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By *ohndunboyne OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I see a lot of regular Fab ladies getting very annoyed in the last 24hrs. Some regular forumites and regular pic posters, all of whom I would think of as good site members.

They appear to be getting a lot of abuse/disrespectful behaviour for some reason and are thinking of leaving site.

Yes, I know that they can block people or hide their profile but, they should not have to go to these extremes. This is meant to be a fun, enjoyable site for like minded people. They should not be subjected to what seems to be unjustified insults.

Ladies, please block the offenders or hide your profile from them. I'm probably not meant to say name and shame them but do let other regular Fabbers know who they should avoid.

Guys, please do have respect for the other members of the site and consider what you write. Is it something you would say to someone's face at a bar or over dinner, or in the bedroom? If not, then think twice before you write it here.

Rant over.

PS - Before some wiseass thinks they're being smart, No, I am not writing this for brownie points or to get into a Fabbers knickers. I have the art of conversation for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marvin Gaye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of regular Fab ladies getting very annoyed in the last 24hrs. Some regular forumites and regular pic posters, all of whom I would think of as good site members.

They appear to be getting a lot of abuse/disrespectful behaviour for some reason and are thinking of leaving site.

Yes, I know that they can block people or hide their profile but, they should not have to go to these extremes. This is meant to be a fun, enjoyable site for like minded people. They should not be subjected to what seems to be unjustified insults.

Ladies, please block the offenders or hide your profile from them. I'm probably not meant to say name and shame them but do let other regular Fabbers know who they should avoid.

Guys, please do have respect for the other members of the site and consider what you write. Is it something you would say to someone's face at a bar or over dinner, or in the bedroom? If not, then think twice before you write it here.

Rant over.

PS - Before some wiseass thinks they're being smart, No, I am not writing this for brownie points or to get into a Fabbers knickers. I have the art of conversation for that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of regular Fab ladies getting very annoyed in the last 24hrs. Some regular forumites and regular pic posters, all of whom I would think of as good site members.

They appear to be getting a lot of abuse/disrespectful behaviour for some reason and are thinking of leaving site.

Yes, I know that they can block people or hide their profile but, they should not have to go to these extremes. This is meant to be a fun, enjoyable site for like minded people. They should not be subjected to what seems to be unjustified insults.

Ladies, please block the offenders or hide your profile from them. I'm probably not meant to say name and shame them but do let other regular Fabbers know who they should avoid.

Guys, please do have respect for the other members of the site and consider what you write. Is it something you would say to someone's face at a bar or over dinner, or in the bedroom? If not, then think twice before you write it here.

Rant over.

PS - Before some wiseass thinks they're being smart, No, I am not writing this for brownie points or to get into a Fabbers knickers. I have the art of conversation for that!"
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marvin Gaye "

Thats 'Lets Get It On'

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By *ohndunboyne OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Marvin Gaye

Thats 'Lets Get It On'"

Or could be Heard it Through the Grapevine.

Regardless, let's stay on point.

What's happening that these Fabbers are getting so much abuse they are considering leaving?

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

The guys can't take a no without hurling abuse in response.

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By *ohndunboyne OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"The guys can't take a no without hurling abuse in response."

Despicable behaviour!

Automatic block to them, after you say No, should help you miss out on their bullshit responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guys can't take a no without hurling abuse in response.

Despicable behaviour!

Automatic block to them, after you say No, should help you miss out on their bullshit responses."
I think I block at least 10 people a day

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

It kinda goes with the territory. The automatic attitude here with a few is, its thought of as free pussy. When ye say no thanks, the ego of the mailer is wounded. Instead of being nice and saying thanks anyway, ye get called a cee you next tuesday, a slut, tramp etc.

Its just as well ive thick skin. If they had the balls to say it to my face, theyd be seeing stars for a week!

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By *ohndunboyne OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"It kinda goes with the territory. The automatic attitude here with a few is, its thought of as free pussy. When ye say no thanks, the ego of the mailer is wounded. Instead of being nice and saying thanks anyway, ye get called a cee you next tuesday, a slut, tramp etc.

Its just as well ive thick skin. If they had the balls to say it to my face, theyd be seeing stars for a week! "

Good woman. Deck the gobshites!

I don't understand the lack of respect on here. You treat a woman/anyone with respect, the end. Otherwise Fuck Off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are right in what you are saying but doubt that they will change. That who they are

There are both men and ladies leaving this site for their own reasons.

