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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys. Just wondering if you would have any advice to get verified. I'm here on and off dUE to lack of time.

Is there any more way to become verified. I'm totally genuine.

Please help experienced fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off cos of no time won't help I'm afraid. You need to put the time and effort into it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On and off cos of no time won't help I'm afraid. You need to put the time and effort into it."

OK. Got ya. Like dedicate my life to it? I presume not. I guess we are all busy. It's not a excuse I know but still...

You know where I coming from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but while this is a swing site, it's not a simple pick up for casual sex. Most women need to get a sense of attraction, fun and above all security before agreeing to a meet. So this is going to include regular online banter and maybe a social meet first.

So you have to be online frequently for that, to at least get started and 'known' on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your profile seems fine I think. It doesn't stink of desperation with nothing but cock pics etc. But I think living in Clare prob doesn't help as its a small enough community, and I think people not in big cities don't wanna meet people in their area for fear of knowing them.

Maybe broaden your search and be willing to travel a bit farther if you haven't already.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do but while this is a swing site, it's not a simple pick up for casual sex. Most women need to get a sense of attraction, fun and above all security before agreeing to a meet. So this is going to include regular online banter and maybe a social meet first.

So you have to be online frequently for that, to at least get started and 'known' on the site."

Yep. That makes sense alright. I'll try to implement it;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well your profile seems fine I think. It doesn't stink of desperation with nothing but cock pics etc. But I think living in Clare prob doesn't help as its a small enough community, and I think people not in big cities don't wanna meet people in their area for fear of knowing them.

Maybe broaden your search and be willing to travel a bit farther if you haven't already. "

That's other thing. Was told many times that I live to far bla bla. I can always travel lol. But thanks for positive feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well your profile seems fine I think. It doesn't stink of desperation with nothing but cock pics etc. But I think living in Clare prob doesn't help as its a small enough community, and I think people not in big cities don't wanna meet people in their area for fear of knowing them.

Maybe broaden your search and be willing to travel a bit farther if you haven't already.

That's other thing. Was told many times that I live to far bla bla. I can always travel lol. But thanks for positive feedback"

Ha, seems like a damned if you do, damned if you don't type situation. People say they don't want someone that is far away, others prob don't want someone who is too close by

I'm guessing trying to introduce your partner to swinging isn't an option? You'd never know. Ever listen to the lyrics of the Pina Colada song? Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well your profile seems fine I think. It doesn't stink of desperation with nothing but cock pics etc. But I think living in Clare prob doesn't help as its a small enough community, and I think people not in big cities don't wanna meet people in their area for fear of knowing them.

Maybe broaden your search and be willing to travel a bit farther if you haven't already.

That's other thing. Was told many times that I live to far bla bla. I can always travel lol. But thanks for positive feedback

Ha, seems like a damned if you do, damned if you don't type situation. People say they don't want someone that is far away, others prob don't want someone who is too close by

I'm guessing trying to introduce your partner to swinging isn't an option? You'd never know. Ever listen to the lyrics of the Pina Colada song? Haha"

LOL so true I guess I'll have to work on that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So guys how to begin to swing? It's pretty hard to break in?

Any advice on that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet someone for a coffee and chat male or female can help

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid


"So guys how to begin to swing? It's pretty hard to break in?

Any advice on that?"

If you are liased, why not take your girl to an explicit club in UK or mainland Europe. That allows you to evaluate whether you are really willing to push the boundaries or not. Chicken out in Ireland on a meeting which is so hard to obtain can have severe repercussions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So guys how to begin to swing? It's pretty hard to break in?

Any advice on that?

If you are liased, why not take your girl to an explicit club in UK or mainland Europe. That allows you to evaluate whether you are really willing to push the boundaries or not. Chicken out in Ireland on a meeting which is so hard to obtain can have severe repercussions "

Well it's not that easy...she kind of doesn't want at least that what she is saying lol

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