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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I would have cum if I got invited. | |||
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"Sooooooo...... What are you trying to say Yoss? ![]() ![]() I could do with a hug fooey. ![]() | |||
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"Sooooooo...... What are you trying to say Yoss? ![]() ![]() ![]() C'mere for a huge MANHUG! ![]() | |||
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"I'm also guessing that some of the no shows probably were there, but chose to 'lurk' in the background.... (Like Ninjas ![]() They'll be ninja whingers when they're still not verified in a few months ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm also guessing that some of the no shows probably were there, but chose to 'lurk' in the background.... (Like Ninjas ![]() ![]() ![]() An then the influx of the "oh woe is me" and "what am I doing wrong?" threads ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. " 60% isn't a few (I'm obsessed with statistics today for some weird reason) but I agree you can't tar all with the same brush. | |||
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"I'm also guessing that some of the no shows probably were there, but chose to 'lurk' in the background.... (Like Ninjas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Anyone would think you'd seen this before Fooey - must be a regular thing ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Everyone has to deal with no shows and the people that dont bother turning up are tools that have no consideration for others. But its not restricted to newbies or unverified people so not really sure why you're lashing out at them... | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. " I agree Sally and why put up this thread if you weren't the organiser??? Shouldn't it be up to the lady that organised it to do this?? Looks to me like another chance to have a go at newbies. | |||
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"So that's 6 lads who knew their wives wouldn't let them go. 9 lads who snuck away from their wives 23 who got caught rotten by their wives" For shame for shame for shame all you cheating bastards | |||
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"I'm also guessing that some of the no shows probably were there, but chose to 'lurk' in the background.... (Like Ninjas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And then the influx of heroes posting "look at me I get lots of meets" and "you wish you were like me" posts ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. " Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. 60% isn't a few (I'm obsessed with statistics today for some weird reason). " I'm sure a statistics nerd. Instead of crunching my abs.I crunch numbers. Hmmmm pie chart... Yeah I was going to tag along but was 50/50 if I was going to be in Dublin so in in doubt, stay opted out... Out of interest how was athmosphere with 9 blokes and one lady? Good criac? | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. 60% isn't a few (I'm obsessed with statistics today for some weird reason) but I agree you can't tar all with the same brush. " I didn't mean the 60% of those invited, I meant out of all the new people on the site, but I see where you're coming from ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. " I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() Oh I can understand too, it doesn't mean I would want to meet them. | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. But why do we need a thread about it? " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. I agree Sally and why put up this thread if you weren't the organiser??? Shouldn't it be up to the lady that organised it to do this?? Looks to me like another chance to have a go at newbies." I would agree with you, essentially its virtue signalling. | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() althought she had good intentions in arranging this meet its not what most lone males on this want..they want to be meeting women for sex not meeting 30 other men probably in a public place for a coffee..sounds like a sad bastard meet..a pity me meet..I'm surprised anybody showed up at all ![]() | |||
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"That's unfortunate but couples and single women are also guilty of doing the same. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones and all that ![]() I think the glass house comment was broad sweeping but just in case it was directed at me. I've never been a no show. No good?? maybe ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"That's unfortunate but couples and single women are also guilty of doing the same. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones and all that ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No, it wasn't aimed at you ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Because that is who I am specifically talking about ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() jeeeze a well know Fabber does something good for non verified to get help in there fab journey.....not one positive comment has been said.... This place baffles me non verified post threads all the time saying help I can't get verified. Most reply go to a social or a meet and greet. Someone goes out of there way to do it and it's s pity meet ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. I agree Sally and why put up this thread if you weren't the organiser??? Shouldn't it be up to the lady that organised it to do this?? Looks to me like another chance to have a go at newbies. I would agree with you, essentially its virtue signalling." Virtue signalling, thats terrible. I know Id never do something so transparently manipulative, Ive far too much virtue for that ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() I agree, Lets. It gave newbies a chance to prove they are who they say they are, and will turn up. As for the sexy stuff, that's up to future meets to decide! ![]() | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. " Exactly and if it bothers people that much then don't organise those type of group meets. Simple really. | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. I agree Sally and why put up this thread if you weren't the organiser??? Shouldn't it be up to the lady that organised it to do this?? Looks to me like another chance to have a go at newbies. I would agree with you, essentially its virtue signalling." Oh yes and the same few are guilty of it here all the time. | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() And they might feel the same way towards you Caseys. But at least they may get the opportunity to chat with you ? | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() Not if their sole verification is one of the above. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Will you be posting stats after every social in the future?? Just wondering | |||
