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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Is it a physical matter or a psychological one or a combo?

How can it be addressed?

And ladies how do you react when confronted with a condom fear situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a physical matter or a psychological one or a combo?

How can it be addressed?

And ladies how do you react when confronted with a condom fear situation?

"

Start getting dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be NO FEAR of condoms at anytime...I Always wear one or absolutely NO Play at all !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should not be swinging if they have condom fear or at the very least tell the person before the meet...No Glove No Love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't believe them

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"There should be NO FEAR of condoms at anytime...I Always wear one or absolutely NO Play at all !!!!!!!"

I agree with you Cass but it's out there and it's often just conveniently accepted by the person affected by it.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

_ontbesillywrapyourwilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to be totally enveloped in one,that would be quite scary

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Should not be swinging if they have condom fear or at the very least tell the person before the meet...No Glove No Love "

I agree however I can't imagine that anyone would tell before a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should not be swinging if they have condom fear or at the very least tell the person before the meet...No Glove No Love

I agree however I can't imagine that anyone would tell before a meet "

If I am chatting with a Couple or Female here with a possible view to meeting and I see a "bare cock penetration" pic in their profile I would always ask them about it and clarify 100% that I Only Play Safe !!!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Should not be swinging if they have condom fear or at the very least tell the person before the meet...No Glove No Love

I agree however I can't imagine that anyone would tell before a meet

If I am chatting with a Couple or Female here with a possible view to meeting and I see a "bare cock penetration" pic in their profile I would always ask them about it and clarify 100% that I Only Play Safe !!!"

Well that's an obvious one.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Is it a physical matter or a psychological one or a combo?

How can it be addressed?

And ladies how do you react when confronted with a condom fear situation?

Start getting dressed"

Do you get dressed after the first attempt of putting a condom on and he goes floppy by the look of it? Or do you give a second go?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I wouldn't want to be totally enveloped in one,that would be quite scary "

Ohh never thought of that but u do see some weirs stuff on here

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Sometimes the problem can be with the size of the condoms.

Regular condoms are too small for some guys. I had a problem with them being too small a few years back but bigger condoms are more readily available nowadays.

It can also be a psychological problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a physical matter or a psychological one or a combo?

How can it be addressed?

And ladies how do you react when confronted with a condom fear situation?

"

He looks at me, I look at him, we both look down, we scream & he runs one way & I the other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a physical matter or a psychological one or a combo?

How can it be addressed?

And ladies how do you react when confronted with a condom fear situation?

Ruuuuuuuun Forrest ruuuuuuuuuun

He looks at me, I look at him, we both look down, we scream & he runs one way & I the other..."

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By *owdyBoobyMan
over a year ago

limerick


"Sometimes the problem can be with the size of the condoms.

Regular condoms are too small for some guys. I had a problem with them being too small a few years back but bigger condoms are more readily available nowadays.

It can also be a psychological problem. "

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Well there was a dogging session in nearby county last Saturday, 1 couple and 7 guys.

Not a single condom was used and some guys had seconds.....

...and No, I did not participate!!

None were allowed!!

Crazy, crazy, crazy!!!

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

I never heard of a condom fear.

I have had a few ladies come out with oh I'm allergic or don't worry I can't get pregnant and oh it's ok I don't have anything,

WTF!!!!!!

There are laytex free condoms and how do you know you don't have anything and more to the point, how would she know if I had anything or not?????

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I wouldn't believe them"

Are you saying they can go floppy on command when seeing a condom?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I wouldn't believe them

Are you saying they can go floppy on command when seeing a condom? "

.

That is what the remote control is for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a physical matter or a psychological one or a combo?

How can it be addressed?

And ladies how do you react when confronted with a condom fear situation?

He looks at me, I look at him, we both look down, we scream & he runs one way & I the other...

Ruuuuuuuun Forrest ruuuuuuuuuun

"

Hahaha! He'd better come back with a box of chocolate!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!! "

Yes sadly

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

Yes sadly "

Is it the time it takes to open them damn wrappers?.... Especially if you're hands are wet from..... Well foreplay. Surely a guy just gets hard again within seconds of getting the condom on and penetrating? Maybe there are extreme cases... Poor boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

Yes sadly

Is it the time it takes to open them damn wrappers?.... Especially if you're hands are wet from..... Well foreplay. Surely a guy just gets hard again within seconds of getting the condom on and penetrating? Maybe there are extreme cases... Poor boys"

I saw a girl put one on a guy once with her mouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a physical matter or a psychological one or a combo?

