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" Is it ever acceptable ?" I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !! | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !!" So you only asked the question to stir things? Is that what you're saying?  | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !!" Let me give you my tuppance worth. Anyone that doesn't use protection in a swinging lifestyle should not only get tested for STDs They should see a fucking therapist as well | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !! Let me give you my tuppance worth. Anyone that doesn't use protection in a swinging lifestyle should not only get tested for STDs They should see a fucking therapist as well " well said  | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !! Let me give you my tuppance worth. Anyone that doesn't use protection in a swinging lifestyle should not only get tested for STDs They should see a fucking therapist as well well said "I think you would really have to know someone to go bareback | |||
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"Crazy people do , get messages asking me quite a lot , my health is important I don't play Russian Roulette . Straight to block list they go. " It's not to be messed with. If I ask a potential meet if they do bare back and the answer is yes or its evasive then away they go. Not for me. I'm not that desperate to play Russian Roulette with my health or cleanliness | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !! Let me give you my tuppance worth. Anyone that doesn't use protection in a swinging lifestyle should not only get tested for STDs They should see a fucking therapist as well " I couldn't agree with you more 
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"What a pity, interesting topic , got spoiled by two dudes ego
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"What a pity, interesting topic , got spoiled by two dudes ego
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" Is it ever acceptable ?" The logical answer is if both parties agree to no protection. Then that's acceptable. The rest is down to preferences and choices I think the situations where people try to deceive or attempt to play without protection without consent. It's unacceptable | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !!" don't need no medical expert to know it's wrong.  | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ?" Yes or humans will be extinct  | |||
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"Its not just men, i had a female who during sex said to me take the condom off ......the only thing i did was got off her and into my car as fast as possible....." Did u wait to go flaccid before you left? | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol "It's not a silly question...Very valid. Also I'd like to ask ...and this is a serious question not 'banter'... ladies those who love sucking multiple cocks at group meets, gangbangs and bukkas... when you're mixing it like that do you rinse or use mouth wash and wipes between bjs? Fluids are being exchanged justas much by the mouth ad with a pussy. | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol
It's not a silly question...Very valid. Also I'd like to ask ...and this is a serious question not 'banter'... ladies those who love sucking multiple cocks at group meets, gangbangs and bukkas... when you're mixing it like that do you rinse or use mouth wash and wipes between bjs? Fluids are being exchanged justas much by the mouth ad with a pussy."Interesting | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol
It's not a silly question...Very valid. Also I'd like to ask ...and this is a serious question not 'banter'... ladies those who love sucking multiple cocks at group meets, gangbangs and bukkas... when you're mixing it like that do you rinse or use mouth wash and wipes between bjs? Fluids are being exchanged justas much by the mouth ad with a pussy.
Interesting "A few grey areas that worry me lol  | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol "If you don't change the condom, only the man is protected but the women literally swap fluids, so decide for yourself if you like that idea. Regarding dildo, if you have two you can use one for each lady. | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol
It's not a silly question...Very valid. Also I'd like to ask ...and this is a serious question not 'banter'... ladies those who love sucking multiple cocks at group meets, gangbangs and bukkas... when you're mixing it like that do you rinse or use mouth wash and wipes between bjs? Fluids are being exchanged justas much by the mouth ad with a pussy.
Interesting "In what way? It's plain obvious to me unless I've really missed something. There's been alot of talk about safe sex and some being a bit pious about it publicly yet may of them don't think they are at risk doing this. No one has been able to give me a safe answer yet as to it being safe sex. | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol
It's not a silly question...Very valid. Also I'd like to ask ...and this is a serious question not 'banter'... ladies those who love sucking multiple cocks at group meets, gangbangs and bukkas... when you're mixing it like that do you rinse or use mouth wash and wipes between bjs? Fluids are being exchanged justas much by the mouth ad with a pussy.
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In what way? It's plain obvious to me unless I've really missed something. There's been alot of talk about safe sex and some being a bit pious about it publicly yet may of them don't think they are at risk doing this. No one has been able to give me a safe answer yet as to it being safe sex."I'm with you on this, I don't have experience in big groups play, so I would like to read some comments from people with more experience on this types of play. I'm curious too | |||
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"The only 100% safe sex, is no sex Place a condom onto sex toys It's like everything in life,you try to mitigate risk." Yes.. | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol
If you don't change the condom, only the man is protected but the women literally swap fluids, so decide for yourself if you like that idea.
