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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?"my opinion as a single is I would never swing with a partner if in a serious relationship. I'm here for my own fun, that's all. I just see it as a site where u try gain a connection with somebody, get to know them and potentially bring it into fun. I do know people on here in the past have told me they'd never get into something serious with somebody on here but actually have done | |||
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 i enjoy the swing life so much , id find it hard to go back to vanilla 
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?"Personally I think you can - very easily if need be. This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest. The unspoken assumption that a "vanilla" life is shomehow more boring than a swinging life also irks me. That kind of inverted snobbery is exactly the same as that which has non-swingers making unfair assumptions about swingers. | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?
Personally I think you can - very easily if need be.
This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest.
The unspoken assumption that a "vanilla" life is shomehow more boring than a swinging life also irks me. That kind of inverted snobbery is exactly the same as that which has non-swingers making unfair assumptions about swingers."The assumption was made by you not me I simply asked for opinions, simply because I personally would find it difficult to not slip back in to having sex with other people and by this I mean 3somes 4somes moresomes! By no means I think "vanilla" life style is boring or that sex is gonna be boring! On the other hand saying that this isn't a way of life for majority of people implies that they are just here to get easy ride and leave! Which is probably true but that is not what swinging is about at all! | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?my opinion as a single is I would never swing with a partner if in a serious relationship. I'm here for my own fun, that's all. I just see it as a site where u try gain a connection with somebody, get to know them and potentially bring it into fun. I do know people on here in the past have told me they'd never get into something serious with somebody on here but actually have done "plenty of a dating websites that match your description, correct me if I am wrong but in one sentences what you said resumes: you are here for quick sex while the right person shows up at your door!  | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?
Personally I think you can - very easily if need be.
This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest.
The unspoken assumption that a "vanilla" life is shomehow more boring than a swinging life also irks me. That kind of inverted snobbery is exactly the same as that which has non-swingers making unfair assumptions about swingers.
The assumption was made by you not me I simply asked for opinions, simply because I personally would find it difficult to not slip back in to having sex with other people and by this I mean 3somes 4somes moresomes! By no means I think "vanilla" life style is boring or that sex is gonna be boring!
On the other hand saying that this isn't a way of life for majority of people implies that they are just here to get easy ride and leave! Which is probably true but that is not what swinging is about at all!"That you jump to the assumption that "not a way of life" means "here to get an easy ride" speaks volumes.... | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?
Personally I think you can - very easily if need be.
This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest.
The unspoken assumption that a "vanilla" life is shomehow more boring than a swinging life also irks me. That kind of inverted snobbery is exactly the same as that which has non-swingers making unfair assumptions about swingers.
The assumption was made by you not me I simply asked for opinions, simply because I personally would find it difficult to not slip back in to having sex with other people and by this I mean 3somes 4somes moresomes! By no means I think "vanilla" life style is boring or that sex is gonna be boring!
On the other hand saying that this isn't a way of life for majority of people implies that they are just here to get easy ride and leave! Which is probably true but that is not what swinging is about at all!"And as I always say.. Swinging is not a black or white thing... There are people here that practice other styles of play(bdsm, polyamorous, bondage..) and not here to escape from a " boring" vanilla life. I think for those people stopping to swinging and going back to monogamy is difficult. | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?
Personally I think you can - very easily if need be.
This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest.
The unspoken assumption that a "vanilla" life is shomehow more boring than a swinging life also irks me. That kind of inverted snobbery is exactly the same as that which has non-swingers making unfair assumptions about swingers.
The assumption was made by you not me I simply asked for opinions, simply because I personally would find it difficult to not slip back in to having sex with other people and by this I mean 3somes 4somes moresomes! By no means I think "vanilla" life style is boring or that sex is gonna be boring!
On the other hand saying that this isn't a way of life for majority of people implies that they are just here to get easy ride and leave! Which is probably true but that is not what swinging is about at all!
