVE as a couple.

11. Alcohol is sold on the premises and therefore no one entering will be allowed to bring their own onto the premises

12. NO audio tapes, video or cameras, allowed. They will be confiscated and you will be liable for damages and content from the evening will de deleted.

If you must have cell phone use only to exchange numbers. No Facebook check-ins.

13. NO alcohol is allowed outside of premises. Please pre-book a taxis and have them collect you at the door

14. NO one is obligated to participate in any activities!!!

15. Smoking is allowed in designated areas only.

16. Cleanliness is a must. The bathrooms are stocked with your hygienic needs.

17. NO type of business venture or selling is allowed. That means, NO prostitution allowed.

Great tips, thanks x

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