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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday "I say patience is a key. I'm still on my search...have to stay positive | |||
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"I'm a woman, I wouldn't say I'm succeeding on here. Wonder what's up with me . "nothing. I love your pics | |||
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 I reckon finding genuine people you click with and are attracted to can be just as difficult here for women as it is for men | |||
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"How is it a goldmine for women? Yes they get alot of messages but 90% of them are wanna fuck messages or looking for pics I reckon finding genuine people you click with and are attracted to can be just as difficult here for women as it is for men" | |||
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"How is it a goldmine for women? Yes they get alot of messages but 90% of them are wanna fuck messages or looking for pics I reckon finding genuine people you click with and are attracted to can be just as difficult here for women as it is for men"the choice makes it a goldmine. Look at the numbers u have to pick from. I'd imagine there is alot more genuine on here then lunatics. It's just to give someone a chance. It's hard also to "click" through a screen | |||
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"How is it a goldmine for women? Yes they get alot of messages but 90% of them are wanna fuck messages or looking for pics I reckon finding genuine people you click with and are attracted to can be just as difficult here for women as it is for men". Unfortunately true!! Even then you might find genuine people.... but then as you say, there is the "Click Factor"! | |||
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"How is it a goldmine for women? Yes they get alot of messages but 90% of them are wanna fuck messages or looking for pics I reckon finding genuine people you click with and are attracted to can be just as difficult here for women as it is for men"I'd say you're spot on with that. Might even be harder as you have to sift through more hay for that needle. | |||
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"I think finding someone genuine is pretty rare For every one decent message you might get twenty others that are not.. But guess it's the nature of fab Worth it though "Actually I think you've hit the nail on the head. Which in a round about way even up the eligible sexes. I've noticed that at kink events women can actually outnumber the men. Important to remember that a lot of the male profiles on here are horny spotty teenage boys that would never actually go to a meet - and their real age/maturity is revealed in their messages. | |||
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"I'm part of a couple but I don't usually reply to nails, I tend to leave that up to Mr but he's not on that often. Some mails we get are absolutely ridiculous though. Yesterday we got a mail from a 22 year old saying "meet !". "Would it have been better if he was 32 years old sending the same message? If not why bother mentioning the age he's obviously got no tact or maturity but neither of those come with age they come with life experience. | |||
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"I'm part of a couple but I don't usually reply to nails, I tend to leave that up to Mr but he's not on that often. Some mails we get are absolutely ridiculous though. Yesterday we got a mail from a 22 year old saying "meet !". "Same as this except it wasn't a young guy, it was a guy you would expect to have more sense but he sent a highly offensive message and then couldn't understand why he got a rollicking over it | |||
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"I'm a woman, I wouldn't say I'm succeeding on here. Wonder what's up with me . "Hi, you are succeeding if you have had people approach you by mail or otherwise, had offers to meet, fans on you fotos. So how are you doing then? | |||
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"I'm a woman, I wouldn't say I'm succeeding on here. Wonder what's up with me . "Hi, you are succeeding if you have had people approach you by mail or otherwise, had offers to meet, fabs on you fotos. So how are you doing then? | |||
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"Live your life, don't make fab the centre of your existence don't take it too seriously, it's about having fun and meeting new people if one door closes open the next, not everyone's gonna click " I totally agree with what was said here. We are here for fun and don't take it too seriously, but when your then told that his friend has met you and he knows all about you and will out you on social media. Its hard not to take offence. | |||
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"I'm part of a couple but I don't usually reply to nails, I tend to leave that up to Mr but he's not on that often. Some mails we get are absolutely ridiculous though. Yesterday we got a mail from a 22 year old saying "meet !".
Would it have been better if he was 32 years old sending the same message? If not why bother mentioning the age he's obviously got no tact or maturity but neither of those come with age they come with life experience."We generally don't get messages that blunt from older men. I mentioned the age cause I wanted to | |||
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"It's all about being yourself. Having fun and being polite. There are loads of people on here, some will click some won't. But when you do its great fun. Ratios don't make it any easier. Just more time consuming. Where a guy has to wait for messages a girl has to wade through the sewers to find the diamonds. Happy fabbing. " Well said | |||
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"Fab is a free site.... what do you expect from a free site?" fun | |||
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"I'm a woman, I wouldn't say I'm succeeding on here. Wonder what's up with me . "I love your pictures too, but, outside your age preference. X x x X | |||
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"Fab is a free site.... what do you expect from a free site?fun " | |||
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"I think the purpose of this thread is that the op wants to tell us that he 'scored' last night when he went out. Well done op! "nothing to do with it. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me "I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." "I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all "No woman has their bar set too high. It's what they want and suits them | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
No woman has their bar set too high. It's what they want and suits them"Some women on here are on a pedestal. That's a simple fact | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all "Too high because you don't meet it? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? "no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same. "That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy This doesn't apply to all men before someone complains | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complains"I'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't "Of course men have a choice. They can say No thanks to any woman that doesn't match what they want | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same. "Some do, they just don't need to. Also the biological differences between men and women play a big part in it. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
Of course men have a choice. They can say No thanks to any woman that doesn't match what they want"i mean women have the choice as number of males far and wide exceed the number of females. You could as a male on here send 20 mails to diff women, you might not get one reply. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
Some do, they just don't need to. Also the biological differences between men and women play a big part in it. "biological differences? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same. "Maybe because the want some fun out of a meet too and not just being regarded as a bend over launch pad | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
Maybe because the want some fun out of a meet too and not just being regarded as a bend over launch pad"i would of thought 2 people meeting on here is the prospect of both having fun | |||