That you jump to the assumption that "not a way of life" means "here to get an easy ride" speaks volumes...."volumes volumes in the sound of your own words " This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest." Also I was quoting your own statement but don't worry let's get back to topic  | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?
Personally I think you can - very easily if need be.
This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest.
The unspoken assumption that a "vanilla" life is shomehow more boring than a swinging life also irks me. That kind of inverted snobbery is exactly the same as that which has non-swingers making unfair assumptions about swingers.
The assumption was made by you not me I simply asked for opinions, simply because I personally would find it difficult to not slip back in to having sex with other people and by this I mean 3somes 4somes moresomes! By no means I think "vanilla" life style is boring or that sex is gonna be boring!
On the other hand saying that this isn't a way of life for majority of people implies that they are just here to get easy ride and leave! Which is probably true but that is not what swinging is about at all!
That you jump to the assumption that "not a way of life" means "here to get an easy ride" speaks volumes.... volumes volumes in the sound of your own words " This isn't a way of life for the vast majority on here - simply a little extra zest." Also I was quoting your own statement but don't worry let's get back to topic "if you start a post asking for opinions it's always a good idea to be receptive to, ummm, other peoples' opinions... Just a thought | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?my opinion as a single is I would never swing with a partner if in a serious relationship. I'm here for my own fun, that's all. I just see it as a site where u try gain a connection with somebody, get to know them and potentially bring it into fun. I do know people on here in the past have told me they'd never get into something serious with somebody on here but actually have done plenty of a dating websites that match your description, correct me if I am wrong but in one sentences what you said resumes: you are here for quick sex while the right person shows up at your door! "I'm here for sex with people where there is a connection and mutual attraction. I think that explains it perfectly | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now) "I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky? Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is. I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony "it's complicated" | |||
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" correct me if I am wrong but in one sentences what you said resumes: you are here for quick sex while the right person shows up at your door! "Eh yeah that's the point.... Casual sex No? | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?"Yes it can be done I'm only ever on this when I'm single anyone I have been with I would do certain stuff yes but they were never into swinging they did like that I was was well versed and great experience in the bedroom antics | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?"Am having a ball on fab..n do hav vanilla dates. I keep both separate. But never da twain shall meet.. Jus my opinion. .each to der own | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now)
I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky?
Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is.
I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony
"it's complicated" "It's complicated, Yes it is. I'm on an open marriage, I like and enjoy having secondary relationship... And I swing occasionally. | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now)
I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky?
Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is.
I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony
"it's complicated"
It's complicated, Yes it is. I'm on an open marriage, I like and enjoy having secondary relationship... And I swing occasionally.
"Fair enough I think your husband is brave to allow emotional connections as well as physical but that's just my view | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now)
I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky?
Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is.
I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony
"it's complicated"
It's complicated, Yes it is. I'm on an open marriage, I like and enjoy having secondary relationship... And I swing occasionally.
Fair enough I think your husband is brave to allow emotional connections as well as physical but that's just my view "I can totally understand it | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now)
I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky?
Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is.
I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony
"it's complicated"
It's complicated, Yes it is. I'm on an open marriage, I like and enjoy having secondary relationship... And I swing occasionally.
Fair enough I think your husband is brave to allow emotional connections as well as physical but that's just my view "It works well for us, sure it certainly wouldn't be for everyone. I'm not a jealous type, which is helpful in this case. Personally I'm not into poly for myself, different strokes for different folks. | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now)
I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky?
Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is.
I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony
"it's complicated"
It's complicated, Yes it is. I'm on an open marriage, I like and enjoy having secondary relationship... And I swing occasionally.
Fair enough I think your husband is brave to allow emotional connections as well as physical but that's just my view
It works well for us, sure it certainly wouldn't be for everyone.
I'm not a jealous type, which is helpful in this case. Personally I'm not into poly for myself, different strokes for different folks. "Madcat I'd stroke you anytime | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now)
I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky?
Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is.
I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony
"it's complicated"
It's complicated, Yes it is. I'm on an open marriage, I like and enjoy having secondary relationship... And I swing occasionally.
