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"Insecurities " is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? | |||
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"As Casandra says insecurities. Also some people can be cruel. ."I'm all about the feel good feeling would it not be better like a confidence boost then if they went for it with a nice fella who looks after himself x | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? "  cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere | |||
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"As Casandra says insecurities. Also some people can be cruel. . I'm all about the feel good feeling would it not be better like a confidence boost then if they went for it with a nice fella who looks after himself x "Everyone has that choice of course. Maybe they don't want or need a confidence boost it's just a personal choice. You can be dismissed for being too big, too small, too hairy ,too bald too old/young the list is endless. | |||
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"As Casandra says insecurities. Also some people can be cruel. . I'm all about the feel good feeling would it not be better like a confidence boost then if they went for it with a nice fella who looks after himself x
Everyone has that choice of course. Maybe they don't want or need a confidence boost it's just a personal choice. You can be dismissed for being too big, too small, too hairy ,too bald too old/young the list is endless. "but the reason I was given was that I wouldn't be into them because I go to a gym, I think it just is insecurities, it's bad for business  I think women who see a fella that's in shape thinks the fella has a massive ego to go with it too and it's so not true | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere "Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha | |||
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, lots of men on here I would see as out of my league or wouldn't like me because .... the list goes on but that's my problem I guess  .
Face it op your pics are just too hot | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha " | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha "Haha... Anyway if some girls think you are too fit to them,Just move on and find someone that will feel comfortable around you  | |||
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"As the girls have said , lots of men on here I would see as out of my league or wouldn't like me because .... the list goes on but that's my problem I guess .
Face it op your pics are just too hot "I said the same about your pics by fabbing them il never understand a woman's mind! And I don't think il ever want to! All women should keep their mystery about them x | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha "May I just clarify that it wasn't me!  | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha
Haha... Anyway if some girls think you are too fit to them,Just move on and find someone that will feel comfortable around you "is that an offer haha il be comfy around you if you be comfy around me | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha
May I just clarify that it wasn't me! "I was wondering.... | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha
May I just clarify that it wasn't me!
I was wondering.... "He had his profile set as a woman I have strong filters so men, tvs none of them can message me only women! | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha
Haha... Anyway if some girls think you are too fit to them,Just move on and find someone that will feel comfortable around you is that an offer haha il be comfy around you if you be comfy around me "That was just advice  | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha
Haha... Anyway if some girls think you are too fit to them,Just move on and find someone that will feel comfortable around you is that an offer haha il be comfy around you if you be comfy around me
That was just advice "that was just a flirt | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha "The coupler... | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha
"Just thinking about that... I think they only do come out at night, hence the requirement for a flashlight!  | |||
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"no I'm not talking about my sexuality I love women, of all shapes and sizes, what I'm curious to know is, why do women think that just because I like to go the gym and they don't or because they don't like there shape that I wouldn't be intrested or that I'm too good for them or there not good enough for me? Twice this week it's happened, " As a curvy lady and also a lady that goes to the gym and can deadlier 70kg, I see it time and time again the good looking hot fit guys go for the good looking skinny girls in the group so after experiencing this for years I wont take a chance contacting someone like you who I would consider hot, a gal can only take so much rejection, and ok you like women of all sizes but you are one of the very few, I have been rejected numerous times when out at night and even in the last year while my married friend was been chatted up she introduced me to a guy who turned around and said "I'm talking to you, I don't like big girls" and yes that's his issue but when you hear it time and time again you believe it and start to protect yourself from the rejection. | |||
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"no I'm not talking about my sexuality I love women, of all shapes and sizes, what I'm curious to know is, why do women think that just because I like to go the gym and they don't or because they don't like there shape that I wouldn't be intrested or that I'm too good for them or there not good enough for me? Twice this week it's happened, " A lot of men aren't like you OP and as blonde said above, if you keep getting shut out, you stop trying to get in. | |||
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Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha "Come on then, finish the story. Can you?  | |||