How can it be addressed?

And ladies how do you react when confronted with a condom fear situation?

"

Never had it. I'd see it as bollocks and leave. No condom. No play.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

Yes sadly

Is it the time it takes to open them damn wrappers?.... Especially if you're hands are wet from..... Well foreplay. Surely a guy just gets hard again within seconds of getting the condom on and penetrating? Maybe there are extreme cases... Poor boys

I saw a girl put one on a guy once with her mouth..."

I've had a girl put one on me once, with her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't believe them

Are you saying they can go floppy on command when seeing a condom? "

Haha, no. I thought you meant they used it as an excuse not to use one.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I wouldn't believe them

Are you saying they can go floppy on command when seeing a condom?

Haha, no. I thought you meant they used it as an excuse not to use one. "

Jay I'm sure there's those ones out there too thinking they get away with that excuse but no that's not what I meant. I mean deflating when the condom gets in sight or is being put on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't believe them

Are you saying they can go floppy on command when seeing a condom?

Haha, no. I thought you meant they used it as an excuse not to use one.

Jay I'm sure there's those ones out there too thinking they get away with that excuse but no that's not what I meant. I mean deflating when the condom gets in sight or is being put on.

"

Can that be done? I guess a man would have to answer that one

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I think its anxiety and apprehension that can cause it for a few moments. Age especially middle aged men can suffer with E.D. The disruption in stopping to put a condom on can make men nervy and neurotic so ladies, give the guys a helping hand and make it part of foreplay

The Skyns brand of condoms can be bought with mixed sizes in the one box so theres no excuse really. And the Skyns condoms actually feel...like skin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its anxiety and apprehension that can cause it for a few moments. Age especially middle aged men can suffer with E.D. The disruption in stopping to put a condom on can make men nervy and neurotic so ladies, give the guys a helping hand and make it part of foreplay

The Skyns brand of condoms can be bought with mixed sizes in the one box so theres no excuse really. And the Skyns condoms actually feel...like skin! "

Exactly this

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It happens d odd time a guy goes floppy when trying to put a condom on . But I find d non latex condoms much better . Its not a fear of condoms , its stopping in d middle getting all set n then bang you take too long to get d condom on n you go floppy .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Exactly Skyns are a good brand but durex have d same type non latex type are very good . Some ladies are allergic to latex so I've heard .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its anxiety and apprehension that can cause it for a few moments. Age especially middle aged men can suffer with E.D. The disruption in stopping to put a condom on can make men nervy and neurotic so ladies, give the guys a helping hand and make it part of foreplay

The Skyns brand of condoms can be bought with mixed sizes in the one box so theres no excuse really. And the Skyns condoms actually feel...like skin! "

I ordered some only last month MDG.

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I think its anxiety and apprehension that can cause it for a few moments. Age especially middle aged men can suffer with E.D. The disruption in stopping to put a condom on can make men nervy and neurotic so ladies, give the guys a helping hand and make it part of foreplay

The Skyns brand of condoms can be bought with mixed sizes in the one box so theres no excuse really. And the Skyns condoms actually feel...like skin!

I ordered some only last month MDG."

Theyre available to buy in Boots too

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I think its anxiety and apprehension that can cause it for a few moments. Age especially middle aged men can suffer with E.D. The disruption in stopping to put a condom on can make men nervy and neurotic so ladies, give the guys a helping hand and make it part of foreplay

The Skyns brand of condoms can be bought with mixed sizes in the one box so theres no excuse really. And the Skyns condoms actually feel...like skin! "

I'm very hands on no problem with that and always build it into the play. I even have understanding for fluttering nerves...

Do you think there's a possibility that some mentally oppose (consciously or unconsciously) condoms from the onset and they'll never get there because of their inner resistance?

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I think its anxiety and apprehension that can cause it for a few moments. Age especially middle aged men can suffer with E.D. The disruption in stopping to put a condom on can make men nervy and neurotic so ladies, give the guys a helping hand and make it part of foreplay

The Skyns brand of condoms can be bought with mixed sizes in the one box so theres no excuse really. And the Skyns condoms actually feel...like skin!

I'm very hands on no problem with that and always build it into the play. I even have understanding for fluttering nerves...