Fair enough I think your husband is brave to allow emotional connections as well as physical but that's just my view
It works well for us, sure it certainly wouldn't be for everyone.
I'm not a jealous type, which is helpful in this case. Personally I'm not into poly for myself, different strokes for different folks.
Madcat I'd stroke you anytime "Just stroke me?? | |||
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"I like to have the freedom to be sexually and/or emotionally involved with more than one person,so is No for me. (for now)
I get the physical liberty no problem but is the emotional part not too risky?
Personally I wouldn't like to date a hardened swinger as hypocritical as that is.
I think with the right woman monogamy would come naturally. But the right woman would probably be up for a 3 way love in without another hotty to all live in harmony
"it's complicated"
It's complicated, Yes it is. I'm on an open marriage, I like and enjoy having secondary relationship... And I swing occasionally.
Fair enough I think your husband is brave to allow emotional connections as well as physical but that's just my view
It works well for us, sure it certainly wouldn't be for everyone.
I'm not a jealous type, which is helpful in this case. Personally I'm not into poly for myself, different strokes for different folks.
Madcat I'd stroke you anytime
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... " I don't watch, that's cuck, not my thing...  | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... " You don't have to watch | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... " Would she enjoy you fucking another girl | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... You don't have to watch "change seeing with knowing same applies | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl " I'm single at the moment so don't know | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl I'm single at the moment so don't know " So how do you know how you would feel watching or knowing she's fucking another guy  | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl I'm single at the moment so don't know So how do you know how you would feel watching or knowing she's fucking another guy "Because I know what it's like been in a serious relationship and the feeling you have for that other person in your life | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl I'm single at the moment so don't know So how do you know how you would feel watching or knowing she's fucking another guy Because I know what it's like been in a serious relationship and the feeling you have for that other person in your life "Don't watch, join in its called spitroasting | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... " just a thought....maybe she gets enjoyment when getting fucked by another guy.... or is it all just about you? This isn't particularly aimed at you willywrapper,lI've to say it's funny how many pseudo sexually liberated blokes with deeply conservative values are on this site.... | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... just a thought....maybe she gets enjoyment when getting fucked by another guy.... or is it all just about you? This isn't particularly aimed at you willywrapper,lI've to say it's funny how many pseudo sexually liberated blokes with deeply conservative values are on this site.... " a relationship is a two way Street. shagging another bloke or girl while in a relationship is a big thing. as I said many times before I'm not a true swinger in every sense | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... just a thought....maybe she gets enjoyment when getting fucked by another guy.... or is it all just about you? This isn't particularly aimed at you willywrapper,lI've to say it's funny how many pseudo sexually liberated blokes with deeply conservative values are on this site.... "  | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl I'm single at the moment so don't know So how do you know how you would feel watching or knowing she's fucking another guy Because I know what it's like been in a serious relationship and the feeling you have for that other person in your life "Most of us are in loving caring relationships just because we have sex with other people don't mean we love them any less | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl I'm single at the moment so don't know So how do you know how you would feel watching or knowing she's fucking another guy Because I know what it's like been in a serious relationship and the feeling you have for that other person in your life
Don't watch, join in its called spitroasting "Two completely different things altogether indeed, trio's can be great fun | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl I'm single at the moment so don't know So how do you know how you would feel watching or knowing she's fucking another guy Because I know what it's like been in a serious relationship and the feeling you have for that other person in your life
Most of us are in loving caring relationships just because we have sex with other people don't mean we love them any less "you obviously enjoy shagging others while attached/married, that's fine but I don't hence on here as a single | |||