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"no I'm not talking about my sexuality I love women, of all shapes and sizes, what I'm curious to know is, why do women think that just because I like to go the gym and they don't or because they don't like there shape that I wouldn't be intrested or that I'm too good for them or there not good enough for me? Twice this week it's happened, You should of kicked him into his tiny balls for saying that to you some people are heartless, your not even big not to me your normal size perfect size! You can message me anytime for a chat il take you on, he just wasn't man enough As a curvy lady and also a lady that goes to the gym and can deadlier 70kg, I see it time and time again the good looking hot fit guys go for the good looking skinny girls in the group so after experiencing this for years I wont take a chance contacting someone like you who I would consider hot, a gal can only take so much rejection, and ok you like women of all sizes but you are one of the very few, I have been rejected numerous times when out at night and even in the last year while my married friend was been chatted up she introduced me to a guy who turned around and said "I'm talking to you, I don't like big girls" and yes that's his issue but when you hear it time and time again you believe it and start to protect yourself from the rejection." | |||
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"Insecurities is this really the kinda site to have insecurities on? cruel, honest,liers insecure,confident... name it and you will find it here and everywhere
Oh don't I know! I had some bearded fella wearing his wife's dress ask me today could I handle the bottom end of a flash light in my ass, that's when I knew they don't only come out at night time haha
Come on then, finish the story. Can you? "story was he got told suck the farts out of his wife's arse! I'm well able to give stick to piss takers! THE END haha | |||
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"no I'm not talking about my sexuality I love women, of all shapes and sizes, what I'm curious to know is, why do women think that just because I like to go the gym and they don't or because they don't like there shape that I wouldn't be intrested or that I'm too good for them or there not good enough for me? Twice this week it's happened, A lot of men aren't like you OP and as blonde said above, if you keep getting shut out, you stop trying to get in. " I don't believe men would shut yous out unless there in the closet or their wife's or gfs are looking at them! I don't know how women don't have egos the size of a house especially on this site where there's 50 men for every 1 girl, and not only that I personally think that the majority of men on this site would get up on the leg of a table, if you have a vagina and a heartbeat they would be on it, I do know of 2 women on this site that are fabfame mad from all the fabbed pics and messages they get from fellas, for me all I'd want is somone cool non judgemental didn't do drama is discreet has her own teeth is hygienic and filthy minded | |||
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"no I'm not talking about my sexuality AaaWhhhh "ye in case y'all thought oh look this fella is coming out of the closet to us all on fab! Haha it was meant jokingly | |||
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"I also wouldn't meet a guy that was 'in gym shape'. I feel I'd be judged when I a 2nd pint pint or to have leftover Chinese for breakfast. Sort of similar, but not. I've met non drinkers for a social meet in a pub and feel they are watching every sip I take. Its uncomfortable. " I don't drink or smoke but I went out with a girl from pof last week she was gorgeous the only times I was watching her take sips was looking at her lips touching the glass I had a glass of wine with her and she even got me outside with her for a cigarette, wasn't sure I was doing it right but do ye know what I didn't care! Her confidence was like a fire she wasn't afraid to show herself she knew I liked her and she liked me and it was on, I think being yourself and not caring what the fella thinks, your there for a good time simple as that free yourself from any negitive thinking x | |||
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"no I'm not talking about my sexuality I love women, of all shapes and sizes, what I'm curious to know is, why do women think that just because I like to go the gym and they don't or because they don't like there shape that I wouldn't be intrested or that I'm too good for them or there not good enough for me? Twice this week it's happened, As a curvy lady and also a lady that goes to the gym and can deadlier 70kg, I see it time and time again the good looking hot fit guys go for the good looking skinny girls in the group so after experiencing this for years I wont take a chance contacting someone like you who I would consider hot, a gal can only take so much rejection, and ok you like women of all sizes but you are one of the very few, I have been rejected numerous times when out at night and even in the last year while my married friend was been chatted up she introduced me to a guy who turned around and said "I'm talking to you, I don't like big girls" and yes that's his issue but when you hear it time and time again you believe it and start to protect yourself from the rejection." Think you need to get in contact with your inner masculine side so to speak. If men protected themselves from the rejection, thered probably be no human race left. Men typically make the first move, even more so on this. Ya just gotta pick yerself up, dust yerself of and say to yerself..we go again. I'm on this a couple of months and being honest I've been shot down more times than than the luftewaffe in the battle of Britain. A 3 word reply is a victory at this stage. But the important thing is, despite the knock downs,and there has been many,I still get back up and holdmy head high because even if others don't think it..I'm still worth something! | |||
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