Do you think there's a possibility that some mentally oppose (consciously or unconsciously) condoms from the onset and they'll never get there because of their inner resistance? "

I think once a man has failed to maintain an erection the fear is there, that it will happen again.So a vicious circle occurs where worrying about it will almost make sure it will happen again. Some men can feel humiliated by asking for extra stimulation from a partner so communication is vital because the problem can easily be rectified.

This cuts both ways with women too. Women over 40 need extra stimulation for orgasm so its not just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As of right now two of the women online have status requests on their profile looking for bareback meets.

It's incredibly common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condom Fear... new one on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

Yes sadly

Is it the time it takes to open them damn wrappers?.... Especially if you're hands are wet from..... Well foreplay. Surely a guy just gets hard again within seconds of getting the condom on and penetrating? Maybe there are extreme cases... Poor boys"

there are some can't get it hard to get as far as putting a condom on

There is something called penetration fear too

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

Yes sadly

Is it the time it takes to open them damn wrappers?.... Especially if you're hands are wet from..... Well foreplay. Surely a guy just gets hard again within seconds of getting the condom on and penetrating? Maybe there are extreme cases... Poor boys

I saw a girl put one on a guy once with her mouth..."

Now your talking,

What a turn on.

Love a Lady to Slide it on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

Yes sadly

Is it the time it takes to open them damn wrappers?.... Especially if you're hands are wet from..... Well foreplay. Surely a guy just gets hard again within seconds of getting the condom on and penetrating? Maybe there are extreme cases... Poor boys

there are some can't get it hard to get as far as putting a condom on

There is something called penetration fear too "

I can't see that problem arise with me and you x

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"I think its anxiety and apprehension that can cause it for a few moments. Age especially middle aged men can suffer with E.D. The disruption in stopping to put a condom on can make men nervy and neurotic so ladies, give the guys a helping hand and make it part of foreplay

The Skyns brand of condoms can be bought with mixed sizes in the one box so theres no excuse really. And the Skyns condoms actually feel...like skin!

I'm very hands on no problem with that and always build it into the play. I even have understanding for fluttering nerves...

Do you think there's a possibility that some mentally oppose (consciously or unconsciously) condoms from the onset and they'll never get there because of their inner resistance? "

I like your style DH, cuts out the anxious moment or Minute lol.

X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condom Fear... new one on me "

Me too

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Should not be swinging if they have condom fear or at the very least tell the person before the meet...No Glove No Love

I agree however I can't imagine that anyone would tell before a meet

If I am chatting with a Couple or Female here with a possible view to meeting and I see a "bare cock penetration" pic in their profile I would always ask them about it and clarify 100% that I Only Play Safe !!!"

Surely it's ok if a couple, who are in an actual relationship, go bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wearing condoms......I even wear one when I'm having a wank to keep my hands clean(posh wank)

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Should not be swinging if they have condom fear or at the very least tell the person before the meet...No Glove No Love

I agree however I can't imagine that anyone would tell before a meet

If I am chatting with a Couple or Female here with a possible view to meeting and I see a "bare cock penetration" pic in their profile I would always ask them about it and clarify 100% that I Only Play Safe !!!

Surely it's ok if a couple, who are in an actual relationship, go bareback? "

Jayus u can't be doing that

Between long term partners it's not an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy some Viagra as a Backup ?

Never used it but the Chemistry checks out

Read the label

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me a while to figure out what this thread was about. Do some guys go soft when they put on a condom? Oh dear!!

Yes sadly

Is it the time it takes to open them damn wrappers?.... Especially if you're hands are wet from..... Well foreplay. Surely a guy just gets hard again within seconds of getting the condom on and penetrating? Maybe there are extreme cases... Poor boys

there are some can't get it hard to get as far as putting a condom on

There is something called penetration fear too

I can't see that problem arise with me and you x"

Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size can be an issue

http://www.theyfit.co.uk/pages/about-theyfit

Have 66 different sizes. You measure and they suggest a size that would work for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all in the head i was the same ten years ago when i first started swinging more nerves tbh in a room with group fun 10 couples and many singles at first party i was bricking it other lads cocks in close proximity and never being in that siruation before is very daunting for a bloke.. but i did over come this when i felt more self confident in myself and just enjoyed the night... and even when i was in a full-time relationship i wore condoms for the first year it's confidence tbh and some lads just need a hand or a good bj to get them in the mood and a little patience oohh yeah some morw papatience.... ohh that's GNR SLANE THIS SUMMER LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine if a guy was just out of a long term marrage/relationship where he wasnt used to wearing condoms or never used one for all them years together it would be sort of a weird feeling so could possibly make him go soft wearing one, just my opinion

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Condom Fear... new one on me

Me too "

It is also called condom phobia. It's more common than you might think.