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"I'm just here for your normal NSA fun " So would you meet a cpl and fuck his wife infront of him | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... just a thought....maybe she gets enjoyment when getting fucked by another guy.... or is it all just about you? This isn't particularly aimed at you willywrapper,lI've to say it's funny how many pseudo sexually liberated blokes with deeply conservative values are on this site.... " I don't think it's deeply conservative at all. I think it's very presumptive to think you should have the liberty to fuck around... It's a relationship after all and must work for all parties or no deal. You are either a cuckold or you are not | |||
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"I'm just here for your normal NSA fun So would you meet a cpl and fuck his wife infront of him " Dont know is my honest answer. I have never did it before | |||
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"I'm just here for your normal NSA fun So would you meet a cpl and fuck his wife infront of him Dont know is my honest answer. I have never did it before " Are you open to the idea | |||
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"I'm just here for your normal NSA fun So would you meet a cpl and fuck his wife infront of him Dont know is my honest answer. I have never did it before Are you open to the idea " prob to nervous to do it. prob would be uncomfortable | |||
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"I'm just here for your normal NSA fun So would you meet a cpl and fuck his wife infront of him Dont know is my honest answer. I have never did it before Are you open to the idea prob to nervous to do it. prob would be uncomfortable " Serious question and not attacking you..Why choose a swinging site for NSA if you wouldn't be open to meet a cpl to swing with ..I'm curious | |||
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"I'm just here for your normal NSA fun So would you meet a cpl and fuck his wife infront of him Dont know is my honest answer. I have never did it before Are you open to the idea prob to nervous to do it. prob would be uncomfortable Serious question and not attacking you..Why choose a swinging site for NSA if you wouldn't be open to meet a cpl to swing with ..I'm curious " This site was highlighted to me by a female who was here on here own. she said it's a site where you can get no strings fun, sign up so I did. That's it in a nutshell | |||
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"I'm just here for your normal NSA fun So would you meet a cpl and fuck his wife infront of him Dont know is my honest answer. I have never did it before Are you open to the idea prob to nervous to do it. prob would be uncomfortable Serious question and not attacking you..Why choose a swinging site for NSA if you wouldn't be open to meet a cpl to swing with ..I'm curious This site was highlighted to me by a female who was here on here own. she said it's a site where you can get no strings fun, sign up so I did. That's it in a nutshell " Cool ... Side tracked thread a bit sorry OP lol ... | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... just a thought....maybe she gets enjoyment when getting fucked by another guy.... or is it all just about you? This isn't particularly aimed at you willywrapper,lI've to say it's funny how many pseudo sexually liberated blokes with deeply conservative values are on this site.... I don't think it's deeply conservative at all. I think it's very presumptive to think you should have the liberty to fuck around... It's a relationship after all and must work for all parties or no deal. You are either a cuckold or you are not " You don't have to be a cuckold to enjoy swinging as a couple IMO. | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... just a thought....maybe she gets enjoyment when getting fucked by another guy.... or is it all just about you? This isn't particularly aimed at you willywrapper,lI've to say it's funny how many pseudo sexually liberated blokes with deeply conservative values are on this site.... I don't think it's deeply conservative at all. I think it's very presumptive to think you should have the liberty to fuck around... It's a relationship after all and must work for all parties or no deal. You are either a cuckold or you are not You don't have to be a cuckold to enjoy swinging as a couple IMO. " That's true, I thought you were saying she should be allowed go fuck others solo by default. | |||
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"nsawitu if you spent a lot of those 3 years thinking bout what you were missing and was glad it ended then you obviously didn't have much feeling for her , perhaps you should have not have wasted so much of her time .. " You have a good point foxylady, I know I should of ended it sooner, but couldn't for a certain reason. | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... Would she enjoy you fucking another girl I'm single at the moment so don't know So how do you know how you would feel watching or knowing she's fucking another guy Because I know what it's like been in a serious relationship and the feeling you have for that other person in your life
Most of us are in loving caring relationships just because we have sex with other people don't mean we love them any less "Couldn't agree more | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?"Swinging in essence is for couples, who wish to share there partners with others!! Really all of us singles on here are not swingers in the true sense, we are just horny people who know by meeting somebody on here that the sex will be a bit naughtier or we hope it will be adult dating.