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"Here or out socliasing. Its hard to tell the messers for the serious people! Thats just life! Ya cud by there verfications but r they reliable!! So ya hav to take a chance. Ive been lucky to hav a few meets on this and they were all really genuine people! " that's the bottom line pal that some don't want to do, take a chance | |||
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"Here or out socliasing. Its hard to tell the messers for the serious people! Thats just life! Ya cud by there verfications but r they reliable!! So ya hav to take a chance. Ive been lucky to hav a few meets on this and they were all really genuine people! that's the bottom line pal that some don't want to do, take a chance " Maybe they're just taking a chance within the parameters they set themselves. For example - I have a quite narrow age range on here. I do ok. Why would I go outside the age range that I'm happy to meet, just to 'take a chance'? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
No woman has their bar set too high. It's what they want and suits themSome women on here are on a pedestal. That's a simple fact "Whether male or female or couple, there will always be some who seem on a pedestal, that is the same in the vanilla world too. There will be those who seem out of our reach and so we in our minds put them on a pedestal. The reality is that as rightly said they have their choices and their filtering and high stadards mean some of us can't match them. So what if it seems they're on a pedestal? Look and perv but you haven't a right of access to anyone just because you have a profile on here. We all choose to meet who we want and who we won't meet simple. A me as in ordinary life. Focus on those who want to meet us and not on those who don't and you'll have a more positive experience and enjoy yourself more on fab.  | |||
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"Here or out socliasing. Its hard to tell the messers for the serious people! Thats just life! Ya cud by there verfications but r they reliable!! So ya hav to take a chance. Ive been lucky to hav a few meets on this and they were all really genuine people! that's the bottom line pal that some don't want to do, take a chance Maybe they're just taking a chance within the parameters they set themselves. For example - I have a quite narrow age range on here. I do ok. Why would I go outside the age range that I'm happy to meet, just to 'take a chance'?" age ranges are subjective. You could have men 25 to 35 on here. Does that mean u rule out all 24 and 36 yos? Let's be honest a year or 2 either way will make f all difference in most cases | |||
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"Here or out socliasing. Its hard to tell the messers for the serious people! Thats just life! Ya cud by there verfications but r they reliable!! So ya hav to take a chance. Ive been lucky to hav a few meets on this and they were all really genuine people! that's the bottom line pal that some don't want to do, take a chance Maybe they're just taking a chance within the parameters they set themselves. For example - I have a quite narrow age range on here. I do ok. Why would I go outside the age range that I'm happy to meet, just to 'take a chance'?age ranges are subjective. You could have men 25 to 35 on here. Does that mean u rule out all 24 and 36 yos? Let's be honest a year or 2 either way will make f all difference in most cases " But if 1 or 2 years make no difference - then you could argue 1 or 2 more don't and before you know it you're chatting to people 15 years younger than you're interested in and have to break the bad news that you're not really interested at all. | |||
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"Here or out socliasing. Its hard to tell the messers for the serious people! Thats just life! Ya cud by there verfications but r they reliable!! So ya hav to take a chance. Ive been lucky to hav a few meets on this and they were all really genuine people! that's the bottom line pal that some don't want to do, take a chance Maybe they're just taking a chance within the parameters they set themselves. For example - I have a quite narrow age range on here. I do ok. Why would I go outside the age range that I'm happy to meet, just to 'take a chance'?age ranges are subjective. You could have men 25 to 35 on here. Does that mean u rule out all 24 and 36 yos? Let's be honest a year or 2 either way will make f all difference in most cases But if 1 or 2 years make no difference - then you could argue 1 or 2 more don't and before you know it you're chatting to people 15 years younger than you're interested in and have to break the bad news that you're not really interested at all." what I said makes perfect sense. 1 or 2 years is completely different to 15 years | |||
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"My pennys worth.if as a woman you are finding it very difficult in gere then i would say you have to seriously question if your in the right place. From what i can see the place is coming down with reasonably intelligent and witty guys, who also on the surface at least, seem to be fairly fit. Therefore, if you cant 'swing' with any of them, then my guess is your not a swinger...join a dating site...and just use this place for the banter and social side, but let the guys know. . .of course, i know there are some very cynical people who think a lot of people are here simply because it feeds their attention deficit syndrome or they get off on leading guys along.That would be cynical people of course, not me, im a bit of a dumb dumb.." very good post | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
Maybe because the want some fun out of a meet too and not just being regarded as a bend over launch padi would of thought 2 people meeting on here is the prospect of both having fun "Well that's how it should be doesn't mean it is, it's down to pick the right ones | |||
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"Here or out socliasing. Its hard to tell the messers for the serious people! Thats just life! Ya cud by there verfications but r they reliable!! So ya hav to take a chance. Ive been lucky to hav a few meets on this and they were all really genuine people! that's the bottom line pal that some don't want to do, take a chance Maybe they're just taking a chance within the parameters they set themselves. For example - I have a quite narrow age range on here. I do ok. Why would I go outside the age range that I'm happy to meet, just to 'take a chance'?age ranges are subjective. You could have men 25 to 35 on here. Does that mean u rule out all 24 and 36 yos? Let's be honest a year or 2 either way will make f all difference in most cases But if 1 or 2 years make no difference - then you could argue 1 or 2 more don't and before you know it you're chatting to people 15 years younger than you're interested in and have to break the bad news that you're not really interested at all.what I said makes perfect sense. 1 or 2 years is completely different to 15 years " ok | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
Maybe because the want some fun out of a meet too and not just being regarded as a bend over launch padi would of thought 2 people meeting on here is the prospect of both having fun
Well that's how it should be doesn't mean it is, it's down to pick the right ones "again that's what I'm getting at. U can't tell a whole lot through a screen | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
Some do, they just don't need to. Also the biological differences between men and women play a big part in it. biological differences?"If guys had the same experiences with how often they orgasmed during sex compared to women then most guys probably would set the bar higher. | |||
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"Isn't it great been a male and how is it easy to be pleased." Im sure your speaking for yourself not every male. | |||
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"Isn't it great been a male and how is it easy to be pleased. Im sure your speaking for yourself not every male." i never see males complaining. I can base it on that can't I? | |||
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"Darn... when I saw the Subject "Males struggling" my mind went off in a different direction!! "Put that duct tape down! | |||
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"Darn... when I saw the Subject "Males struggling" my mind went off in a different direction!!