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" Because that is who I am specifically talking about ![]() But its not an issue specific to any group. Ive had more verified cancel than non verified. Just seems like a needless swipe taken to make all newbies or nonverified look bad. Maybe you're worried about the competition ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() "May get" perhaps this sole veri sets them on a path .. and if you are lucky you might be on said path. ![]() | |||
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" Because that is who I am specifically talking about ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() ![]() Maybe it will, maybe it won't. And it's up to me to judge how lucky I might have been with a meet. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm not sure, but I will say this, If I do post something it will be a tad less arse licking than some threads ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That's one thing I'd never be guilty of. ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Is this not an arse licking thread? ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() ![]() Exactly. and one of these "9 sados" as some other piece of art poster called them might just be the one that rocks your boat ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Nope It's a ffs thread. If I want to lick an arse I'll send a mail and request the opportunity to lick that arse. | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I doubt it, but I'll let you know if it happens ![]() | |||
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"It's simple, anyone who needs who to go through the group blessing initiation ceremony to get a foot on the ladder towards one day getting laid is obviously not the solid reliable type. Have to agree, I can't imagine being inspired to meet someone who got verified via a pity group coffee meet. I can understand it .... Its hard for non verified, some users have filter's up that only allow verified users to mail. Its a step up the ladder and I applaud any one doing it to help get verified. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() that's it yosser .... I can't wait for the next I can't get verified post....but this thread will be forgotten and the said advice will be GET yourself verified......... ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Not your circus, not your monkeys. You didn't organise the social and therefore you shouldn't have started this thread. This thread should be deleted. As said previously it's only having a swipe at newbies. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Let's be factual my little shadow.. Its a thread about no show newbies ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm not sure, but I will say this, If I do post something it will be a tad less arse licking than some threads ![]() ![]() That's why I thought it was an arse licking thread, as he was posting on someone else's behalf. Apparently I'm wrong though. My bad, carry on ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() The real facts are it's an arse licking thread having a go at newbies. There was another social on last night....will you be putting up a thread about that and the stats of no shows etc???? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm also guessing that some of the no shows probably were there, but chose to 'lurk' in the background.... (Like Ninjas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I doubt it that social was for verified users... ![]() | |||
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"I'm also guessing that some of the no shows probably were there, but chose to 'lurk' in the background.... (Like Ninjas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol...I call it as I see it ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Wow that was a lot to actually meet. And six in the end. I think I would be intimidated to meet 30 new people in one go no matter what the reason was it's a brace thing to do and to thrust others too. Fair play to the organisers " Imagine trying to write 30 veries without getting the guys mixed up! | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Others have said verified people don't show up sometimes either....I don't know as it hasn't happened me. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Its a thread thats designed to take a shot at all newbies. Its why in your first post you sarcastically reference newbies not getting a fair chance. There are people that did turn up so people could look at this positively but you decided not to despite you not even being involved. As was said previously youre just virtue signalling, its why you made a point of replying in here that youve never missed a meet. The aim of the thread is to push the idea that you always go to meets and newbies dont. Thats why youre complaining about people not turning up to an event you didnt go to, didnt organise and had no effect on you. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() When it comes to meet and greets, verified people are just as bad. | |||
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"No point in getting your knickers in a twist over it. Like everything else, you can't judge all new people on a few. Exactly and if it bothers people that much then don't organise those type of group meets. Simple really." Fair point ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Very well said and the OP should not be calling people Numptys. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Let's be factual my little shadow.. Its a thread about no show newbies ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() They shouldn't that is so wrong | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You think to much my friend, the aim of this thread was to vent my annoyance at 23 people who wasted a very good friends time. And perhaps buggered up 10 or so of the other 30 guys who who missed an opportunity to get that elusive 1st veri. I do not need to signal anyone here, and any comments that I, nay you make can be twisted and construed as that. Twist away if it makes you feel better. but my point stands 23 unverified/newbies didn't bother their arse. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thats a load of bull you thought you would make yourself the big man as usual by having a go at newbies. | |||