Realistically though for me, the chances of the sex on fab being better than real world is highly unlikely. 1st off condoms take away all the amazing things you feel in vanilla, love usually happens in vanilla and if you find the right vanilla, it will knock the socks off any swinging single meet on here.
That's why swinging and couples have the best of both and why it's really for couples. | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
What's your opinion on this ?
Swinging in essence is for couples, who wish to share there partners with others!!
Really all of us singles on here are not swingers in the true sense, we are just horny people who know by meeting somebody on here that the sex will be a bit naughtier or we hope it will be adult dating.
Realistically though for me, the chances of the sex on fab being better than real world is highly unlikely. 1st off condoms take away all the amazing things you feel in vanilla, love usually happens in vanilla and if you find the right vanilla, it will knock the socks off any swinging single meet on here.
That's why swinging and couples have the best of both and why it's really for couples."I don't really agree with this. While you could argue that swinging had its origins in partner swapping, those kinda things evolve further and have so. Swinging nowadays is defined as a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with no further obligations but with a social component to it. Couples might get the best out of both world, it doesn't exclude that you can find mind blowing sex as a single in the swinging world especially when you re-meet people. As for myself I never experienced the kind of extraordinary sex I had on here when I was still in my vanilla world. | |||
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"Being a "swinger" for many years I find that is a little like hotel california "you can check out anytime you like but you can't never leave" so it make me wonder is it ever possible to return to the vanilla world have a monogamous relationship? I guess we will never know as I'm sure no vanilla will read this
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Swinging in essence is for couples, who wish to share there partners with others!!
Really all of us singles on here are not swingers in the true sense, we are just horny people who know by meeting somebody on here that the sex will be a bit naughtier or we hope it will be adult dating.
Realistically though for me, the chances of the sex on fab being better than real world is highly unlikely. 1st off condoms take away all the amazing things you feel in vanilla, love usually happens in vanilla and if you find the right vanilla, it will knock the socks off any swinging single meet on here.
That's why swinging and couples have the best of both and why it's really for couples.
I don't really agree with this. While you could argue that swinging had its origins in partner swapping, those kinda things evolve further and have so. Swinging nowadays is defined as a non-monogamous behavior in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with no further obligations but with a social component to it.
Couples might get the best out of both world, it doesn't exclude that you can find mind blowing sex as a single in the swinging world especially when you re-meet people. As for myself I never experienced the kind of extraordinary sex I had on here when I was still in my vanilla world. "*it doesn't exclude that you can't find.... | |||
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"As for myself I never experienced the kind of extraordinary sex I had on here when I was still in my vanilla world." I have to agree with you, it has evolved and I suppose it is a lot different now but in response to the above quote, no sex for me is mind blowing with a condom on, it just doesn't compare
I have had mind blowing sex with someone I've met here but it only happened after we decided to go vanilla for a bit and enjoyed safe unsafe sex with each other
I suppose what I'm trying to say is I don't feel like a swinger, more adult dating. | |||
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"As for myself I never experienced the kind of extraordinary sex I had on here when I was still in my vanilla world. I have to agree with you, it has evolved and I suppose it is a lot different now but in response to the above quote, no sex for me is mind blowing with a condom on, it just doesn't compare
I have had mind blowing sex with someone I've met here but it only happened after we decided to go vanilla for a bit and enjoyed safe unsafe sex with each other
I suppose what I'm trying to say is I don't feel like a swinger, more adult dating. "Hmm I never regarded using condoms as hinderance for having mind blowing sex. It's all in your head and how you build it into your sex play rather than looking upon it as an obstacle in my humble opinion. | |||
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"As for myself I never experienced the kind of extraordinary sex I had on here when I was still in my vanilla world. I have to agree with you, it has evolved and I suppose it is a lot different now but in response to the above quote, no sex for me is mind blowing with a condom on, it just doesn't compare
I have had mind blowing sex with someone I've met here but it only happened after we decided to go vanilla for a bit and enjoyed safe unsafe sex with each other
I suppose what I'm trying to say is I don't feel like a swinger, more adult dating.