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By *esley pipes 88Man
over a year ago

Cork

Some women say they allergic to condoms

Is that true or just an excuse to go bb

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Some women say they allergic to condoms

Is that true or just an excuse to go bb"

Men or women can be allergic to the latex present in condoms. Theres latex free condoms available to buy so theres no excuse these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mates skyns are non latex more comfortable for both male and female and no need for a bag of frozen peas in the morning after a good party lads mates skyns are the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women say they allergic to condoms

Is that true or just an excuse to go bb"

It's true some people are alergic to latex and can have a bad reaction to them, but they can use polyurethane condoms instead.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Find a roll of silage plastic wrap it around and away you go xx

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Find a roll of silage plastic wrap it around and away you go xx "

or cling film

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"Find a roll of silage plastic wrap it around and away you go xx

or cling film"
Some fellas might never get the cling film off xx

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Find a roll of silage plastic wrap it around and away you go xx

or cling film"

A Tayto bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this sometimes in the past, until I discovered skyn. I was in a relationship and obviously doing bareback with gf so when it came to condom time with others my dick wasn't happy.

You can literally feel nothing with Durex and they were too tight.

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork


"I wouldn't believe them

Are you saying they can go floppy on command when seeing a condom? "

Well my Willie only has one good eye and is blind in the other so I approach him from the left so he doesn't see it....

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I had this sometimes in the past, until I discovered skyn. I was in a relationship and obviously doing bareback with gf so when it came to condom time with others my dick wasn't happy.

You can literally feel nothing with Durex and they were too tight.

"

Thanks for your honest post. Refreshing to read that you confronted the issue successfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the big deal? Apparently they are very safe and the fastest way to travel from continent to continent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the big deal? Apparently they are very safe and the fastest way to travel from continent to continent "

Made me laugh

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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago

Dublin West

I love this condoms are too tight argument.

Have seen people wearing them on their head or filling them with gallons of water and thats way bigger than any guy thinks he is..

Be a sensible swinger and make sure you are wearing one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the big deal? Apparently they are very safe and the fastest way to travel from continent to continent

Made me laugh "

Its the only way to fly

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Some interesting post.

It's a topic that I wanted to address for a long time but always held back because I couldn't find the right angle to approach it without exploding into a massive rant, but I guess after having run a well behaved thread without influencing others with my opinion it's okay now to finish off the thread.

While I've understanding when the nerves get into the way, BUT I've absolutely no understanding when consequently the problem solving approach is chancing a bareback! It deflates me immediately and game over. It also leaves me furious and frustrated. It's absolutely appalling behaviour and should it ever happen to me again, God have mercy on the guy. There I said it, rant over.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"Some interesting post.

It's a topic that I wanted to address for a long time but always held back because I couldn't find the right angle to approach it without exploding into a massive rant, but I guess after having run a well behaved thread without influencing others with my opinion it's okay now to finish off the thread.

While I've understanding when the nerves get into the way, BUT I've absolutely no understanding when consequently the problem solving approach is chancing a bareback! It deflates me immediately and game over. It also leaves me furious and frustrated. It's absolutely appalling behaviour and should it ever happen to me again, God have mercy on the guy. There I said it, rant over. "

It's more common here than the responses you've gotten would lead you to believe. And as you said you don't find out til well the condom goes on. I'd always say it straight I play safe. So yes totally agree with you turns what was up to that point a good meet sour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if one of the parties in a meet doesn't want to use a condom then its a lack of respect golden rule jonnys got you covered

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Some interesting post.

It's a topic that I wanted to address for a long time but always held back because I couldn't find the right angle to approach it without exploding into a massive rant, but I guess after having run a well behaved thread without influencing others with my opinion it's okay now to finish off the thread.

While I've understanding when the nerves get into the way, BUT I've absolutely no understanding when consequently the problem solving approach is chancing a bareback! It deflates me immediately and game over. It also leaves me furious and frustrated. It's absolutely appalling behaviour and should it ever happen to me again, God have mercy on the guy. There I said it, rant over. "
Just tryst him when he says "I'm clean"

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Some interesting post.