Regarding dildo, if you have two you can use one for each lady. "Thanks for your response  | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16]" As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues." That clears a lot up | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues." Yes we always provide wipes and anti bacterial gel when toys being shared and passed around ...As for oral swapping in groups it's up to each individual to decide on using mouth wash before moving person to person | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !! Let me give you my tuppance worth. Anyone that doesn't use protection in a swinging lifestyle should not only get tested for STDs They should see a fucking therapist as well " just because someone plays differently too your rules that doesnt mean they have too see a therapist people who play BB always get the raw deal who are we too judge them aslong as therw honest about it i dont see an issue like i said above its not for me but i wouldnt be saying they need too see someone of how they play  | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. That clears a lot up "Had 2 not so nice messages too unfortunately. I'm guessing some are uncomfortable with the issue being raised and burying their head in the sand has been comfortable. I'm sure I'll get some abuse with this statement, but I will openly admit I've always thought that those who play bareback might actually have a much higher precaution procedure than many who don't. I think it's wrongly assumed that they are less careful....some maybe but I'd say in most cases they are very very selective with who they play with and are probably at less risk. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. That clears a lot up
Had 2 not so nice messages too unfortunately. I'm guessing some are uncomfortable with the issue being raised and burying their head in the sand has been comfortable.
I'm sure I'll get some abuse with this statement, but I will openly admit I've always thought that those who play bareback might actually have a much higher precaution procedure than many who don't. I think it's wrongly assumed that they are less careful....some maybe but I'd say in most cases they are very very selective with who they play with and are probably at less risk. "Their choice their life each to their own | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol
It's not a silly question...Very valid. Also I'd like to ask ...and this is a serious question not 'banter'... ladies those who love sucking multiple cocks at group meets, gangbangs and bukkas... when you're mixing it like that do you rinse or use mouth wash and wipes between bjs? Fluids are being exchanged justas much by the mouth ad with a pussy.
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In what way? It's plain obvious to me unless I've really missed something. There's been alot of talk about safe sex and some being a bit pious about it publicly yet may of them don't think they are at risk doing this. No one has been able to give me a safe answer yet as to it being safe sex.
I'm with you on this, I don't have experience in big groups play, so I would like to read some comments from people with more experience on this types of play. I'm curious too "It doesn't matter if you've experience in large group or just FMFM or FMF/MFM play if somebody is infected it's possible that you will be infected after play... Oral sex the risks are not as high of getting an STI as they would be with vaginal or anal sex...(Anal in both women and men) Use condoms, change condoms! Common sense would be your best "condom"... If you've any sores in or around your mouth (ie ulcers,cold scores, bleeding gums yes even after brushing) it's best to avoid oral sex completely until it's cleared up... And as a poster said earlier don't have sex if you want to avoid the risks because it's even risky having sex with condoms... But it's risky driving to the shop but we do it... | |||
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"For anyone thats tried ffm with their partner how does that work? Keep changing condoms between each swap? And clean dildo between each swap? Sorry if its a silly question im just thinking about trying it and need advice lol
It's not a silly question...Very valid. Also I'd like to ask ...and this is a serious question not 'banter'... ladies those who love sucking multiple cocks at group meets, gangbangs and bukkas... when you're mixing it like that do you rinse or use mouth wash and wipes between bjs? Fluids are being exchanged justas much by the mouth ad with a pussy.
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In what way? It's plain obvious to me unless I've really missed something. There's been alot of talk about safe sex and some being a bit pious about it publicly yet may of them don't think they are at risk doing this. No one has been able to give me a safe answer yet as to it being safe sex.
I'm with you on this, I don't have experience in big groups play, so I would like to read some comments from people with more experience on this types of play. I'm curious too
It doesn't matter if you've experience in large group or just FMFM or FMF/MFM play if somebody is infected it's possible that you will be infected after play...
Oral sex the risks are not as high of getting an STI as they would be with vaginal or anal sex...(Anal in both women and men)
Use condoms, change condoms!
Common sense would be your best "condom"...
If you've any sores in or around your mouth (ie ulcers,cold scores, bleeding gums yes even after brushing) it's best to avoid oral sex completely until it's cleared up...
And as a poster said earlier don't have sex if you want to avoid the risks because it's even risky having sex with condoms...
But it's risky driving to the shop but we do it...
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" But it's risky driving to the shop but we do it... " Feckin' wimmin drivers! | |||
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" But it's risky driving to the shop but we do it... Feckin' wimmin drivers!
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. That clears a lot up
Had 2 not so nice messages too unfortunately. I'm guessing some are uncomfortable with the issue being raised and burying their head in the sand has been comfortable.
