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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here??

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

From some, yeah probably. Everyones looking for someone in particular here, you have to get through a lot of rubbish but if you can find someone that works for you it'll be worth it...hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have to move fast cause it doesn't take that long to buy a litre of milk

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"They have to move fast cause it doesn't take that long to buy a litre of milk "

Oh ur on form tonight

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo


"They have to move fast cause it doesn't take that long to buy a litre of milk "

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have heard of this before think they are called pandas

Eats

Shoots

And leaves

I tend to hang around for the after glow and he'll there always seconds and thirds

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Love the after glow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly because the afterglow can lead to more fun and keeps the party going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Post sex banter can be brilliant with the right people, social side of fab makes a huge difference.

Having said that some don't like interaction after. Think it depends on the person.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Post sex banter can be brilliant with the right people, social side of fab makes a huge difference.

Having said that some don't like interaction after. Think it depends on the person."

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo


"Exactly because the afterglow can lead to more fun and keeps the party going!"

And that's the way it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta stay for seconds and thirds

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Gotta stay for seconds and thirds "

Exactly! Second helpings and dessert

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo


"Gotta stay for seconds and thirds "

Don't be greedy now

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Or even the whole weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta stay for seconds and thirds

Don't be greedy now "

Greedy girl I am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta stay for seconds and thirds

Exactly! Second helpings and dessert "

Mmm and dessert

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I like dessert...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised no one has mentioned how good morning after fun can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprised no one has mentioned how good morning after fun can be "

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprised no one has mentioned how good morning after fun can be "

Especially when you take him breakfast in the spare room...

"Over easy did you say?"

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I love the post coitus breathless chats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I just want them to fuck and fuck off

But not all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just you

Like to hang round, let you catch you breath. I'll be ready lol.

Special offer this week 2 for one etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about the pillow talk..... And breakfast bjs

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Surprised no one has mentioned how good morning after fun can be "

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morning after fun can be good!

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Surprised no one has mentioned how good morning after fun can be

Especially when you take him breakfast in the spare room...

"Over easy did you say?" "

Ummmm, Bread toasted on Both Sides.... Lol

Ummmmmm

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "

Stay till all are satisfied and wore out. If they want you to go, they would say, Pull The Door After After You.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is post sex not a sAmbo and a sleep...

Obviously on your own side of the bed too not of that clingy stuff please

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

It's the OP's fault!!

It wouldn't happen if they didn't expect a guy to undress to begin with!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the OP's fault!!

It wouldn't happen if they didn't expect a guy to undress to begin with!! "

So that's where we have been going wrong!! Suppose if he kept his clothes on he could be away wen quicker zip up while he's heading out the door

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Hang on!

It wasn't you hiding in the closet saying "go on son spank her" from the other thread was it?

That might explain it

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Hubby is out of Town thread.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

You seem to choose the wrong lads, sorry to say it that bluntly. I wouldn't be pleased at all if a guy runs out on me.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "
job done, out the door. don't see a problem

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes


"It's the OP's fault!!

It wouldn't happen if they didn't expect a guy to undress to begin with!!

So that's where we have been going wrong!! Suppose if he kept his clothes on he could be away wen quicker zip up while he's heading out the door "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's about communicating what u both want b4 meet.

I know some don't like to hang around ..... Someone might jump outta the wardrobe he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have heard of this before think they are called pandas

Eats

Shoots

And leaves

I tend to hang around for the after glow and he'll there always seconds and thirds "

Eats

Shoots

And leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's about communicating what u both want b4 meet.

I know some don't like to hang around ..... Someone might jump outta the wardrobe he he "

Don't worry I won't fuck you

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By *ne of manyMan
over a year ago

east Galway


"Exactly because the afterglow can lead to more fun and keeps the party going!"

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"It's the OP's fault!!

It wouldn't happen if they didn't expect a guy to undress to begin with!!

So that's where we have been going wrong!! Suppose if he kept his clothes on he could be away wen quicker zip up while he's heading out the door "

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Just when guy is cumming your hubby should go to the door and get ready to open it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "

If they're doing that they're obviously not putting enough energy into the meet or they'd be out of breath and needing a breather too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Post sex banter can be brilliant with the right people, social side of fab makes a huge difference.

Having said that some don't like interaction after. Think it depends on the person."

Nothing like the banter inbtween rest periods adds to the experience i feel and makes things go much more easier with the flow of a night why rush off if you have all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's about communicating what u both want b4 meet.

I know some don't like to hang around ..... Someone might jump outta the wardrobe he he

Don't worry I won't fuck you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Post sex banter can be brilliant with the right people, social side of fab makes a huge difference.

Having said that some don't like interaction after. Think it depends on the person.

Nothing like the banter inbtween rest periods adds to the experience i feel and makes things go much more easier with the flow of a night why rush off if you have all night "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never run anywhere in always take my time and make sure I do a good job

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By *unne66Man
over a year ago

North County

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By *unne66Man
over a year ago

North County

But he has just delivered the milk......or is that whipped cream

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

My view is you've just shared a bed with someone so it's just common respect that you should all sit down and have a drink or at least a chat with them afterwards even for a little while...

Also, getting dressed and walking a woman to her car or texting the next day shows some class too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think joining a couple can be a strange dynamic. You could feel a little bit like a third wheel, depending on how the couple interact with each other in your company. And then after the event, there might be a danger of staying too long, so some might bolt a bit too soon, rather than overstay the welcome.

I stress that no couple I've ever met have made me feel like that, but I'd imagine it could easily happen in some cases.

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By *unne66Man
over a year ago

North County


"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "

Of course it is not too much to expect but unfortunately at times there is more than just the question of common decency to consider. For some people Fabs and everything that happens on here is part of a sex addiction. So when they meet up with someone and have sex their addiction has been fulfilled and they just want to leave as quickly as possible.......or they may have just remembered that they left their keys in the car and the engine running

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Is it just us having high expectations or do others feel the same way! When have a meet planned and goes ahead as arranged everything's going well and there's a bit of a connection then u move onto the next stage of the meet in the bedroom (or wherever) but as soon as the guy cums (experience of meeting some single guys) he has his boxers on and out the door before the lady has caught her breath again which to us leaves a bit of deflated vibe! We not saying we want u to spend the night but at least wait until she has caught her breath and is able to say goodbye before u head for the door! So I'm asking is having a bedside manner too much to expect from some on here?? "

Looking at your pictures, I definitely wouldn't be leaving, unless I was asked to.

;-)

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