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shit marriage or unhappy life?

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By *ecentrob OP   Man
over a year ago

south side

When do you decide enough is enough and leave a shit marriage even though you have kids...Im at the end of my tether!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Well first off the children are the most important part of it they don't want to see the 2 of ye gone different ways and then trying to explain it to them..I'd say go for a weekend away the family and have fun and hope it's works out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the time you realise it's a shit marriage.

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By *ecentrob OP   Man
over a year ago

south side

dont think a weekend away is the solution my friend...that just brings more stress as we have to engage with each other..I mean the adults obviously!

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By *ecentrob OP   Man
over a year ago

south side

I realised that a long tine ago my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised that a long tine ago my friend!

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Should have left a long time ago then imo. Best of luck wit whatever you decide to do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your life, your choice, I'm afraid, nobody here is going to fix it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I would suggest seeing a counsellor, can be very helpful with sorting through your feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does the kids no good living in a house where the adults don't like one another. They pick up on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you decide enough is enough and leave a shit marriage even though you have kids...Im at the end of my tether!"

The kids deserve a happy, stress free home, and if leaving the marriage will give them that, then go. But be aware that fathers tend to lose out on seeing their children, or at least they probably won't see them as much as they'd like to. Look at all your options, try to see all possibilities and eventualities, and most of all try to be kind. Breaking up a marriage is hard on everyone, even when you really want out.

Best of luck.

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By *ewishguyMan
over a year ago

mid ulster

Good luck mate... not sure really what advice to give you but if I were in your situation I'd probably consider giving fab a break and trying to focus on marriage! I find being on here can sometimes be very very distracting but here what the heck would I know. Come to think of it feck my opinion.... just do your own thing lol!

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

If you value your time with your children I would ask myself one question. Will my future ex allow me to see my kids. If not, fix it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been through a divorce, my advice is to for course?long and if that fails mediation to a peaceful! Divorce.

You both want to come out being able to tell your kids you tried. You'll always have to deal with each other, mediation helps you learn how to.

Luck Jesse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meant counselling, couples therapy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab as a single male? Delete this and get marriage counselling.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Fab isn't the place for this discussion. If your having problems with your marriage, are you sure your not the problem! Your on here as a single guy. Speaks volumes as to your not as honest to your wife.

I know this guy, every single day I see him or chat on the phone to him, he's blaming every single person for his problems in life. He's going through a divorce himself. He's homeless, he's a drink problem, a sex addiction, drug problem and bullies his family for money. He's 3 other women on the go as well and sleeps on their settes. If you listen to him, everything bad in his life is everyone's elses fault and not his!

OP, delete your fab account and go address your problems in life either self inflicted or problems with your wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab isn't the place for this discussion. If your having problems with your marriage, are you sure your not the problem! Your on here as a single guy. Speaks volumes as to your not as honest to your wife.

I know this guy, every single day I see him or chat on the phone to him, he's blaming every single person for his problems in life. He's going through a divorce himself. He's homeless, he's a drink problem, a sex addiction, drug problem and bullies his family for money. He's 3 other women on the go as well and sleeps on their settes. If you listen to him, everything bad in his life is everyone's elses fault and not his!

OP, delete your fab account and go address your problems in life either self inflicted or problems with your wife! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When do you decide enough is enough and leave a shit marriage even though you have kids...Im at the end of my tether!"

You don't, she does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On fab as a single male? Delete this and get marriage counselling."

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