FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Serious verified trouble

Jump to newest
 

By *rishsoldier47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Absolute conundrum, where do You first start when everyone on here usually only Meets verified only ha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

A social or a meet and greet would be a good place to start. If only verified users are invited usually someone will offer to meet you for coffee so you can go.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a coffee meet or you can be verified by cam too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute conundrum, where do You first start when everyone on here usually only Meets verified only ha"

I know the feeling man I have met 2 from here and won't verify me but keep txt in for meets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a coffee meet or you can be verified by cam too"

Do you want to cam verify me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

A few on here have held Meets & Greets and Coffee Meets for unverified single guys.

Firstly, one sees the numerous replies "Oh I can't make it that day" or similar.

Then maybe 20 guys say they will attend and maybe only 3 or 4 turn up!

The people who do offer know only too well...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rishsoldier47 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"A social or a meet and greet would be a good place to start. If only verified users are invited usually someone will offer to meet you for coffee so you can go."

Sound advice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I joined I messaged a well verified local lady and simply asked if she wud mind meeting just for a chat, no expectations, just to help me out with a first verification to get me started and she was more than happy to help me. Met that night talked for a few hours and she explained wot to expect from fab and was really helpful and nice. By the time I got home she had verified me and within a month I'd been to the venue and met lots of great people.

Hope u can all get similar help guys, just be polite and explain why u need a veri and don't expect anythin more than what u asked for

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For those mentioning cam verifications. Males cannot be verified by webcam.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"For those mentioning cam verifications. Males cannot be verified by webcam. "

.

Not even Males with fake female profiles??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those mentioning cam verifications. Males cannot be verified by webcam.

.

Not even Males with fake female profiles?? "

I'm not sure what the point of your post is so I have no real response I'm afraid.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another option that no one seems to mention, is to introduce a female friend to Fab. Women don't have any problem getting meets, then she can verify you. If you're not married/cheating, this is probably the easiest way to get verified.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"For those mentioning cam verifications. Males cannot be verified by webcam. "

Why??

I have 6 cam veris

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those mentioning cam verifications. Males cannot be verified by webcam.

Why??

I have 6 cam veris "

Read the site rules. It's there.

I can't answer as to why.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those mentioning cam verifications. Males cannot be verified by webcam.

Why??

I have 6 cam veris "

A man's first veri can't be from cam.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another option that no one seems to mention, is to introduce a female friend to Fab. Women don't have any problem getting meets, then she can verify you. If you're not married/cheating, this is probably the easiest way to get verified."

How the hell is that the easiest way to get verified????

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've already got sound advice about going for a coffee first but every lad finds it hard to find their feet due to the amount of pervy old men on here, I get that they want to trick women into speaking to them but my God I'm afraid of what happens when a meet is planned

It's like jobs, you need 2 years experience for most but how to get the experience if you can't get the job until you have it, some people just want to watch the world burn

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another option that no one seems to mention, is to introduce a female friend to Fab. Women don't have any problem getting meets, then she can verify you. If you're not married/cheating, this is probably the easiest way to get verified.

How the hell is that the easiest way to get verified????"

Because it's a complete cock fest in here. The ratio of men to women is rediculous. Even if you do get verified it doesn't guarantee meets, as you are still competing with 100s of other verified men. If you can't get a fuck buddy or pull a woman in real life, then you are screwed here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"You've already got sound advice about going for a coffee first but every lad finds it hard to find their feet due to the amount of pervy old men on here, I get that they want to trick women into speaking to them but my God I'm afraid of what happens when a meet is planned

It's like jobs, you need 2 years experience for most but how to get the experience if you can't get the job until you have it, some people just want to watch the world burn "

And exactly how do pervy old men hinder lads getting verified confused.com

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've already got sound advice about going for a coffee first but every lad finds it hard to find their feet due to the amount of pervy old men on here, I get that they want to trick women into speaking to them but my God I'm afraid of what happens when a meet is planned

It's like jobs, you need 2 years experience for most but how to get the experience if you can't get the job until you have it, some people just want to watch the world burn

And exactly how do pervy old men hinder lads getting verified confused.com "

well if they didn't exist, and it wasn't so easy and so frequently done, people wouldn't be as skeptical, when they want verificationa generally it's mostly to show you're who you say you are in your photo i.e. not a pervy old man

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"Absolute conundrum, where do You first start when everyone on here usually only Meets verified only ha"

I'm afraid it's an uphill battle..very few here will give you the time of day if not verified..frustrating I know

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"You've already got sound advice about going for a coffee first but every lad finds it hard to find their feet due to the amount of pervy old men on here, I get that they want to trick women into speaking to them but my God I'm afraid of what happens when a meet is planned

It's like jobs, you need 2 years experience for most but how to get the experience if you can't get the job until you have it, some people just want to watch the world burn

And exactly how do pervy old men hinder lads getting verified confused.com

well if they didn't exist, and it wasn't so easy and so frequently done, people wouldn't be as skeptical, when they want verificationa generally it's mostly to show you're who you say you are in your photo i.e. not a pervy old man"

Point taken but I still don't see where the old comes into it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/597016

Apologies. It appears the FAQs are wrong.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've already got sound advice about going for a coffee first but every lad finds it hard to find their feet due to the amount of pervy old men on here, I get that they want to trick women into speaking to them but my God I'm afraid of what happens when a meet is planned

It's like jobs, you need 2 years experience for most but how to get the experience if you can't get the job until you have it, some people just want to watch the world burn

And exactly how do pervy old men hinder lads getting verified confused.com

well if they didn't exist, and it wasn't so easy and so frequently done, people wouldn't be as skeptical, when they want verificationa generally it's mostly to show you're who you say you are in your photo i.e. not a pervy old man"

...tbh,its pervy young men we're worried about

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/597016

Apologies. It appears the FAQs are wrong. "

Even the site is conspiring against us

Only messing thank you for clearing that up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/597016

Apologies. It appears the FAQs are wrong. "

If that's the case, I wonder why would the site admin make a post saying the FAQ are wrong, but not bother amend the FAQ?? It doesn't make sense.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/597016

Apologies. It appears the FAQs are wrong.

If that's the case, I wonder why would the site admin make a post saying the FAQ are wrong, but not bother amend the FAQ?? It doesn't make sense."

I think the lady who replied to me is a forum moderator so I can only go by her word really. Makes no sense though, you're right.

How is anyone meant to know what rules ARE right in that case?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top