FabSwingers.com forum: Negative verification marks

By *ungdublinguy OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Do you think a system for tagging profiles negatively would work?

Red icons for:

Reputation of being abusive

Bailing on organised meets

Fake pics

Does the site have the admin staff to make it work?

The reporting feature would need an attach pic option to add proof when reporting and act as a spam gate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it would work as jealousy grudges rejection would be acted out but admin could just ban them and the ip address which would thin them out a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been thinking about doing a star rating for mine ...

So on my profile I would give the meaning

No stars .... Gobshite

One star ...

Any help would be appreciated

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By *ungdublinguy OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

Just something I've been thinking about as the site's systems get abused, verified guys make a fake couple profile and verify it themselves, and the cancellers and abusive idiots are a clear persistent problem

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

No because I could in theory give you a bad remark

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By *ungdublinguy OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

"Iv been thinking about doing a star rating for mine ...

So on my profile I would give the meaning

No stars .... Gobshite

One star ...

Any help would be appreciated

1 idiot

2 wondering why I bother

3 ok but has trouble spelling

4 great

5 perfect

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By *ungdublinguy OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

"No because I could in theory give you a bad remark"

And if you had to include a screenshot to back your compliant up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv been thinking about doing a star rating for mine ...

So on my profile I would give the meaning

No stars .... Gobshite

One star ...

Any help would be appreciated

1 idiot

2 wondering why I bother

3 ok but has trouble spelling

4 great

5 perfect"

Love it !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given all the backstabbing and badmouthing that already exists here, this seems like a really bad idea to me.

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Way too easy to abuse a negative system. Theres already a lot of baseless bad mouthing of people around here. If someone turns up for a social meet but decides against taking it further they could vindictively get labelled a no show and how do you disprove that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let admin do there job, ignore/block/report the idiot's, move on to the thousands of genuine fabbers and enjoy....simples

Madame B

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By *ungdublinguy OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

A lot some to raise the same issue, in my first post it also says you'd have to attach images proving the compliant, this would stop petty bullshit fake complaints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd rather move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot some to raise the same issue, in my first post it also says you'd have to attach images proving the compliant, this would stop petty bullshit fake complaints."

How do you photograph verbal abuse or lies?

How do you photograph a no show at a meet?

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nut jobs know the rules backwards because in their 25 previous profiles they have had them quoted at them when they were been banned......

That means the same nut jobs will be first in line with their poison pens posting negative verifications to anybody and everybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I'd rather move on."

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I think people would be wary of meeting someone who rated their meets. I see no benefit in it at all. Bit like over information in a verycan be a turn off for many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I'd rather move on.

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I think people would be wary of meeting someone who rated their meets. I see no benefit in it at all. Bit like over information in a verycan be a turn off for many. "

Typo.... veri can *

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By *ungdublinguy OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

"A lot some to raise the same issue, in my first post it also says you'd have to attach images proving the compliant, this would stop petty bullshit fake complaints.

How do you photograph verbal abuse or lies?

How do you photograph a no show at a meet?

Madame B"

All computers and phones can take screenshots.

And you can screenshot the cancelled meet message time stamped 30 minutes before the meet time, being stood up would be a lot more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, dissaster waiting to happen.

Ask yourself, is there any online service where such a system truly works well?

And, if you find one, then ask yourself, does fab have the time and resources to implement it?

Not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I'd rather move on."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot some to raise the same issue, in my first post it also says you'd have to attach images proving the compliant, this would stop petty bullshit fake complaints.

How do you photograph verbal abuse or lies?

How do you photograph a no show at a meet?

Madame B

All computers and phones can take screenshots.

And you can screenshot the cancelled meet message time stamped 30 minutes before the meet time, being stood up would be a lot more difficult."

I wouldn't be going on meets if anyone other than Miss K got their camera out!!! Violation of my rights as far as I am concerned. People cancel for various reasons, when did cancelling become ban material. Op no offence but your ideas are full of loop holes just waiting to be abused by those that can and do.

No, the current system isn't perfect...but its simple.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

"Given all the backstabbing and badmouthing that already exists here, this seems like a really bad idea to me. "
Totally agree this site should be a happy place full of positivity etc not negative stuff!!

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By *ungdublinguy OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

"Given all the backstabbing and badmouthing that already exists here, this seems like a really bad idea to me. Totally agree this site should be a happy place full of positivity etc not negative stuff!!"

You must be new

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"A lot some to raise the same issue, in my first post it also says you'd have to attach images proving the compliant, this would stop petty bullshit fake complaints.

How do you photograph verbal abuse or lies?

How do you photograph a no show at a meet?

Madame B

All computers and phones can take screenshots.

And you can screenshot the cancelled meet message time stamped 30 minutes before the meet time, being stood up would be a lot more difficult."

Just to point out that screenshots of a web browser are quite easy to fake.

Assholes are going to be assholes, use your intuition. Trust but verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot some to raise the same issue, in my first post it also says you'd have to attach images proving the compliant, this would stop petty bullshit fake complaints.

How do you photograph verbal abuse or lies?

How do you photograph a no show at a meet?

Madame B

All computers and phones can take screenshots.

And you can screenshot the cancelled meet message time stamped 30 minutes before the meet time, being stood up would be a lot more difficult."

Seriously,who's got the time for all that shite? Chalk it down, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot some to raise the same issue, in my first post it also says you'd have to attach images proving the compliant, this would stop petty bullshit fake complaints.

How do you photograph verbal abuse or lies?

How do you photograph a no show at a meet?

Madame B

All computers and phones can take screenshots.

And you can screenshot the cancelled meet message time stamped 30 minutes before the meet time, being stood up would be a lot more difficult.

Seriously,who's got the time for all that shite? Chalk it down, move on."

Can you picture the verification after doing all that lol

Didn't have time to play as doing all admin work ate into our time together.

Personally, I prefer to have a fab meet rather than do admin. I get that you are trying to resolve fakes and time wasters but it will invariably end up wasting your time and energy that you could be putting into genuine fab meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there should be a rating system. Too many abusers and wasters. No consideration or manners. Some people do not know how to respect others. Also alot dont read profiles which tend to leads to trouble i think. If it was done at least it might make it more respectful because im sure no one wants to be rated as been abusive or banned do they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes there should be a rating system. Too many abusers and wasters. No consideration or manners. Some people do not know how to respect others. Also alot dont read profiles which tend to leads to trouble i think. If it was done at least it might make it more respectful because im sure no one wants to be rated as been abusive or banned do they"

All your reasons would actually be reasons why it would be abused and become a negative proposal for fab. Many of those whom you turn down would use it as a way of getting back at being rejected. I'd say few if any would ever then show any varis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of those whom you turn down would use it as a way of getting back at being rejected. I'd say few if any would ever then show any varis."

Couldn't agree with you more here and I'm speaking from experience yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given all the backstabbing and badmouthing that already exists here, this seems like a really bad idea to me. "

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

You must be new"
Not at all just an opinion sir!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ladies i like your guide . Yous should say it to admin. There should be a grading on profile about no shows and timewaster .

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I would think if you have nothing nice to say say nothing at all. Why cloud others judgement based on your own. We all have the right to be taken at face value.

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