I really don't see why anyone would get annoyed about another fabbers abusive comments. Why would they even matter? Why give the offender attention? We can't control others behaviour so we should find ways to ignore it or deal with it and I personally don't think status updates or forum posts airing the spat is the best way to deal with these situations. The site already has the mechanisms to deal with it, you can block, report to admin etc. And there are always filters which works for me.

Lets air the fun side of fab and ignore the not so nice fabbers. I for one have come across more respectful fabbers than disrespectful ones. Let it go, don't give those offenders space in your head, and enjoy the good folks of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of regular Fab ladies getting very annoyed in the last 24hrs. Some regular forumites and regular pic posters, all of whom I would think of as good site members.

They appear to be getting a lot of abuse/disrespectful behaviour for some reason and are thinking of leaving site.

Yes, I know that they can block people or hide their profile but, they should not have to go to these extremes. This is meant to be a fun, enjoyable site for like minded people. They should not be subjected to what seems to be unjustified insults.

Ladies, please block the offenders or hide your profile from them. I'm probably not meant to say name and shame them but do let other regular Fabbers know who they should avoid.

Guys, please do have respect for the other members of the site and consider what you write. Is it something you would say to someone's face at a bar or over dinner, or in the bedroom? If not, then think twice before you write it here.

Rant over.

PS - Before some wiseass thinks they're being smart, No, I am not writing this for brownie points or to get into a Fabbers knickers. I have the art of conversation for that!"
....was there threads removed? Which ones are you talking about?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Op tbh I don't really know what you're talking about and what do you think you achieve with this thread. Fab is a rough place and you've got have a bit of a thick skin. There always be some ignorants and you find them on both sides - male and female ones. It all depends how you conduct yourself on here. And finally there will always be some people leaving and others joining or rejoining again, that's the nature of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marvin Gaye

Thats 'Lets Get It On'

Or could be Heard it Through the Grapevine.

Regardless, let's stay on point.

What's happening that these Fabbers are getting so much abuse they are considering leaving?"

Which fabbers? Who is considering leaving?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

mission almost accomplished methinks

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Op shouldn't drink and post maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marvin Gaye

Thats 'Lets Get It On'

Or could be Heard it Through the Grapevine.

Regardless, let's stay on point.

What's happening that these Fabbers are getting so much abuse they are considering leaving?

Which fabbers? Who is considering leaving?

"

Yes?? Who's leaving this time OP?

Plus I think it's best to be more selective as to who can mail you..

Girls get cray mails but so do guys...

It's across the board unfortunately

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork


"OP you are right in what you are saying but doubt that they will change. That who they are

There are both men and ladies leaving this site for their own reasons.

I really don't see why anyone would get annoyed about another fabbers abusive comments. Why would they even matter? Why give the offender attention? We can't control others behaviour so we should find ways to ignore it or deal with it and I personally don't think status updates or forum posts airing the spat is the best way to deal with these situations. The site already has the mechanisms to deal with it, you can block, report to admin etc. And there are always filters which works for me.

Lets air the fun side of fab and ignore the not so nice fabbers. I for one have come across more respectful fabbers than disrespectful ones. Let it go, don't give those offenders space in your head, and enjoy the good folks of fab "

Couldn't agree with you more

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By *igerclawsCouple
over a year ago

cork

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

There's a lot of hypocrites on this site.....considering that a couple who received a permanent forum ban and recently returned with a new profile have commented on this thread.

I don't post much but notice this couple have settled right back with their nasty comments.

People complain about being mistreated etc and yet allow these people return and continue to converse here with them.

It's all part of the problem.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"There's a lot of hypocrites on this site.....considering that a couple who received a permanent forum ban and recently returned with a new profile have commented on this thread.

I don't post much but notice this couple have settled right back with their nasty comments.

People complain about being mistreated etc and yet allow these people return and continue to converse here with them.

It's all part of the problem. "

Report them and mention their old profile name and administration will remove them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three choices when you get a nasty mail.

Respond nasty and stoop to their level.

Ignore and block.

Respond in a positive way.

I find the latter puts it to bed a lot quicker than the other two options.

Yes, if you fire back the abuse it gives you a two second vent but escalates the situation.

Blocking and ignoring just encourages their determination to find alternative ways to contact you.

A polite response puts it to bed... Mostly, not a fool proof solution sadly.

We all get those mail's, we all get disgruntled, we all get frustrated and would love to let rip at time's, we all feel braver with the anonymity of here at times...Find a lot of it is a flash in the pan moment but sadly there are some extremes.