Put that duct tape down!". That is my line!! | |||
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"Isn't it great been a male and how is it easy to be pleased. Im sure your speaking for yourself not every male.i never see males complaining. I can base it on that can't I? " You complain | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." "So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nuns | |||
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"Isn't it great been a male and how is it easy to be pleased. Im sure your speaking for yourself not every male.i never see males complaining. I can base it on that can't I? You complain "i complain? Did u ever see me complaining about sex with a woman? | |||
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" I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nuns" . Have they set a date for their Social yet? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nuns"if I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time. "Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking for | |||
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"Isn't it great been a male and how is it easy to be pleased. Im sure your speaking for yourself not every male.i never see males complaining. I can base it on that can't I? You complain i complain? Did u ever see me complaining about sex with a woman?"You mean you've actually had sex with a woman... | |||
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"Isn't it great been a male and how is it easy to be pleased. Im sure your speaking for yourself not every male.i never see males complaining. I can base it on that can't I? You complain i complain? Did u ever see me complaining about sex with a woman?
You mean you've actually had sex with a woman...
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking for"match what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?"Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?"True story ^^^ | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?"what I find hard to understand is how a list could be so long for no strings fun with somebody. I'm prob asking a question I already know the answer to. Nothing is ever simplified with women | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?what I find hard to understand is how a list could be so long for no strings fun with somebody. I'm prob asking a question I already know the answer to. Nothing is ever simplified with women "NSA doesn't mean shag anything that moves! You have on your profile that you'll meet a 99 year old. Would you really? And if not, why not? Its nsa after all | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?what I find hard to understand is how a list could be so long for no strings fun with somebody. I'm prob asking a question I already know the answer to. Nothing is ever simplified with women
NSA doesn't mean shag anything that moves!
You have on your profile that you'll meet a 99 year old. Would you really? And if not, why not? Its nsa after all "without looking I think I have 18 to 99. I leave it at a broad spectrum not put it at a short skinny age range of 6 to 7 years. I wouldn't meet a 99 yo but I would meet a 60 yo and I would meet an 18 yo for argument sake. 2 ages at different sides of the scale. This site is pure no strings to me. Not looking for anything else | |||
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Sure even a 99 at the beach comes with strings. Ya have to pay for the feckers! | |||
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"Go out and get yourself a nice girl on a night out, use fab to chat and get to know girls you might be interested in, in the fab world there are hundreds of men grabbing womens attention with there fab bodies and humongus cocks but in my opinion personality and manners out weighs both "always the best way to succeed is on a night out. Interacting face to face from the off, u can't beat it | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?what I find hard to understand is how a list could be so long for no strings fun with somebody. I'm prob asking a question I already know the answer to. Nothing is ever simplified with women
NSA doesn't mean shag anything that moves!
You have on your profile that you'll meet a 99 year old. Would you really? And if not, why not? Its nsa after all without looking I think I have 18 to 99. I leave it at a broad spectrum not put it at a short skinny age range of 6 to 7 years. I wouldn't meet a 99 yo but I would meet a 60 yo and I would meet an 18 yo for argument sake. 2 ages at different sides of the scale. This site is pure no strings to me. Not looking for anything else "So why no strings with a 99 year old? Because thats your choice is why. Nothing to do with you setting your bar too high, tho the 63 year old may think so, it's just what you would be happy with Which is why everyone on here has their own personal choices | |||
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"Go out and get yourself a nice girl on a night out, use fab to chat and get to know girls you might be interested in, in the fab world there are hundreds of men grabbing womens attention with there fab bodies and humongus cocks but in my opinion personality and manners out weighs both always the best way to succeed is on a night out. Interacting face to face from the off, u can't beat it "exactamondo my friend | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?what I find hard to understand is how a list could be so long for no strings fun with somebody. I'm prob asking a question I already know the answer to. Nothing is ever simplified with women
NSA doesn't mean shag anything that moves!
You have on your profile that you'll meet a 99 year old. Would you really? And if not, why not? Its nsa after all without looking I think I have 18 to 99. I leave it at a broad spectrum not put it at a short skinny age range of 6 to 7 years. I wouldn't meet a 99 yo but I would meet a 60 yo and I would meet an 18 yo for argument sake. 2 ages at different sides of the scale. This site is pure no strings to me. Not looking for anything else
So why no strings with a 99 year old?
Because thats your choice is why. Nothing to do with you setting your bar too high, tho the 63 year old may think so, it's just what you would be happy with
Which is why everyone on here has their own personal choices"have u seen most 99 yos? That answers the question | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?what I find hard to understand is how a list could be so long for no strings fun with somebody. I'm prob asking a question I already know the answer to. Nothing is ever simplified with women
NSA doesn't mean shag anything that moves!
You have on your profile that you'll meet a 99 year old. Would you really? And if not, why not? Its nsa after all without looking I think I have 18 to 99. I leave it at a broad spectrum not put it at a short skinny age range of 6 to 7 years. I wouldn't meet a 99 yo but I would meet a 60 yo and I would meet an 18 yo for argument sake. 2 ages at different sides of the scale. This site is pure no strings to me. Not looking for anything else
So why no strings with a 99 year old?
Because thats your choice is why. Nothing to do with you setting your bar too high, tho the 63 year old may think so, it's just what you would be happy with
Which is why everyone on here has their own personal choiceshave u seen most 99 yos? That answers the question "The question is - why do you say you'll meet one. You obviously don't want to so why say you will? Surely its better to say who you are interested in? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane."
