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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.

For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today.

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By *allDarknHandsomeMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.

For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today. "

Man, have I got a story. So a younger polish girl asked me out after we'd met in the pub, I was into her and she was a solid looking and fairly funny young one. We meet up and go down to the local beach for a nice stroll and a load of polish Bois pull up and start berating her in polish so I lead her off and just walk on with her and she starts crying explains it was her ex, apologises and practically runs off. We're chatting since the weekend still, will probably see her next weekend but wow it was an odd one. Felt really bad for her!

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

I got asked out a couple of years ago by a tall slim beautiful woman that I knew very little about other than we had been a the same party a few months earlier. Charming she was, we had a lovely restaurant dinner, followed by a taxi across town to a bar with live music. However, only a few drinks later she got a lot livelier and started to tear up the floor in Spanish flamenco dance moves. This was fun. Her getting way too d*unk and messy was not so I took her home. Surprisingly, after few hours and a few cups of coffee with her house mate she sobered up and came back to mine to literally tear the cothes off me. That turned into a 3 day boozy fling that looking back was very erotic but glad it finished and we parted. I later learned that she regularly struggled with booze. I prefer coffee first dates since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage

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By *dam010Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage "

What's 'the iron circle' mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago, can't even remember fully. He turned me down, I've never had the confidence to do that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never! Wouldn't have the balls to.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Was in a nightclub two years ago and met a old client I'd known through work. While everyone was drinking their asses off, she couldn't believe this one guy was sober . So, she asked for a lift home, had ourselves a snog and then I asked her out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably when they still did slow sets at discos

Been than long

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Probably when they still did slow sets at discos

Been than long "

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Ahh the days of drinking for dutch courage then either getting off the dance floor or looking around when the slow set came on. Great, great times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My one and only time years ago he said no and I couldn't face the trauma again since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Years ago, can't even remember fully. He turned me down, I've never had the confidence to do that again. "

Same here, never again

I'm too old and bold now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agh all you fine and lovely ladies could ask me out and dare I woulove never let you down!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage

What's 'the iron circle' mean?"

The iron circle...basically, when you go to chat up a girl in a club or bar who happens to be with her mates, you're not just trying to chat her up, it's all her mates you're trying to chat up because if one or more doesn't take to you, that's it, chance gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I asked anyone out was my ex and don't think I'll be asking anyone else. Think beauty is there to hide the abusive behaviour in some women. Not confident enough just yet to even think about asking anyone out on a date

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By *dam010Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Kinda gave up on it years ago..just couldn't get past the iron circle. Seems much easier on dating sites, but to be fair their not exactly ronseal either. Think I've kinda forgotten how to at this stage

What's 'the iron circle' mean?

The iron circle...basically, when you go to chat up a girl in a club or bar who happens to be with her mates, you're not just trying to chat her up, it's all her mates you're trying to chat up because if one or more doesn't take to you, that's it, chance gone!"

Ah yeah know exactly what you mean now. I wouldn't bother approaching a group of Irish girls, far too shy and cliquey.

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Just did ask a girl out in Poland....and she said yes...so will see where this leads too

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never! Wouldn't have the balls to. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a club around Christmas

Went over to the guy

Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??

He rolled his eyes and walked away

I wasn't d*unk

I was sober

I am soo bad at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a club around Christmas

Went over to the guy

Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??

He rolled his eyes and walked away

I wasn't d*unk

I was sober

I am soo bad at it "

No way!! People are made lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a club around Christmas

Went over to the guy

Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??

He rolled his eyes and walked away

I wasn't d*unk

I was sober

I am soo bad at it "

That's a bitch. Not sure why unless he was already expecting someone and it might have looked bad for him. Don't let that put you off....I'd say it was nothing to do with you.

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By *dam010Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"In a club around Christmas

Went over to the guy

Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??

He rolled his eyes and walked away

I wasn't d*unk

I was sober

I am soo bad at it "

Being around Christmas time he probably wrongly thought you were d*unk or it was a wind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never asked directly , I did flirt and lucky enough I always got asked to dance or drinks and that led to a few dates

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"In a club around Christmas

Went over to the guy

Hi would you like to have a drink with me ??

He rolled his eyes and walked away

I wasn't d*unk

I was sober

I am soo bad at it

Being around Christmas time he probably wrongly thought you were d*unk or it was a wind up"
He probably had been just let down by someone so wasn't in the mood but even so he should have said yes or no to you not just walk away and say nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must say, kudos to ye ladies that tried. Not enough of that craic goin. Maybe if more tried, they might see what lads have to go through, and might go a little easier on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably thought I was taking the piss ... that's what I said to myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being totally honest if I was on a relationship and someone came up to me in a bar and tried it on I'd turn them down too. Maybe he is like me lol

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.

For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today. "

38 years ago,it was Mrs P & stil married today

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Its a little funny seeing the women get shot down once and never try again. You'd never manage as guys, getting shot down only once on a night out requires some great luck!

No's arent the worst thing in the world, missing out on something awesome on the otherhand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't recall ever asking anyone out

And it's been yearssssssss since anyone asked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've ever asked someone out, if i had no baggage i would no problem.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Can't remember ever asking a girl out directly as in do u want to go out with me but during conversations I might say I am going out Fri night if ud like to come along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't remember ever asking a girl out directly as in do u want to go out with me but during conversations I might say I am going out Fri night if ud like to come along."

Smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Years ago, can't even remember fully. He turned me down, I've never had the confidence to do that again.

Same here, never again

I'm too old and bold now "

Bold is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when was last time you asked a stranger out, i dont mean on fab or online.. somewhere like bar, shops those places that you seen someone and took a chance.

For me was 3 months ago, went out for drinks nothing more and still chat today.

38 years ago,it was Mrs P & stil married today "

Snap

Although for us it's 17 years ago since I got asked(sorry commanded) to go on our first date

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