Also you put 20 in a room and there will be some few that don't feel that they are getting treated fairly, be it through lack of ownership or stronger personalities...Human nature. Not everyone is going to play nicely, C'est la vie.

Ongoing part of fab and life sadly.

Don't think that there was any harm in what John is saying here, regular topic on here.

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three choices when you get a nasty mail.

Respond nasty and stoop to their level.

Ignore and block.

Respond in a positive way.

I find the latter puts it to bed a lot quicker than the other two options.

Yes, if you fire back the abuse it gives you a two second vent but escalates the situation.

Blocking and ignoring just encourages their determination to find alternative ways to contact you.

A polite response puts it to bed... Mostly, not a fool proof solution sadly.

We all get those mail's, we all get disgruntled, we all get frustrated and would love to let rip at time's, we all feel braver with the anonymity of here at times...Find a lot of it is a flash in the pan moment but sadly there are some extremes.

Also you put 20 in a room and there will be some few that don't feel that they are getting treated fairly, be it through lack of ownership or stronger personalities...Human nature. Not everyone is going to play nicely, C'est la vie.

Ongoing part of fab and life sadly.

Don't think that there was any harm in what John is saying here, regular topic on here.

Madame B"

It's not always possible to respond in a positive way, Madame B. A lot of the nastier comments come from profiles created to be abusive and then deleted once the message is sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three choices when you get a nasty mail.

Respond nasty and stoop to their level.

Ignore and block.

Respond in a positive way.

I find the latter puts it to bed a lot quicker than the other two options.

Yes, if you fire back the abuse it gives you a two second vent but escalates the situation.

Blocking and ignoring just encourages their determination to find alternative ways to contact you.

A polite response puts it to bed... Mostly, not a fool proof solution sadly.

We all get those mail's, we all get disgruntled, we all get frustrated and would love to let rip at time's, we all feel braver with the anonymity of here at times...Find a lot of it is a flash in the pan moment but sadly there are some extremes.

Also you put 20 in a room and there will be some few that don't feel that they are getting treated fairly, be it through lack of ownership or stronger personalities...Human nature. Not everyone is going to play nicely, C'est la vie.

Ongoing part of fab and life sadly.

Don't think that there was any harm in what John is saying here, regular topic on here.

Madame B

It's not always possible to respond in a positive way, Madame B. A lot of the nastier comments come from profiles created to be abusive and then deleted once the message is sent. "

Sadly true Sally but those are obviously fake in every sense of the word so don't warrant any of our energy or head space.

Shoulders back, head up and boobs out Dahling

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three choices when you get a nasty mail.

Respond nasty and stoop to their level.

Ignore and block.

Respond in a positive way.

I find the latter puts it to bed a lot quicker than the other two options.

Yes, if you fire back the abuse it gives you a two second vent but escalates the situation.

Blocking and ignoring just encourages their determination to find alternative ways to contact you.

A polite response puts it to bed... Mostly, not a fool proof solution sadly.

We all get those mail's, we all get disgruntled, we all get frustrated and would love to let rip at time's, we all feel braver with the anonymity of here at times...Find a lot of it is a flash in the pan moment but sadly there are some extremes.

Also you put 20 in a room and there will be some few that don't feel that they are getting treated fairly, be it through lack of ownership or stronger personalities...Human nature. Not everyone is going to play nicely, C'est la vie.

Ongoing part of fab and life sadly.

Don't think that there was any harm in what John is saying here, regular topic on here.

Madame B

It's not always possible to respond in a positive way, Madame B. A lot of the nastier comments come from profiles created to be abusive and then deleted once the message is sent.

Sadly true Sally but those are obviously fake in every sense of the word so don't warrant any of our energy or head space.

Shoulders back, head up and boobs out Dahling

Madame B"

Done, done and done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three choices when you get a nasty mail.

Respond nasty and stoop to their level.

Ignore and block.

Respond in a positive way.

I find the latter puts it to bed a lot quicker than the other two options.

Yes, if you fire back the abuse it gives you a two second vent but escalates the situation.

Blocking and ignoring just encourages their determination to find alternative ways to contact you.

A polite response puts it to bed... Mostly, not a fool proof solution sadly.

We all get those mail's, we all get disgruntled, we all get frustrated and would love to let rip at time's, we all feel braver with the anonymity of here at times...Find a lot of it is a flash in the pan moment but sadly there are some extremes.

