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"I find women are very reluctant to send a face pic first. any reason behind this ladies? " discretion | |||
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"I find women are very reluctant to send a face pic first. any reason behind this ladies? discretion" couldn't the same be said for men? | |||
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"I find women are very reluctant to send a face pic first. any reason behind this ladies? discretioncouldn't the same be said for men? yip thats why im very reluctant to send the first face pic too, and dont cantact any profiles the say "send face pic with first msg" some people are more discrete than others i guess " ones that say send face pic with first message are usually pic collectors or people who are looking for a model | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send first" wud u meet without seen a face pic? | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message." Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it | |||
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"Its discretion and trust. Once youve met someone youve a better idea of what theyre like and if you could trust them with it. Its the reason I dont bother with any profile that asks for a face pic on the first message. Yes it does save some time if its important but no Im not gonna send a pic to what could be some dude from down the road for all I know!" That dude from down the road... could be the Sunday Life guy! | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it" Haha I'll get on that after work | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it The body and your photos speaks for them self's Haha I'll get on that after work " | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work " Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. | |||
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"Kik photo bombs are the handiest way to send a face pic, not foolproof but protects all parties Totally agree on posts above about profiles asking for one with first message. I wouldn't dream of engaging with one of those profiles." No...never really engage with those either...somtimes i go ah sure its just a face...what would they do with it...the thing i dont like about kik is its too easy to just click to share your photo to another user...and gawd knows where theyre gone once theyre sent....usually more risky on kik too with face and body togeter...i think i seperate the two more on pics i put up here...if someone seems genuine enough its usually alright though...and face cam in chat is usually alright too. | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic?" Yes I have | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have" I've had a few blind dates too | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too" Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw." Lol.buurrrrrn! | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! " | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic." Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. " I often wished i had one....for myself! | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. I often wished i had one....for myself!" It's ok geordie I usually bring two just in case one falls off | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. I often wished i had one....for myself!" 2 bags in every kit then? | |||
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"Kik photo bombs are the handiest way to send a face pic, not foolproof but protects all parties Totally agree on posts above about profiles asking for one with first message. I wouldn't dream of engaging with one of those profiles." whats kik photo bomb? | |||
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"Kik photo bombs are the handiest way to send a face pic, not foolproof but protects all parties Totally agree on posts above about profiles asking for one with first message. I wouldn't dream of engaging with one of those profiles.whats kik photo bomb?" u send a pic n it disappears after few seconds | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. I often wished i had one....for myself! 2 bags in every kit then? " I've to stock up | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. I often wished i had one....for myself! 2 bags in every kit then? I've to stock up " Is there a Charge on these bags as per supermarkets?...If so it's going to cost me a fortune to hide my face... | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. I often wished i had one....for myself! 2 bags in every kit then? I've to stock up Is there a Charge on these bags as per supermarkets?...If so it's going to cost me a fortune to hide my face... " Not more than a condom | |||
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"As was said, discretion. I never ask for a face pic ... if I'm asked for one, they can send firstwud u meet without seen a face pic? Yes I have I've had a few blind dates too Yeah same here...probably more than not...youre not calling round to just look at their face anyway...its nearly of minimal importance...even after meeting youd forget what they look like and would never recognise them if you passed in the street...compared to someobdy you might have never met but seen a face pic. Brown paper bag should be in every meeting kit, it can solve a lot of problems. I often wished i had one....for myself! 2 bags in every kit then? I've to stock up Is there a Charge on these bags as per supermarkets?...If so it's going to cost me a fortune to hide my face... Not more than a condom " Cool hunni...I get them for free | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw." Whoops, sorry! I'll rectify that too | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! " I deleted him by accident. So your smart comment is way off the mark | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! I deleted him by accident. So your smart comment is way off the mark " Lol | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! I deleted him by accident. So your smart comment is way off the mark Lol " | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! I deleted him by accident. So your smart comment is way off the mark Lol " | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! I deleted him by accident. So your smart comment is way off the mark Lol " X2? | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! I deleted him by accident. So your smart comment is way off the mark Lol " | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! I deleted him by accident. So your smart comment is way off the mark Lol " | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! " Dont know what means bold...me and witch are still good mates on here...friends or not. | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! Dont know what means bold...me and witch are still good mates on here...friends or not." | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! Dont know what means bold...me and witch are still good mates on here...friends or not." Congratulations, you lucky duck! | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! Dont know what means bold...me and witch are still good mates on here...friends or not. Congratulations, you lucky duck! " Ah thanks bold...well at least were all getting along in here and having some quack together. | |||