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"It was a great idea, it surprised me that there were so many no shows! And at the same time it's typical behaviour for some of the whining people who can't get "verified" not to even have the decency to cancel... Fair play to the two girls who went to the trouble and another thing that doesn't surprise me is the usual suspects who just love to stick their oar in....... Yoss..I can't agree more with your recent post!! Fair play to the girls at least they tried ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() its annoying you could of been on the list of reserves and than you would of gotten verified ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The 23 were the smart ones who had a think and realised wtf was I thinking but maybe didn't have enough manners about it Reading back, I didn't notice that it was going to be 30 guys and one girl sitting there having the world's most awkward coffee. Crazy stuff Not a snipe at the person running it, it's a good intention just strangely executed. But this "i'll meet you for a coffee to verify you" kinda thing should be at least be 1 on 1 to be make it a somehow normal human interaction with a semblance of getting to know each other. " ^^^ What he said ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah me auld pal Careful with the big words ![]() | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You are joking. I have more self worth. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Looks like this thread didn't quite workout as planned. | |||
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"The 23 were the smart ones who had a think and realised wtf was I thinking but maybe didn't have enough manners about it Reading back, I didn't notice that it was going to be 30 guys and one girl sitting there having the world's most awkward coffee. Crazy stuff Not a snipe at the person running it, it's a good intention just strangely executed. But this "i'll meet you for a coffee to verify you" kinda thing should be at least be 1 on 1 to be make it a somehow normal human interaction with a semblance of getting to know each other. " The way I see it, it was done so some of the newbies could put their names down for meet and greets. They all knew there was a few meeting up so it was their choice to say yes. It wasn't done for 1 on 1 future meets. ![]() | |||
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"Sorry I totally mixed the names up there letme" lol.It was not just for males either. Not being verified holds many restrictions, as to who you mail and meet, most socials and meet and Greets are the same too... | |||
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"Sorry I totally mixed the names up there letme" Lol I was totally getting confused there ![]() | |||
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" another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() Incidentally, the only person who called the ones that attended sad bastards, was a guy that attended. | |||
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" another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() can you stop quoting my posts I have you blocked against forum rules thank you ![]() | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Nope Penelope you got that wrong | |||
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" another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() Wrong | |||
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" another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() Actually it's correct. Read it again ![]() | |||
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" another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() ![]() Cosmic said it. He was not in attendance | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I rest my case . Moving on . ![]() | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Who's Penelope? I assume you're trying to say I have a fake profile? People are actually allowed to have different views from you and your friends. When you get personal, you're losing ![]() | |||
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" another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() ![]() I quoted you once, chill. You can stop quoting mine too, while you're at it. Much obliged ![]() | |||
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"I'll do anyone a good deal on pitchforks and flaming torches. Group discounts available." Throw in 30 coffees and a carrot cake and we have a deal | |||
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"I'm preemptively stating I want nothing to do with any of the infighting going on here and respectfully I'd like to make this point. I'm not taking digs.... I just love being annoyingly objective. Apologies in advance. The thread was started in outrage at a good friend having her time wasted by 23 numpties yet it turns out that she had great fun? Which is it! So what's it all about again? And to whose house should we send an angry mob ![]() Ooh you can be guaranteed if I comment, the usual suspects will be out with the pitchforks. Quite amusing really ![]() | |||
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"I'm preemptively stating I want nothing to do with any of the infighting going on here and respectfully I'd like to make this point. I'm not taking digs.... I just love being annoyingly objective. Apologies in advance. The thread was started in outrage at a good friend having her time wasted by 23 numpties yet it turns out that she had great fun? Which is it! So what's it all about again? And to whose house should we send an angry mob ![]() ![]() Well what do you expect when you are totally WRONG... ![]() | |||
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"I'm preemptively stating I want nothing to do with any of the infighting going on here and respectfully I'd like to make this point. I'm not taking digs.... I just love being annoyingly objective. Apologies in advance. The thread was started in outrage at a good friend having her time wasted by 23 numpties yet it turns out that she had great fun? Which is it! So what's it all about again? And to whose house should we send an angry mob ![]() ![]() ![]() I know! I forgot you have to follow the other lady's lead and agree! Fancy a fuck? ![]() | |||
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"I'm preemptively stating I want nothing to do with any of the infighting going on here and respectfully I'd like to make this point. I'm not taking digs.... I just love being annoyingly objective. Apologies in advance. The thread was started in outrage at a good friend having her time wasted by 23 numpties yet it turns out that she had great fun? Which is it! So what's it all about again? And to whose house should we send an angry mob ![]() Flash you can be a funny fooker ![]() | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() So why did you quote his comment with "Nope Penelope you got that wrong"? Genuinely curious ![]() | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? " no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Because you genuinely got it wrong, didnt you? | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Just like you got this thread WRONG. didn't you. | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() I did read it and to the outsider looking in your comments were uncalled for to be honest | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() First time for everything ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() thats Your opinion of which your entitled too.... ![]() | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() ![]() Of course, I'm just saying you haven't painted yourself in the best light here. If you have a problem with someone keep it to yourself, we are here to discuss things in a civil fashion, if you have grievances the forum isn't the place to bring them and what is there to gain from bickering? | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left." Did she put you off the sausage fest? ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left." You were expecting something else? | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Accepted ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left." I thought there was more than one woman, no? | |||
