FabSwingers.com forum: Non cliquey thread

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ill prob getta ban for this but

Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.

Get no response.

Get rediculed.

Not part of the "in" gang

Come on in here and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a clique ? I haven't experienced one tbh but certain people are more chatty than others

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

But won't we then be a clique ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But won't we then be a clique ??"

Ohhhh you'll be in the non clique clique

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick

Agree 100% OP.

This place too cliquey for my liking.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Better to be ignored than to spend so much time online that you can be accused of being in a clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ill prob getta ban for this but

Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.

Get no response.

Get rediculed.

Not part of the "in" gang

Come on in here and chat

Awwwwww but being an outsider is awesome. The freak. Nerd. Geek. The animal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

Unfortunately you get them everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ill prob getta ban for this but

Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.

Get no response.

Get rediculed.

Not part of the "in" gang

Come on in here and chat

Awwwwww but being an outsider is awesome. The freak. Nerd. Geek. The animal.

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By *ay and DeborahCouple
over a year ago

Co. Down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

Unfortunately you get them everywhere. "

Dogs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

Unfortunately you get them everywhere.

Dogs??

Big ones small ones medium one fast ones and slow ones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

Unfortunately you get them everywhere.

Dogs??

Totally lmao

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I'm not quite sure it's about cliques probably just human nature drifting towards safe place with people of similar likes and opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

Unfortunately you get them everywhere.

Dogs??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh the beautiful people

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

If you did believe in cliques here be careful ye don't create an anti clique clique. Could get confusing.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

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By *eon SaintsCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

Hey all! Hope you're all enjoying the wend....!

Anyone got any naughty stories they'd like to share ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why people are we getting annoyed with how others use the forum. The forum is just like outside fab. There are sheep that follow, there are those that have egos, there are those that continually whinge, there are sit on the fence people, there are white knights, there are those that treat it as a popularity contest, there are those that gossip, the list could go on.

So what? Why not ignore those personalities you don't like, or threads you don't like. We will always gravitate to those with similar views. Does that mean a clique,maybe, who cares, not me...I just enjoy the banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

Never seen that happen. Great pics

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honestly the cliques on fab are great entertainment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why people are we getting annoyed with how others use the forum. The forum is just like outside fab. There are sheep that follow, there are those that have egos, there are those that continually whinge, there are sit on the fence people, there are white knights, there are those that treat it as a popularity contest, there are those that gossip, the list could go on.

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said .... Looking mighty sexy as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting with other posters .... Tut tut

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Am I meant to post on here or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ill prob getta ban for this but

Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.

Get no response.

Get rediculed.

Not part of the "in" gang

Come on in here and chat

Why would you get a ban for this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

Who could that be I wonder??

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By *eadue stallionMan
over a year ago

Yes

"Ill prob getta ban for this but

Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.

Get no response.

Get rediculed.

Not part of the "in" gang

Come on in here and chat

Why would you get a ban for this?"

Ban is the Gaelic for a Woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ill prob getta ban for this but

Heres a thread for those of us who continually get ignored in the forums.

Get no response.

Get rediculed.

Not part of the "in" gang

Come on in here and chat

Why would you get a ban for this?

Ban is the Gaelic for a Woman!

I don't think he'll get one of them from this either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there should be a film about them "The Fawning Of The Clique"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I in the clique? I wonder if there is a membership list available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

Hi.

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By *axximus99Man
over a year ago

co galway

Good thread dude I hear ya on that one.its a challenge even to get a response even when u try to send a nice lady a message in general, how does one "fit in" around here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good thread dude I hear ya on that one.its a challenge even to get a response even when u try to send a nice lady a message in general, how does one "fit in" around here?"

Having a better profile would be a good place to start.

There isn't exactly a lot to go on in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

Hi.

Stop.that's not allowed

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By *andaCouple
over a year ago

co down

I would never join a clique that would accept me as a member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

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was on a couple of years ago and the forums wer exactly how you described here, but in fairness since i came back to the fab world i havent really seen it, i think its just people chatting who know each other in person from meets makes it look more cliqie or watever way its spelt lol anyway i think the more people you meet in person from forums the more you would seem to chat to them often i would imagin, i could be wrong tho just my 2 bobs worth

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Fab is what you make of it and not the other way around. Happy fabbing everyone

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By *axximus99Man
over a year ago

co galway

Yes I hear a lot saying that in fairness,any pointers be appreciated from the wider community. There are some great people here I've spoken to on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

Hi.