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"I've no problem sending a face pic first, but I wouldn't send it with the first message. Always wondered what you looked like now that you mention it Haha I'll get on that after work Mmmm.....you seem to have gone missing from my friend list btw. Lol.buurrrrrn! Dont know what means bold...me and witch are still good mates on here...friends or not. Congratulations, you lucky duck! Ah thanks bold...well at least were all getting along in here and having some quack together. " Emm, yeah! | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread " Obviously someone didn't like what was said. | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. " I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems !" Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice " Rather a lot of comments seem to have gone | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice Rather a lot of comments seem to have gone" So I see! | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice Rather a lot of comments seem to have gone So I see! " What was said had not the chance to read it, was busy making ice cream | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice Rather a lot of comments seem to have gone So I see! What was said had not the chance to read it, was busy making ice cream Nothing really. I'm surprised anything was removed. No arguments or anything. Well I don't think so anyway" You're totally right there, LC. DH - homemade ice-cream? | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice Rather a lot of comments seem to have gone So I see! What was said had not the chance to read it, was busy making ice cream Nothing really. I'm surprised anything was removed. No arguments or anything. Well I don't think so anyway You're totally right there, LC. DH - homemade ice-cream? " I noticed the ice cream too | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice Rather a lot of comments seem to have gone So I see! What was said had not the chance to read it, was busy making ice cream Nothing really. I'm surprised anything was removed. No arguments or anything. Well I don't think so anyway You're totally right there, LC. DH - homemade ice-cream? " Yeah not impressed yet with the vanilla one, it needs loads of improvement, but the cookie dough one is very delicious. | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice Rather a lot of comments seem to have gone So I see! What was said had not the chance to read it, was busy making ice cream Nothing really. I'm surprised anything was removed. No arguments or anything. Well I don't think so anyway You're totally right there, LC. DH - homemade ice-cream? Yeah not impressed yet with the vanilla one, it needs loads of improvement, but the cookie dough one is very delicious. " Can I have some it might cool me down a little | |||
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"I could have swore I commented on this thread Obviously someone didn't like what was said. I've yet to say something hurtful or insulting to anyone on this site and if someone chooses to fuck their toys out of the pram over a harmless bit of banter then they have a problem and thankfully I don't have to live with anyone else's problems ! Some people are great toy throwers, they've had plenty practice " Oh the irony | |||
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"Throw some baileys in the ice cream and we will pop up the hill Partayyyyy " Can I come too?! I loooove ice cream | |||
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"Throw some baileys in the ice cream and we will pop up the hill Partayyyyy Can I come too?! I loooove ice cream " I'll drive | |||
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"Throw some baileys in the ice cream and we will pop up the hill Partayyyyy Can I come too?! I loooove ice cream " Yes, no toys allowed though | |||
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"Throw some baileys in the ice cream and we will pop up the hill Partayyyyy Can I come too?! I loooove ice cream Yes, no toys allowed though " Not coming so | |||
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"Throw some baileys in the ice cream and we will pop up the hill Partayyyyy Can I come too?! I loooove ice cream Yes, no toys allowed though Not coming so " More ice cream for me then | |||
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"some interesting comments here. I understand what most are saying but if physical attraction is important to you, I don't know how anyone would meet without a face pic. also imagine chatting to somebody for weeks, then a face pic is exchanged and there is no attraction. complete waist of time. That's just my thinking on the issue. " I have to say I agree with the op . I have my face pics public , so when someone messages me , they already know if they are attracted to me or not. So ,, I'd like to know if I'm attracted to them ! Basically if I look at someone and can't imagine myself having sex with them ( that's what we are here for after all ) and there's no attraction for me , well then there's no point in endless endless messages . In saying that , I do have friends on here that I just chat to that I'm never going to meet ( for various reasons) , but we get on well and have great banter ! | |||
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"some interesting comments here. I understand what most are saying but if physical attraction is important to you, I don't know how anyone would meet without a face pic. also imagine chatting to somebody for weeks, then a face pic is exchanged and there is no attraction. complete waist of time. That's just my thinking on the issue. I have to say I agree with the op . I have my face pics public , so when someone messages me , they already know if they are attracted to me or not. So ,, I'd like to know if I'm attracted to them ! Basically if I look at someone and can't imagine myself having sex with them ( that's what we are here for after all ) and there's no attraction for me , well then there's no point in endless endless messages . In saying that , I do have friends on here that I just chat to that I'm never going to meet ( for various reasons) , but we get on well and have great banter ! " exactly. end of day there has to be physical attraction and the rest follows | |||
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"I totally get why others wouldn't want to share face pics to soon . There are always constrictions , like job , relationships , etc etc . But , I'm single ( yay ) , self employed ( another yay , although scary at times !) and I actually don't care who knows I'm on here . In fact I've told a few of my clients about fab , and some have checked it out and joined and had a great time ! Yay for fab ! I don't care what others think of me being on here , and both my parents are dead ,, dad passed just before Christmas ( still struggling with that one ..... ) but I know others are not in the same position , or just might not want to go sharing face pics . " Beautiful independently free life, happy for you. Sorry to hear about your loss. Madame B | |||
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"ye I know alot who are nervous about face pics been "used" elsewhere but I hate chatting to someone for ages and then realise there is no attraction " same Hun , it's happened to me so many times . I had one guy , was adamant he wanted to meet asap because he was only in Dublin a few hours . I asked for a face pic , ,,, he said he has a very public / important job and didn't want to send one . I said ,,, look , you messaged me because you saw me , liked me , and want to meet me ,,, because you can see my face , not just one pic , but several , so you can be pretty sure I've not robbed them off the internet . I'm not going to meet you without knowing what you look like , do either send one , or stop messaging me . This went on and on and on ( should've just blocked him !) and on and on ! Eventually he sent one , 20 messages and two hours later ! There was no attraction ! !! | |||
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