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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

Is it just me or do most women just not reply when they get a message from someone. I've heard about the men who abuse women if they reply saying no thsnks but surly that's when the block button comes into play. Maybe I'm wrong but if I get a message I always reply is the nicest way possible. If I get a no thanks I'm always polite as well. What is wrong with people on here manners and politeness goes a long gone way I my book. Sorry for the rant. What do you all think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times when women reply you get the whole well why not or you get called ulgy fat bitch etc. 9 times out of 10 i dont reply.

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.


"Some times when women reply you get the whole well why not or you get called ulgy fat bitch etc. 9 times out of 10 i dont reply."

But after the first abusive text block is that not the best solution. I'm just saying someone goes to the trouble of looking at your profile and then sending a text then no reply. I don't think that's nice that's why I always reply.

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By *oodbuddy 51Man
over a year ago

Puerto Rico, Gran Canaria


"Is it just me or do most women just not reply when they get a message from someone. I've heard about the men who abuse women if they reply saying no thsnks but surly that's when the block button comes into play. Maybe I'm wrong but if I get a message I always reply is the nicest way possible. If I get a no thanks I'm always polite as well. What is wrong with people on here manners and politeness goes a long gone way I my book. Sorry for the rant. What do you all think. "

I think for every one message a male gets women and couples get a hundred so some just are overwhelmed and can't reply to you. Also I am sure they only preview your message and if nothing catches their eye they just bin.

Still even a no thanks reply is good to receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some times when women reply you get the whole well why not or you get called ulgy fat bitch etc. 9 times out of 10 i dont reply.

But after the first abusive text block is that not the best solution. I'm just saying someone goes to the trouble of looking at your profile and then sending a text then no reply. I don't think that's nice that's why I always reply. "

But the point is i shouldnt have to put up with abuse in the first place. This is a site for adults.

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.


"Is it just me or do most women just not reply when they get a message from someone. I've heard about the men who abuse women if they reply saying no thsnks but surly that's when the block button comes into play. Maybe I'm wrong but if I get a message I always reply is the nicest way possible. If I get a no thanks I'm always polite as well. What is wrong with people on here manners and politeness goes a long gone way I my book. Sorry for the rant. What do you all think.

I think for every one message a male gets women and couples get a hundred so some just are overwhelmed and can't reply to you. Also I am sure they only preview your message and if nothing catches their eye they just bin.

Still even a no thanks reply is good to receive. "

Exactly my point a simple no thanks and after you get any shit block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do most women just not reply when they get a message from someone. I've heard about the men who abuse women if they reply saying no thsnks but surly that's when the block button comes into play. Maybe I'm wrong but if I get a message I always reply is the nicest way possible. If I get a no thanks I'm always polite as well. What is wrong with people on here manners and politeness goes a long gone way I my book. Sorry for the rant. What do you all think.

I think for every one message a male gets women and couples get a hundred so some just are overwhelmed and can't reply to you. Also I am sure they only preview your message and if nothing catches their eye they just bin.

Still even a no thanks reply is good to receive.

Exactly my point a simple no thanks and after you get any shit block "

Under site rules no reply means no interest i have done a a polite thanks but no thanks. And the shit hits the fan with abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't some guys accept a no reply as a no thanks?

After all that's what the site rules say.

Why would it make your rejection any less painful with the actual word no ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't some guys accept a no reply as a no thanks?

After all that's what the site rules say.

Why would it make your rejection any less painful with the actual word no ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I should add,some messages just don't warrant a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 2 cents. As a newbie. I don't send to many out on spec. Only sent 4 in last month and that was just the need to compliment a photo or something. If I get a response that's great. If not that's life. If I get a message from someone I will respond. It must be a nightmare gettin loads and loads everyday and abusive Ines at that. So one has to understand if you don't get a responsive. It doesn't bother me. I just think the site is fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do most women just not reply when they get a message from someone. I've heard about the men who abuse women if they reply saying no thsnks but surly that's when the block button comes into play. Maybe I'm wrong but if I get a message I always reply is the nicest way possible. If I get a no thanks I'm always polite as well. What is wrong with people on here manners and politeness goes a long gone way I my book. Sorry for the rant. What do you all think. "
i would mostly get replies but as i never usually send a first face pic to locals first then it goes no further, but wen i do send them to folks a good bit away im chatting and arranging meets females have hundreds of replies to get through and im sure they just choose tho ones theyre interested in i.e tattood muscled massive cocked guys then when the usual no show statuses come up every saturday night "drop everything your doing meet us now" comes next, my opinion no reply, no interest, no worries, your lose. good luck anyway and have fun

