FabSwingers.com forum: Social circle

By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

We all know fab offers meets and greets parties etc. Is that your social circle or do you also head out with your pals you had before signing up to fabswingers? What would you prefer, a regular night out with pals or a meet and greet from fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 'real life' friends. I often go out with them and would probably pick a night out with them over a meet. . . unless it was an m&g or a party and then they'd just have to wait for my company

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I have 'real life' friends. I often go out with them and would probably pick a night out with them over a meet. . . unless it was an m&g or a party and then they'd just have to wait for my company

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so ud pick a meet and greet ahead of a night out with pals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 'real life' friends. I often go out with them and would probably pick a night out with them over a meet. . . unless it was an m&g or a party and then they'd just have to wait for my company

so ud pick a meet and greet ahead of a night out with pals?"

Quite probably. Depends what the night out with my friends was going to be

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By *erchantcopyMan
over a year ago

omagh

what if it was an exceptional meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what if it was an exceptional meet?

Now that would be a dilemma. but I guess I wouldn't know it was going to be an exceptional meet - I'd have to wait til we did meet to find out

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By *erchantcopyMan
over a year ago

omagh

this is where a woman's intuition comes into play. I feel you'd make the right decision whereas us men just jump in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is where a woman's intuition comes into play. I feel you'd make the right decision whereas us men just jump in."

I'm more likely to weigh up whether I can be bothered getting all dressed up to meet someone - or can I just wander down to my local in an old pair of jeans and flip flops to meet my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is where a woman's intuition comes into play. I feel you'd make the right decision whereas us men just jump in.

I'm more likely to weigh up whether I can be bothered getting all dressed up to meet someone - or can I just wander down to my local in an old pair of jeans and flip flops to meet my friends"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is where a woman's intuition comes into play. I feel you'd make the right decision whereas us men just jump in.

I'm more likely to weigh up whether I can be bothered getting all dressed up to meet someone - or can I just wander down to my local in an old pair of jeans and flip flops to meet my friends"

And a top on of course!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"this is where a woman's intuition comes into play. I feel you'd make the right decision whereas us men just jump in."
most weekends if I'm not working I head out with pals. I woukdnt change that for a meet and greet on a random website

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By *erchantcopyMan
over a year ago

omagh

jees don't forget the top or you'll end up with plenty of meat offers in the pub.myself I don't get that many meets so I think my friends would have toexcuse me in that instance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jees don't forget the top or you'll end up with plenty of meat offers in the pub.myself I don't get that many meets so I think my friends would have toexcuse me in that instance."

You can always meet your friends another night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends and real life will always come before my fab life.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. "
that's what I'm saying

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By *erchantcopyMan
over a year ago

omagh

that would be my plan anyway and i'm sure if I explained to them they would be very sympathetic. chance to make another friend too into the bargain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is where a woman's intuition comes into play. I feel you'd make the right decision whereas us men just jump in.most weekends if I'm not working I head out with pals. I woukdnt change that for a meet and greet on a random website "

Your loss, I guess. We both really enjoy the social side to the scene. We also feel we have to click with our play partners and not just physically.

Meet & greets are, for us, a great way of doing that, for meeting new people and old friends. But parties and clubs are our favourite, but that's a topic for another thread.

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

I have 4 social circles in order of importance.

Family

Friends

Kink/bdsm

Fab

Only family and friends are aware of the other. Everything else is secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

...which would you choose?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

...which would you choose?"
mates always but that's not what the thread is about. Thread is about meet and greets which are usually sat nights clashing with stuff you have arranged with friends. I'm not talking about one on one meets. If I had something on with friends I wouldn't arrange a one on one meet with somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all know fab offers meets and greets parties etc. Is that your social circle or do you also head out with your pals you had before signing up to fabswingers? What would you prefer, a regular night out with pals or a meet and greet from fab? "

It's just one of our social circles...never had to choose one over the other before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

...which would you choose?mates always but that's not what the thread is about. Thread is about meet and greets which are usually sat nights clashing with stuff you have arranged with friends. I'm not talking about one on one meets. If I had something on with friends I wouldn't arrange a one on one meet with somebody "

Fair enough but regarding m&g's they are not flexible your mates are?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

Fair enough but regarding m&g's they are not flexible your mates are?