Stop.that's not allowed

I can't help it.

It's that avatar of yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

was on a couple of years ago and the forums wer exactly how you described here, but in fairness since i came back to the fab world i havent really seen it, i think its just people chatting who know each other in person from meets makes it look more cliqie or watever way its spelt lol anyway i think the more people you meet in person from forums the more you would seem to chat to them often i would imagin, i could be wrong tho just my 2 bobs worth

I think you're right

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By *axximus99Man
over a year ago

co galway

I can't help it. It's that avatar of yours. ..thanks man it means alot..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is what you make of it and not the other way around. Happy fabbing everyone

Exactly

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By *atdieonMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Good thread dude I hear ya on that one.its a challenge even to get a response even when u try to send a nice lady a message in general, how does one "fit in" around here?

Having a better profile would be a good place to start.

There isn't exactly a lot to go on in there. "
or to quote a previous poster "

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure its all about cliques. We live in a small very rural country with a very dim view on sex in general and I think trust and fear have a big part to play in it. Don't get me wrong there are arseholes in every walk of life who are always right and love to point it out, but I don't think thats the only reason for the groups/cliques. As a married man, playing on my own I can see why I wouldn't be an automatic pick for party invites and such, but I think like everything you have to take your time and work your up. Just my two cents worth."

In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

"Don't forget the ones who take over a thread, just to be noticed and start flirting with other posters!

Hi.

I gather your taking the piss!

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.

Or to justify their trolling.

Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.

If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us"

Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us

Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good

If I ever hold one - you are first on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us

Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good

No one will want ya if ya promise to be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.

Or to justify their trolling.

Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.

If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals."

And here they come out of the woodwork!

Good man, you've just justified the whole conversation here.

Thanks for that, well done you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm kearman long time fabber, once a forum hound now enjoying the quiet side of the forums aka lurking, that it can be a bit of a nut house in the forum and a bit out of control

but alas you always come back to see if there's any news on here. Cliques or no cliques it's a part of fab that ya have to express yourself and get feedback too

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By *atdieonMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"The only people who think there are cliques here are those who want them to exist to justify why they're not having any success.

Or to justify their trolling.

Successful fabbing doesn't come to you, you must go to it.

If you don't know how to do that, then think harder. With your brain, not your genitals."
. And again to quote a previous poster

"It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is what you make of it and not the other way around. Happy fabbing everyone

Exactly

I so agree with this too!!

And as someone said clique exist only if you think of them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now afraid to

any comment for fear of being accused of being in their clique...

Or copy and paste with a

for flirting...

because of trolling....

Of course there's

for sarcasm...

Puts my arse into reverse and says fvk all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a clique of two. And she's only in my clique when it suits her

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Puts my arse into reverse and says fvk all...."

I'm right behind you on that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts my arse into reverse and says fvk all....

I'm right behind you on that!!

oops

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Puts my arse into reverse and says fvk all....

I'm right behind you on that!!

oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

"
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100% agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

# platitudes

I don't think there is a clique, I think there are plenty of frequenters who end up with the same opinions as everyone else thanks to the group think phenomenon. Add a few crafty foxes, the odd self appointed high priest of swinging and plenty of trolls and it can make things a bit intimitidating alright.

I think many are put off from contributing as most threads die a death of attack the poster or slate the newbie.

But there's lots of fun to be had and interesting opinions to listen to.

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By *len-cocoMan
over a year ago

Cork

I'm relatively new and don't think that's the case at all. Occasionally posts do get shot down but as far as I've seen that's due to their content not the poster. It may seem like group think but that's only cause most people react a similar way to ridiculous posts.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

In some ways I think you'd be perfect for a party. As you're married you'd have far more to lose by being indiscreet than a lot of us

Please invite me, please invite me, I promise I'll be good

No one will want ya if ya promise to be good

Ok then I'll be bad, no wait I mean good.

