FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence knock.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else get a blow to their confidence from the lack of replies? I have messaged quite a few people and I never get a reply. Just wondering how many others this happens too, regardless of sex or orientation.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Dude don't stress too much,you will be better off engaging on the forums, getting to know a few peeps on here and then striking up conversations privately with them.The problem with sites like this is that too many people get their heads filled with unrealistic notions,people on here get told they are perfect 10's and in reality if you passed most of them on the street they would barely warrant a second look,so get to know some people on forums on some sites the video chat is good but on here it's too cliquey. Don't stress and good luck with the fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dude don't stress too much,you will be better off engaging on the forums, getting to know a few peeps on here and then striking up conversations privately with them.The problem with sites like this is that too many people get their heads filled with unrealistic notions,people on here get told they are perfect 10's and in reality if you passed most of them on the street they would barely warrant a second look,so get to know some people on forums on some sites the video chat is good but on here it's too cliquey. Don't stress and good luck with the fabbing."

I agree with this.

Also, no matter what, don't let this site affect your confidence, not for the better or the worse. It's not worth that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else get a blow to their confidence from the lack of replies? I have messaged quite a few people and I never get a reply. Just wondering how many others this happens too, regardless of sex or orientation."

A lot, & the reasons vary. One of the reasons is the lack of manners shown by a few that begins to colour your pallette, they either are incapable of holding a conversation or are just outright rude so people tend to be cautious in replying. Or just not bother in case it's another idiot that's going to get abusive because you're not interested.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it bother ya, no doubt theirs a few here up their own arses they probably don't reply to anyone it's all about the attention. But that's only a small few compared to the nice normal people, who may not reply to any men who don't suit what they are looking for. Try not to take it personally, take no reply as a no thank you and move on to the next person who catches your eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let it bother ya, no doubt there's a few here up their own arses they probably don't reply to anyone it's all about the attention. But that's only a small few compared to the nice normal people, who may not reply to any men who don't suit what they are looking for. Try not to take it personally, take no reply as a no thank you and move on to the next person who catches your eye

Before the grammar police get me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't let it bother ya, no doubt theirs a few here up their own arses they probably don't reply to anyone it's all about the attention. But that's only a small few compared to the nice normal people, who may not reply to any men who don't suit what they are looking for. Try not to take it personally, take no reply as a no thank you and move on to the next person who catches your eye

^^^^^ This

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