So a goldmine for women while I definitely doing something wrong. Sorry but a message saying "suck my cock" or "let's fuck" not going to work for me, or is randomly meeting some guy who I don't even know what he looks like, and than when I politely say thanks for message but I'm not interested, I get called "fatty" or worse, I interact on forums, I fab pictures but I haven't had a meeting since October, I'm not going to just meet someone to "fuck" sure they might be women who do, but it's definitely not me, so no it's not a goldmine for women, but I'll keep the fate , well for 16 days left of my silver supporter after that I'm joining the nunsif I was a woman on here is be disappointed if I hadn't a meet a week on here if had the time.
Every woman on here could have a meet in that time - if they went with anyone that didn't match what they were looking formatch what they were looking for? Is the list as long as the grand canyon?
Does it matter how long the list is? Why should I shorten it - and meet someone that doesn't match what I want?what I find hard to understand is how a list could be so long for no strings fun with somebody. I'm prob asking a question I already know the answer to. Nothing is ever simplified with women
NSA doesn't mean shag anything that moves!
You have on your profile that you'll meet a 99 year old. Would you really? And if not, why not? Its nsa after all without looking I think I have 18 to 99. I leave it at a broad spectrum not put it at a short skinny age range of 6 to 7 years. I wouldn't meet a 99 yo but I would meet a 60 yo and I would meet an 18 yo for argument sake. 2 ages at different sides of the scale. This site is pure no strings to me. Not looking for anything else
So why no strings with a 99 year old?
Because thats your choice is why. Nothing to do with you setting your bar too high, tho the 63 year old may think so, it's just what you would be happy with
Which is why everyone on here has their own personal choiceshave u seen most 99 yos? That answers the question
The question is - why do you say you'll meet one. You obviously don't want to so why say you will?
Surely its better to say who you are interested in?"as I already stated I picked 18 to 99 as that was the age on the broadcast spectrum. I don't go along saying ye, she has to have this this this this this this this etc before I meet her. Physical attraction and I'm 90 % there, easy peasy that fun lark. | |||
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he's out of my age range"there can always be exceptions. That's the joys of life | |||
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" Surely its better to say who you are interested in?as I already stated I picked 18 to 99 as that was the age on the broadcast spectrum. I don't go along saying ye, she has to have this this this this this this this etc before I meet her. Physical attraction and I'm 90 % there, easy peasy that fun lark. " Ahhh there we are you've some preferences/requirements too! Physical attraction. So you wouldn't just shag any woman. Get a grip willywrapper, you should finally brace the fact that there are no entitlements and obligations on here. Each fabber has his/her own set of preferences/requirements. If you don't like that we women don't just spread our legs in order not to be perceived as fussy why don't you just simply stick with 'scoring' when going out at the weekend? | |||
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" Surely its better to say who you are interested in?as I already stated I picked 18 to 99 as that was the age on the broadcast spectrum. I don't go along saying ye, she has to have this this this this this this this etc before I meet her. Physical attraction and I'm 90 % there, easy peasy that fun lark. Ahhh there we are you've some preferences/requirements too! Physical attraction. So you wouldn't just shag any woman. Get a grip willywrapper, you should finally brace the fact that there are no entitlements and obligations on here. Each fabber has his/her own set of preferences/requirements. If you don't like that we women don't just spread our legs in order not to be perceived as fussy why don't you just simply stick with 'scoring' when going out at the weekend? " fiesty one this lol  | |||
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" Surely its better to say who you are interested in?as I already stated I picked 18 to 99 as that was the age on the broadcast spectrum. I don't go along saying ye, she has to have this this this this this this this etc before I meet her. Physical attraction and I'm 90 % there, easy peasy that fun lark. Ahhh there we are you've some preferences/requirements too! Physical attraction. So you wouldn't just shag any woman. Get a grip willywrapper, you should finally brace the fact that there are no entitlements and obligations on here. Each fabber has his/her own set of preferences/requirements. If you don't like that we women don't just spread our legs in order not to be perceived as fussy why don't you just simply stick with 'scoring' when going out at the weekend? " read what I said. I don't care who anybody is, when looking for some no strings fun there is no need for anybody to have a list as long as your arm. It's very simple for men, no reason why it can't be the same for women | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday "---------------------------------------- It's a kind offer you made but if I was a guy who hadn't scored after a month here, I'd be looking to find me a wingman with plenty of veri's Genuinely want to know do you have any mate? | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
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It's a kind offer you made but if I was a guy who hadn't scored after a month here, I'd be looking to find me a wingman with plenty of veri's Genuinely want to know do you have any mate? "search the guys with loads of veris. The usual good ones are older men, men who regularly use forums plus men who attend meet and greets and have built up a rapport | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
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It's a kind offer you made but if I was a guy who hadn't scored after a month here, I'd be looking to find me a wingman with plenty of veri's Genuinely want to know do you have any mate? search the guys with loads of veris. The usual good ones are older men, men who regularly use forums plus men who attend meet and greets and have built up a rapport "------------------------------------ It's just you said "come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score" Those be brave words man... | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
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It's a kind offer you made but if I was a guy who hadn't scored after a month here, I'd be looking to find me a wingman with plenty of veri's Genuinely want to know do you have any mate? search the guys with loads of veris. The usual good ones are older men, men who regularly use forums plus men who attend meet and greets and have built up a rapport
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It's just you said "come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score" Those be brave words man... "Do you not approach woman on a night out? | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
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It's a kind offer you made but if I was a guy who hadn't scored after a month here, I'd be looking to find me a wingman with plenty of veri's Genuinely want to know do you have any mate? search the guys with loads of veris. The usual good ones are older men, men who regularly use forums plus men who attend meet and greets and have built up a rapport
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It's just you said "come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score" Those be brave words man... Do you not approach woman on a night out?"-------------------------------------- Approaching a woman and chatting is not a problem here. But claiming you can head out with any guy here and get them a woman for the night (if that's how you define a score ) is a little over ambitious, don't you think? | |||
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" Surely its better to say who you are interested in?as I already stated I picked 18 to 99 as that was the age on the broadcast spectrum. I don't go along saying ye, she has to have this this this this this this this etc before I meet her. Physical attraction and I'm 90 % there, easy peasy that fun lark. Ahhh there we are you've some preferences/requirements too! Physical attraction. So you wouldn't just shag any woman. Get a grip willywrapper, you should finally brace the fact that there are no entitlements and obligations on here. Each fabber has his/her own set of preferences/requirements. If you don't like that we women don't just spread our legs in order not to be perceived as fussy why don't you just simply stick with 'scoring' when going out at the weekend? read what I said. I don't care who anybody is, when looking for some no strings fun there is no need for anybody to have a list as long as your arm. It's very simple for men, no reason why it can't be the same for women
Fab is a swinging and not a quick leg over site. Peeps are here because of sexual preferences and because they like to live out their kinks and desires but also enjoy the social part that comes with it. Therefore for a lot of people it needs a bit more than physical attraction and there's nothing wrong with that. Also as you might know there's some physical differences between men and women. Finally the perspective of a young single man with no commitments might widely differ to the one of people with work/family/social commitments where 'scoring' isn't on top of the agenda but truly enjoying the occasional treat of a meet.