Ahhhh.... good at being bad, bad at being good

Right I'm not going to the party at all now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point OP

It's not the clique issue that bothers me

But the over bearing "swinger community " heads who pontificate and give their self appointed knowledge? on everything swinger related.

Like theirs is the only swinging opinion that matters.

Or if you don't get to a social or meet and greet your missing out on a major Event

PLEASE!!

Newbies and non clique peeps are treated with disdain in my view ( especially on the forums) . There are some great people on FAB and the forums , but also some nasty self centred idiots.

Right I'm off to walk the dog, no really I've got a dog

Think it's more the same group excluding or ousting individuals that they are referring to which does happen all too often unfortunately. The innocent denial of it by the same people is what's laughable. If they can't see it then it's really quite bad.

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By *olvereneMan
over a year ago

Donegal

Where do you get clique membership application forms?

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By *ohn MingoMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm relatively new and don't think that's the case at all. Occasionally posts do get shot down but as far as I've seen that's due to their content not the poster. It may seem like group think but that's only cause most people react a similar way to ridiculous posts."

This.

A newbie can be praised for a good post the same way a veteran can be vilified for a shit one.

Though someone has inferred I'm part of a clique cos I "came out of the woodwork". Just because I get on with people and because I'm generally not a bollox?

I've just been here a while. While I know what works for me, I'd never assume "my method of swinging" was the one true path.

My only point here is that if it's not working for you, you need to think about why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do you get clique membership application forms?

You automatically get a form when you pay for platinum membership.

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By *olvereneMan
over a year ago

Donegal

"Where do you get clique membership application forms?

You automatically get a form when you pay for platinum membership.

Ooooh platinum..... Shiny.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.

My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.

Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.

I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care. I'm just me. I'm in no kik groups, I have very few phone numbers (and those I have would be extremely surprised if I ever text them!). BUT I do go to socials. Now I know its harder for men to get invites but if you do get the chance, go. Thats where you meet people from the forums.

If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.

I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in

But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.

My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.

Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.

If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.

I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in

But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!

Well said .... My sentiments exactly

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Like everyone else, I was once a newbie to the forums.

My first 50 comments were probably ignored - or at the best got a quick acknowledgement. But I stuck at it.

Not everyone likes me, I don't like everyone. Thats just life tho.

If you walked into your local - you'd go and greet your friends, you wouldn't walk up to strangers. It's a bit like that on the forums.

I'm pissed and waffling. Was out for the Chelsea match and my bet came in

But I know what I mean. Join in, it takes a while but stick at it!

You need to get pissed more often as your post makes sense!!

As a bloke on here it took me nearly 3 months to figure it all out.. the jibes, the banter etc.

So if I posted on Forum people came back with retorts which were all done in humour.

After a while I got to "know" people but only via the wit on the Forum. people got to "know" me via Forum and then eventually to actually meeting people, then invites to Socials.

There are still people I "know" but only from their posts on Forum.. should we ever meet in person there will be some craic.

I've been to Socials without even knowing who is attending as I don't use kik, and everyone has been lovely.

I don't get pissed at Socials, and chat to people just don't remember their profile names next day! grrrr...

Understandably it is difficult for blokes to get invites to Socials and many that do never turn up!

Same with ladies offering Coffee Meets..What %age turn up??

Guys moan about the difficulty of getting invites but it these guys that are making it difficult for other guys!!

Similarly I don't know if people think I'm part of a clique. I don't care either. I'm just me.

FAB, for a guy is hard work but worth it as there really are some wonderful people here!

First and foremost, treat the ladies with respect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything.

It's mighty strange how I read this comment reposted by a different user and knew before I scrolled up who posted the original.

Not a positive thought in that man's head...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything.

It looked like that to me too until I eventually got to know a few people and got used to Forum!

One can feel like an "outsider"... I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha that so ture so much more chaty in the UK I don't knw wat wrong wit them in Ireland and the guy as to send face pic asap or no reply come on lady's at least talk a bit and then we send pic play fair plz??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its mighty strange how six or seven people always have the same opinion on everything.

It's mighty strange how I read this comment reposted by a different user and knew before I scrolled up who posted the original.

Not a positive thought in that man's head..."
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