I'm sure I'll get some abuse with this statement, but I will openly admit I've always thought that those who play bareback might actually have a much higher precaution procedure than many who don't. I think it's wrongly assumed that they are less careful....some maybe but I'd say in most cases they are very very selective with who they play with and are probably at less risk. "Eeem no. From what I know this theory doesn't match reality. And even if they were very selective, it needs one weak link. | |||
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"With "skin" like condoms available that have little or no impact on sensation. I cannot see any basis why anyone would increase the risk to their sexual health and that of others. The only reason I can see, that's it's the risk of bareback sex is the thrill " Have you ever felt the drip? | |||
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"With "skin" like condoms available that have little or no impact on sensation. I cannot see any basis why anyone would increase the risk to their sexual health and that of others. The only reason I can see, that's it's the risk of bareback sex is the thrill Have you ever felt the drip?" Enda Kenny? | |||
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"The Indians used to do bareback the whole time..on top of their horses "How. | |||
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"The Indians used to do bareback the whole time..on top of their horses
How."Carefully | |||
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"The Indians used to do bareback the whole time..on top of their horses
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Carefully "They got the leg over xx | |||
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" Is it ever acceptable ? I'm so looking forward to the sites resident sex / medical expert to throw in their tuppence worth !!don't need no medical expert to know it's wrong. " | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. Yes we always provide wipes and anti bacterial gel when toys being shared and passed around ...As for oral swapping in groups it's up to each individual to decide on using mouth wash before moving person to person " Would using mouth wash before / during /after oral sex or a bukkake session really prevent STI's? Somehow I doubt it. | |||
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"With "skin" like condoms available that have little or no impact on sensation. I cannot see any basis why anyone would increase the risk to their sexual health and that of others. The only reason I can see, that's it's the risk of bareback sex is the thrill Have you ever felt the drip? Enda Kenny? "That fvkr is ridin us all bareback | |||
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"With "skin" like condoms available that have little or no impact on sensation. I cannot see any basis why anyone would increase the risk to their sexual health and that of others. The only reason I can see, that's it's the risk of bareback sex is the thrill Have you ever felt the drip? Enda Kenny?
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. Yes we always provide wipes and anti bacterial gel when toys being shared and passed around ...As for oral swapping in groups it's up to each individual to decide on using mouth wash before moving person to person Would using mouth wash before / during /after oral sex or a bukkake session really prevent STI's? Somehow I doubt it." According to a recent study rinsing with listerine can obviously reduce the risk of spreading Gonorrhea. | |||
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"bareback the fuck outta her!!" Outta who? | |||
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"bareback the fuck outta her!! Outta who? "Her! Keep up Mikey | |||
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"bareback the fuck outta her!! Outta who?
Her!
Keep up Mikey "Oh, I see. Of course. Sure who else? | |||
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"bareback the fuck outta her!! Outta who?
Her!
Keep up Mikey
Oh, I see. Of course. Sure who else? "Then dampen the curtains with listerine and have a good scrub! All good | |||
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"If you schwiddle the young fella in Jeyes fluid before wiping him on the curtains you'll be grand! "Good idea! Should I pull the hood back just to make sure it gets right up there?  | |||
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"If you schwiddle the young fella in Jeyes fluid before wiping him on the curtains you'll be grand!
Good idea!
Should I pull the hood back just to make sure it gets right up there? "Are, if you don't mind losing the cheese? | |||
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"With "skin" like condoms available that have little or no impact on sensation. I cannot see any basis why anyone would increase the risk to their sexual health and that of others. The only reason I can see, that's it's the risk of bareback sex is the thrill Have you ever felt the drip? Enda Kenny?
That fvkr is ridin us all bareback "Hahahahahahaha! Exquisite. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. Yes we always provide wipes and anti bacterial gel when toys being shared and passed around ...As for oral swapping in groups it's up to each individual to decide on using mouth wash before moving person to person Would using mouth wash before / during /after oral sex or a bukkake session really prevent STI's? Somehow I doubt it. According to a recent study rinsing with listerine can obviously reduce the risk of spreading Gonorrhea. " A recent study from Neverland?? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/03/17 11:04:16] As I said it's a genuine question and it be good for those with the experience in group work to help answer. It's the forum and it open to all. I've had a couple private messages and I've been told that some privately organised parties have mouth wash and wipes readily at hand so there are some that recognise some issues. Yes we always provide wipes and anti bacterial gel when toys being shared and passed around ...As for oral swapping in groups it's up to each individual to decide on using mouth wash before moving person to person Would using mouth wash before / during /after oral sex or a bukkake session really prevent STI's? Somehow I doubt it." No there doesn't seem to be any medical evidence to support that. It apparently was started in the hope of giving some peace of mind amongst swing group members that had raised these concerns. I'm open to be shown otherwise. A real concern though is how many swingers/players have never thought of having the Hep B vaccination or asked if those they play with have. There are many that I've talked to on here that admit to not having it, many cite that isn't that just for travelling in 3rd world countries with poor drinking water? The ignorance amongst many is dangerous. Every swinger should gave it. Simple. | |||
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"A real concern though is how many swingers/players have never thought of having the Hep B vaccination or asked if those they play with have. There are many that I've talked to on here that admit to not having it, many cite that isn't that just for travelling in 3rd world countries with poor drinking water? The ignorance amongst many is dangerous. Every swinger should gave it. Simple." This is something I didn't know until recently when I had my last checkup. The doctor advised me to have the vaccination as she said that particular infection can actually be passed on by kissing an infected person. For the small amount of hassle involved, it's well worth having it. And yes, my tests were all clear. Next check up in April. | |||
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"The sudden silence of many is rather scary. "Sudden? The discussion went on for three days? | |||
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"The sudden silence of many is rather scary.
Sudden? The discussion went on for three days? "It's pointless discussing anything when nobody pays any attention to fact  | |||
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