It's not your first thread complaining about the fussiness of the ladies on here and tbh I don't think you'll achieve anything with re-chewing this topic over and over again. "One thing I 100 % agree with you on is the single male with no ties to the married attached woman/ women with kids | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
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It's just you said "come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score" Those be brave words man... Do you not approach woman on a night out?
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It's just you said "come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score" Those be brave words man... Do you not approach woman on a night out?
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Approaching a woman and chatting is not a problem here. But claiming you can head out with any guy here and get them a woman for the night (if that's how you define a score ) is a little over ambitious, don't you think?Yes it is. Alot also depends on age. A younger man scoring and an older man are two completely different objectives but back to the jist of this thread. I can easily see how men get disalusioned with this site. "--------------------------------------- You seem genuine enough but going off on a few too many tangents for me. Happy hunting mate... | |||
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Approaching a woman and chatting is not a problem here. But claiming you can head out with any guy here and get them a woman for the night (if that's how you define a score ) is a little over ambitious, don't you think?Yes it is. Alot also depends on age. A younger man scoring and an older man are two completely different objectives but back to the jist of this thread. I can easily see how men get disalusioned with this site.
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You seem genuine enough but going off on a few too many tangents for me. Happy hunting mate... "so you wouldn't understand males getting disalusioned with website? The status end was a tongue in cheek comment. Don't read everything literally and take it serious. So was the prostitute comment | |||
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It's a kind offer you made but if I was a guy who hadn't scored after a month here, I'd be looking to find me a wingman with plenty of veri's Genuinely want to know do you have any mate? search the guys with loads of veris. The usual good ones are older men, men who regularly use forums plus men who attend meet and greets and have built up a rapport
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Approaching a woman and chatting is not a problem here. But claiming you can head out with any guy here and get them a woman for the night (if that's how you define a score ) is a little over ambitious, don't you think?Yes it is. Alot also depends on age. A younger man scoring and an older man are two completely different objectives but back to the jist of this thread. I can easily see how men get disalusioned with this site.
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You seem genuine enough but going off on a few too many tangents for me. Happy hunting mate... so you wouldn't understand males getting disalusioned with website? The status end was a tongue in cheek comment. Don't read everything literally and take it serious. So was the prostitute comment "--------------------------------------- "Don't go chasing waterfalls..." | |||
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It's a kind offer you made but if I was a guy who hadn't scored after a month here, I'd be looking to find me a wingman with plenty of veri's Genuinely want to know do you have any mate? search the guys with loads of veris. The usual good ones are older men, men who regularly use forums plus men who attend meet and greets and have built up a rapport
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Approaching a woman and chatting is not a problem here. But claiming you can head out with any guy here and get them a woman for the night (if that's how you define a score ) is a little over ambitious, don't you think?Yes it is. Alot also depends on age. A younger man scoring and an older man are two completely different objectives but back to the jist of this thread. I can easily see how men get disalusioned with this site.
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You seem genuine enough but going off on a few too many tangents for me. Happy hunting mate... so you wouldn't understand males getting disalusioned with website? The status end was a tongue in cheek comment. Don't read everything literally and take it serious. So was the prostitute comment
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"For the love of god op how many times are you going to go on about the same thing everytime? Every profile you post except same post. the intional op was about males struggling and whether u want to admit it or not it is a place that can become very disalusional for men. I'd prefer to be getting 50 mails a day on here, even if only 10 were genuine then trying to get a reply. It's like trying to get blood out of a stone I'd start looking as to why I'm not getting replies op what do you expect.... "I'm speaking about alot of men not just me. From day one it's very difficult get a reply. That's a fact. Extremely difficult and I completely understand men getting pissed off on here. At the end of the day the site is supposed to be fun | |||
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Go easy on him, unlike every other man on the site here, he has to work to get a meet. It's okay for the rest of us Casanova's or Don Juans here...