It's a topic that I wanted to address for a long time but always held back because I couldn't find the right angle to approach it without exploding into a massive rant, but I guess after having run a well behaved thread without influencing others with my opinion it's okay now to finish off the thread.

While I've understanding when the nerves get into the way, BUT I've absolutely no understanding when consequently the problem solving approach is chancing a bareback! It deflates me immediately and game over. It also leaves me furious and frustrated. It's absolutely appalling behaviour and should it ever happen to me again, God have mercy on the guy. There I said it, rant over. Just tryst him when he says "I'm clean" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some interesting post.

It's a topic that I wanted to address for a long time but always held back because I couldn't find the right angle to approach it without exploding into a massive rant, but I guess after having run a well behaved thread without influencing others with my opinion it's okay now to finish off the thread.

While I've understanding when the nerves get into the way, BUT I've absolutely no understanding when consequently the problem solving approach is chancing a bareback! It deflates me immediately and game over. It also leaves me furious and frustrated. It's absolutely appalling behaviour and should it ever happen to me again, God have mercy on the guy. There I said it, rant over. Just tryst him when he says "I'm clean"

"

I think that was a joke but in case not ... X2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this day and age .....with world trave and peoples lifestyle,its a no brainer no condom no fun......im gone if someone mention bare back to me,alarm bell ring

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Some interesting post.

It's a topic that I wanted to address for a long time but always held back because I couldn't find the right angle to approach it without exploding into a massive rant, but I guess after having run a well behaved thread without influencing others with my opinion it's okay now to finish off the thread.

While I've understanding when the nerves get into the way, BUT I've absolutely no understanding when consequently the problem solving approach is chancing a bareback! It deflates me immediately and game over. It also leaves me furious and frustrated. It's absolutely appalling behaviour and should it ever happen to me again, God have mercy on the guy. There I said it, rant over. Just tryst him when he says "I'm clean"

I think that was a joke but in case not ... X2"

Oh I'd say it was a joke but sometimes jokes aren't funny

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"I had this sometimes in the past, until I discovered skyn. I was in a relationship and obviously doing bareback with gf so when it came to condom time with others my dick wasn't happy.

You can literally feel nothing with Durex and they were too tight.

"

I agree the the wrong type or size condom can desensitise the experience but it's inexcusable to ask for bareback at the meet. Get yourself some nice rubbers that fit. Ffs

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By *omieMan
over a year ago

Larne

A condom can stretch over an adult leg/arm, there's no excuse for not getting one the right size.

No cock is too big to go gloveless

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"A condom can stretch over an adult leg/arm, there's no excuse for not getting one the right size.

No cock is too big to go gloveless"

I'd prefer to just pass that wear a condom that's too tight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this sometimes in the past, until I discovered skyn. I was in a relationship and obviously doing bareback with gf so when it came to condom time with others my dick wasn't happy.

You can literally feel nothing with Durex and they were too tight.

I agree the the wrong type or size condom can desensitise the experience but it's inexcusable to ask for bareback at the meet. Get yourself some nice rubbers that fit. Ffs "

If you read again you'll see that I'm giving skyn some free advertising and hate bareback

About the too tight argument, yeah they'll fit over anything but they are elastic and thus constricting. If you go a little soft from lack of stimulation then the blood flow to reinflate the mast is constricted if it's too tight.

The trick DH to answer your original is patience, be nice about it and turn him on in other ways until BOOM

We are can't be fuck machines all the time... Just most of it

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I had this sometimes in the past, until I discovered skyn. I was in a relationship and obviously doing bareback with gf so when it came to condom time with others my dick wasn't happy.

You can literally feel nothing with Durex and they were too tight.

I agree the the wrong type or size condom can desensitise the experience but it's inexcusable to ask for bareback at the meet. Get yourself some nice rubbers that fit. Ffs

If you read again you'll see that I'm giving skyn some free advertising and hate bareback

About the too tight argument, yeah they'll fit over anything but they are elastic and thus constricting. If you go a little soft from lack of stimulation then the blood flow to reinflate the mast is constricted if it's too tight.