Also you put 20 in a room and there will be some few that don't feel that they are getting treated fairly, be it through lack of ownership or stronger personalities...Human nature. Not everyone is going to play nicely, C'est la vie.

Ongoing part of fab and life sadly.

Don't think that there was any harm in what John is saying here, regular topic on here. I did this to one guy v nasty . I replied v nice and said why thank u my friend his next relly was ur not my friend and he blocked me . Job well done !!

Madame B"

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Three choices when you get a nasty mail.

Respond nasty and stoop to their level.

Ignore and block.

Respond in a positive way.

I find the latter puts it to bed a lot quicker than the other two options.

Yes, if you fire back the abuse it gives you a two second vent but escalates the situation.

Blocking and ignoring just encourages their determination to find alternative ways to contact you.

A polite response puts it to bed... Mostly, not a fool proof solution sadly.

We all get those mail's, we all get disgruntled, we all get frustrated and would love to let rip at time's, we all feel braver with the anonymity of here at times...Find a lot of it is a flash in the pan moment but sadly there are some extremes.

Also you put 20 in a room and there will be some few that don't feel that they are getting treated fairly, be it through lack of ownership or stronger personalities...Human nature. Not everyone is going to play nicely, C'est la vie.

Ongoing part of fab and life sadly.

Don't think that there was any harm in what John is saying here, regular topic on here.

Madame B"

I fully agree with you Madame B, the said (third) approach works perfectly for me and I apply it even to 'wanna fuck' style messages. As a result I get very very little to almost no abuse.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"There's a lot of hypocrites on this site.....considering that a couple who received a permanent forum ban and recently returned with a new profile have commented on this thread.

I don't post much but notice this couple have settled right back with their nasty comments.

People complain about being mistreated etc and yet allow these people return and continue to converse here with them.

It's all part of the problem.

Report them and mention their old profile name and administration will remove them"

I know that Laid.

But the point I'm trying to make is why are people allowing this type of behaviour and yet complain about others behaviour.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Three choices when you get a nasty mail.

Respond nasty and stoop to their level.

Ignore and block.

Respond in a positive way.

I find the latter puts it to bed a lot quicker than the other two options.

Yes, if you fire back the abuse it gives you a two second vent but escalates the situation.

Blocking and ignoring just encourages their determination to find alternative ways to contact you.

A polite response puts it to bed... Mostly, not a fool proof solution sadly.

We all get those mail's, we all get disgruntled, we all get frustrated and would love to let rip at time's, we all feel braver with the anonymity of here at times...Find a lot of it is a flash in the pan moment but sadly there are some extremes.

Also you put 20 in a room and there will be some few that don't feel that they are getting treated fairly, be it through lack of ownership or stronger personalities...Human nature. Not everyone is going to play nicely, C'est la vie.

Ongoing part of fab and life sadly.

Don't think that there was any harm in what John is saying here, regular topic on here.

Madame B"

Amen now this is what i would do 99% of time follow , will admit I did slip recently by responding to a fabber's status which was a dig at me but to be fair responses were of the witty type but had my one lapse back to the Third Choice for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way to deal with fake profiles setting up profiles to abuse others is use your filters...

I've mine blocked to verified site members with picks only...

It's the only way imo

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Not at all surprised to see this thread. If a tree falls in the forest and no one is there to hear it does it still make a sound.

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By *allDarknHandsomeMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Is it to do with ney years new members just not understanding respect/the scene that we have here? I always try and be the utmost gent even if I get ghosted! I thought that was standard operating procedure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are shocked about the many reports of abuse some peeps receive , but neither on our couple account nor on the hotwife solo presence did we suffered this kind of grief ....yet, and we ain't newbies anymore. Even there is a lot of inquiries we turn down, we got away fine. That makes us wonder what we do different that so far no abusive mail was dropped on us. Are we scary peeps and the potential perpetrator fears repercussions?

(got a gun, a shovel and an alibi)

Or is it that the way we turn chancers down doesn't trigger immediate aggression

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've seen some of d messages d ladies get . Some amount of idiots on here . They don't know how to chat up a lady . They don't have a place on here .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

U might be just lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op tbh I don't really know what you're talking about and what do you think you achieve with this thread. Fab is a rough place and you've got have a bit of a thick skin. There always be some ignorants and you find them on both sides - male and female ones. It all depends how you conduct yourself on here. And finally there will always be some people leaving and others joining or rejoining again, that's the nature of the site. "

Oh i think we all know what hes trying to achieve. The ol white knight tactic...never fails to land a guy in the friendzone

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Op tbh I don't really know what you're talking about and what do you think you achieve with this thread. Fab is a rough place and you've got have a bit of a thick skin. There always be some ignorants and you find them on both sides - male and female ones. It all depends how you conduct yourself on here. And finally there will always be some people leaving and others joining or rejoining again, that's the nature of the site.