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down


"And I should add,some messages just don't warrant a reply."

in most cases you get the response (including no reply) that your effort deserves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup must be a right bind getting more messages than you can answer

Cherry picking the best

Being spoilt for choice

So glad I'm not a woman on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I should add,some messages just don't warrant a reply."

And the several mails after that asking why you're not replying, also don't warrant a reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what is your take on replying to msgs when all it says is "would you like to have phone sex?" especially when it's the second time that msg has appeared from the same user and I politely sent a no thanks msg back the first time. I'd really like to hear what you have to say on that.

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


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I think for every one message a male gets women and couples get a hundred so some just are overwhelmed and can't reply to you. Also I am sure they only preview your message and if nothing catches their eye they just bin.

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"OP what is your take on replying to msgs when all it says is "would you like to have phone sex?" especially when it's the second time that msg has appeared from the same user and I politely sent a no thanks msg back the first time. I'd really like to hear what you have to say on that."

Or when you get the same message from the same person and you haven't even opened the first one.....feels like a copy and paste job for whoever is online at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the op mailing couples who clearly have stated no interrst in single males with that phone sex nonsense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the op mailing couples who clearly have stated no interrst in single males with that phone sex nonsense "

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.


"Some times when women reply you get the whole well why not or you get called ulgy fat bitch etc. 9 times out of 10 i dont reply.

But after the first abusive text block is that not the best solution. I'm just saying someone goes to the trouble of looking at your profile and then sending a text then no reply. I don't think that's nice that's why I always reply.

But the point is i shouldnt have to put up with abuse in the first place. This is a site for adults."

Your dead right but we are not all the same on her us men....

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick

We may have some snowflakes here.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

What makes me laugh and I have seen it on here is a guy sends a msg to a fem/cpl within two mins he's back on with the same copy and paste or the quizzical mail asking why they didn't reply to the first mail. Again two mins later hurling abuse that he sent a nice mail first time and they are only bitches and slappers wasting others time on this site ffs he wasted six mins of he's life get over it guys

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"What makes me laugh and I have seen it on here is a guy sends a msg to a fem/cpl within two mins he's back on with the same copy and paste or the quizzical mail asking why they didn't reply to the first mail. Again two mins later hurling abuse that he sent a nice mail first time and they are only bitches and slappers wasting others time on this site ffs he wasted six mins of he's life get over it guys "

exactly this

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"What makes me laugh and I have seen it on here is a guy sends a msg to a fem/cpl within two mins he's back on with the same copy and paste or the quizzical mail asking why they didn't reply to the first mail. Again two mins later hurling abuse that he sent a nice mail first time and they are only bitches and slappers wasting others time on this site ffs he wasted six mins of he's life get over it guys "

Spot on cj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP what is your take on replying to msgs when all it says is "would you like to have phone sex?" especially when it's the second time that msg has appeared from the same user and I politely sent a no thanks msg back the first time. I'd really like to hear what you have to say on that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And I should add,some messages just don't warrant a reply."

"Some" more like most in our case.

But we hear ya!!!

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By *iiboyMan
over a year ago

Tankardstown

This makes me laugh, first and foremost, no one is under any obligation to reply, that being said, it is nice to get a reply, even if its a no thanks, heres where the problem starts , some , and it is mostly guys just cant handle the no , i still cant believe the amount of status msgs from females detailing abuse, name, shame n block i say ,this is sposed to be fun and wer sposed to be adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do reply to every message but then again I have good filters on so rarely get any which makes it a lot easier

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"This makes me laugh, first and foremost, no one is under any obligation to reply, that being said, it is nice to get a reply, even if its a no thanks, heres where the problem starts , some , and it is mostly guys just cant handle the no , i still cant believe the amount of status msgs from females detailing abuse, name, shame n block i say ,this is sposed to be fun and wer sposed to be adults "

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