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"A fabbette recently arranged a coffee meet for newbies and unverified. You know .. the ones that "find it very hard on here", the ones that often post "help me" threads. The stats are as follows: 38 invites sent. 6 cancelled by mail in advance. No other mails were recieved to say they werent coming. 9 showed up. That's 9! NINE?? ! That's 23 that didn't bother their arse!!!! Up to 30 other guys had asked to attend but were turned away because the "meet" was full!! Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" First time for everything ![]() ![]() Except it's not the first time ![]() | |||
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" First time for everything ![]() ![]() ![]() Another great contribution, keep up the good work ![]() | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() ![]() This has made me laugh.....there are at least 3 on this thread that have grievances with the op and have continued to comment on here. At least one lady has quite a few on this thread blocked and has commented and reacted to those that she has blocked. Surely your advise should go to them too instead of pin pointing to one person ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() The "don't quote me bitch"... (Paraphrasing here) ... comment was what got my attention, the rest went totally over my head to be honest I'm just saying as an outsider looking in, the behaviour of everyone involved is embarrassing. Like teenage girls | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You ever think that's why they're commenting? If a post is aimed at me, I'll reply. Simple. | |||
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"Annoying comment alert...... Is the above not "naming and shaming"? no cause the user posted the comment. You just gotta read the thread. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah...I reckon he thinks he's in with a chance white horse and all that... | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. Did she put you off the sausage fest? ![]() Thought more women would have turned up..bunch of guys drinking coffee, I watched the game for a bit and left ![]() | |||
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"That's unfortunate but couples and single women are also guilty of doing the same. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones and all that ![]() I was just thinking the same thing lol ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. Did she put you off the sausage fest? ![]() ![]() Ha ha! At least it wasn't a complete waste. Did you say hello to the group at all? | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. I thought there was more than one woman, no? " Not from what I could see, fair play to her for organising it but wasnt for me. | |||
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" Ah the poor newbies don't get a fair chance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I like this one ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else?" Yes more women. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. Did she put you off the sausage fest? ![]() ![]() No I had no interest in joining, the setting was just weird..location was close to my gym so I went there after ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. Did she put you off the sausage fest? ![]() ![]() ![]() Constructive in the end then ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women." Did you not read the thread that the organiser put up properly? | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women." Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Did you not read the thread that the organiser put up properly? " Im pretty sure I did, not all new users are men you know, women could have attended but they dont need it I guess, women dont struggle here. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. " True, I didn't really think it through ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() I guess you didn't think to message the organiser either. Ah well you live and learn ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() Stop the whinging about something that doesn't effect you. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() No need to be nasty on something that doesn't concern you. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() Who is been nasty. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() I think if anyone's been nasty its you . | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() You stated he was whinging... Really me? ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() ![]() What's that about paraffin do you intend to burn something or someone. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() ![]() Gosh no... I think they done that all by themselves ![]() | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. You were expecting something else? Yes more women. Lol, women don't tend to have problems getting verified. True, I didn't really think it through ![]() ![]() I don't see the comment as being nasty at all. As for commenting on whether it concerns him or not...i think you are both forgetting that it is a forum and commenting is the point of it all. There are no private forums, so it's neither here nor there whether anyone feels it concerns anyone in particular or not. | |||
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"Ill be honest here, I showed up and saw one woman talking to a bunch of old dudes and simply thought "f*ck that", and so I left. Did she put you off the sausage fest? ![]() ![]() ![]() i generally dont comment on forums but had to on your very first comment. You said you arrived and didnt like the look of the old dudes with the woman? Did you message the woman to say listen im here dont like the enviornment so sorry wont attend? Or did you just not bother? If you didnt bother than you have tipified the reason the OP is venting hia frustration on behalf of his friend | |||
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" another person called people sad Bastards the ones that attended . ![]() ![]() ![]() It isn't Anyone can quote you and answer any post you write. what isn't allowed is for those same people to ask you to unblock or put you on the spot about you having blocked them. What is against rules is posting for people who cannot post though. | |||
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