Oh i think we all know what hes trying to achieve. The ol white knight tactic...never fails to land a guy in the friendzone"

The friend zone doesn't exist chuckles.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Op tbh I don't really know what you're talking about and what do you think you achieve with this thread. Fab is a rough place and you've got have a bit of a thick skin. There always be some ignorants and you find them on both sides - male and female ones. It all depends how you conduct yourself on here. And finally there will always be some people leaving and others joining or rejoining again, that's the nature of the site.

Oh i think we all know what hes trying to achieve. The ol white knight tactic...never fails to land a guy in the friendzone

The friend zone doesn't exist chuckles. "

What about imaginary friends???

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

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By *atdieonMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Op tbh I don't really know what you're talking about and what do you think you achieve with this thread. Fab is a rough place and you've got have a bit of a thick skin. There always be some ignorants and you find them on both sides - male and female ones. It all depends how you conduct yourself on here. And finally there will always be some people leaving and others joining or rejoining again, that's the nature of the site. "
I have to agree with you . There's rude horrible people on both sides OP. I wouldn't worry about the ladies on here being abused and upset because I know for a fact the ladies on are more than able to look after themselves . Don't need a knight in shinning armour to fight their battles . Keep strong ladies and don't let the assholes get you down .

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

wonder did the WK sympathy fuck get offered yet shouldn't be too much longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wonder did the WK sympathy fuck get offered yet shouldn't be too much longer "

Not a hope...as i said, the poor guy is only gonna end up in the friend zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guys can't take a no without hurling abuse in response.

Despicable behaviour!

Automatic block to them, after you say No, should help you miss out on their bullshit responses. I think I block at least 10 people a day "

10 a day?

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By *ohndunboyne OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Thanks for all the responses, regardless of stance. At least we know where ye stand on this.

For those who think I wanna be a white knight, seriously!

Done.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Any luck Percival?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I banged my shin on a drawer earlier. Have calmed down now...

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Thanks for all the responses, regardless of stance. At least we know where ye stand on this.

For those who think I wanna be a white knight, seriously!

Done."

Methinks thou dost protest too much, Sir Knight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree its not nice to hear memeber getting abused here.

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By *onathan kMan
over a year ago

sligo ballymote

well said _ohndunboyne i am one of the nice one i was botup to be nice to everyone

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

How did I miss this I always love being offended on someone else's behalf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well maybe if guys showed more respect and even read the profiles then maybe it wouldnt be that way and that said if women are doing the same then they need to stop too. Its about respect for everyone and one should never have to take abuse of any kind from anyone. If you are not able to take a simple no then maybe you might have so issues that you may need to look into. No one likes to get messages that are rude or ignorant so why send them. Learn to accept no and leave it at that

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I guess the op isn't really using this to try and Lancelot of women after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider myself generally respectful when dealing with respectful people, I can be fiesty too...can't we all. I received a message about being forced that wouldn't look amiss on a serial offenders rap sheet!

It really threw me and unnerved me, it was out of the blue and completely unwarranted... The reason I am telling this story here...it was the op, John that talked me through that melt down so while the negative comments here may look funny to you all by calling him a white horse...he isn't. He is a decent human being that I am glad to call my friend.

If not being an ass makes you a horse...I know who I would rather

Madame B

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

a horse?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I would consider myself generally respectful when dealing with respectful people, I can be fiesty too...can't we all. I received a message about being forced that wouldn't look amiss on a serial offenders rap sheet!

It really threw me and unnerved me, it was out of the blue and completely unwarranted... The reason I am telling this story here...it was the op, John that talked me through that melt down so while the negative comments here may look funny to you all by calling him a white horse...he isn't. He is a decent human being that I am glad to call my friend.

If not being an ass makes you a horse...I know who I would rather

Madame B"

A white horse? must be one of those priveleged ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

White knight not horse

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"White knight not horse"

could be the horseman of death as I looked, and there before me was a pale horse! Its rider was named Death, and Hades was following close behind him. They were given power over a fourth of the earth to kill by sword, famine and plague, and by the wild beasts of the earth.

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