Btw, that wasn't "tongue in cheek" as you explained to me earlier but sarcasm mate. Enjoy your day"bottom line is, don't read everything as serious | |||
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"Its just the way it is. Women get bombarded so the mails from decent guys get caught up in the tidal wave. So the decent guys find it harder to get a reply. Girls cant find decent guys because of the tidal wave of mail, so they can miss the guys that are right under their nose. Its always been that way, its going to be the way, so if you cant deal with it then this place will do your head in and its not for you. So accept what you cant change and learn to live with it or move on to somewhere else." Question then. How do you succeed If your polite mails are been mixed up in this tidal wave? | |||
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Go easy on him, unlike every other man on the site here, he has to work to get a meet. It's okay for the rest of us Casanova's or Don Juans here...
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Go easy on him, unlike every other man on the site here, he has to work to get a meet. It's okay for the rest of us Casanova's or Don Juans here...
Btw, that wasn't "tongue in cheek" as you explained to me earlier but sarcasm mate. Enjoy your daybottom line is, don't read everything as serious
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The site is only means and it's down to you to make it work. There's no guarantee of having fun by signing up.
It might be difficult and frustrating for some, but hey what do you expect us women to do? Take one for the team now and then?
It's like with loads of other things in life some get more, other less and a some get nothing at all due to circumstances, effort and behaviour.
Moaning about it and using vocabulary like 'scoring' (which displays a certain attitude) certainly doesn't get anyone a meet on here."there Is no offence ment to anybody but I have seen genuine fit younger men struggle on here while out of shape older men clean up. On the law of averages that doesn't make sense. As I also said women can't give a standard view on this site simply because of how they have it. You say nobody is guaranteed fun signing up here. I disagree, women are If they want it, men are not. I have mailed women here gotten no reply. I might in a couple weeks mail the same woman and she replies. It's also very difficult get a regular convo going, something that's needed to get to know somebody. I consider myself a fit enough individual. I'm here for no strings. I'll admit to anybody I'm not a swinger but see you don't have to be a swinger to use this website. I would go along and say 90 % of single men signing up here just want sex and there is nothing wrong with that as it's the jist of the site | |||
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The site is only means and it's down to you to make it work. There's no guarantee of having fun by signing up.
It might be difficult and frustrating for some, but hey what do you expect us women to do? Take one for the team now and then?
It's like with loads of other things in life some get more, other less and a some get nothing at all due to circumstances, effort and behaviour.
Moaning about it and using vocabulary like 'scoring' (which displays a certain attitude) certainly doesn't get anyone a meet on here.there Is no offence ment to anybody but I have seen genuine fit younger men struggle on here while out of shape older men clean up. On the law of averages that doesn't make sense. As I also said women can't give a standard view on this site simply because of how they have it. You say nobody is guaranteed fun signing up here. I disagree, women are If they want it, men are not. I have mailed women here gotten no reply. I might in a couple weeks mail the same woman and she replies. It's also very difficult get a regular convo going, something that's needed to get to know somebody. I consider myself a fit enough individual. I'm here for no strings. I'll admit to anybody I'm not a swinger but see you don't have to be a swinger to use this website. I would go along and say 90 % of single men signing up here just want sex and there is nothing wrong with that as it's the jist of the site "Ever considered that many women (if not most) don't just make a choice based on physical condition or age? Well written profiles, half decent pictures and the right attitude hold a lot more currency than age and cock size for example. | |||
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The site is only means and it's down to you to make it work. There's no guarantee of having fun by signing up.
It might be difficult and frustrating for some, but hey what do you expect us women to do? Take one for the team now and then?
It's like with loads of other things in life some get more, other less and a some get nothing at all due to circumstances, effort and behaviour.
Moaning about it and using vocabulary like 'scoring' (which displays a certain attitude) certainly doesn't get anyone a meet on here.there Is no offence ment to anybody but I have seen genuine fit younger men struggle on here while out of shape older men clean up. On the law of averages that doesn't make sense. As I also said women can't give a standard view on this site simply because of how they have it. You say nobody is guaranteed fun signing up here. I disagree, women are If they want it, men are not. I have mailed women here gotten no reply. I might in a couple weeks mail the same woman and she replies. It's also very difficult get a regular convo going, something that's needed to get to know somebody. I consider myself a fit enough individual. I'm here for no strings. I'll admit to anybody I'm not a swinger but see you don't have to be a swinger to use this website. I would go along and say 90 % of single men signing up here just want sex and there is nothing wrong with that as it's the jist of the site
Ever considered that many women (if not most) don't just make a choice based on physical condition or age? Well written profiles, half decent pictures and the right attitude hold a lot more currency than age and cock size for example. "that's the issue pal, women want a list as long as your arm before a chat is even considered never mind a meet | |||
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"Its just the way it is. Women get bombarded so the mails from decent guys get caught up in the tidal wave. So the decent guys find it harder to get a reply. Girls cant find decent guys because of the tidal wave of mail, so they can miss the guys that are right under their nose. Its always been that way, its going to be the way, so if you cant deal with it then this place will do your head in and its not for you. So accept what you cant change and learn to live with it or move on to somewhere else.Question then. How do you succeed If your polite mails are been mixed up in this tidal wave?" If at first you dont succeed, try and try again.. Patience is a virtue in this place. I have waited years in some cases for my paths to cross with certain people. But many times you just have to accept that no matter how much you would like it its just not going to happen. Thats life. | |||
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The site is only means and it's down to you to make it work. There's no guarantee of having fun by signing up.
It might be difficult and frustrating for some, but hey what do you expect us women to do? Take one for the team now and then?
It's like with loads of other things in life some get more, other less and a some get nothing at all due to circumstances, effort and behaviour.
