FabSwingers.com forum: Getting that first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there. We've been on here for a while now. We still haven't been able to have our first meet with a lady. We've had plenty of guys offer but with no disrespect meant, that's not what we're are looking for. Some ladies say they won't meet because we're not verified and others have strung us along, which is frustrating. Some ladies have a singles profile and when we chat with them it's nearly always the male of couples profile that's chatting. It's a good site and there are some lovely people on here but how do you get to meet someone, sorry for what I'm sure will look like a rant, I promise it's not, it's just frustration.. Thank you in advance..

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By *es deux lapinCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Dont panic we are still waiting after 6 years here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont panic we are still waiting after 6 years here

I shouldn't laugh but

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By *oandWexCouple
over a year ago

arklow

Hi guys xx

Girls are what nearly everyone is looking for on the site. To be honest i can understand that girls wont meet because ur not verified as its a safety issue. I recommend you attend a meet and greet or a party(These are always posted on foruns) Even if just to make contacts and get verified. They are a great way to get chatting to people.

Maybe also say a little more about yourselves on your profile.

Hope this helps

Wishing oyu best of luck

Xxx

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

Guys your profile bio is 2 lines long and the useless warning that means nothing is 12 lines long.

Delete that and as the other poster has said, say more about yourselves and clarify what exactly you both want and are after.

Best of luck...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all so very much for your advice. We will definitely change up our bio. 6 years is a long, long time

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Well we are in the same parish if ye fancy a social meet, a coffee and chat. Then I could verify you, well if you are not a bloke pretending to be a couple (happens a lot) or nut jobs etc.

then people would know you are genuine and actually exist. Which is what most people are looking to know.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"Guys your profile bio is 2 lines long and the useless warning that means nothing is 12 lines long.

Delete that and as the other poster has said, say more about yourselves and clarify what exactly you both want and are after.

Best of luck..."

+1.

Get yourself some verifications from people too. Photo verified is great, but have you met anybody at all?

Just FYI we've been looking for the elusive MFF since day zero... And we've had precisely... *overly grand drumroll please* none. So while your 'sparse' profile won't help, it's never easy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks again folks. Not just a male and not nut jobs (I hope)

Like everyone else I suppose we're very nervous about meeting people. We've done videos on Kik for verified people and even mentioned their names during the video but no luck. We still await our first meet but sure patience is a virtue I suppose

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Get to a meet and greet or a social no pressure to do anything everybody really friendly all the best guys

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By *leasure indeedCouple
over a year ago

West

Oh I'm the same boat Hun it ain't easy at all ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're just starting off and don't want the pressure of letting someone down if we get cold feet at a meet or don't find them /or them us attractive - what you've been going through would break our confidence, so well done! We're going to try club route to start so no one is depending on us right at the outset until we find our feet. Everyone sounds so... familiar with it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As of the 2014 season you now require a license to hunt Unicorns.

You may also only bag one per season (if you can)so their numbers can be kept up.

Thank you for your understanding on this matter.

MMF ftw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".......when we chat with them it's nearly always the male of couples profile that's chatting......"

Im guessing that ironically the OP was written by a male also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".......when we chat with them it's nearly always the male of couples profile that's chatting......

Im guessing that ironically the OP was written by a male also

Not always there has been a few couples that the lady has done the hunting.

One on another site was quite funny she wanted to chat chat chat and more chat as long as i was happy to let my wife spend the evening with them.

I said what am i chopped liver? She said we dont want guys especially bi guys.

So fair enough, i said talk to herself when she is on next.

So she did.

And my wife told her to fuck right off

Btw the same couple are on here as well and not one single cock meet at all

But anyway MFF is fun and we will go to our grave with it well ticked off the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".......when we chat with them it's nearly always the male of couples profile that's chatting......

Im guessing that ironically the OP was written by a male also

Not always there has been a few couples that the lady has done the hunting.

One on another site was quite funny she wanted to chat chat chat and more chat as long as i was happy to let my wife spend the evening with them.

I said what am i chopped liver? She said we dont want guys especially bi guys.

So fair enough, i said talk to herself when she is on next.

So she did.

And my wife told her to fuck right off

Btw the same couple are on here as well and not one single cock meet at all

But anyway MFF is fun and we will go to our grave with it well ticked off the list

Why Risqué Miss K love's liver...And I like a nice Chianti

between us we make a great pair

could devour all around us lol

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".......when we chat with them it's nearly always the male of couples profile that's chatting......

Im guessing that ironically the OP was written by a male also

Not always there has been a few couples that the lady has done the hunting.

One on another site was quite funny she wanted to chat chat chat and more chat as long as i was happy to let my wife spend the evening with them.

I said what am i chopped liver? She said we dont want guys especially bi guys.

So fair enough, i said talk to herself when she is on next.

So she did.

And my wife told her to fuck right off

Btw the same couple are on here as well and not one single cock meet at all

But anyway MFF is fun and we will go to our grave with it well ticked off the list

Why Risqué Miss K love's liver...And I like a nice Chianti

between us we make a great pair

could devour all around us lol

Madame B "

Damn all out of fava beans

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi again. @justforgun, yes this was written by the male in the relationship, why is that a problem? We were looking for advice and to be fair we got some great advice from some good people. We're not here to hurt anyone or make snide remarks we are here to try something new and to see how far our boundaries will let us go. We are very nervous but we know what we would like to try as our first encounter. Thank you for your comment but if you were not going to have something positive to say why did you say anything at all??

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've heard it's very hard to meet single ladies. One lady told me she went to meet a couple n he would not fuck her n kept playing with each other so she just got up n left . A lot of ladies would say I won't meet couples without my partner comming with me .

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan
over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Thanks again folks. Not just a male and not nut jobs (I hope)

Well you can see the hurdles you face... one being "Are you a couple?"! No offense but there are many fake couples and that is one hurdle to get out of the way!

There has been some good advice including an offer from a guy to meet and verify that you are!

Get that hurdle out of the way by considering such an offer!

I verified a couple by meeting for a coffee! Met guy first and chatted and after a few minutes the lady joined us, we chatted, had coffee, they went their way and I went mine, and I verified them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the info and advice gents. We will give it some thought and see where we go from here.

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By *oodtimesaheadMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Guys your profile bio is 2 lines long and the useless warning that means nothing is 12 lines long.

Delete that and as the other poster has said, say more about yourselves and clarify what exactly you both want and are after.

Best of luck..."

Wowwww the kinks are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi again. @justforgun, yes this was written by the male in the relationship, why is that a problem? We were looking for advice and to be fair we got some great advice from some good people. We're not here to hurt anyone or make snide remarks we are here to try something new and to see how far our boundaries will let us go. We are very nervous but we know what we would like to try as our first encounter. Thank you for your comment but if you were not going to have something positive to say why did you say anything at all??"

Because its ironic a male complaining that the other side of the conversations were also males.... and to he honest makes you sound daft if you expect otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow. So you've decided to come onto a thread that has absolutely nothing to do with you and make snide remarks instead of maybe contributing something that maybe helpful. I have to ask, have you nothing else to do? I don't want to start an idiotic to and fro about the irony of who said what but I'd like to know why you would do that? Have we insulted you in some way? Actually have we insulted anyone? As we said in our original post, we are looking for a lady to join us, is there something wrong with this? Thank you for your time..

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By *exmark12Man
over a year ago

Rathcoole/Roscommon/Mayo

U are knocking people out with your filter.U should look at that Arrange a meet with singles as well get verified then it could get easier

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