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if, like I said something is arranged with mates then I go with that. Meets and greets are on alot to. I'd class mates been closer to me then people on a website on the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

Fair enough but regarding m&g's they are not flexible your mates are?

if, like I said something is arranged with mates then I go with that. Meets and greets are on alot to. I'd class mates been closer to me then people on a website on the net "

Mates don't let you put things in them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found as we have got a little older, with nearly all our social circle, the ones we grew up with, our friend friends, are now mostly married and/or have kids, it's harder and harder get everyone together like we did in our early twenties (every weekend)

So socials, M&Gs are a great way to broaden our social circle and make new friends. Plus we always have a craicing night at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

...which would you choose?"

Mates always... you can have fun any night of the week. And I may need it the Sunday night to recover from the hangover. If they can't wait till I'm free well it's their loss realky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We found as we have got a little older, with nearly all our social circle, the ones we grew up with, our friend friends, are now mostly married and/or have kids, it's harder and harder get everyone together like we did in our early twenties (every weekend)

So socials, M&Gs are a great way to broaden our social circle and make new friends. Plus we always have a craicing night at them

Yes it is harder.. but your 'real' life is always more important. If it's difficult to get all your friends together and it doesn't happen often would you really turn that down to go to a social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

Fair enough but regarding m&g's they are not flexible your mates are?

if, like I said something is arranged with mates then I go with that. Meets and greets are on alot to. I'd class mates been closer to me then people on a website on the net "

See that's the thing since joining fab I've made friends, who i meet regularly ...

so it's win win for me

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By *erchantcopyMan
over a year ago

omagh

what the man said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends and real life will always come before my fab life. that's what I'm saying

So a hot fabber you have been chatting with offers to meet you for fun and frolics on a Saturday night, but your mates have asked to meet up ?

Fair enough but regarding m&g's they are not flexible your mates are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So socials, M&Gs are a great way to broaden our social circle and make new friends. Plus we always have a craicing night at them

Yes it is harder.. but your 'real' life is always more important. If it's difficult to get all your friends together and it doesn't happen often would you really turn that down to go to a social? "

the socials are usually known about way in advance tho. If my friends then wanted to do something that night - i would just ask to do it another night. Win win then

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

There might also be some on here that this is their social circle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There might also be some on here that this is their social circle "

Nothing wrong with that. Theres some very nice people on here

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Socials are usually planned well in advanced and as a guy I only get a few actual meets a year. Out with mates regularly and even the ones that are married and rarely get out, I would get the chance to go for a drink a few times a year.

Have you been to many socials, meet and greets or do you get many meets????

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Socials are usually planned well in advanced and as a guy I only get a few actual meets a year. Out with mates regularly and even the ones that are married and rarely get out, I would get the chance to go for a drink a few times a year.

Have you been to many socials, meet and greets or do you get many meets????"
never been to socials but I'm not overly pushed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it would be kinda hypocrit to consider FAB friends and acquaintances not as part of real life, we are not entering some holo deck or other ind of virtual world when meeting grabbers. We differentiate between vanillas and fabbers tho, however our last social at Mr birthday had participants from either lifestyle. It was actually hilarious in the last hours when there were only 3 fabber couples and one vanilla left. The lady of the vanilla couple had already intense contact with Bacchus seductions and her tongue started to indicate emotions between her thighs. Whilst she thought she would shock the remainders with her bold and naughty statements, not knowing anyone else was a Fabbers, the fabbers grinned to each other conspiring whether we should pull her over ....we left her on the vanilla side of life ....for now .

We can only feel pity for those who believe that FAB life and Vanilla life is incompatible at all lines of life. After all ...fabbers are more than just cocks and pussies. And like with all kind of friends we have ....there are things we share in public and others we don't but that is no reason to exclude one type of friends from the other

That said....the amount of our cousins within 1000 mile range is next to nil

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