Moaning about it and using vocabulary like 'scoring' (which displays a certain attitude) certainly doesn't get anyone a meet on here.there Is no offence ment to anybody but I have seen genuine fit younger men struggle on here while out of shape older men clean up. On the law of averages that doesn't make sense. As I also said women can't give a standard view on this site simply because of how they have it. You say nobody is guaranteed fun signing up here. I disagree, women are If they want it, men are not. I have mailed women here gotten no reply. I might in a couple weeks mail the same woman and she replies. It's also very difficult get a regular convo going, something that's needed to get to know somebody. I consider myself a fit enough individual. I'm here for no strings. I'll admit to anybody I'm not a swinger but see you don't have to be a swinger to use this website. I would go along and say 90 % of single men signing up here just want sex and there is nothing wrong with that as it's the jist of the site "Jesus your really rating yourself,plenty of older fit men on here and have maturity. Maybe something your lacking of? I'd quit now op as usual your doing yourself no favours . | |||
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"For the love of god op how many times are you going to go on about the same thing everytime? Every profile you post except same post. the intional op was about males struggling and whether u want to admit it or not it is a place that can become very disalusional for men. I'd prefer to be getting 50 mails a day on here, even if only 10 were genuine then trying to get a reply. It's like trying to get blood out of a stone I'd start looking as to why I'm not getting replies op what do you expect.... I'm speaking about alot of men not just me. From day one it's very difficult get a reply. That's a fact. Extremely difficult and I completely understand men getting pissed off on here. At the end of the day the site is supposed to be fun
The site is only means and it's down to you to make it work. There's no guarantee of having fun by signing up.
It might be difficult and frustrating for some, but hey what do you expect us women to do? Take one for the team now and then?
It's like with loads of other things in life some get more, other less and a some get nothing at all due to circumstances, effort and behaviour.
Moaning about it and using vocabulary like 'scoring' (which displays a certain attitude) certainly doesn't get anyone a meet on here.there Is no offence ment to anybody but I have seen genuine fit younger men struggle on here while out of shape older men clean up. On the law of averages that doesn't make sense. As I also said women can't give a standard view on this site simply because of how they have it. You say nobody is guaranteed fun signing up here. I disagree, women are If they want it, men are not. I have mailed women here gotten no reply. I might in a couple weeks mail the same woman and she replies. It's also very difficult get a regular convo going, something that's needed to get to know somebody. I consider myself a fit enough individual. I'm here for no strings. I'll admit to anybody I'm not a swinger but see you don't have to be a swinger to use this website. I would go along and say 90 % of single men signing up here just want sex and there is nothing wrong with that as it's the jist of the site Jesus your really rating yourself,plenty of older fit men on here and have maturity. Maybe something your lacking of? I'd quit now op as usual your doing yourself no favours . "i have seen loads of mature young men to get nowhere, do you want to go further? | |||
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"As a once successful single male (i'm on hiatus) I'm tempted to add my 2c to this thread but I'm not sure I want to because A: I've done it countless times before and it's usually pointless. B: I'd be concerned that it would be mistaken bragging (it wouldn't) C: I'd probably be accused of licking peoples holes to get a ride (that theory still amuses me by the way) D: it would be a lengthy post, and i'm not sure I could be arsed typing it if people are only gonna get arsey about it. So I'll condense it down to this: Just because you want to have sex with someone, it doesn't mean you get to. " you don't have to. I'm sure it will go down the road somewhat like this. Be polite, pick something out in her profile and draw attention to that in the opening mail. Try get yourself interacting on the forums and along to meet and greets. Bottom line is women get alot of mails, they sign in, see their inbox swelled, I'd imagine some bulk delete, more prob open a mail from lads they know. Guess what? The new guy doesn't get a look in. You think have women who won't meet local, you then have women who will only meet local(even though u drive). The mind is starting to boggle. You then have women who judge you on what you write or shall I say what you don't write in a profile. You then have women who judge toy because your penis is your profile picture. Ok, that tells you alot about somebody alrite. You then have women who reply today and ignore tomorrow. You then have women who can't have a "conversation" but when it's said on the forum your the problem lol. See where I'm going with the list as long as your arm. With alot of men it's "wow what sexy pics, can I see a face? Oh beautiful, ye I'd ride her. . | |||
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"Partly. But there would be other stuff in there too. Google "nice guy syndrome" and "the friend zone doesn't exist"" i wouldn't bother going into detail searching this and that. I want a bit of no strings not a relationship | |||
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"Partly. But there would be other stuff in there too. Google "nice guy syndrome" and "the friend zone doesn't exist"i wouldn't bother going into detail searching this and that. I want a bit of no strings not a relationship " In the words of Yoda: ".....and that, is why you fail." | |||
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"Partly. But there would be other stuff in there too. Google "nice guy syndrome" and "the friend zone doesn't exist"i wouldn't bother going into detail searching this and that. I want a bit of no strings not a relationship In the words of Yoda: ".....and that, is why you fail."" I'll fail away. I most certainly won't be bursting my backside for a bit of fun. I'm to busy in life for stuff like that | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday "Goldmine if you have no standards and will fuck owt. | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
Goldmine if you have no standards and will fuck owt."i have standards and the pool of women is tiny as it is. | |||
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"Partly. But there would be other stuff in there too. Google "nice guy syndrome" and "the friend zone doesn't exist"i wouldn't bother going into detail searching this and that. I want a bit of no strings not a relationship In the words of Yoda: ".....and that, is why you fail."I'll fail away. I most certainly won't be bursting my backside for a bit of fun. I'm to busy in life for stuff like that " So if I get you right? you will cruise along here and if you get lucky you will go for it, but you aren't going to try too hard because? (I'm a tad confused about that bit) And ultimitly that hook up will only happen once it doesn't interrupt your real friendships. | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
Goldmine if you have no standards and will fuck owt.i have standards and the pool of women is tiny as it is. "Getting smaller by the minute | |||
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
Goldmine if you have no standards and will fuck owt.i have standards and the pool of women is tiny as it is.