Hmm I never regarded using condoms as hinderance for having mind blowing sex. It's all in your head and how you build it into your sex play rather than looking upon it as an obstacle in my humble opinion. "I think it's different for men, and maybe a thread debate becons
My sensitive head is covered in rubber, sensations of the amazing feeling of a women is gone.. | |||
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"As for myself I never experienced the kind of extraordinary sex I had on here when I was still in my vanilla world. I have to agree with you, it has evolved and I suppose it is a lot different now but in response to the above quote, no sex for me is mind blowing with a condom on, it just doesn't compare
I have had mind blowing sex with someone I've met here but it only happened after we decided to go vanilla for a bit and enjoyed safe unsafe sex with each other
I suppose what I'm trying to say is I don't feel like a swinger, more adult dating.
Hmm I never regarded using condoms as hinderance for having mind blowing sex. It's all in your head and how you build it into your sex play rather than looking upon it as an obstacle in my humble opinion.
I think it's different for men, and maybe a thread debate becons
My sensitive head is covered in rubber, sensations of the amazing feeling of a women is gone.. "Get condoms that suit then ...Simple really | |||
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"As for myself I never experienced the kind of extraordinary sex I had on here when I was still in my vanilla world. I have to agree with you, it has evolved and I suppose it is a lot different now but in response to the above quote, no sex for me is mind blowing with a condom on, it just doesn't compare
I have had mind blowing sex with someone I've met here but it only happened after we decided to go vanilla for a bit and enjoyed safe unsafe sex with each other
I suppose what I'm trying to say is I don't feel like a swinger, more adult dating.
Hmm I never regarded using condoms as hinderance for having mind blowing sex. It's all in your head and how you build it into your sex play rather than looking upon it as an obstacle in my humble opinion.
I think it's different for men, and maybe a thread debate becons
My sensitive head is covered in rubber, sensations of the amazing feeling of a women is gone..
Get condoms that suit then ...Simple really "I've tried them all | |||
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"obviously for safety I have used condoms but I have had sex without and I have to say for me there is a fair difference. " It's not even in the same league !! | |||
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"I'd just get no enjoyment seeing my gf get fucked by another guy... just a thought....maybe she gets enjoyment when getting fucked by another guy.... or is it all just about you? This isn't particularly aimed at you willywrapper,lI've to say it's funny how many pseudo sexually liberated blokes with deeply conservative values are on this site.... " This!! | |||
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"obviously for safety I have used condoms but I have had sex without and I have to say for me there is a fair difference. It's not even in the same league !!" Oops he's gone, scared off by a bunch of throttling rubbers.  | |||
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"obviously for safety I have used condoms but I have had sex without and I have to say for me there is a fair difference. It's not even in the same league !! Oops he's gone, scared off by a bunch of throttling rubbers. "Moral of the story "don't be a fool wrap your tool" | |||
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"We like to swing but it can become a bit too overwhelming at times so i personally like a balance. I love both naughty sex and vanilla sex depending what mood im in but it wouldnt be hard to give it up completely because my relationship is amazing either way. I dont think vanilla sex is boring if its with the right person. i think the 2 are just different styles and theres nothing wrong with a change of scene every now and again " | |||
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"What the hell is different about having sex with someone you meet on a night out or someone you meet of a sex site. I think some people on fab think because they are on a sex site they are the sex experts. Lol" I'd say - from a woman's point of view - if you choose carefully the chances of meeting someone who has skills and talent but also the desire to please is a good bit higher on here than a random man on a night out. | |||
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"What the hell is different about having sex with someone you meet on a night out or someone you meet of a sex site. I think some people on fab think because they are on a sex site they are the sex experts. Lol I'd say - from a woman's point of view - if you choose carefully the chances of meeting someone who has skills and talent but also the desire to please is a good bit higher on here than a random man on a night out. " Well some of the men and some of the ladies certainly talk's the talk on fab not so sure about walking the walk. | |||
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