The trick DH to answer your original is patience, be nice about it and turn him on in other ways until BOOM

We are can't be fuck machines all the time... Just most of it "

Thanks for your tips superflash, don't you worry, I'm long enough around and I know my way around cocks Normally I'm nice unless it turns out to be a dick I'm dealing with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was mulling this over... The pro move is to say "let me fix that" and pull out your signature "this will turn the fucker on" move

That kinda attitude would be have me hard like a diamond in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dog hunter no condom in the world would fit over some of the dicks that we have got messages from lol ohh forgot not meant to say lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to happen to me every time I was asked to wear a condom I think it was more the fact of stopping yourself from the heated throws of things and opening it and tryna get it on that just wasn't for me but then I met someone who does it with her mouth and it doesn't bother me at all I wear them all the time now much safer dunno why I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before our first meet I had condom fear. It wasn't a fear of the condom itself or a fear of putting it on. It was a fear of the condom slipping off during sex. It was a real and genuine anxiety.

As a couple we never really used condoms. We did a few times and once I did lose the condom. But we were monogamous so it was ok.

All that being said, fear or no fear, my cock goes nowhere unless it's covered by a condom. i would never endanger myself or my partners by going bareback

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Sometimes the problem can be with the size of the condoms.

Regular condoms are too small for some guys. I had a problem with them being too small a few years back but bigger condoms are more readily available nowadays.

It can also be a psychological problem. "

You have a bare back pic up mate.....you not play safe?

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Well there was a dogging session in nearby county last Saturday, 1 couple and 7 guys.

Not a single condom was used and some guys had seconds.....

...and No, I did not participate!!

None were allowed!!

Crazy, crazy, crazy!!!"

Unreal

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By *ig cock 1000Man
over a year ago

dundalk


"Should not be swinging if they have condom fear or at the very least tell the person before the meet...No Glove No Love

I agree however I can't imagine that anyone would tell before a meet "

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By *ig cock 1000Man
over a year ago

dundalk

To girls mail me we were chaten an thy do not want me to put one on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it when everyone in this thread talks about "no bareback" regarding condoms that theyre also talking about "oral" also?

see a lot of people doing safe sex for penetration... but when it comes to doing oral they dont ?

most major std's can be caught through oral but don't see many jumping up and down trailing their hair out regarding "unsafe" oralsex.....

surely unsafe oral sex is just as unsafe as penetrative sex ? surely ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem I have with condoms I can't find any big enough to cover my extra large cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it when everyone in this thread talks about "no bareback" regarding condoms that theyre also talking about "oral" also?

see a lot of people doing safe sex for penetration... but when it comes to doing oral they dont ?

most major std's can be caught through oral but don't see many jumping up and down trailing their hair out regarding "unsafe" oralsex.....

surely unsafe oral sex is just as unsafe as penetrative sex ? surely ???

"

It's about 1000 times less risky but technically you are right. Good oral hygiene is the main factor, no bleeding gums

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"The problem I have with condoms I can't find any big enough to cover my extra large cock."

You really should get onto the Guinness book of records.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem I have with condoms I can't find any big enough to cover my extra large cock.

You really should get onto the Guinness book of records. "
I would but unfortunately I'm not allowed as the book won't close with my big cock in it.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take it when everyone in this thread talks about "no bareback" regarding condoms that theyre also talking about "oral" also?

see a lot of people doing safe sex for penetration... but when it comes to doing oral they dont ?

most major std's can be caught through oral but don't see many jumping up and down trailing their hair out regarding "unsafe" oralsex.....

surely unsafe oral sex is just as unsafe as penetrative sex ? surely ???

"
safe sex is all about risk reduction. Oral isn't as dangerous. The mouth is designed to deal with strange bacteria, fungus and even viral infections. The penis and vagina are not as well protected.

There are flavoured oral barriers too. Obviously condoms for men, and for women it's very like a sheet of cling film. You get the friction and feeling but not as much of the heat and taste obviously.

In a group play you should use a different condom with each different person. No good you being safe and transmitting infection from woman to woman. Same goes for toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem I have with condoms I can't find any big enough to cover my extra large cock.

You really should get onto the Guinness book of records. I would but unfortunately I'm not allowed as the book won't close with my big cock in it.lol"

It's average at best on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's purely too much skin on the cock and the condom rolls off... Sometimes it's in the head and the little soldier retreats...

But I don't think anyone would in their right mind go for unprotected sex in high sex activity setting such as this...

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