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"Heres my 2 cents worth.i once was in that position on fab. The bottom line is, fab is a goldmine for women, if you can't succed as a woman here there is something up. Men just try picking stuff out of profiles and join in on forum stuff. It's not easy and if after a month you're getting nowhere just phone a prostitute or come on a night out with me and I'll make sure you score. Happy Sunday
Goldmine if you have no standards and will fuck owt.i have standards and the pool of women is tiny as it is.
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't "I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. | |||
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"Partly. But there would be other stuff in there too. Google "nice guy syndrome" and "the friend zone doesn't exist"i wouldn't bother going into detail searching this and that. I want a bit of no strings not a relationship In the words of Yoda: ".....and that, is why you fail."I'll fail away. I most certainly won't be bursting my backside for a bit of fun. I'm to busy in life for stuff like that So if I get you right? you will cruise along here and if you get lucky you will go for it, but you aren't going to try too hard because? (I'm a tad confused about that bit) And ultimitly that hook up will only happen once it doesn't interrupt your real friendships. " i have made untold effort on here before when mailing women. Got nowhere, learned my lesson. End of the day the site is a bit of no strings fun or supposed to be. I havnt the time to put thst effort in any more with work and then a busy schedule outside of it also. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. "i could say something but I won't on this occasion | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. i could say something but I won't on this occasion "Say away...I expected insults from the way you have been posting. I am too old to care what you have to say, and have a fabulous time. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. i could say something but I won't on this occasion
Say away...I expected insults from the way you have been posting. I am too old to care what you have to say, and have a fabulous time.""the choice isn't all that"? There is about 10 to 1 I'm ratio of men to women. What are u looking for if I may ask? | |||
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"I actually had to laugh at your 'young fit man struggling and old out of shape ones cleaning up'. Not sure if that's the case however if you think there's a truth in it maybe you should explore a bit further why. lol so that's all u picked out of that piece? Go and look at the amount of veris alot of older men have compared to younger. I'll still go back to original point. You can do everything under the rising sun on here, be polite pick stuff out in a profile, it doesn't make a blind bit of difference. " Sure I could have picked up on more but it feels like running in circles. Maybe it's because the older lads are more likely to have the right attitude and treat a woman as a woman and not as a score, a bender over or trophy. Anyhow sure you can use the site as a non-swinger but that might actually be one main reason why your success is limited on here. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. i could say something but I won't on this occasion
Say away...I expected insults from the way you have been posting. I am too old to care what you have to say, and have a fabulous time."the choice isn't all that"? There is about 10 to 1 I'm ratio of men to women. What are u looking for if I may ask?"What that means is - the odds are good, but the goods are often odd | |||
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"I actually had to laugh at your 'young fit man struggling and old out of shape ones cleaning up'. Not sure if that's the case however if you think there's a truth in it maybe you should explore a bit further why. lol so that's all u picked out of that piece? Go and look at the amount of veris alot of older men have compared to younger. I'll still go back to original point. You can do everything under the rising sun on here, be polite pick stuff out in a profile, it doesn't make a blind bit of difference. Sure I could have picked up on more but it feels like running in circles. Maybe it's because the older lads are more likely to have the right attitude and treat a woman as a woman and not as a score, a bender over or trophy. Anyhow sure you can use the site as a non-swinger but that might actually be one main reason why your success is limited on here. " you can have no strings sex and treat a woman as a woman, you do know that? | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. i could say something but I won't on this occasion
Say away...I expected insults from the way you have been posting. I am too old to care what you have to say, and have a fabulous time."the choice isn't all that"? There is about 10 to 1 I'm ratio of men to women. What are u looking for if I may ask?
What that means is - the odds are good, but the goods are often odd"that tells me all I need to know about the women of fab who have that mentality. You must think your on a throne and expect men to fall at your feet | |||
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"11 to go Thank fook...i lost the will at 35 "be alot more then 11 to go on this subject plus of u lost the will why are you still here? | |||
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"11 to go Thank fook...i lost the will at 35 "I should have | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. i could say something but I won't on this occasion
Say away...I expected insults from the way you have been posting. I am too old to care what you have to say, and have a fabulous time."the choice isn't all that"? There is about 10 to 1 I'm ratio of men to women. What are u looking for if I may ask?"Quirky, funny, sexy slim guys over 40. Many guys are in their 20's that message. I don't meet married men - there are loads on here, I get at least 10 messages a day from these alone. To be honest I have a couple of regular guys who play and we meet a very interesting couple and play often. | |||
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"It's simple really. How many mails on average do women get. Surely there is a few sane men within those messages. I have never gotten a first mail from a woman. That says it all 4 me
I'd say most women set the bar slightly higher than just, "Must be sane." I'm sure all do but some woman have the bar raised far to high. It's a bit of fun after all
Too high because you don't meet it? no, because of what they look for in a bit of fun. Do a role reversal, you don't see men doing near the same.
That just tells me men aren't fussy. Not that women are too fussy
This doesn't apply to all men before someone complainsI'd stem back to what I originally said, choice. Women have it, men don't
I don't believe so...we get several messages a day. I don't want to meet every guy who messages - many do nothing for me. The choice isn't all that. i could say something but I won't on this occasion
Say away...I expected insults from the way you have been posting. I am too old to care what you have to say, and have a fabulous time."the choice isn't all that"? There is about 10 to 1 I'm ratio of men to women. What are u looking for if I may ask?
Quirky, funny, sexy slim guys over 40. Many guys are in their 20's that message. I don't meet married men - there are loads on here, I get at least 10 messages a day from these alone. To be honest I have a couple of regular guys who play and we meet a very interesting couple and play often."If you're getting messages out of your age range then you're not using your filters correctly or at all | |||
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"Going by women on here every second man is insane. I find that very hard to believe " I don't think thats true, some forget its real people behind the computer or phone screen | |||
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"11 to go Thank fook...i lost the will at 35
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